Complaining into the void

Jul 15, 2026 4:29 AM

ejw909

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Excited for a new job with a better company! Even got a singing bonus to help with relocation. Can't find anywhere to live.

We're basically ideal tenants, dual 6 figure salaries, 800+ credit scores, no other debts at all. Glowing references from previous landlords for us humans and our dog. Our dog Maddie just happens to be an American Straffordshire Terrier.

Even places that are "dog friendly" will sit on the application and wait until someone else with no dog applies and accept them instead.

Apparently this gremlin, Maddie, is too dangerous to live anywhere. She's only 35lbs and is only dangerous to squirrels and tennis balls. But insurance companies don't seem to care. Nobody will rent to us. Unless we're willing to go >60 mins away from work which is crazy.

@op Happen to have a mental illness and seeing a psychiatrist or therapist? If you get your dog registered as an emotional support animal they have to let you have it.

2 weeks ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

35lbs ≈ 15.9 kilograms or 2 stone, 7 pounds

2 weeks ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

But she looks so polite!

2 weeks ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Maybe look for a dog friendly place and you tell them you don't have a dog yet but planning to get one? After everything is signed just move in? I don't know if that breaks some rules tho

2 weeks ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

That sucks. Pitties are the sweetest little goofballs. I hope you find something !

2 weeks ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Word of advice, you don't have a pitbull, you have a pug mix. Cuz you're consciencous about pugs not being able to breed so you sought out a breeder that is working to fix their snouts and their joints ;)

2 weeks ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

That's hilarious 😂

2 weeks ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Get her registered as a "plott hound mix" what my buddy did for his pittie, if you have to go to a vet for a check up do it

2 weeks ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That's so very clearly a boxer/labrador mix. (It's the usual label they get here at animal shelters)

2 weeks ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

keep looking on the outskirt of the city as well. You might get lucky

2 weeks ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I'm trying to commute by train so I can't get too far away. Moving to a major city was appealing for more job opportunities. But the living opportunities are shit. Especially when you have a dog that is discriminated

2 weeks ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

wat city ?

2 weeks ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Boston

2 weeks ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

shit, wrong coast i'm out in 99xxx land
great city Boston, I dog sat for years while a buddy did Affragistan

2 weeks ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You're prolly better off in an Air BnB or similar with that kinda income. Then start finding an actual home / condo you can start attempting to mortgage. Even $3k a month with a small backyard BnB is less than 40k a year.

2 weeks ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Any family or friends willing to take the dog in until you can find a better place? I say, if you can, get your job and living arrangement settled first and then figure out the longer-term project of where to live that will take your dog. Don’t lose a great opportunity if you don’t have to.

2 weeks ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

It may come to that. My spouse doesn't like the idea of "dumping" our dog on family but until we're settled in a new city we may not have a choice.

2 weeks ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Having been the dog vacation destination on multiple occasions, just make sure you work out vet info and what costs (food, etc) you'll cover before leaving your dog with someone. I was actually pretty sad when a family member got married and we weren't needed to dog sit anymore.

2 weeks ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Think of it more like your dog is couch surfing instead of dumping

2 weeks ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Fuck those places. Don't disclose breed. Lab-mix if they demand it. Fuck them dog-racist bigots.

2 weeks ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 3

Yup my bruce is the gentlest beings with 4 legs and a tail but not enough for some people

2 weeks ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

The restrictions are insane. They want vet records, photos and even if your dog "looks like" it has the visual appearance of a "dangerous breed" it's banned. No mixes allowed. 0% dangerous breed allowed.

Trying to find for rent by individual owners isn't going much better. Many say pets allowed on the advertisement but say not allowed on the actual application. Bait and switch.

2 weeks ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

That sucks my friend. Good luck, and pibble speed.

2 weeks ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

"Dual six figure incomes" and you need to rent? That doesn't add up

2 weeks ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 4

You must not be familiar with how expensive some states and metro areas are.

2 weeks ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Moving to a new state. Not buying immediately before I learn the area. It's also brutally expensive in Boston.

2 weeks ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

You might want to try extending your search area down to the Lakeville/Freetown/Taunton area. Commuter rail service is pretty decent and it's way more affordable.

2 weeks ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Look into have them certified as emotional support dogs, I believe they can't be denied or charge you pet rent or a extra deposit.

2 weeks ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

Emotional support animals didn't get the same rights as actual trained service dogs, because they didn't require any actual training or certification. Just twenty bucks for a vest from Amazon and a paper that means absolutely nothing. People have abused the loophole so much it's closed.

2 weeks ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Emotional Support Animals are still allowable under the Fair Housing Act. Generally, a note from a treating medical professional should be able to provide evidence of them being used for that purpose.

Trained Service Dogs are under the Americans with Disabilities Act which regulates their use in public spaces.

2 weeks ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Many claim no exceptions for ESA. And insurance companies are famously rigid and litigious. So no landlords will bend the rules.

2 weeks ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Well that is some bullshit.

2 weeks ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

https://bulletins.ncrec.gov/fair-housing-9/ The Fair Housing Act still requires accommodation of an emotional support animal. If someone says they don’t, report them to the local FHA.

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