JeremiahWilliams2718
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Jun 3, 2022 10:42 PM
JeremiahWilliams2718
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Makerofthingsmasherofstuff
*blocked number*
livinglife9009
Been there before. Sucks ass. Glad they’re gone.
moonpie1024
Who does that?!? I’ve never even thought to do that
florpglorp
If you cant afford to rent a room without a significant other or afford to date someone do you just be single with roommates/parents 4 ever?
Wrenfield
FB has taught me some of my friends are downlow SWs in some capacity and they throw their cashapp deets on everything. I was NOT ready.
CaptainMarkoRamius
"Damn, that's crazy."
Mostlydeadpool
she's fishing for a sugar daddy.
Chikun31
She gonna have to settle for a Splenda daddy.
OogaOogaMooshka
I’d be “gone like a fart in a whirlwind” as my hubby says.
Neonbaron
Funny im about 80 short of my rent then see how quick she blocks you
JohnBrooks2001
"Sorry,wrong number" I mean why pursue that any further?
astrangehop
The "Light bill" lol. Maybe you'll have to pawn the hifi
300Hectares1TankofKerosene
“Damn that sucks, wanna come over?” Thats how you handle that.
Argon14
I fell for this once, ONCE, but did get some nice pictures and videos from the exchange
BonafideHomicide
Go ahead and downvote, but then stop bitching about how lonely you are while expecting perfection... Hey, maybe you're the problem!
vash77
69ronin
LammaFace
Hahaha!!!
Aurosanda
My brother is dating this girl. She constantly shit tests him to validate her insecurities. Also every ex was abusive. It's pathetic.
ReposterCallerOuterMan
can someone explain this to me
Wolfmor
It's a manipulative response in hopes you feel bad for them and give them w/e they need. It doesn't even have to be after a date
tepidreindeer
The guy thinks they hit it off then the chick fishes for money
Brandensballin
Many men want to "good deed" their way into getting laid, often called white knighting, some women take advantage of that and extort money.
Bracabrad
It's cheap prostitution. Pay them cash for maybe ass. just be honest about what you want and you either get blocked or a good time.
Skumbo
dam that sucks
shadownetlegend
Lucky me i haven't got a females number in...8 or 9 years lol
metalrulercid
Thots and prayers
BonafideHomicide
Speaking from personal experience, if I'm truly interested in you, I'll cover half to all expenses, (I'm a decent looking woman) 1
EmphasisKnown5696
Don't bother, a neckbeard dreamed up this scenario so he could complain. You don't need to apologise on behalf of it.
BonafideHomicide
If you are interested in me and I don't pay for things, it's discussed at length that I will still pay attention to you if you want, 2
BonafideHomicide
but the financial part will be on him. I'll still be very nice, cause, well, everyone needs someone.
BonafideHomicide
Go ahead and downvote, but then stop bitching about how lonely you are and how shitty the dating world is... Hey, maybe it's YOU!
MinxyJinx
Oh it seems it’s definitely you my dear. People deserve fair partners. You just came off as an uncaring parasite. Don’t ruin people’s lives
OddSam93
The ones i get generally use mental illness an an excuse.
Alavar
Hey im going through this right now lmao. Not begging for money, she actually makes more then me but holy shit she's....not okay....
zvae
you typed this comment, yet are still engaging with this person. whatever happens from here out, you choose. choose wisely.
Alavar
Eh I actually might cut things off tonight honestly.
zvae
sounds like that would be good. there's no healthy future with someone you feel compelled to type a comment like that about. good luck bro.
Feardain
My current GFS boobies tried to kill her to the tune of stage four, but she survived, she's hilarious, and super independent.
AmityvilleHodor
New Gen of hoes really got no initiative
tzahtman
The tech used might be new but assholes are not.
Justchillindylan
Most accurate thing I’ve heard all day
TheDirtySanchezBros
Truth.
Jaron58
LokiShinigami
Now I ain't saying she golddigger....
thepuppeteer777
Penny digger?
Ironblitz
But she ain't hanging out with some one who is morally unwilling to pay her bills. Maybe he'd be willing if the AC wasn't on all day Janet!
stonedlikeicheckedoutmedusa
If someone wants to pay for my attention or company, I’m not going to say no. I’ll wear that ho badge with pride AND an extra $40
TheresAlwaysSomething
Lmao imagine being the literal definition of a meme'd on joke and having no problem with it.
albinoblksheep
I'll give you 40 dollars to hang out with me.
