Terran81

4501 pts · March 19, 2016


#10 they mean does your baby avoid expressing needs or wants because it would be an inconvenience to you. The parents that think kids should be seen and not heard. The ones whose adult kids don’t talk to them anymore. 😜

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I wasn’t alive yet, so I can’t confirm or deny. I was born 4 years later and saw it on VHS for the first time when I was 5 years old. 😅

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I’d stand firm until I hear that first happy squeak and then “okay. Just take the whole bowl. I’ll go get my own. Oh you want me to hold it for you? It’s okay. I’ll eat later, I guess.”

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#38 squalid? Just reading the descriptions.

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Doesn’t it say it in the text intro? I’m trying to remember. It’s been a long time since I’ve watched them.

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Like that story (I forget where I heard it). Terrible flooding. Guy is stuck on the roof of his house. Someone comes by on a raft offering to help and he says “no. God will save me”. Same thing with fire dept sending a boat or something. Says same thing. Guy in a helicopter lower and ladder and he still refuses. “God will save me”. House collapses and he’s swept away and drowns. Gets to heaven and asks god why he didn’t save him. “I sent you a raft, a boat, and a damn helicopter.”

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They are not. Theism means a belief in a god or gods. Atheism can go hand in hand with not having a religion but it does not have too. Grab a dictionary. I’m spiritual and don’t believe in a god. I’m an atheist but it doesn’t mean I don’t believe in anything. Religion does not require theism. You said so yourself. Having beliefs also doesn’t require religion.

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You mean with no anxiety or capitalism?! 😂🤣

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Even if I never fully recover, I will leave this world knowing I didn’t pass that on to the next generation. I’ve healed a lot and am good with how far I’ve come. My life could have been very different and a lot better if I started with a better foundation but I don’t dwell on that. I’ve made the repairs I can and keep working when I find cracks I didn’t notice before and make the most of the building I got. 😅

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I’m grateful for my survival instincts. Think this vid is a good metaphor for that more than “change your life”. Yay evolution? 😅

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When someone brings up things like that I mention “that’s what they did to me and I decided I don’t want to be that person. I didn’t pass it on to the next vulnerable human who can’t fight back. Continuing the pattern is a choice. I think how I felt and don’t want anyone to ever feel the way I did. It happening to me isn’t a reason for it to happen to the next person.”

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In relationships I overthink things I say and do still. I will start apologizing because I feel something I said or did was manipulative or controlling and realize it wasn’t. I don’t speak to my parents anymore. My stepmom will still tell you to this day not to trust me because she projects who she is onto me. It only recently dawned on me she was threatened by how smart I am and how easy I adapt to life. I must be pulling a con anytime things go well for me. Couldn’t be that I treat people well

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It’s a very long process. Learning that it’s okay to be out all night having fun with my friends took SO long to not come home feeling guilty. Narcissist stepmother always found a reason to punish me if I had too much fun as a kid. I’m in my 40’s and okay now. I recognized in my early 20’s that all of it is just healing I had to do. When I see it in friends I do my best to help them see and help them heal. The not recognizing how a healthy relationship should be was my first hurdle.

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This

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There’s a difference between parents struggling and doing their best and shitty, abusive parents. This isn’t about parents that love and care but struggled to make ends meet. My parents provided for me but my dad still kicked me across the room because I embarrassed him in front of his friends saying something I didn’t know I should have said. HUGE difference. Learning to not worry what people think about what I have to say is healing from that.

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I was going to comment how I’m constantly making choices that barely help me survive. So it’s more that I’m one wrong choice away from death. I like this version of that comment better.

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People lie… on the internet? 🫢

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Define “theism”. Like in the words “monotheism” and “polytheism”. Glad I could help.

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I will add I’m going to do pretty much what you suggest. I’m not buying anything from Sony ever again. I have a second account that has been locked for 2 years now because I had to change my phone number. I’ve contacted them multiple times and asked for a supervisor and can’t get help with that second account. Same issue with Steam. It took one interaction and it was fixed. That I can lose $1000’s in content so easy is a problem for me.

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Some games require you to be connected. Really what the issue with digital only is that very detail. Unlike PC and platforms which are already digital only, Sony can cut you off at any time for no reason. You don’t actually own your games or movies/shows. They can take the content offline claiming costs or licensing issues. I prefer physical media but I’m totally cool with things going the way of Steam or GOG because I will always own what I paid for and their support is awesome. Unlike Sony.

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He knew Trump was going to be on a revenge spree. Literally made it clear that’s why he did it.

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When anyone mentions Biden fumbling a speech, I ask if they’re aware he has a stutter he’s had to manage his whole damn life. That he is able to speak publicly THAT well is a huge accomplishment considering how hard sounding normal is for him. He has to slow down. When he feels it hit, he has to stop until it passes and he can talk again. You can’t tell that’s what he’s fighting. Shit just comes out of Trump’s mouth and he gets their praise.

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Some of them, it’s all they can get. High turnover. The ones who are successful and stay are sociopaths. They get abusive on the phone and say things that would make your stomach turn to get results. I know this because I’ve known people that have done that job. The ones who left as soon as they found a better job btw. I don’t make friends with sociopaths. Sociopaths have no trouble sleeping knowing they’ve hurt people. Many of them enjoy watching hurt people squirm.

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I’ve understood this for a long time and it put me at odds with my own family that buy the propaganda bullshit. I’d walk past them watching Fox and getting excited about something and just from the short clip id hear I’d just remark “this is why those countries hate us and 9/11 didn’t come out of nowhere. What if they did that to you? How would you react?” No fucking empathy. My own family. I was raised republican and turned on it as soon as I was smart enough to critically think.

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Thank you! I was like “I feel like this is something I want but I don’t know what for.” Yes, I do want it.

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#16

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They didn’t go away. We just have settings to deal with them now so I guess people forgot they exist. Turn your setting off and browse some sites. They’re still there. There’s also a ton of sites that got around it by having so many ads you can’t even see the page anymore.

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This would be so fucking hilarious if that’s what happened

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How by faith? Ya know what? I don’t think I could handle the answer. Nvm…

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I’d say trading incest for the other 3 would… like omg. We bag in the incest thing way more than we should just seeing your comment. Like we have much more serious things going on. I hate his timeline lol.

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