Mental Illness: What People Say VS What It's Really Like

Mar 11, 2019 8:01 PM

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it's called hyperbole. people will also say trivial things are killing them.

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A person can be depressed & not have depression. People can say they're depressed even if they don't have depression.

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Also, not all depressed people are suicidal or want to die

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Thank you! The right side is stupidly oversimplified. I've never felt like I wanted to die.

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Me stealing this gif.

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Make it double

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i like that gif...

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Upvote it. Then go take a shit.

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doing that right now brother

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So many people in this thread claiming to have everything posted above. Self diagnosis is a silly and harmful practice, dont let a webcomic

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Be your source of diagnosis. Please seek a real professional and actually do your do diligence before you say that you have any of these.

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Genuine diagnosis of OCD here. People don’t understand how awful it can be and just assume it is keeping things clean all the time.

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Accurate x5. God I’m a mess.

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4/5, and possibly a 5th, doing testing. I feel you.... every guy says “you’re crazy” as a breakup line as if he didn’t know from the get.

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We are all a mess.

7 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Same here. I just try to put my best foot forward. I just started university so I’m extra nervous. Trying not to think about it helps.

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Same, I only got three maybe four of these, but I've also got physical conditions that most doctors didn't know about until I told them.

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Just realized I have all 5...

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I experienced a lot of these until I started being nicer to myself.

7 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 0

How did you do that?

7 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

No one's perfect, being kind when one makes mistakes is important, including yourself. Ideally the intent is to encourage personal growth.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'd catch myself thinking in negatives & put myself in an outsider's shoes. I'd choose to be kind to myself from their perspective.

7 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

That sounds really useful, I’m going to try this the next time I catch myself being overly self critical

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Good luck :)

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We're all fucked in the head, Bront.

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Had a girl in class who had social anxiety problems. She ended up peeing herself in class instead.. Felt so sorry for her.

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I feel bad for her too. That probably made her anxiety even worse.

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And then there's Generalised Anxiety Disorder. My internal monologue: fuck fuck fuck fuckity fucking fuckily fucksalot fuck fuck oh god

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CollegeHumor really nailed the head with this humor.

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

i prefer just calling these me without doing the label thing. i think people get too hung up on the labels, self identify with the labels

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People really like to be part of groups.

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the feeling of not being alone is a good opiate. you just have to be careful what you're choosing to belong to when you get it

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then it makes it sooo much harder to move past/ live with

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I have a little social anxiety, like that bathroom thing is so relatable but I don’t feel like I’m fully social anxiety

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It can be hard to tell. If you're struggling at all, go see a therapist. They're great even for everyday stuff so it won't be a wasted trip

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I'm not sure if it would be a disorder, but I get so anxious about talking to people I will walk to thier rooms then walk away before 1

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Basically, all these behaviors can affect many people but only cross the line into "disorder" when it becomes a detriment to your life.

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Mine used to be way worse, but just today I made sure I ran hard at the track in case the other people were watching. Which they weren't.

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I get legit OCD about certain videogames (to the point where I sometimes have to just drop a game I would otherwise love because I straight

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up cannot enjoy it, for obviously stupid reasons). I'm not OCD about anything else in life. These things aren't clean-cut.

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Knocking multiple times. Am constantly worried about what other people think about what I do/say and in general overthink things. 2

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According to this your anxiety is invalid because others have it much worse than you

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To be honest I like to drink because it's the one time my anxiety calms down a bit and I feel "normal" 3

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What’s it’s called when you think you’re gods gift to mankind but also a waste of space and can never chose for fear of being wrong?

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Generalized anxiety disorder with perfectionistic tendencies. Therapy can help with that.

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My theory is that every superiority complex is a thinly veiled inferiority complex

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Human. Unless you're leading a cult or haven't bathed or left the house in two months, it's just human.

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That probably fits snuggly into Bi-polar

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Like you think you're Great in comparison to others,but dont measure up to your own standards?

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Yeah that.

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Maybe borderline. Take care when self-diagnosing though.

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Probably narcissism combined with ego death. #notatherapist

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Ego death is the death of self. It's not a good thing...

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I'm pretty sure is ego death is when you completely lose your sense of self, esp. while high on hallucinogens.

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Hey I got there or damn close. Triggered 7 years of dissociation and I had to rebuild my personality pretty much from scratch.

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k

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But yes, you're correct in your assessment.

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Man I read that hashtag wrong

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No ta the rapist, mothafucka!

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Who's Nota?

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No-Tat He-Rapist. Those darn conservative males with their tattoo-less bodies forcing themselves upon others! /s

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To be fair, saying you feel depressed and actually suffering from clinical depression are both completely valid.

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I’m sorry friend. Where are you at, are there any programs that could help you get your head above water?

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There's more than a little gatekeeping going on in this post

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Yeah, in French we have two different words ("déprimé" and "dépressif"), but in English there's only one.

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As person with it, I don't begrudge people it anyways. Depression is so completely removed from normal experience, how could they know?

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That too. Plus there's also situational depression, a type of depression I think that people don't take seriously because it's not clinical.

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Been depressed for over 10 years but started accepting it and learning to live with it, so now when I tell someone they think I'm just

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asking for attention because they can't see the darkness inside me. I constantly think about killing myself fuck me for having a

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reason to live (my 5 year old) and doing what I can to hang in there :/

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I've been in a similar situation (but replace the child with pets). It's frustrating when people just brush aside your problems like that.

