cozynester

219060 pts ยท April 21, 2013


Lurked for years, then commented for more.

I disagree. Weddings can often be the only occasion when two extended families come together and friends from opposite sides of the world share a drink. I have beard people say "Do you remember X wedding" many times. You're right in that it should be focused on the desires of the celebrating couple, but throwing a good party is about focusing on the vibes before the logistics and a lot of people get bogged down in what they *think* a wedding should be rather than what they actually want

3 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

idk mate. its pretty easy and non controversial to use the pronouns people ask you to. You've been doing it since you were a child, just a lot of the asking was unspoken. You probably correctly gendered a trans person more than once as a kid and had no idea because they "passed" as the presumed gender. Wanting it to be spoken instead of assumed is super easy

3 months ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

Do not preempt your thinking in a destructive way. If you overwork delicate joints like wrists when they are already actively hurting when you attempt the activity you are ignoring your body desperately telling you if you dont stop you'll experience long term/permanent damage. Please OP. For the sake of future you. Put the supplies in a locked cupboard or in the care of a loved one if you need to. Otherwise you may lose access to more than just this skill.

3 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

broken penises ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

4 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

when it's consensual it can b super fun

4 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

they're a pretty straightforward product... and not too expensive. I wash mine occasionally but for the most part just toss them back in my grocery bags to take to the store after the produce is put in kitchen storage

4 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Floor has the sheen of closing time freshly mopped. If he changes the shelf organization, morning shift will complain and reset it, then management will chastise him for acting above his pay grade. You would be happier if he was wiping a clean glass, hollywood bartender style.

4 months ago | Likes 30 Dislikes 0

ooooo what precise and delicate work! great job op

4 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

most people want to do the right thing but are focused on problems much closer to home (like food and housing security). Those people are delighted when they hear a small way they can contribute to broader societal change. People often enjoy being manipulated if they trust the person proposing the manipulation

4 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

actually, most people do want a better world :) and a lot of them are actively building it. trying volunteering some time and you'll see it too

5 months ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

wellll... there are some extreme cases where those judgements activate a tribalist "us or them" mentality that spurs people to violence. Thats why a part of our brain is vigilant against what others may be thinking but not saying. Its important to liase with that part and make sure its informed by reality and not biases picked up passively throughout ones life

5 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

Good morning pippin ๐Ÿฅฐ always a pleasure

5 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

false dichtomy

5 months ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 3

ok but like, yours also definitely still look like feet :D and its infinitely better than mine cause Im not bold enough to even make the attempt

6 months ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

now thats equality :D

6 months ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 1

before your time??? we never stopped. I've been returning glass deposits for decades. although perhaps you live in a state/country that doesn't do deposits. absolutely wild. glass is so much easier to recycle than plastic

6 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

nah. you just get used to using finger pads instead of finger tips. and you get to go clickity-clack on surfaces in a very fun way

6 months ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 2

Then you dont understand his psychology very well lmao. Imagine the elementary school bully in him and it makes perfect sense. "Anti-woke" means villifying changes made to accommodate others

7 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

good morning pippin ๐Ÿ’œ sounds like someone needs to find a way to peel back all the layers of externally imposed systems and take a break for a bit. best of luck friend

7 months ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

I see a photo of a a happy woman. Shes identifying as a happy woman. You are bitching about imgur posts. Im not even reading what you're writing anymore xD

8 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

"rooted in facts" is a funny way of saying that you care more about identity politics than humans being happy

8 months ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

breep! good morning pippin

8 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

they spent *so much money* on the ad campaign for it. The are so so so ominous too. When I first saw one I thought it was for a cult

8 months ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 1

Best decision I ever made tbh. I'll still stroll through usersub here occasionally, but I force myself to use the browser version so when it bugs out I take it as a sign to exit the digi space

9 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

also "we're married now you don't get to be alone" is toxic af. I give them 3 years tops xD

9 months ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

weird how the captions deliberately dont credit the human actually responsible. just call her "the lady"

9 months ago | Likes 77 Dislikes 1

good morning pippin :) im singing at my sister's wedding today and Im nervous, but this was nice and inspiring to see

10 months ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Hi Aaron and Zoe. If you're going to advertise on this site at least share a pet pic or one of those kirby edits. Your clothing designs are OK and I hope you find success relative to your effort

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

rhythm games are incredibly satisfying to get good at. personally I prefer ones that move my whole body but the standing display games can be pretty fun too

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0