56274 pts · November 13, 2016
Speak for yourself, I say it plenty.
That is absolutely fascinating. Makes me think rappers don't have inner dialogue 😅
What kind of things require language for you?
I've always been curious about this. Do you know that our internal dialogue is not slowly spoken words, like we hear sentences much faster when we think them, faster than we could ever say them. I wonder do you think that an inner dialogue is like a normal speed conversation? Cause it isn't and I wonder if everyone DOES have an inner dialogue but just defines it differently.
Do you never get song lyrics stuck in your head?
Possibly no access from where they were
Excuse my stupidity but who would what if they did what?
You really think you got downvoted for asking a question? You got downvoted for bringing pedophilic imagery into a conversation that didn't have any.
Project much?
Thank you so much. He was very old and very happy. He didn't suffer for long. Lovely Leroy <3Yep defo, and actually using the safety net! My husband had to push/remind me to do it, but sure that's part of the plan haha.
Yes. You definitely need a support system in place but I don't think it has to be a program. I have my therapist of 15 years and several people I can heavily rely on. Coping skills and plans written down for emergencies. My dog died last month (huge for me). It was fuckin awful but I followed my emergency plan, including reaching out, and I didn't once get an urge to drink. I'm just so happy to be sober!
It's like, finally! Therapy is worth the insane prices lol. She was like a mental block, like I could work on myself all I liked but I couldn't access myself? I hope that makes any kind of sense
Oh I have done an immense amount of inner work. But removing the source of my self hatred produced a massive change. I've been working on myself for 20 odd years, but didn't reap many rewards until I got rid of her. Now the rewards are flooding in. I can feel peace, I can love myself, just amazing stuff. My comment was short so I understand why you thought that ALL I had done was get rid of her, so I hope this explains it a little bit more :)
I'm happy for the biosphere, and I know life will endure, I'm not arguing that. It just doesn't help with the fact that I deeply unhappy about the suffering we are causing animals 💔
Yep definitely. This is why my sobriety lines up with going no contact with an abusive parent after 35 years. Turns out, she was my underlying cause! When she disappeared so did most of my mental health issues, I guess I was lucky in a sense?
It won't "all" be here. We are causing a mass extinction. A lot of species have not and will not survive us :(
AA didn't work for me (I really tried but I think it's better for neurotypicals). I found my own way to stay sober! I became a dog minder/sitter, and it genuinely has stopped me from drinking for near 2 years. It works for me cause dogs are my universe, but I am so so glad to hear AA is working for OP!
Tube paper foil? Wut is?
Only for one day a year
The simpsons is a day away from being a year younger than me.
Not just for the troll, I appreciate seeing the logic laid out in your response.
Their equivalent to junk food? Birds gather around mcdonalds and such. Their junk food is our junk food
Yep, guide your partner on how to give you pleasure, it's really hot!
Yep. My sense of humour may be a defence mechanism, but that's okay! Ofcourse aspects of our personalities have roots!
2? I would hold my nose and down the vodka. Juice only held me back. (Sober now)
We are so small
Proud of you! I'm behind you but happy to be sober
Female here. I need to start with missionary, it opens me up, but doggy is 40x more pleasurable than any other position to me.
No, I didn't, it's the first time I used one.
I ran it through the ai detector thingies. It seems to be real
Speak for yourself, I say it plenty.
That is absolutely fascinating. Makes me think rappers don't have inner dialogue 😅
What kind of things require language for you?
I've always been curious about this. Do you know that our internal dialogue is not slowly spoken words, like we hear sentences much faster when we think them, faster than we could ever say them. I wonder do you think that an inner dialogue is like a normal speed conversation? Cause it isn't and I wonder if everyone DOES have an inner dialogue but just defines it differently.
Do you never get song lyrics stuck in your head?
Possibly no access from where they were
Excuse my stupidity but who would what if they did what?
You really think you got downvoted for asking a question? You got downvoted for bringing pedophilic imagery into a conversation that didn't have any.
Project much?
Thank you so much. He was very old and very happy. He didn't suffer for long. Lovely Leroy <3
Yep defo, and actually using the safety net! My husband had to push/remind me to do it, but sure that's part of the plan haha.
Yes. You definitely need a support system in place but I don't think it has to be a program. I have my therapist of 15 years and several people I can heavily rely on. Coping skills and plans written down for emergencies. My dog died last month (huge for me). It was fuckin awful but I followed my emergency plan, including reaching out, and I didn't once get an urge to drink. I'm just so happy to be sober!
It's like, finally! Therapy is worth the insane prices lol.
She was like a mental block, like I could work on myself all I liked but I couldn't access myself? I hope that makes any kind of sense
Oh I have done an immense amount of inner work. But removing the source of my self hatred produced a massive change. I've been working on myself for 20 odd years, but didn't reap many rewards until I got rid of her. Now the rewards are flooding in. I can feel peace, I can love myself, just amazing stuff. My comment was short so I understand why you thought that ALL I had done was get rid of her, so I hope this explains it a little bit more :)
I'm happy for the biosphere, and I know life will endure, I'm not arguing that. It just doesn't help with the fact that I deeply unhappy about the suffering we are causing animals 💔
Yep definitely. This is why my sobriety lines up with going no contact with an abusive parent after 35 years. Turns out, she was my underlying cause! When she disappeared so did most of my mental health issues, I guess I was lucky in a sense?
It won't "all" be here. We are causing a mass extinction. A lot of species have not and will not survive us :(
AA didn't work for me (I really tried but I think it's better for neurotypicals). I found my own way to stay sober! I became a dog minder/sitter, and it genuinely has stopped me from drinking for near 2 years. It works for me cause dogs are my universe, but I am so so glad to hear AA is working for OP!
Tube paper foil? Wut is?
Only for one day a year
The simpsons is a day away from being a year younger than me.
Not just for the troll, I appreciate seeing the logic laid out in your response.
Their equivalent to junk food? Birds gather around mcdonalds and such. Their junk food is our junk food
Yep, guide your partner on how to give you pleasure, it's really hot!
Yep. My sense of humour may be a defence mechanism, but that's okay! Ofcourse aspects of our personalities have roots!
2? I would hold my nose and down the vodka. Juice only held me back. (Sober now)
We are so small
Proud of you! I'm behind you but happy to be sober
Female here. I need to start with missionary, it opens me up, but doggy is 40x more pleasurable than any other position to me.
No, I didn't, it's the first time I used one.
I ran it through the ai detector thingies. It seems to be real