PhurbuMukpodom
That’s actually a good offer from somebody who could just beat me up for those $40 though!
stonedlikeicheckedoutmedusa
Lmao I’ll do that part for free! Erotic asphyxiation costs extra, though ?
PhurbuMukpodom
floopdawoop
Is this something people actually do?
EmphasisKnown5696
Only in the imagination of neckbeards trying to figure out why women don't like them. Like sure dude... they're all golddiggers. Eyeroll.
roosengreen
You sure do spend a lot of time trying to call anything and everyone a neckbeard/ incel.
Argon14
I fell for it once, she at least sent me some nice pics afterwards
reallynotmikepence
Sure is. Not super common, but it happens.
mercilessloki
More common than not in my experience.
Wolfmor
Bro yes and it doesn't even have to be a date. I avoid small talk with coworkers because of stuff like this lol
Wolfmor
"My car broke down, guess I gotta Uber or find someone to drive me home". Next thing you know you're a part-time Uber
Dociousaliexpilisticfragicalirepus
Only ratchet ass hoes of both the male and female variety.
pugcashingout
Depends on kind of people you hang out with
onecowboytoo
Yes, pretty much all my matches on any dating site lol.
peggleforscale
There’s all kinds.
PerfectManhattanUp
Yeah it's bizarre but some people really do call the electricity bill "the light bill."
aThingWithTheStufAndTheJunk
Not in my world but it wouldn't surprise me if it did in someone else's.
zvae
as a woman with a lucrative career, yes. men do this to me often. "hey, what's up?" "nothing my car just broke down it sucks" like... oof.
RedFairladyZ32
I did this unintentionally, once. My fun car broke down on vacation. I was complaining about it, because I was on vacation. I wasn't looking
RedFairladyZ32
For a handout, I was just venting. I know now not to open my mouth when it involves financial inconveniences ??♂️
zvae
i think your tone really matters in this situation, BUT i generally believe that finances shouldn't really be a point of discussion with ¹
zvae
anyone you don't know well enough to be sure of how they'll read your intent. some things just aren't great first-date convo generally. ²
HelloThere1812
What's your career?
zvae
i'm a writer.
HelloThere1812
? What have you written?
zvae
mostly gay fanfiction. but also some large government contracts. the duality of man.
DoofusMagnus
She steals catalytic converters from the men she meets.
zvae
shh.
HelloThere1812
vakler
Look, as the female breadwinner in all of my relationships (romantic & platonic). I have sugar momma goals. Don't touch my cars.
stonedlikeicheckedoutmedusa
What is this platonic breadwinner you speak of?! I want one
schwiftyPop
Hi, yes, I also have cars that I don't like to be touched. I'm pretty sure where soulmates
zvae
okay that gif is fucking adorable. i'm losing it
vakler
Okay I see your Nissan and raise you:
schwiftyPop
Ooh
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vakler
I can't find pics of my R34. But it wouldn't matter. You win. ❤️ Look, I might be a little in love already
GTAlex74
Can I touchy the Onevia if I let you touchy my happy boï ?
schwiftyPop
R34 you say? I think we all know who the real winners are. It's us ❤️
llcoolj
I’m going on date 5 tmrw and wondering if I can ask her to split the dinner bill. Ladies help me out.
SomeDetroitGuy
You all young people are weird about this shit but back in the day you alternated hosting dates. This whole "the guy always pays" is new.
ToasterDent
What, are you like 30? Back in the 1950's the guy always paid.
ArcaneM37
Discuss this BEFORE you go
paklexx
I’m going on a third hangout with someone and honestly we’ve split everything up to this point. Makes more fun w/o oblg or expectation
PrincessWasabi
Make a first date coffee lol
wikidleaf
Could ask and see how she responds and that should tell you if you dodge a bullet.
stonedlikeicheckedoutmedusa
If there’s a big wage disparity try to adjust your expectations a bit, like one of you pays for dinner and the other pays for dessert.
stonedlikeicheckedoutmedusa
It’s absolutely fine & fair to want to split expenses at this point…just make sure the actual split is fair, not necessarily 50/50
Wooie
Wtf mate, my Lovey and I went dutch to begin with and now we just rotate who pays every Friday night. Its ok, Dutch is totally fine
KitchenClean
https://www.marketwatch.com/story/should-the-man-always-pick-up-the-check-2014-11-04?mod=article_inline
GingFreecssjr
Offer to stay in and cook together. It's a money saver and romantic. Offers you a window into her teamwork skills.
