789 pts ยท November 7, 2014
only food, I take request. but I don't share!
That's strangely motivating
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Did you say pocket????
Ho! Spotted in user sub!!!
You're a beautiful human.
But I bet you still feel like I shouldn't have kids. It's ok to feel that way, and I'm really glad that you are happy not having one. Happiness does come in different size and form. For some it's a family with kids, other it's a dog, garden and good coffee, some, wish to see the whole world and couldn't care less about having roots somewhere. For me it's feeling complete. And for that I needed kid. I know selfish. Just don't criticize someone with different choices
Change. It's not the kids the problem, it's the school! I have 3 diplomas in completely different areas. I didn't get pregnant until I was ready. I have a house, two income, and healthy kids. We just hit a bump on the road. But guess what. We were smart and we planned this possibility and got money stock in case. You see? Having kids is not always irresponsible. Even if for me missing a career opportunity is big, it's actually meaningless compared to what I've got. Thanks for making me realize
It's not a bad life choices! I'm happy for you! And you're lucky that nothing in your life have screw up so bad that you need to change you priority. Nobody can predict the future. You know what? I still have plenty of sleep too, and we are ok on the money's. Those kids were planned, and we could change nothing and our life and still be happy and everything. But I just found what I wanna do for a living. I wish I knew sooner, but hey, I couldn't guess when I would found it! So we made some
Yeah! And I have a very big tendency to do that. To tell myself that it's irreparable, that I'm cornered with no issues, that they hate me and out of spite they will do everything to make me miserable. (Cause it happened in the past) I have to take big breath and remind me that they are capable of good too. And if I come with solutions and not complete criticism, maybe it can all work out. I'll keep you updated!
Management next week. I'm hopeful and the other job is willing to wait for me for 3 months! Thanks for giving me the courage to go talk. Let's hope it goes well next week.
You know what? I did that. It went way better than anticipated. I didn't used the word garbage, but spoke for all the people with kids who got their contract modified without prior conversation with us. I told them that maybe it was hard to keep employees, but to sign a one year contract with new employees would be understandable, and for us simply offering like a 3 months leaving notice to help replenish the staff they need. they though it was a good idea and now I have a meeting with the upper
Will do that this morning. Wish me luck
Did. They will wait the longer possible time for me ... That's the only thing they can do
Hey love. Everything in life doesn't align always like you think. I'm not on the street. My kid are really well taken care of and happy, and wanted and loved. so yeah we hit a bump on the road. I'm responsible, my kids need nothing, we just want to be better. Is everything in your life went the way you wanted?
Wow what a story! So glad for you! I bet you celebrate after this time! Thanks, I hope this will happen to me too! Maybe I should go to work drunk? Hahahaha kiding
If we give up the daycare, he won't be able to work and we can't live on one income only. So now it's my low income and his good income, and it's not easy with everything costing more and more. So, that's why I'm studying, to give us a better life. He is looking for a new job too, but it's hard to find something with better condition and pay.
Since I began my studying, my so does the grocery or at least the planification, the meal prep for the super. He does the breakfast, the lunch, the dishes. We still split the cleaning of the bathroom, the floor and washing of the clothes. And taking care of the kid. While working a 40h job that he hate so we could be safe financially. Emptying his schedule when I have an exam so I can be in peace. And in all that he finds the time to make little surprise for me. Believe me, it's not 4 kids.
I see your point. But 3 kids won't really let me work on my computer. And it wouldn't be good for them too. They are young and need to be taken care of. I want to improve their life. Can't be a really less present parent. Believe me, my so step up to support me, he's been a blessing and a tremendous help, but for the well being of our kids, our couple, I've got to play my part in the house. Studying, having the kids at the same time and providing them with all the love they deserve don't work.
Good idea. I'll do that
No other daycare available so far. Many parents can't return to work because of that problem. To keep my kids there, I'd have to stay there. So I won't be able to change my career and miss my window opportunity. I'm far away from my family, and all my friends gotta work, so no possibility there. Babysitter are way over my capabilities of paying them. And no, my new employer is a very small company and they don't provide daycare... I'm still looking and hoping....
What? Sorry I'm not so good in English
No, since it's online. It would have been nice
Seams to beat me every time I have hope for myself. I want to be more. I want to feel full.
Thanks, I needed that.
Please remove me :) thanks for all the good vibe I needed it
I'm trying to be supportive but not nosy
Thanks, I think that's what they doing... It's a delicate subject and I'm not sure if she's ok to talk to me about it. She have other people.
What's Endo? Is it possible to conceive anyway? My friend are trying so much :'(
It pisses me off so much! My friend can't get of her bed when she's on her period. Her doc just told her she's overreacting! FFS...yes, she's looking for another one... Stupid doctor, yup, not better up here... Sorry
Really? Why?