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I find that people take situational depression more seriously. Maybe that’s just my experience.

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do you mean sadness? Depression isn't just 'sometimes', or just 'go away' - unless you find and fix the root causes it is ALWAYS THERE

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Situational depression is definitely a thing. Like dealing with the loss of a loved one or mourning the end of a relationship

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https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/314698.php Get some learning done today. If you can't get over situational, it can become clinical

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No. No I don't. Situational depression is a type of depression caused by stress and other outside forces and while it can sometimes 1/3?

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eventually go away after a while, it can also sometimes eventually become clinical in other cases. I've experienced it before. 2/3

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Mine turned clinical. I wasted years feeling nothing.

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Now do anxiety where you actually think you're having a heart attack and it causes physical symptoms.

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Somatization?

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You don't know suffering, only Blue Hair can know suffering, shitlords.

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I've felt half the things in the right panels and I'm pretty sure I don't have any of those diagnoses

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I believe you. But what makes them disorders is when they are so pervasive and intrusive that your ability to function normally is impaired.

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Most people have, it's normal. It becomes not normal when it dominates your existence.

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Most times these terms are thown around to justify shitty behaviour. Saddens me thinking about people having real issues.

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I personally say the terms when there isn't another way to describe what I'm talking about. I know the difference between the diagnosed-----

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medical conditions and not. Sometimes in casual conversation it's just easier to say the terms but still know their proper context.

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Seriously, I can't tell you how pissed I am about edgy teens thinking it's cool and quirky to be depressed 1/

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It adds so much stigma like "Oh, you're just making it up" or "Oh, it's just in your head." 2/

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I have actual, diagnosed major depressive disorder and I have to be careful who I tell so as not to be looked down on

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Same here. And if you’re happy for 5 minutes, they act like you made it up to be lazy. Ugh

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Oh god, I hate that. I don't use it as an excuse as to why I didn't do something, I often have trouble doing things I love 1/

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A lot of badly behaved kids "have" ADD cause medication is easier than parenting. But real ADD can be so hard for kids. I remember when 1/2

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I don't really know how many kids were actually misdiagnosed. I know people who have it but wouldn't have been diagnosed when they were kids

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kind of like how autism levels are "rising" because it's a relatively new term.

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I was 9 years old I couldn't focus on a 1 page worksheet on ancient Egypt and it frustrated me so much I started crying. It's not fun.

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I have OCD. I don’t really care how other people use the term but I can see how someone else with it could be offended.

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I think people misusing it leads to a lack of understanding but trying to live with it is enough without worrying about others opinions.

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#1 There is more than one kind of depression. Some people can be completely unaware they are even depressed.

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Great point. Persistent Depressive Disorder (or Dysthymia ) for instance is an enduring/chronic form of depression that can be subtle enough

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that people living with it for many years aren't aware that their below average baseline mood ( how they feel every day) is not typical.

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Took me a long time to figure it out. “Oh, you mean it’s *not* normal to go to sleep every night hoping you don’t wake up?”

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Careful, hordes of self-diagnosed mental disorders inbound. /s Not ragging on the real deal here, just the self-diagnosed internet psychs.

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I love telling people my mother diagnosed me with ADHD... I wait until they are reasonably upset to tell them she's physiologist.

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They're up there, pissing and moaning about, and I quote, "gatekeeping."

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I don't know if gatekeeping would be the right term but I think some of those people have a point. Lots of mental illnesses do fall on 1/?

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a spectrum of sorts where some people may have it more severely than others. Getting the right medical treatment is another factor. 2/?

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A person getting the treatment that fits them may act differently compared to a person who isn't. There's many factors with these sort 3/4?

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of things. And different people may have different experiences and triggers than another person with the same illness. 4/4

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Yeah that looks fairly accurate to me.

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Only thing missing are the same 4 fucking puzzles with nothing else to do

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College "Humor"

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Came looking for this exact comment before posting it myself. +1

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“College”

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If you think of that being a dog whistle for “wokeness” it’s accurate.

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Yep. Read a paper, and just immediately forget what you read.

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pfft... read a paper... look at paper, get distracted by random detail of an included picture. THEN finish reading the paper, and forget it.

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...except "being depressed" can also mean that you're sad.

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As someone with ADHD, I'm either flitting betwee things, losing track of reality on a thought-train, or intensely focused on one thing

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Ditto!

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A lot of folks confuse OCD with Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder.

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Now do "blind," "deaf," "retarded," "addicted," or any of hundreds of medical terms that are figuratively used all the time.

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It is true but it’s a big world there are probably people who didn’t know the difference.

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I literally use those terms figuratively very frequently.

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Right. I'm considered legally blind but I don't consider myself blind cause I can still see with the aid of glasses.

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"I'm so addicted to GoT! I watched like 4 episodes this weekend!"

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Then Bob Saget stand up and yells "DID YOU EVER SUCK DICK TO WATCH AN EPISODE OF GoT?! "

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I seen it!

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retarded is no longer a medical diagnosis.

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But there are still people alive who were diagnosed with it.

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Touche

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Aye, but people generally understand what those mean, I'm not sure most people really get what true OCD, ADD, etc. are, which is the point.

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Not really. Lots of people think "blind" means can't see anything, when most blind can still perceive basic movements and such.

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Not the same thing, either bait or *ahem* retarded

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or hate and love..

