Wife cheated and lied. I bought a van going to travel out west

Mar 16, 2022 7:49 PM

Wife cheated and lied for months. Just continuous lies. I honestly don't know what to do without her. It's hard to not talk to her, she's the one I've always wanted to talk to.

Bought a van and going to travel to places I've always wanted to visit. Nervous and scared of being alone but excited to see and experience new things.

Good luck with that piece of shit. Chrysler minivans are infamous for transmission failures, electrical problems, and general malaise.

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Super proud of you for traveling. You will do well, this is good for you. Liars suck butt

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I've done a 7000 mile drive alone. It's doable, but it'll be a mistake if you don't follow up with therapy. Do both at the same time.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Long as you know where you have to keep it parked @OP

4 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

OR stay and make sure you get the house

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Good size for alpaca, fireworks and beef jerky

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Is that him parked behind you?

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You got proof right? Last thing you want is to pay alimony later

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Good luck! Ahem bring money

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Put a couple grand aside for a transmission.

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Take her with you. Maybe the drive will give you an opportunity to talk to her. - Sincerely, Brian Laundrie

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What kind of things do you like or want to try? There're plenty of us Imgurians "out west" who could suggest places and things less known.

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Although some of the well-known stuff is pretty cool too.

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Great! Now all you need is a river.

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Have casual sex. it will help

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My husband cheated and lied but I can’t leave yet bc we have a child together….you’re lucky

4 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 2

Same here..except wife. I want to leave often but can't be of my 2 kids. I can't bare to think about my little girl calling my name at nigh

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

*night and me not being there to comfort her.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

@MrPoopyButtholeLovesMeeseeks I'm going to advise that you hire a divorce lawyer & make sure that her ass is in a sling before leaving town.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Being alone for some time will help you Reflect upon the situation, and feel alive. Adventure awaits! Keep money in different places!!!!

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

You got this, @OP! Adventure, travel, and change can heal a busted heart like drugs, alcohol, and sex with strangers only wish they could!

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry, man. Much strength to you. I think van & journey are a fantastic idea.

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

File for separation. Get your finances in order.

4 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

I'm jealous of the opertunity.enjoy yourself while you can

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Solo road trips are dope. Everyone in the car likes your music, everyone pees when you pee and wants to eat at the same place you do.

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So fuck your wife! Someone else sure did.

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Good luck. I hope you find yourself on your journey.

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https://www.facebook.com/groups/vanlifers/about/ You may be alone, but you don't have to be lonely.

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? at FarmersOnly.com ?

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Watch out for dysentery

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Remember that you can only carry 100 pounds of food back to the wagon while hunting. Shooting more than one large animal is a waste of ammo

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Thanks for this lol

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It’s not about the ammo it’s about sending a message

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Maybe it was the username

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Oooooooooh-weee!

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valid comment.

4 years ago | Likes 99 Dislikes 0

*despite the username.

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Ain't no Conqueeftador.

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Always check the username

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Hmmm.... I have doubts

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Are you certain?

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Buy a National Parks Pass ($80). Keep emergency supplies in your vehicle, like water, food, a sleeping bag, etc.

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Better, buy an outdoor atlas. Shows all national forests and private land in the US by state. If ever in question, ask the local NP office.

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That's all I do in CO for free, dispersed camping. Most major truck stops have atlases, and the local ranger has the best info and maps.

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Or ask a local outdoor equipment store for the best local place to camp. Locals are a great source @OP

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For safety sake,, Let close friend know where u are along your trip, aka ETA on / for certain place, days. Adventure safely!!

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Also, if possible, a Garmin inReach. Helps when you are stuck in The middle of nowhere with no cell service. Or, good old - share itenerary

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Yes, I bought that pass last October cuz we were supposed to go on a trip, then everything blew up and didnt go.

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Check out Great Sand Dunes NP in Southern Colorado. It's a cathartic experience. Take the short hike to Zapata Falls also.

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As you get out west, there's also a lot of Bureau of Land Management land, which is mostly free to use (limitations apply).

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Look for intro to overlanding tutorials and forums. If you ignore the tacti-cool gear hype, there's lots of good advice to be found.

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Visit Utah! Five National Parks all close together! It's beautiful here :)

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That is for sure on the list to spend time in

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Utah has some quality state parks btw. Snow Canyon, Kodachrome Basin, Goblin Valley. Plus, you'll have Grand Staircase-Escalante Nat. Mon.

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Coral pink sands is also amazing! You can sled down a sand dune

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A lot of the big natl parks are on a reservation system now for entry; so heads up, plan accordingly, and have fun!

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Why's that?

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Dunno if you've noticed, but there's still a debilitating virus going around, that tends to spike in large gatherings.

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Dunno if you've noticed but transmission in outdoor spaces is negligible.

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I'm still not leaving the house without a mask. I choose life.

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Because everybody's decided to visit national parks and it's putting a strain on them.

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So in order to control the amount of people at any given time, they've created a time entry. They did this at Zion in 2019.

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Ah, gotcha. Didn't know if it was still a covid thing or understaffing

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The pandemic has caused a massive increase in visitors, exacerbating what social media and FOMO has began.

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