Japanese people are known for their strong sense of community and their willingness to help each other out. Unlike the Americans.

Jan 22, 2024 12:31 PM

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This feels like an unfair comparison. Japan is pretty much an ethnostate so they're very culturally homogeneous compared to the melting pot of the US. Seems easier to care for the land when you're connected to it from generations. I'm sure Japan has some good but the US does too, just like there is bad in both countries.

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i too think the habit with the masks is great. however i always wonder how much of it is "i care for the other people" and how much is "if i don't conform, i get the crap beaten out of me by society.".

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I find the service thing sad actually. Japanese service workers are paid crap to provide great service just because that's the expectation. So that's wage theft basically. America's tpping culture is almost better.

2 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 3

The work culture over there sounds absolutely, terrifyingly exploitative, and that's from someone who works in the US restaurant industry.

2 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Hay Japan when you.start cracking down on your racism and fear of others not In your little in groups... we will talk

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

that esculator thing is also a thing in most uk places and the netherlands

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Question: If people don't eat on the trains and streets, where does one eat all their tasty convenient store foods and throw away the trash? I'm legit curious as I've never traveled there?

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

They do eat on trains, and there are plenty of food shops in the main stations. Supermarkets & Konbini have trash bins inside / outside.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Except that even Japan has mask protestor idiots during covid. And way more than you'd think from a society that wears them when sick to begin with.

2 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

"Providing excellent service because it's your job and not for tips". Umm, this isn't the reason people at restaurants don't always provide 'excellent' service. In fact, many do despite the tipping culture. The problem is that THEY ARE HORRIBLY UNDERPAID for the job they are asked to do. And tipping (especially a certain percent) should NEVER be based just on the position, but on the quality of service and/or food.

2 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

Many of these things are common in most places in the world - NZ, most of Australia, Norway, Singapore.
Bar the convenience store thing, Japanese コンビニ are amazing.

2 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

"thing; thing, japan" vibes

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This sense of community is so strong that they hate outsiders infringing on it

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Yep, that's sociology for ya. People from other places that deviate from the local norms of comfort you are used to is why there is tension with foreigners from any part of the world. They might not realize it's a big deal, but to the local, they're breaking a standard of decency.... Yesterday, a tourist stood WAY too close to me while I was paying at cvs. Super rude, but they're so used to no personal space they had no idea. (ya gotta respect the local's rules and comforts)

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I've adopted masking up when I don't feel fabulous. Honestly it's kinda embarrassing it took a global pandemic for me to adopt it

2 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

The escalator thing is more of a city resident common etiquette thing than a japanese thing. I live in a large American city and 90% of the people stand on one side of the escalator to let other walk up if they wish.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I’ve been all over the US and I find the opposite to be FAR more common. What city are you talking about?

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yeah, I live in one big city, and frequent another, people clutter those things up everywhere.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

The point about 𝟩-ᴇʟᴇᴠᴇn stores; the franchise's parent company is Japanese, and there are more locations on Japan than in the United States.

2 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 2

the japanese company actually bought its own parent lol

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Fucking weebs. Japan isn't some magical wonderland, their society has a fucktonne of problems too.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

When I visited Tokyo, I was told that the lack of trash cans isn't to discourage littering, it was because a cult leader used them to hold gas devices and gas innocent people after he lost an election. Now people carry their own trash home with them. https://psmag.com/environment/trash-cans-are-coming-back-to-japan

2 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Escalator etiquette is pretty common in any large city. People gotta get to where they're going and you standing in the way just isn't polite!

2 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 2

As someone who lives in a large US city and frequently went to Seattle... hahahahaha no. It is not common in any large cities.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

On the London Underground, tyou're supposed to stand on the right and let walkers pass on the left. It isn't an enforecd law, but if you don't, people may roll their eyes and say "tut" under their breath, which is the English equivalent of a drive-by.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

In Madrid is common.