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Yeah "addicted" fucking bothers me. And oddly enough today is the 16th anniversary of my dad's OD death.

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Uhhhh.... Ummmmmmm.... .... Username checks out??

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Thankfully it doesn't.

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Good point

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Also autistic. I hate how people use that as the new word for "retarded" even though autism isn't the same kind of learning disability.

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1. When used colloquially retarded just means stupid, whereas autistic tends to mean incapable of understanding nuance, esp. regarding

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Which are legitimate things that people with autism have trouble with, so it fits pretty well

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2. social situations. At least, that's been my experience.

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Nah, I've been seeing it as a substitute for 'Retarded' as the latter word is widely considered a slur and no longer socially acceptable.

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I guarantee most people who use "autistic" as an insult are just as willing to use "retarded" as well.

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not if the r-word gets them banned or their post caught up in a site's censor algorithms,

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I prefer to use the term, "stumbly wumbly"

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i use autistic to mean "socially inept" Which is pretty accurate

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But to be fair, autism is a form of mental retardation.

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People use "autistic" when they mean "entitled asshole".

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My son is autistic and I don’t know how many times I’ve been told I’m lucky because he doesn’t “look” autistic. I don’t know what that means

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Usually they wear sunglasses and have a white cane.

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Wow that is ignorant...

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You forgot to make him wear the prescribed Autism™ uniform, duh.

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I’m 37 years old and I think I still have ADD...is it weird that pot seems to help me focus? Probably a better way out there though ...

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I'm 37 and I absolutely still have it. As far as I know, pot chills you out, so it might calm your brain down enough so you can focus.

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Most people don’t grow out of ADD. Fewer than 30%, maybe fewer than 20%. Mindfulness meditation helps.

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I don’t think u outgrow it. And adderall is basically speed, so why not pot? The brain is weird. If it works, it works!

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Gatekeeping mental disorders

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And people not understanding the difference between OCD and OCPD, leading to OCD people insulting people with OCPD for being "fakers"

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Wrong takeaway. All they're saying is not to trivialize matters.

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Correct definitions =/= gatekeeping. This isn't natal women hating on TG women. You wouldn't call having one glass of wine a week alcoholism

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This is prettymuch dismissing a functioning alcoholic because it hasn't crippled their life

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How? Someone drinking a glass of wine a week isn't a functioning alcoholic, unless they're maybe a hamster or a mouse or something.

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Mental disorders are nothing to brag about imo.

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Yeah, not exactly a contest you'd want to win.

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I disagree. They're contradicting popular oversimplifications that depression = sad, bipolar means you get happy and then mean, ocd just

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Depression is just the feeling of unhappiness. Clinical depression is a mental disorder where the affected continuously feels depressed

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Depression really is not sadness. I'm not even saying that as hyperbole. Depression is not an emotion, but a lack of emotion.

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Didn't say it was sadness, I said it was unhappiness. There is a difference. Also lack of emotion is just one type of depression (1/2)

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It can also come in the form of crippling despair or hopelessness (2/2)

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means you don't want to have to scrub the floor later/prefer neatness, ADD just means you would rather do other things at a given time, etc

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the other comments are what shows what he's talking about. i agree it's what the comic shows, but anything to do with this always becomes

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the same thing in the comments

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So the disorder is defined, a person claims to have that disorder when they actually dont, and calling this out is gatekeeping?

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How do you know none of the people in the 1st panels have been diagnosed and are receiving treatment or have much more manageable levels of

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the disorders? I've been diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder and am managing it with exercise and meds. If I was in the 1st

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panel then mine wouldn't count because hers is much more severe?

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Are you gatekeeping gatekeeping?

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I'd be okay with this honestly. I'd barely heard the term a couple years ago and now anything with a qualification is being gatekept...

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These disorders have a thousand different forms, this post is saying "If your version doesn't look exactly like this then shut the fuck up".

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No, it's more going along the lines that people will use these disorders to describe perfectly normal feelings or quirks. If you take a

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Closer look in the last 3, dude saying "hes so ADD" but he's right into the video game, as per body language. The OCD guy has his shoes in

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Hand while in the middle of the room. I see this as implying that he walked into the room then took them off. And the last one saying she is

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I see this a lot with autism. Im a female, high functioning. Because I can function, I'm basically always told that im not autistic enough.

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And therefore shouldn't claim my diagnosis or refer to it as an explanation, that I should just assimilate since I can mostly fake it.

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Im not sure how to word this. But what ways do you act that are autistic?

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2/2 The only thing worse than what you described it knowing you acted oddly because of a disorder and still be helpless to stop yourself.

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Being high functioning is the worst. 1/2

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Fake it till you make it! Seriously though, as someone else at the high functioning side of the spectrum, its damn hard to hide at times

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This. Mental illnesses fall on a spectrum. People should be nicer to one another and not compare who has it worse.

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I guess the idea is, wait until they start saying you can cure it with positive thinking and healing crystals before you start stabbing.

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You probably think that's profound, but the doctors got there before you. There's at least 4 different terms that cover depression severity.

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For example, what is commonly thrown around as "depression" is actually mild dysthymia. Or possibly just temporary dissatisfaction.

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>> Similarly all the other conditions you can name are endlessly subdivided and measured by severity. Autistic spectrum has at least six.

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> In other words, it's possible to cover the full range of mental health conditions AND use the correct terms. The DSM is *huge*.

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So could I have like 5% OCD? How would we even measure something like that?