Tr4plie
What's your charisma level?
IrishPub
Unless I am planning an actual date, then it's split every time. I also don't date women that won't pay or split bills, as a rule.
DumbShitIsMyTrigger
Text "hey for dinner tomorrow, you mind if we split?". And if she can't, reschedule but keep it lighthearted. Offer something that doesn't -
DumbShitIsMyTrigger
-cost money as an alternative
DumbShitIsMyTrigger
I'm a lady btw and I'd much rather have it brought up BEFORE we sit down to dinner. It's practical and polite to give a heads up rather than
DumbShitIsMyTrigger
spring it after we get there and use it as some sort of test to gauge my reaction
HoneyBunchesOfStoats
I wouldn't have any problem splitting. Some people can be touchy about it, but it's better to know that about them sooner rather than later.
HoneyBunchesOfStoats
Just ask ahead of time and don't surprise them with it at the restaurant. You could also suggest alternating who pays
KitchenClean
1-She hasn’t offered yet, not even to leave the tip? If you like her, have a conversation about this. People come from different backgrounds
KitchenClean
2- In some households and cultures, men are always supposed to pay. Maybe that’s how she was raised. But that doesn’t mean you guys can’t
KitchenClean
3- go Dutch moving forward. But asking at dinner wouldn’t be right. Ask at another time, like after dinner. Don’t put her on the spot.
IPrefertheNight
Woman here - don’t text in advance! That makes it weird and serious. When the check comes say “want to split it?”
magnificentfurmaster
The day is OK and the sun can be fun- but I live, to see those rays slip away. https://youtu.be/ognBcHjlcJo
youeitherlikeordislike
Also a woman here: completely agree with this! Keep it casual and light; a text beforehand makes it a bigger deal than it is. imo, obviously
ilovedavidbowie
As a lady who prefers dutch, an easy way to do this: ask her to shout the drinks/dessert, you shout dinner and swap approach on 2nd date.
AoEnwyr
If you’ve paid the last 4 times without your date even offering to split, have that conversation before it goes any further.
Decemberscrow
The rule I learned was the one who proposed the date pays until you're a few dates in and work something else out.
hotfezz
4 times?? Paying twice is generous. Believe in yoself king
rachhface
100%. If he pays the first one, I will absolutely get the second one.
stonedlikeicheckedoutmedusa
Just be kind when you bring it up. Sometimes it’s a point of genuine humiliation for not being able to chip in, not taking advantage :/
MadamPuddifoot
Why would you go on 4 dates of you can't afford to help pay for even 1 of them?
stonedlikeicheckedoutmedusa
Because being poor isn’t a fair reason to be miserable or alone? Because dates don’t have to cost extra money; I can cook?
MadamPuddifoot
... I'm saying why would you go on FOUR days and make the other person pay every time. When I'm broke I don't go out just for a free meal
zvae
looks like mostly dudes responding. lady here. this is an individual preference, between you and her. do NOT spring this question in a ¹
sweetcatastrophe
Also a lady but a broke one. While I usually split one a date, springing an unexpected expense on me with no notice would not be chill
sweetcatastrophe
ESP if you've set precedent that it's on you when you guys go out.
zvae
wording is everything, but unless someone has stated they'll pay, going out when you can't afford to is no one else's fault.
sweetcatastrophe
BUT if someone has taken me out a handful of times on the understanding that they would cover it and then ambushed me with paying 2/
sweetcatastrophe
Totally agree. As previously stated, I typically split or pay outright and don't accept invites when I can't cover it.
zvae
text before meeting with her. that looks cheap. discuss it over dinner. suggested wording: "hey, since i've paid the past few times, would ²
zvae
you mind getting tonight?" and her reaction will tell you everything you need to know. you may end up paying again, but then you have the ³
zvae
information you need to proceed with. ALSO- if this is someone you'd like a long-term relationship with, and you expect equal financial ⁴
zvae
contribution from her, i'd HIGHLY suggest asking her to pay for the night in full. offer to pick up the TIP. you paying 100% four times ⁵
Feralkyn
(As another woman) I agree with the first part--for any couple--but I wouldn't spring it over dinner, she might not be ready to pay if he's
Feralkyn
done the last *four.* I'd bring it up for a potential future date--"do you wanna go out again, maybe split the bill somewhere" and see.
Feralkyn
Personally I think it's odd she isn't offering, though, already.