Mom left child in hot car, windows up, for 2 hours while she had an interview with child services...

Jul 22, 2019 6:31 PM

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Mom left child in hot car for two hours WHILE she was having an interview with child services.

https://www.foxnews.com/us/indiana-mom-allegedly-left-child-in-hot-car-during-interview-with-department-of-child-services-report

The kid was watching movies on a phone 'sweating perfusely' in the hot car. 86 degrees outside. Hel be fine according to police. SHE WAS MEETING WITH CHILD SERVICES AT THE TIME

Cunt

looks like she has a barbers cape on..

7 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I mean if my kid said that they didnt want to go anywhere, my response would "too bad, now lets go."

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Maybe she should put something important in the back of the car so she doesn't forget the baby /sarcasm

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

The revolving door of child services is what screws up most kids they keep sending them back to the parents. Give them a chance , a chance

7 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

I blame the child. That kid needs to get a job and stop wasting life sitting in a car watching movies. Kids these days smh

7 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 2

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7 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

Is that Casey Anthony?

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Yep. Here's a little reading: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Caylee_Anthony

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Perfusely - ha

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I know her body her choice blah blah but should we really let ppl like this breed? Im a woman and I say no.

7 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

Was she arrested by a barber?

7 years ago | Likes 377 Dislikes 6

Probably a tramp having hickies / tattoos / plus a revealing shirt.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Prison barbers need before and after portfolio shots too.

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7 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

I was thinking it was going to say 'while she was getting a hair cut'.

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ROFFLE

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Where'd she get this mug shot? Great Clips?

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

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7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Just because you can reproduce doesn’t mean you should

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

A kid was killed near here in Vancouver after 8 hours recently

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Fucking dumb people.

7 years ago | Likes 241 Dislikes 6

Fuck you. Anyone who wants context, go read through some of the comments at the bad replies. Look for this guy.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 16

You're mistaking him for @Gray365.

7 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

... is how we got into this mess.

7 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

If only dumb people would stop fucking.

7 years ago | Likes 56 Dislikes 0

This.

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

don't

7 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 3

At least not without protection

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

It's the only offer I got

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Indiana.. or North Florida as I like to call it

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

Cesspool of the midwest. Twinsies with Ohio.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

can we PLEASE lock these people in a hot car for 3-4 hours and see how they feel after? if you can't teach stupid people then punish them.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Wow she’s hot. Must have wanted the same for her child.

7 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 4

She is actually pretty ... on the outside. What a waste.

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 3

The child "Didn't want to come to the appointment." That's not an option.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Hildi’s in the hot box

7 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 3

What she doin there?!

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

What ‘cha think she doin’ in the hot box, she bein punished.

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Fuck this bitch! Double the time and toss her in as punishment.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Man if that were a dog I’d be mad

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

July and August, also known as Dead Babies and Pets in Cars Season.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

On the bright side, July is also when Mommy Makeout Day is :)

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That would make it 130° F in the car (estimated) 1/2

7 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 2

yea, I am not buying that chart... my car is parked at work in 100+ weather for 8+ hours. its not over 140 when I get in.

7 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 7

Often in the afternoon the temperature goes down. If I take the car to buy lunch it's well beyond outside temperature

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

People can bake cookies in there vehicles in Arizona currently...

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

If you park where your car is 100% shaded from sunlight, you are correct, if not; stick a thermometer in there and learn something new.

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Let’s try a joke in poor taste: how do you know the cookies on your dashboard are done?

7 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

How do you make a dead baby float? 1 dead baby and two scoops of ice cream. I learned that around third grade.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Thank you for that.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

When the kid stops screaming?

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Nailed it!

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I would have also accepted when the baby in the car seat stops crying

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

If anybody would understand you needing to bring the kids to an apt it should be child services.

7 years ago | Likes 56 Dislikes 0

Right?! I thought that too!

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I would not be surprised if the mother didn't want to give CPS any more access to her child than absolutely necessary. Kids say the 1/2

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

2/2 darndest things.

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Makes sense.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I honestly wouldn't be surprised if they didn't have accommodations for children.

7 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

MAYBE when folks are called into CPS, the first question should always be...”where are your kids right now?”

