Boyfriend suddenly dumped me and moved out all in the same night, leaving me brokenhearted and unable to pay rent.

Apr 11, 2017 2:25 AM

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He even took the TV, rendering my PS4 useless. Now I have nothing to even distract myself in these horrible lonely long nights...

Do butt stuff.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Don't worry Op you'll soon be fine and with more energy to move on

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

so what your saying is you're single?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Who would dump a girl with a PS4? That's a keeper.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I see my friends out somewhere else and I'm at home they never told me I felt rejected like I was never there I just feel empty inside

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I know that feeling :( It sucks! I'm sorry. They're not very good friends

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

One of my friends in the group was a crush I had idk how I feel now I guess just empty inside

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Good luck OP --sorry to hear all the shit that is going down for you.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Out of curiosity -- with full time you still cannot afford rent? (if you don't mind, pm me - curious on net,vs expense).

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Imgur has you covered apparently

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

That really is a dick move on his part.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This just happened to me... Well the leaving part.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry to hear that :(

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Hey @OP message me

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

http://imgur.com/nVgXTlJ

9 years ago | Likes 94 Dislikes 4

YOU ALL STILL HAVE ZOIDBERG! (\/) (o,,,,o) (\/)

9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Everything will work out @OP just hang in there. Old mate sounds like a weak fuck and you don't need that.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Sorry, @OP. I'm thinking anyone who would be that inconsiderate is someone you're better off without. Hang in there; brighter days ahead.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Fuck how you gonna take the TV! Do you have any good friends? Move in with them for awhile and use their TV

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

No, I really don't. I'm a loner.

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Damn I feel for you mane. But hey look on the bright side, at least you have a ps4!

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You can hook up the PS4 to a PC screen. ;D

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I tried it. My monitor is too old. And he kicked my pc a couple years ago and broke it

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If it doesnt kill you it will make you stronger do not give up

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I hope he flew home on United.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Hang in there! We're in juxtapose boats.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

you still have Zoidberg!

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry op

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Super dick move

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Wow, front page. Really? Thanks guys, really thanks a lot I expected this post to bomb and to be ridiculed but you have all been wonderful.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I am so glad that this is an actual thing. I need to meet this hound taxi driver.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

OOOfff!! Sorry to hear that, @OP. What are you planning to do? Is he on the lease?

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Nope, just me on the lease. I have absolutely no idea what I'm going to do

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You're gonna sacrifice shit so you can pay rent. You're gonna work as much as possible to get more dough. You're gonna eek it out. Ready? Go

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Yeah, I'm already doing all of those things lol.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Keep it up. Never quit. Stay the course. You will stand tall, sleep well, and thank yourself in the end. Now, enough bullshit, beer's on me.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Do you have enough space to rent a room out?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah I've been trying to find a roomie but I won't live with a stranger. Had bad experiences I don't wish to re live

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I fully understand you on that front. If you need an ear, we can chat via inbox.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah I've been trying to find a roomie but I won't live with a stranger. Had bad experiences I don't wish to re live

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yeah, I have been looking since the day after the break up.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Good. Any luck?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Not yet. Fingers crossed!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Is he on the lease? Cause... that's a legal obligation.

9 years ago | Likes 520 Dislikes 5

No one wants your opinion, Patrice!

9 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

Each person on the lease is responsible for the full amount, not just their portion. If 1 person leaves, the remaining person is on the hook

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

But can they sue their roommate who has signed the lease with them and bailed?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I am the only name on the lease.

9 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 1

You're fucked, dude..

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 3

you're words of encouragement move me. you are truly great and insightful

8 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

What jurisdiction?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Damn, dude.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

My lady (ex) fiancee did something super similar, if you want to vent, hit me up ????

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

Yeah and I'm sure @OP has the resources to sue him.

9 years ago | Likes 132 Dislikes 10

Judge Judy!

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

No win? No fee!

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

You don't need "resources". Rental law is made so that poor people can access it.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Relevant username.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Small claims court, should be easy enough

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Americans and their lawsuits. Sad you want money from everything that goes wrong. She can't afford the rent let alone a lawyer.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 5

You don't need a lawyer. Not how that works. Small claims court would handle it just fine.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Oh that's not how it works in my country. We've been trying to sue someone and 3 years down the road there still haven't been a trial.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Ah. Yeah in the US for something like this you would go to small claims. Turnaround is very quick and efficient there.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

"Americans and their lawsuits." "We've been trying to sue someone and 3 years down the road..."