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Do you ever feel absolutely compelled to do something?

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Only when I'm horny....

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You go ask a professional to diagnose you and score you on one of the standardised scales, rather than relying on Internet Bullshit.

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It's not something that can be measured on a percent scale, they just try to treat it without over-treating it, if that makes sense.

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Unsure. The brain is an incredibly complex piece of our body, not yet fully understood. Chemical imbalances play a part, I imagine.

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Definitely, people are basically walking piles of chemical reactions that have to somehow "work together" or major issues arise, especially

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In the chemical balances of the brain

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The same way we measure sociopathy, or ADD, or schizophrenia. A professional takes a look, asks questions, and determines if they have the

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Disorder, and how badly they have it.

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"I have been kinda depressed lately since my girlfriend left me.", "PFFT, I bet you don't even consider suicide daily, punk bitch."

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It's lots of fun having multiple suicidal ideations every day for over a year. Not really, it sucked

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You missed the point of the post entirely.

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Apparently

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Being down about an event like that is just normal mourning though. There is an actual definition and diagnosis of Major Depression.

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It's still making somebody feel bad for already feeling bad because they don't feel as bad as you.

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It has fucking ZERO to do with "not feeling as bad as you". There is nothing wrong with being down, that does not make you mentally ill.

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Words have definitions, you are allowed to be depressed, you are not allowed to self diagnose yourself with Major Depression.

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The term OCD is thrown around so casually, I don't think many people actually understand it

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All these conditions are just extreems of normal behavior. Like most people are "addicted" to pleasurable things/activities but we don't 1

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Same with anxiety

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It's not that hard to say "I'm obsessive".

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Except that "obsessive" is technically a clinical term in this case. ;)

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I think people confuse it for "habitual" habit.

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People also toss ADD around but it's not nearly as bad imo, since ADD is mostly functional. To me it's more like "bitch if you only knew."

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As a sufferer of refractory OCD I agree with that. Hate when people say “I’m ocd Because I like a clean house!”

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It makes me real OCD when people do that.

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OCD is like playing 6 degrees of separation where riding bikes = Abusing your sister so now you can't ride bikes anymore.

7 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

See, THIS is a good description of why OCD is such a severe mental illness and so difficult to treat.

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Of course they don’t.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I agree i used to have ocd (couppled with paranoia) and people just dont know

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

If you spend any time on this site, you should know that liking things neat is not OCD, because someone makes one of these posts every week.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Took me ten years to figure out I legitimately had OCD because I thought “OCD” was synonymous with a germaphobe.

7 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

Me too! I do compulsive self harm without thinking about it until it bleeds. Sucks when my co-workers blurt out "Oh I'm so OCD!".

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Is... is that.. I do that. I've picked and peeled the skin off my fingertips for as long as I can remember.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I pick at my lip and my fingers ?

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

People need to learn the term anally retentive.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Real OCD is anxiety-pattern hell

7 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

Yea, FauxCD is the term I've always used for it. I knew somebody with OCD and it can be a bit of a nightmare depending on what sets you off.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I often cringe when someone "claims" to be OCD with a grin. It's a pure fucking nightmare in my life that I battle with. Thanks for making>

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Light of the living hell that is my life. If you smile, you're not truly OCD. It's a disorder, and not pleasant. Don't try to understand, >

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Just accept it and leave me to cope with it.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This. Especially as there are so many focuses, ie harm OCD, checking OCD, sexual OCD, etc. It's not just cleaning and handwashing.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I have OCD. Anytime I hear someone try to compare it to Monk I want to punch them in the teeth.

7 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

"You did a task well. That's so OCD."

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I just learned I might have been ocd when I was a kid. Everyday when I came home from school I NEEDED to touch each of the three sidewalk >

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

< Blocks in front of my stairs before I entered my house, or I thought something bad would happen to my family

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

If you feel like you enjoy order more than most people, or get anxious when something is "off" or misaligned, etc. Just say you have CDO.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Alphabetical order :)

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Same thing with ADHD!!! Many people consider it as laziness and lack of passion. it’s actually very common, approx 4% of the US Population

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Most people are perfectionists, and most people are obsessive about something. OCD ain't that tho

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I’m guilty of throwing it around where it doesn’t go, but at the same time I do actually know what it really means.

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The hardest thing I have ever done in my life was to admit that I had a problem, it got so bad that I was hospitalized for a week. (1/2)

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My OCD symptoms were so debilitating that I tried to kill myself. I've never told anyone, only my family knows. I'm doing better now.(2/2)

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Could you explain what you mean I'm kinda ocd

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Same with bipolar

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1/2 Most of the times ppl are speaking of obsessive compulsive personality disorder which is more of a behavioural issue with two subtypes

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I think it’s because most people like to use OCD to describe themselves instead of saying that they’re anal

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

2/2 control/perfectionist vs. conservative/stikler

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Edit: "conservative/penny pincher"

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I can't be the only one who saw that episode of True Life on MTV.

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I feel like most of these are

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Same with anxiety.

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The actual phrase they used in this image for the real side is... pretty good for the reality

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I had OCD growing up. Its horribly misunderstood. I had to do everything in multiples of 4. Light switches. Number of chews. Now I'm 24...

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I only have it under control most of the time. I still have urges when I get anxious. Example of true OCD: https://youtu.be/vnKZ4pdSU-s

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Sooo I'm #1, #3, and #5.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Indeed. I did a school project on OCD and talked with someone with actual OCD. Liking neat things has NOTHING to do with OCD.