7 years ago | Likes 1640 Dislikes 3

Erm, that's probably asking a bit much from imbeciles.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

What was the reason not to bring the kid in? CPS seems like an ok place to bring kids.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Anyone old enough to remember when the late news asked " do you know where your kids are"

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Its 10pm somewhere

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

What a GREAT idea!

7 years ago | Likes 117 Dislikes 2

My step mom in law worked for CPS and she always asked but, ever heard of overworked / underpaid /underfunded?

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I'm calling CPS right now.

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

It’s 10pm, do you know where your children are?

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

"Watching a movie"

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I can tell you half would have no clue.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I also worked in CPS for 14 yrs. Not necessarily. Also they friggin lie

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

I agree or asking when the appt is made where the kids will be. Some people don’t have babysitting options

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

It would be painfully ironic if CPS was unable to provide a safe area for kids while their parents were in a meeting.

7 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Many cases of neglect that I saw as a foster parent were loving single moms working multiple minimum wage jobs with no child care support.

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

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7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I work for CPS and from my experience that question would have been followed by a lie

7 years ago | Likes 442 Dislikes 5

Me too, it's too hot in Texas to be leaving kids in the car at all, much less long enough for an interview.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Well, then you check if they actually are there... but that would probably cost money.

7 years ago | Likes 104 Dislikes 4

A lie would be nice to have on record for proving neglect though.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I ask where the kids are every time unless they are in front of me

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Sad

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Also what this person said

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Question for a CPS worker then : is there some kind of play room so that kids can come inside with their parents?

7 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

yes but I don't leave kids in it unsupervised under a rough age. During school years we have college interns, but summer... it's bad

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

At my county office there is a play room but also other rooms that aren't specifically for kids to hangout in but that they could

7 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

I'd say the kinda cunt who does shit like this wouldn't shy away from lying

7 years ago | Likes 65 Dislikes 2

Put the kids on the phone ya lying bitch! :)

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Well, they could check it.

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 2

How though? They wouldn't assume every asshole has their kid in a hot car. What if she had left them with some drug dealer? They wouldn't >

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Traipse around the city to check.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Why don't they have a supervised play room?

7 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Because that would be to fucking much like the right thing.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

$$$$

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

That was my first thought too. They could even give the kids a brief medical checkup while they're there.Might help prevent abuse or neglect

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Yea CPS doesn't do medical evLs. They can refer if the need presents itself

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That would be nice but CPS is already so staggeringly underfunded there’s no way they could muster the money to do either of these things.

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

"Underfunded". I used to foster. We had to fight hard to get approval for hockey equipment for one boy in his rec budget. Director 1/2

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

of the local Children's Aid was driving a Mercedes and they had just spent millions building a new head office with marble floors. 2/2

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Had a college professor where I’m from forget to drop his kid off for daycare and the lil lad spent the whole day in a car at 95 degree temp

7 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 1

Went to the daycare after he got off to pick his kid up only for them to say “you never dropped him off today”. lil fella didn’t make it

7 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 1

I saw this on an episode of CSI

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That's horrible. Did he end up going to jail? I hope not, it seems like that would be punishment enough. But some people will insist on jail

7 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

I would be so broken maybe jail would be the best place for me to be.

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

How the fuck didn’t he notice a dead kid in the car that afternoon? Or am I missing something?

7 years ago | Likes 34 Dislikes 0

Also some kids are small enough they are in rear facing seats and you can’t see them unless you have a mirror back there. Then again

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Physically getting in your car twice and missing that is a totally different story

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yeah this seems fishy.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

If the kid falls over and passes out, they aren't likely taking up much space or making noise. "The kid didn't make it" may imply that the

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

child was alive but unresponsive when found, but either way, I don't think bodies start to smell right away, so hard to notice there, too.

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Yeah that’s the bit that tripped me up. I thought when you die your bowels release, so the car should have stank of hot shit.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Super easy when they're rear facing

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Is there an article or anything about this? Thats fishy

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I remember this - in Raleigh, NC area iirc.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Tried to google it & so many cases I couldn’t weed through them all. Read a few where fathers were emotionally destroyed by their mistake.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Happens a lot actually

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Search for it in Evansville IN. Happened recently

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This is one of many reasons you should need a license to breed.