That's strangely motivating
Me! Sign me up
Did you say pocket????
Ho! Spotted in user sub!!!
You're a beautiful human.
But I bet you still feel like I shouldn't have kids. It's ok to feel that way, and I'm really glad that you are happy not having one. Happiness does come in different size and form. For some it's a family with kids, other it's a dog, garden and good coffee, some, wish to see the whole world and couldn't care less about having roots somewhere. For me it's feeling complete. And for that I needed kid. I know selfish. Just don't criticize someone with different choices
Change. It's not the kids the problem, it's the school! I have 3 diplomas in completely different areas. I didn't get pregnant until I was ready. I have a house, two income, and healthy kids. We just hit a bump on the road. But guess what. We were smart and we planned this possibility and got money stock in case. You see? Having kids is not always irresponsible. Even if for me missing a career opportunity is big, it's actually meaningless compared to what I've got. Thanks for making me realize
It's not a bad life choices! I'm happy for you! And you're lucky that nothing in your life have screw up so bad that you need to change you priority. Nobody can predict the future. You know what? I still have plenty of sleep too, and we are ok on the money's. Those kids were planned, and we could change nothing and our life and still be happy and everything. But I just found what I wanna do for a living. I wish I knew sooner, but hey, I couldn't guess when I would found it! So we made some
Yeah! And I have a very big tendency to do that. To tell myself that it's irreparable, that I'm cornered with no issues, that they hate me and out of spite they will do everything to make me miserable. (Cause it happened in the past) I have to take big breath and remind me that they are capable of good too. And if I come with solutions and not complete criticism, maybe it can all work out. I'll keep you updated!
Management next week. I'm hopeful and the other job is willing to wait for me for 3 months! Thanks for giving me the courage to go talk. Let's hope it goes well next week.
You know what? I did that. It went way better than anticipated. I didn't used the word garbage, but spoke for all the people with kids who got their contract modified without prior conversation with us. I told them that maybe it was hard to keep employees, but to sign a one year contract with new employees would be understandable, and for us simply offering like a 3 months leaving notice to help replenish the staff they need. they though it was a good idea and now I have a meeting with the upper
Will do that this morning. Wish me luck
Did. They will wait the longer possible time for me ... That's the only thing they can do
Hey love. Everything in life doesn't align always like you think. I'm not on the street. My kid are really well taken care of and happy, and wanted and loved. so yeah we hit a bump on the road. I'm responsible, my kids need nothing, we just want to be better. Is everything in your life went the way you wanted?
Wow what a story! So glad for you! I bet you celebrate after this time! Thanks, I hope this will happen to me too! Maybe I should go to work drunk? Hahahaha kiding
If we give up the daycare, he won't be able to work and we can't live on one income only. So now it's my low income and his good income, and it's not easy with everything costing more and more. So, that's why I'm studying, to give us a better life. He is looking for a new job too, but it's hard to find something with better condition and pay.
Since I began my studying, my so does the grocery or at least the planification, the meal prep for the super. He does the breakfast, the lunch, the dishes. We still split the cleaning of the bathroom, the floor and washing of the clothes. And taking care of the kid. While working a 40h job that he hate so we could be safe financially. Emptying his schedule when I have an exam so I can be in peace. And in all that he finds the time to make little surprise for me. Believe me, it's not 4 kids.
I see your point. But 3 kids won't really let me work on my computer. And it wouldn't be good for them too. They are young and need to be taken care of. I want to improve their life. Can't be a really less present parent. Believe me, my so step up to support me, he's been a blessing and a tremendous help, but for the well being of our kids, our couple, I've got to play my part in the house. Studying, having the kids at the same time and providing them with all the love they deserve don't work.
Good idea. I'll do that
No other daycare available so far. Many parents can't return to work because of that problem. To keep my kids there, I'd have to stay there. So I won't be able to change my career and miss my window opportunity. I'm far away from my family, and all my friends gotta work, so no possibility there. Babysitter are way over my capabilities of paying them. And no, my new employer is a very small company and they don't provide daycare... I'm still looking and hoping....
What? Sorry I'm not so good in English
No, since it's online. It would have been nice
Seams to beat me every time I have hope for myself. I want to be more. I want to feel full.
Thanks, I needed that.
Please remove me :) thanks for all the good vibe I needed it
I'm trying to be supportive but not nosy
Thanks, I think that's what they doing... It's a delicate subject and I'm not sure if she's ok to talk to me about it. She have other people.
What's Endo? Is it possible to conceive anyway? My friend are trying so much :'(
It pisses me off so much! My friend can't get of her bed when she's on her period. Her doc just told her she's overreacting! FFS...yes, she's looking for another one... Stupid doctor, yup, not better up here... Sorry
Really? Why?