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It's crippling.

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

A lot of people confuse it with obsessive personality disorder.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I HAVE to shower on specific days of the week, otherwise I can focus on anything, housecleaning tasks have to be done in a specific order 1

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Or stop being able to do them-essentially throwing off my "rhythm" except I have to start at the top again. I could go on, but still not OCD

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My best friend had severe OCD, which led to an eating disorder and more. It’s a term thrown around too much

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yes absolutely. I was diagnosed with anx/dep/OCD a few years ago. Treatment and medication has just taught me how little is actually known

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

i have seen someone with ocd and heard he washed their hamds till it bled. and then theres some kiddos who said that they are ocd just cos

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

they organise their fucking crayons. goddamn shauna

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My partner has OCPD and this drives us crazy, even though it's not really the same thing.

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Same with PTSD

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Obsessive compulsive disorder, it is Kinda straight forward what that means imo. Then again we tend to over dramatize our emotions

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We like to add power words to highlight what we feel

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

Just like the terms bigot, racist, fascist, and really alot of words actually. People change words to fit their narrative and it makes

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Discourse frustratingly unfruitful in so many ways.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

*streightens papers on my own desk* "HEY! I'M O.C.D. TOO! EVERY THINGS GATTA BE IN ITS PLACE AMIRITE!?!!!" -nooooooooo, shut up.-

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

While it is possible to pick up OCD-like habits, especially if you live with someone with OCD, but I agree that it's used far too often.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

*CDO

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Same with alot of the others listed above.

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I knew a guy in college who had to leave and re-enter a room until he left "right" some times he would come back to class 15 min later just

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

to enter and exit a few more times because he hadn't gotten it right earlier.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I work in a mental health crisis department. We call our detailed data tracking spreadsheets "OCD sheets." 1/2

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Because humor is one of the only coping mechanisms in an otherwise frankly emotionally draining line of work. 2/3

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

We probably shouldn't be so flippant, but we literally talk people off the edge on a daily basis. We've kind of earned it. 3/3

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

But what the gif in op said is kinda accurate. Can confirm, I have ocd.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Your not using a full stop after your sentence is rigging up my OCD.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I used to be OCD but somehow got past it. For example, I used to check the washer about twenty times every time I did laundry to make sure

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

It was at the correct setting.

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i went through psychologists like mad when i was a kid because it was clear to me that i knew more about what it was like than they did

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Pedantic, meticulous, fastidious, scrupulous. Thats why multiple words were invented meaning similar things but for varying context's

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I’ve noticed most mental disorders are thrown around by people self diagnosing.

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most are just normal brain interactions. Until they see a psychologist or psychiatrist to really diagnose an issue proper,an get treatment

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That's because most mental illnesses are just extreme versions of fairly normal mental processes.

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hence the reason why im on the wait list to see a psychiatrist, see where i lie in the spectrums, since i go between extremes in emotions

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My cousin has to wash his feet before he goes to bed. If they touch anything besides his slippers before he gets to bed, he does it again.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I dated a girl that was actually OCD. God I miss her...

7 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

Did she do stuff...like...3-5 times in a row?

7 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Yeah. She couldn't not lock a door exactly 6 times.

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

How does that work? Locking and checking 5 times, or locking and unlocking several times?

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Lock. Unlock. Lock. Unlock. Lock. Unlock. Lock. Unlock. Lock. Unlock. Lock.

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

A tile is crooked? Gosh darn my fake ocd is acting up again!

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

"Bipolar" is worse in that it is hugely misdiagnosed by the mental health community because of common misconception.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah, im kinda OCD about people misusing that term

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Call it addiction until it get out of that person's control 2. Feeling someone needs to take their shoes off is a compulsion, maybe not OCD

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 4

That's just normal! What kind of savages wear their shoes inside?!?

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Exactly

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Wow , many people are dick heads and say shit with ought thinking? Water is also wet ( no hate just stating )

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I was diagnosed with it then another one said I didnt have it cuz I didn't think someone would die if I didn't clean. I cleaned to not 1

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Kill myself. At work this guy says he has it when he clearly doesnt given how shit his work is, gets more time, lot of freedom to be lazy. 2

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Hurts a fair amount cuz I have OCD through PTSD. He wants 5 mins extra on his tea breaks... :( 3/3

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It doesn't always mean cleaning, sadly I can be lazy and messy. But I have to double check everything I do, read things twice, tend to 1/2

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Buy in pairs, just little things. No thoughts of death or anything just anxiety driven panic if I dont.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I call it "Faux-C-D" when people do that.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Somethings Gotta Give from 2003 with Jack Nicholson and Diane Keaton does a pretty solid representation of OCD

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Nope. That's "As Good as It Gets" from 1997 with Helen Hunt.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Ah, yes you are correct. I always mix those ones up.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Both are good movies. Seeing Diane Keaton crying never gets old.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

i'm really anal about people misusing ocd when they mean anal.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

But "anal" isn't really a term either. They usually mean "particular" or "perfectionistic" or "tidy."

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You mean CDO, keep it alphabetically arranged.

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I know someone with OCD. He'd leave his house and lock the door. Then he'd check the door is locked. Then he'd take 3 steps from the door /1

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then walk back and check the door again. Repeat that about 5 times. He knows the door is locked but has to keep checking. He knows its /2

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irrational but he has done it ever since his house was broken into and all of his shit was stolen.