7 years ago | Likes 143 Dislikes 38

Oh sure, because nothing bad could come from that.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Eugenics.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

No sorry, that's fascism

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 5

ITT: literal nazis

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

That sounds like a system no one would abuse at all

7 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Government involvement in reproductive rights has gone so well in the past, let's go for it!

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*To raise kids, but ya no...

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Just make abortions legal and available, offer family planning. Sex ed and free contraceptives! Worked wonders for most of the 1st world.

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Ahhhh... Then to eugenics and forced sterilization.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This would so be abused by the system and the leaders that run it.

7 years ago | Likes 58 Dislikes 3

People abuse their right to have children too.

7 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 10

A government can cause a lot more damage than individuals.

7 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Have you SEEN what Florida Man can do?

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individuals: "hold my beer..."

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 3

Just giving free IUDs and a $500 dollar a year "no kids!" incentive would massively reduce the number of kids in bad situations.

7 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

The county I live in and some of the adjacent ones provide free LARC to inmates in their jail. Great program.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Also make abortions legal and available, offer family planning. And sex ed of course! Worked wonders for most of the 1st world.

7 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

You're frightening.

7 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 39

Nope. The stupidity of your average human is fucken frightening. Idk why but we literally are not born with the ability to parent and that i

7 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 8

s absolutely crazy. It also seems as though the dumbest of us are going backwards and getting dumber...

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 5

It may seem that way, but I'd need to see some proof that it's the case, because it seems awfully incorrect.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

More frightening than leaving a helpless child in a hot car for 2 hours?

7 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 7

So many downvotes....ignorance or malice? Look up history of eugenics (including in America).

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Because i think people should have to have training, a background check, and a mental fitness exam before being entrusted with a new human?

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I wonder how many people who have benefited humanity would not have been born. And how many rich abusive parents would have "slipped by."

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Exactly

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Unfortunately as good as this would be it is one of those super slippery slop things. Imagine how the test could be cheated and perverted

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I feel like a normal guy but a test like that would scare me. what if I cant supply my folks with grand babies. would there be a 2nd test?

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Yes, indeed. Eugenics sounds like a terrible idea.

7 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 11

Enjoy your dumb kids, dummy

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 12

Consider for a moment that you are actually arguing in favor of eugenics. What the fuck?

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Wow this is being downvoted??

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 2

The reaction to my frightening comment? Frightening.

7 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 2

So, eugenics? "Improving a human population by controlled breeding"

7 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 5

Not eugenics. Improving the quality of life for children by requiring parents to know how to raise them / care for them BEFORE having them.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Imagine how much money the ones that test you child raisning skills to approve you for breeding would make.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Honestly, I'm sure they would be paid too much, but I prefer that to the insanity that exists now with children raising children.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

^ not a comment on teen parents, rather "adults" that still behave like children.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

AKA Motivation for the Nazi party

7 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 6

Try deepening your understanding of the “motivations” of the nazi party before attaching them wildly to other concepts that you don’t like.

7 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 7

Other motivations aside, it's an inextricable fact that they were motivated by the "science of eugenics"

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

They were also motivated by economics, religion and the occult, so take that as you will.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The reqson we have people like her is because of social engineering via social safety nets and even things like medical technology. I'm not

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

arguing for their total abolishment but people should realize this fact and the arrogance of thinking we could engineer a better humanity...

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Just because they fucked it up does not the base idea is without value.

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Just like communism. In the entire history of humanity, every time it's tried they merely fuck it up, but it's still a good idea... got it

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Eugenics has been fucked up by almost every government that has tried it. The idea requires more trust than humanity is capable of.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

True. Unfortunately human nature is the problem with eugenics. Not the idea of eugenics itself. Eventually some bone head would fuck it up

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Hey. I'm not saying the Nazis were good, but they had some good ideas.

7 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 3

I feel like that's exactly how the nazis began. I'm pretty sure they didn't start with "let's murder millions of people whaddaya think?"

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Perhaps you could name a few. Invading Poland? Final Solution? The SS? Medical experiments on children and the disabled? V2 rockets?

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But... but... "I hate people"

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

V2 rockets, yes, because it led to the space program.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The autobahn and um... um... ok just the autobahn.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yup. And now she lost both kids to child services, and rightly so.