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The contract is with the lease holder... not the other lesee.

9 years ago | Likes 79 Dislikes 1

Depends on where. Common understanding of contract law makes all parties to a contract liable to each other but state laws might change this

9 years ago | Likes 30 Dislikes 2

Thanks, this is exactly the information I wanted.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Fair enough. Really it mostly comes down to talking to the landlord. Most will work with you if talk to them asap.

9 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

It is after all, in their interest to keep the unit filled. So if you're good to them they may even be able to get another room mate movedin

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Hook up the ps4 to the laptop? Is that a thing? Cause if it isn't, it should be.

9 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 2

Most have HDMI out only. Completely agree it should be a thing

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You can install PS4 remote play (no longer confined to just the Vita now) on PC and some android stuff.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

He kicked my computer and smashed it a couple years ago. So I don't have that either

9 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 1

The fuck? Fuck that guy. I mean.. dont.. cuz he sucks. But also at least negative Nancy is gone, so that's a thing.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I think... now, now bear with me here @OP, that you miiiight have, juuuuuust MAYBE, dodged a bullet here. Time to find a roomy and rebuild!

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

So he's treated you like shit for years? Are you really still surprised that he'd keep screwing you?

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Holy shit. You're lucky he's gone, or he would have done that to you sooner or later

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Oh wow. Sounds like you might be better off without him.

9 years ago | Likes 34 Dislikes 0

Amen!

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

I know I am in the long run, it's just tough right now to deal with this amongst everything else that has been going wrong in my life.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Sounds like you've been left by a cunt. You're not a cunt. You're good people. You can do this. You had a life without him before, you'll

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Don't call him a cunt, he lacks both the depth and warmth. And is way too slimey.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

build an even better one in the days and months to come. You're gonna find a way out, @OP. You are the friend that you can always count on.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Wow guys, thanks so much for the messages and the love. I've actually spent most of the night talking to you all and it's very appreciated.

9 years ago | Likes 77 Dislikes 6

stay with a friend for a few days and put your apartment up on airbnb. You can cover your rent pretty easily this way

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Haha I seriously doubt anyone would come to my town that uses airbnb but it's a thought

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Hey @OP get the PS4 Remote Play if you have a laptop you can play ps4 over your wifi http://imgur.com/ItcMdCu

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

If you need someone else to chat with just ping me. I've had friends who have been there and survived

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You'll get over it. Won't be long if you want a relationship. You're a cutie. Talk to the leasing office if you are having trouble with rent

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

They should understand and might be able to make something work. Keep moving forward :)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If I don't find a room mate I may have to do that.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You got it. I know it's scary but you'll pull through.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

We still love ya, fuck that guy

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Well that's one thing she's not going to do. A better phrase would be "That guy can suck a dick".

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Well that's one thing she's not going to do. A better phrase would be "That guy can suck a dick".

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

this

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Who's name is the telly under? If it's yours that's theft. There's sites where you can find someone quick to pay the other half.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

That's hard to prove, it would have to be in writing that it belonged to her and not him. In America at least.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah we bought it at wal mart haha. I paid for it but he had given me cash

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

still a dickmove.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I know.. :(

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm a creep for checking, but from the Christmas selfie it appears that you are cute, and I think you'll do just fine.

9 years ago | Likes 31 Dislikes 6

And because everybody is now curious:

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 2

You're beautiful.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Thank you, but all I did was post @OP's selfie.

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Sshh. You're stunning, love. Accept the truth.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Well thank you but cute doesn't pay the bills or let me watch Netflix

9 years ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 1

What do you do to pay the bills? Maybe we can help in some other way

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

True but you can use your talent to make jewelry and sell it online

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You can watch Netflix on whatever your using for Imgur. So there's that! Chin up OP

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Pretty does pay the bills for loads of people

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

Maybe sell some things for extra cash? Or put up a roommate ad?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Op get off ur ass and find a job. Life has a habit of slapping sone sense into affluent jackasses like us. Make sure u use this oppurtiunity

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 6

I work full time dude. I get paid more than he does too.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

But it was unexpected and we weren't financially prepared. He's staying with a friend for free so he can save up all he wants.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

This apartment is in my name. And he lost me my damage deposit by putting holes in the walls.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Everything pays the rent... if you're brave enough. Okay good, got my creepy comment in for the day. But seriously you'll be fine! I'm sure!

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Yes it can.

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

The internet is for porn!

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1