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Huge pet peeve of mine

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I try to remember to say I’m persnickety instead but sometimes I stupidly forget and say OCD.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Everyone is a little bit Obsessive Compulsive, so some people just throw it around. It's kind of like how being shy is a tiny social anxiety

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Not enough to cripple you, but it's still there. Severe OCD will fuck up your life. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy works wonders though.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Big time. I am NOT OCD, but fully aware of what it entails. It's rude to throw it or any of these terms around casually.

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I have a desire to walk on certain colored/patterned tiles when walking. I will orient my walking style in order to step on certain ones 1/2

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

when I am alone and looking down to the floor, but don’t feel the need to if not alone or looking up. Is this what slight OCD is?

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

People absolutely don't understand but neither is there understanding toward other mental illness. YOU AREN'T SPECIAL.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My family has a history of OCD. They don't know the half of it, man.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yea, I suffered OCD when I was in high school, couldn't leave the house after doing two hours routine of making sure everything is off.

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I used to be late to work because of OCD paired with ADHD. Couldn't remember a damn thing then I'd panic and come back home to double check.

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Suffered? Not now?How did you get over-thru this? I stress everyday when I have to leave even checking touching the stove, which is ice cold

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I think my OCD comes out when I get to a low point in life. It has come back a few times. I live alone n that helps a little bit

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I’m not OCD, I’m CDO. It’s the same except the letters are in alphabetical order like they should be.

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You'd only be CDO if all the other letters were alphabetical too. >

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I’m not OCD, I’m CDO. Is't eht aems ceeptx eht eelrstt aer in aaabcehillpt deorr eikl ehty dlhosu be.

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

ceiN

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yeah, I actually have been diagnosed with two types of OCD. Germaphobia and rituals. you probably don't have it, but you don't 1/2

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

WANT it! It is absolute bloody hell and I hate it. 2/2

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I'm guessing you're misunderstanding... rituals = compulsions, "germophobia" = obsession, both of which are part of one illness which is OCD

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Slight misunderstanding, yes. Thanks for clearing that up. I was diagnosed though.

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I hear ya, having to wash your hands till they’re raw and eventually start cracking because you touched a public door with your hands 1/2

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

And you can’t ignore that itching feeling till you wash your hands several times till they’re clean. It sucks.

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I’ve noticed that I’ll ball up my fists when I’ve touched something that I’ve deemed contaminated until I can wash it. Sometimes I hold it

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

For so long that I forgot why I needed to wash my hands and I’m just standing there digging my nails into my palms.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I have ocd and I am the messiest person I know.

7 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Same!

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people with OCD manage “perfection” so they’ll avoid cleaning until they can do it perfectly so In fact they can let clutter build

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

This sounds more like OCPD.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Same. But like it’s okay because it’s my mess & I know where everything has been so it still feels like I’m in control.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Also what most people are describing when they call them selves OCD is Obsesive Compulsive Personality Disorder which is a much less intense

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I am diagnosed w severe ocd. Obsessive thoughts drown out any rational ones, and my compulsions interfere with daily tasks. It suuuuucks lol

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

OCPD tends to deep six your ability to make friends, keep friends, and function in a very social or fluid environment.

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

... considering it can essentially cut you off from everyone and everything, I think calling it "less intense and crippling" is a bit cruel.

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Or Anal-Retentiveness.

7 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 1

Which is just Freud-speak for perfectionism.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Or OC-spectrum traits.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Basically.

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7 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

Version of OCD that doesnt have crippling compulsions

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It does though, like not being able to move from 1 task to another until 1st is "perfect" & then having severe anxiety if taken away from

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

what you're doing before you're done. Having 10million things to do & constant racing thoughts when really it's no big deal. Overthinking

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

We just used to call it being anal retentive - or assailed for short.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It does. But they're not imposed on the outside world. They're imposed on your own mind. How you talk, what you say, how you stand...

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

... how you do things, there's a constant back-end ruleset running that can make it impossible to do all kinds of things.

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Instead of "I must lock this door six times" it's "I must walk this way and say/not say these things or Bad Stuff will happen"

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

It can still be crippling and it's really an entirely different disorder. They share genetic liabilities but don't have the same etiology.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Not true. The difference is OCPD people think their obsessions are rational. Those with OCD know they are not being rational.

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

That's not really the main or only difference, but you're not really wrong, either. It's more complicated than that.

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Fair enough. Truth.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The main difference is for OCD, you lock and unlock a door for hours on end. With OCPD, you just lock all your doors because you fear-

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

-Robbery.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

When I try to explain to people that OCD doesn’t mean they like things to be neat/tidy/orderly, they think I’m crazy...it’s so misunderstood

7 years ago | Likes 406 Dislikes 0

Well, I see what you're saying, but is that not a type/symptom of OCD?

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I have diagnosed OCD. I am a disorganised and sometimes messy person. But all my doors are locked properly and all my "ticks" are satasfied

7 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Exactly. My minor OCD and my ADHD cancel sometimes. My room is a mess. But don't fuck with the pattern in which I eat my M&Ms.