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Welp, time to pump out another one.

7 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 1

Probably her plan

7 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 1

Good! A cousin somehow has all 3 kids after leaving them in a hot car and straight up LOSING one for hours. Idk how she has them still.

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Note: lost one while screwing some rando. Boy was like 2, she didn't report it for like 3 or 4 hours. Luckily found unharmed in the woods.

7 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

IN THE WOODS.

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To be fair, she lived IN the woods already, but yea. I think about a mile away in the woods. Terrifying

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Some people should just not procreate. Period

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

It's such a process for single people/same sex couples to adopt children in some areas, yet people like her are free to have as many 1/2

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

kids as they want.

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

“Where are your kids now?” Her: “oh they’re in the car.”

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Side note: crazy that kids will accept those conditions as long as they have a screen. Screens are the devil. Yes I'm aware of the irony.

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Sounds like that’s what she wanted. Unburden me please.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This is why we need to keep abortion legal, 75th trimester abortion

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Child services is HOW you loose children not WHAT you lose

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

so the child survives!

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Wish I could upvote this more than once.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Must've been convenient for them

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Ty for confirming what i wanted to know.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Lost both kids and is currently pregnant. Incredibly sad.

7 years ago | Likes 201 Dislikes 5

She should start taking it in the rear.

7 years ago | Likes 122 Dislikes 4

But that's are how lawyers are made...

7 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 3

What how is that possible she was at DCS with a 4 day old newborn

7 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

She signed an AMA discharge at the hospital.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You cant get pregnant 4 days after giving birth

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Not with that attitude.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I didn't see that she had the child already. We share mutual friends on social media but missed that in the article.

7 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 3

"Leave something important that you won't forget about in your back seat. That way, you won't forget the child back there."

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I've never understood that. My child is the most important thing I could leave back there. If I treated them like a phone or wallet they'd -

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It's not that the child is unimportant. It's autopilot mode. You've done this a million times without checking the back seat.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Be missing a long time ago. Plus it's a pretty large item compared to anything else. Well except the dog, but he never stays in the car

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

This is commonly misunderstood. It's not that the kid is unimportant, it's that most forgotten child cases occur when the driver doesn't

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Normally have the kid, and drives their everyday route to work on autopilot, like we all do.

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Happened to me once. Total autopilot mode. Fortunately it hit me when I was only a couple steps away from the car. Scared the shit outta me

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I don't give a flying f*ck, I NEVER forgot my kids! For one thing, they were incredibly noisy...

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

"I never make a mistake ever!" Bet you have your own mommy blog too

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I know her personally.. Lost rights to her first child due to drugs. Just had a baby only a few days ago and now lost custody of him.

7 years ago | Likes 72 Dislikes 0

Her son that was found in the car watching movies was drenched head to toe in sweat.. She didn't even leave him anything to drink..

7 years ago | Likes 41 Dislikes 0

How you know her?

7 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Grew up in the same small town. Everyone knows everyone type of town. I was friends with her for a few years.

7 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

Apparently he was locked in the car for nearly 2 hours before police arrived. So sad to see people I grew up with make the awful decisions.

7 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 0

How are bitches like this not forced to lose their reproductive abilities. What a fucking cunt

7 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 12

AGREED.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Whoa, too far man. Jail and lose the kids but let’s not support genital mutilation in the USA.

7 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 15

How many US males are circumcised as infants now?

7 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 8

That's not what genital mutilation does. You're looking for the phrase "forced sterilization". (also, gm has been in vogue in the US for 1/

7 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 2

centuries; we just do it to men instead of women.) 2/2

7 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 3

I don’t think suspending people’s abilities to have children when they’ve proven themselves incapable of doing so is to far. On the contrary

7 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 2

“Incapable” is subjective and I would not want to give our government the power to choose who can and can’t procreate.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I think we have a moral obligation to do so to make sure that people like her cant continually harm children.

7 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 2

Hopefully only temporarily and the mother decides to fix her life up and make better choices

7 years ago | Likes 173 Dislikes 57

Reunification with family is always the primary plan, barring exceptional circumstances.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

If someone leaves their kid in the car to go to a meeting about if they can care for that kid, then they don't get to have kids anymore.