7 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

It's a sliding scale. If I'm sitting at a table or have a coffee table in front of me I need everything on that coffee table to be aligned

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 2

to a right angle or I can't concentrate. But I don't have any intrusive thoughts that keep me from living life in a normal way

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

In psychiatry they call PureO or primarily obsessional OCD which are rumination oriented as opposed to primarily compulsive

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I have OCD and my ritual was pulling my hair out! I made post on it, hoping people would better understand OCD when they finish reading

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It's like if someone broke into your house with a gun and said they'd kill your whole family if you didn't turn the tap off all the way. /1

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

The feeling of fear and responsibility is similar, I mean. If that tap isn't closed (are you sure it's closed?) something horrible will /2

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happen and it will be your fault, so is it really closed? And the more you check something, the 'worse' your memory is (first check is /3

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

the best check). If I tried to stop my mental ritual before it was done, I felt intense physical fear, as if a dog was going to maul me. 4/4

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

There are different types of OCD. My sister is diagnosed OCD and has to have certain things in place. She doesn't complain or anything,

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Obsessive compulsive personality disorder is more similar to what people think OCD is,

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

But instead just compulsively puts things where she likes them. Mostly subconsciously doing it, too.

7 years ago | Likes 131 Dislikes 1

She might not know she does something. Like a learned reaction, or “subconscious” like shinobo23 said

7 years ago | Likes 37 Dislikes 0

Plus, like the panels show, it’s mostly internalized. Only some things once they get extreme are externalized and noticed by others

7 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 0

That's me but only with certain things, they have to be in the right spot facing the right way or it throws me off even after I've fixed it.

7 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

I'm not even remotely a neat and tidy person either lol

7 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I get anxious if I don't eat my foods in 4s, but it's such a small thing that I don't ever call it OCD. I would hate for my weird habit to 1

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Minimize a real disease/disorder that people suffer from by calling it something it's not

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Speaking as one who has had lite-OCD in the past, it's totally related to order and perfection. The bad part is when it's Compulsive.

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This.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Order and perfection don't always equal neat and tidy. My room is a mess, but I have OCD with counting, invasive thoughts, skin picking etc.

7 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

The invasive thoughts are the worst part for me. I feel like such a terrible person when i cant get rid of that one sick thought

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Yeah, I get it. You're not a terrible person. I mean, I don't know you, but odds are you're not 100% terrible.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

The perfection stereotype is closer to obessesive-compulsive personality disorder (OCPD).

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

But the main difference between them is the amount of impairment it brings to the person.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Yep, but everyone uses OCD anyway, so OCD-lite communicates my meaning.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

"Lite ocd" dude there is nothing lite about ocd.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Not the real one, no. This was more like OAQ-- Obsessive Annoying Quirks.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

For example, carrying cothes around to clean syrup bottles at restaurants, counter-spinning to make sure you never do a full turn, etc.

7 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Never do a full turn? In what context and does it feel the same as evening out numbers?

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

My guess(based on a similar compulse) is to never do a full 360 body turn from the north,east,west,south or any direction. You just 1/?

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Holy shit, no joke, I thought that was only a me thing, not doing full turns. It used to be so bad I had to plan it in advance

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

For me, if volume of anything is not set to multiples of 5 i cant focus. My whole body starts to itch and ache and I HAVE to fix it.

7 years ago | Likes 45 Dislikes 1

Honest question, do you down vote stuff that ends in 6 or 1? Or feel any urge to?

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

No. It only seems to be to do with volume. Even when i was very young

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I love when volume doesnt display a number because its kind of peaceful not having to worry about the number.

7 years ago | Likes 30 Dislikes 0

Then I count the clicks and can only adjust it in 3s :(

7 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

*Singer* "Now it's time to crank it up to ELEVEN!" *You* "NO LEAVE IT AT TEN PLS"

7 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Absolutely

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For me it's pairs/symmetry. Thankfully I have it very mild and it's something I can force myself to ignore.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Mine is multiples of 2. Everything. I eat in 2. Volume in 2. Even have 2 dogs.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Have 2 half. Ex have hot dog cut in two, problem solve?

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I appreciate that the 2's in your comment make a zigzag and are an even amount

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My worst one is thinking my son will die in his sleep if I don't check on him 5 times every 20 minutes. It's a horrible voice if I don't.

7 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

I feel you. My ADHD often distracts me from the terrible voice, but it's there. If I even THINK about the baby, I HAVE to go check on him.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I wake up every hour and HAVE to check on him. He's almost 4 and I've done this every night since birth. I have to check in on his bubba too

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Ugh, that's a long time. I hope it gets better for you.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Thank you.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's more like terrible intrusive thoughts that'll only shut up if you perform some weird ritual to calm yourself and make them quiet down.

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And for some of us, rituals don't even work. You just spin in that hole knowing these thoughts are irrational, but they. Just. Don't. Stop.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Most of these conditions aren’t understood by many people. If it’s not truly debilitating, you probably do not have these.

7 years ago | Likes 135 Dislikes 18

That sort of mindset is why it gets to the point of being debilitating before someone seeks help. It never hurts to talk to a therapist.

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Just like people think depression is just not wanting to do anything. But suddenly, when suicide is a topic, everyone "I didn't know..."

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“But just stop being sad.”

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I think sometimes it’s harder to get help when it isn’t debilitating. Sure, I can go to work and take care of my family, I’m just internally

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Screaming the whole time and find little satisfaction in it. It’s fine.

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So but like the last one tho, I think similar thoughts as the one on the right, should this be a concern?

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You could just be shy

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I’d say if it becomes very difficult to live with it or handle being around other people, you may want to talk to a professional. 1/2

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If you just get a bit nervous in public or in social situations and can handle it, I think you will be ok. I am not a doc though 2/2

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Getting a second opinion is never a bad idea, if you can afford it.