7 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

DFCS goal is always family preservation. They'll ask for some bs parenting class and give them back.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Source- family member has had children taken multiple times, always gets them back with nearly zero effort on her part

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I won't downvote optimism, but that crosses a line I think. I would hesitate GREATLY to give those kids back.

7 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

The state deeming you unfit to care for your children and then taking them away would change some people I think. On a very primal level.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I know, my ex lost his from alcoholism, & then he gave up on recovery. But, still, you take children away for their good not the parents'.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I love your optimism. X

7 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

After reading link, maybe she has mental health issues?

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

We don't take kindly you positive types. You and your hopeful outlooks, disgusting. +1

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You are a much better person than I am.

7 years ago | Likes 131 Dislikes 2

Yeah .... No. She lost her rights. They should be permanently taken away

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

You can't possibly be that naive.

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 6

Thank you! Much better and more positive than the rest of these comments :)

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Not optimistic, naive.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Sadly, she won't. She is one of the most selfish people I've ever met. I've seen her tell her child that she couldn't afford to buy him food

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Only to turn around and buy cigarettes and pop for herself.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I seriously hope she gets the help she needs to turn herself around. And be a good mother to her children. But knowing her past.. she wont.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That's damn hopeful of you, but I honestly doubt she'll change

7 years ago | Likes 85 Dislikes 2

It can happen. I’ve seen it.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

So do I. But hey, losing your kids might fuck your mind in just the right way

7 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 3

Clearly she was already in danger of losing her kid and that didnt change shit

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Eh, my cousin lost his kids to his ex so when they got back together he crashed his car into a wall with both kids inside.

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Why is there a connection?

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

She already lost all rights to her oldest son due to drugs. Now this? I doubt she'll learn a thing.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Worked for an old co-worker of mine. She got sober has been clean for years and is a great mom. Unfortunately I bet she's in the minority

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You can’t fix stupid

7 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 6

People can change for the better. Not often but it happens

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

How many chances does she get? Until she kills one?

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Education and wisdom seem to help.

7 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 2

Education teaches things. Not intelligence

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Yup. My grandmother often spoke of a particular 'educated idiot'. You can learn certain things, but no one can teach you common sense.

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Educated people can be stupid to, stupid is as stupid does.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

are the kids much better off? fixing the mother would probably be much better for them.

7 years ago | Likes 52 Dislikes 188

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

I just read a bunch of this guys comments do yourself a favor and do not fucking read them. Cause fuck me sideways this dudes a moron.

7 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 2

Y’all need to calm down with the downvotes. The person seemed to be a caring person asking a good question. Not everyone has seen the worst

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 5

No, they're an ass playing Devil's Advocate even though they didn't bother to read the article.

7 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

The kids would probably end up dead before they fixed the waste of skin

7 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Well, hopefully they’ll be placed with someone who isn’t going to kill them due to neglect.

7 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Nah they're not much better off. Hopefully bshe just lost them to a relative with a stable home

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

She doesn't want him, she wants the check from the state I imagine.

7 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 2

you make a classic mistake. you need to assume only a monster would do such a thing, just so you feel safe.

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 19

I'm not sure what "safe" means. I'm have 3 kids and I would die if I lost my kids. They are the 2nd most precious to me (wife is 1st)

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 2

sure, and have you heard of car accidents? can they happen to anyone? or do you believe they only happen to others?

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 16

Maybe, but I've fostered kids that were given back to parents who clearly didn't want them and just wanted the money they got. 1/2

7 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

It is stupidly easy to get your children back after endangering their lives, and requires next to no proof of capability as a parent.

7 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

You can't fix stupid or indifference.

7 years ago | Likes 166 Dislikes 12

Ed-u-ca-tion

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 13

That fixes ignorance, not stupidity or indifference.

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Education is the first step. Last time I checked no requirements to become a parent..

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

Apparently she has a drug problem- if severe then getting her clean might make difference. If is casual then u right, she just don’t care.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Very good point.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

yes you can

7 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 108

Only with sterilization. And thats un-ethical

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

let me guess, you were rooting for Thanos?

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 8

What would you do to "fix the mother" so this doesn't happen again?

7 years ago | Likes 33 Dislikes 2

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