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Honestly this wasn't what social anxiety was for me. I had panic attacks just being in public for years... that said it likely turned out to

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Be misdiagnosed pOCD so I'm not sure. But when I was dx with it, it wasn't like that depiction. Everything else seemed right

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I’ve been diagnosed with two forms of anxiety. People still think I’m being dramatic. It sucks ass. Just sitting still in public doing nada

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& my heart rate careens up to like 115+. Just. Sitting. Same thing at home and it’s like 80 (I have a genetic form afib so my HR is always

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a little high). There are legit times I suddenly just get violently nauseous, feel like I’ve ran a marathon, & everything is hyper sharp &

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I literally have to sequester myself somewhere and just calm down. My aunt finally believed me when she saw the record for my Fitbit.

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They didn’t put schizophrenia, arguably the most misunderstood of all.

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I'm not sure I've ever seen someone genuinely claim to have schizophrenia. It's not an easy thing to hide without meds

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Even with meds it's not easy to hide. My mother and uncle both have it. There were times where my mother would accuse people of 1/2

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saying or doing things they didn't do. It gets harder to handle when this happens to strangers in public. 2/2

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Probably true, I just meant it’s often confused with multiple personality disorder.

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What's the to be confused about? For one, the pretend people is on the outside, for the other the pretend people is on the inside.

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That is not necessarily true. While they are definitely not well understood, we do know that there is a range between having and not having.

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Yes there is a spectrum regarding the traits, but once you cross into the line of it being a disorder the pt is unable to function normally

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And requires treatment and therapy

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Yes like everytime I eat I have to take a bite on my left side then right side of my mouth or it causes a slight panic, definitely doesnt 1/

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There’s also OCPD (obsessive compulsive personality disorder). Not a disorder, just traits that can impact life but not cause issues.

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I’ve wondered about that. I HAVE to count things five times. Whether it’s money or just something mundane I can’t carry on with my day -

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until I count what I need to five times. But that’s the only symptom I’ve ever really noticed and it’s not debilitating soooo?

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The fact that it has the word disorder in the name makes it a disorder. It differs from OCD, but pts still benefit from treatment.

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One can have OC traits and not have OCD. One can have OCP traits and not have OCPD.

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According to the DSM you can't be diagnosed unless you have the symptoms AND they're impairing several areas of your life

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But this doesn't mean that a mentally ill person can't feel better, go through a good phase, or improve.

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Impairment =/= Debilitating though. I have adhd, and it makes a lot of things hard to do, but not outright impossible.

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Agreed, I'm on the Autistic Spectrum, but high functioning. 90% of my life is normal/I can cope fine with.

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Like the autism spectrum, many of these can be said to have a range from debilitating to moderately annoying.

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Very very true. Misery loves company so there is often a high chance of you have one it’s co-diagnosed with another (except ADD I think)

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Except one of the defining factors of OCD is how much time it takes up. A waste of 45 minutes on one door constitutes OCD, where minor lock-

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-checking does not.

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But would you call not liking small talk any kind of disorder? I think that’s the key, because the disordered thinking needs treatment.

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I agree, but I would say there would be people on the low end spectrum of these that still can live a fairly normal life without treatment.

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I agree! Not liking small talk is a minor annoyance, not a diagnosis.

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No, you are just doing it again. Range is irrelevant. The point is if its not debilitating maybe you should STFU.

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I am one of the debilitated ones, but fuck me twice right?

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There’s so many variations of it too. OCD has its own “spectrum.” I have a “picking” disorder...if I have a spot in my foot, or hand, even

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The OC spectrum is fascinating if hell to live with. I have significant OC traits. My dad has OCPD.

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in my nose...I will think about it till I can “get it.” I have to pick, peel, fix, correct, whatever...which only makes it worse.

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This is one of my major ones. I try not to go to the bathroom at work because I know I'll come out with a spot on my face bleeding.

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Sometimes I don’t even realize I’m doing it until someone yells at me to stop. For me, it’s mostly scratching or peeling my skin.

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I sometimes use nail clippers on my feet, it can get bad once I get started.

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I know I have OCD as I have bizzare rituals I can't explain. Not to mention just an inane compulsion to do things "evenly" whether it's

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I feel you. Although I'm jealous you're an "even". I'm a 7s. Far easier to have the stairs end in an even than a 7. ? This is my hell....

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Chewing on both sides of mouth walking funny or using right and left hands for the same thing even if it doesn't make sense.

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I do the same things. Also when I scroll through things online, like imgur, the top of my screen must be lined up. I'll realign it a million

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Times just to make it perfect. Even if I'm not interested in reading the damn thing I'm scrolling through

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Yes! I have to have both sides of my body feel even so if I step on a crack with my left foot I have to do it in the exact same place with -

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my right foot. And it goes for everything, even pain. Also when counting I have to recount four times even if I know it’s right

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Have you been diagnosed? What you’re describing isn’t all of OCD. Does it feel like the world is ending if you can’t do these rituals? 1/2

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I have it. A lot of it is world ending panic that if I don’t do something perfectly 6 times in a row something AWFUL is going to happen 2/?

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Sometimes panic, sometimes unsettling irrational anger.

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And the thoughts of the awful thing keep replaying over and over and over again and it feels like it’s all my fault. It’s embarrassing & 3/?

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