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The number one thing that I wish Americans would adopt from Japan is the idea that housing is not an "investment." In other words, expect your house to depreciate over time instead of appreciating in value. Americans viewing housing as "investments" is one of the many factors contributing to our ridiculous housing prices.

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That's largely because the real estate market was so tight to begin with, buying a house has been out of reach of most Japanese for generations. Housing prices aren't going up further, because they're beyond affordable to most potential buyers as it is, and those who have land inherited it and aren't selling it. This is the country that invented capsule hotels and special police to squeeze people onto trains. They don't have space and it's already priced accordingly.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

With corporations & hedge fund buying over 40% of homes, housing & rental prices skyrocketed. The End Hedge Fund Control of American Homes Act would end this.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Only because most of their houses aren't designed to last more than 40 years, but if its in a desirable area the house prices go up over

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

time still the same as the rest of the world. Also there is the whole earthquake stuff to consider when it comes to long lasting houses.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

First the lack of public trash isn't to prevent from looking like America, they had a bunch, but most of them after a deadly sarin gas attack on a Tokyo subway platform by a domestic terrorist/death cult in 1995. They hide the sarin canisters in garbage bins, and since Japan has had least public trash bins.

Second the reason Japan can offer so much in their stores is because they have so many people to actually buy it. The problem with prepared food in America is most places don't have the /

2 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

/demand. 98 million Americans like in city centers, 176 million in Suburbs/small towns, and 46 million in the hicks. My state is 2,000 sq miles bigger than the entire country of Japan and we only have 1 million people, compared to Japan's 121million. Tokyo alone has 48

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

*Tokyo has 40.8 million alone. It's easy to offer a large array of things when there are enough customers to cycle through it all. Most US convenience store food has to last a week to sell enough to be popular.

Also in my state, all convenience stores are gas stations.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Just don't mention the Japanese caste system the burakumin are not very well liked I hear.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I was under the impression that eating and drinking was acceptable for long train rides, is this not right?

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

If there's a tray on the back of the seat in front of you, its ok to eat on it.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The limited trash cans (particularly in Tokyo) is because they removed most of them following the sarin gas terrorist attacks in 1995.

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I don't get how that will matter. The perpetrators popped plastic bags filled with sarin on a subway car. How does removing trash cans prevent this?

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

they also hid a bunch of sarin bags in trash bins.

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Came here to say this. Regardless, streets are very clean and everyone is crazy polite.

2 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

OTOH multiple studies have calculated that if everyone stands elevator throughput is higher.

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Clearly they did their study in a country where people will push or carry the immobile people forward.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

*escalator, clearly. If you're walking up elevator shafts, please stop.

2 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

or maybe DONT STOP, GET TF OUTTA THERE, WHAT WERE YOU THINKING?!

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Maybe the authors of this study should go to London. During rush hour, the efficiency of the stand-right/walk left policy is apparent. Go to a London department store, where no such rules are imposed, and you will see that the escalators are used very inefficiently. A couple standing side by side will block dozens of people behind them. Two people stand, everybody stands, meaning that people can only leave the escalator when their step 'arrives'. People walking by-pass this restriction.

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

"My anecdotal evidence is obviously far superior to multiple studies conducted by scientists." Always a fascinating take to see in the wild.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 4

This presupposed that A) there is no such thing as flawed research, and/or B) that there are no variables. Therefore, data collected from one location must apply to all similar situations. Further, I would suggest that 64 years of 'anecdotal evidence' might actually have some value.

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The thing about anecdotal evidence is that collecting more of it doesn't improve its quality, and in fact, personal biases probably reinforce themselves more to distort it further. That's one of the major reasons people dismiss anecdotal evidence. Flawed studies exist, no doubt, but presuming they're flawed because you have a mountain of USELESS anecdotal evidence is... a take.

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So ALL anecdotal evidence must be useless? So much research is born of anecdotal evidence. Imagine where medicine would be if doctors never listened to their patients. Besides simple mathematics would prove why the walk/stand rule is more efficient.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My experience has actually been that in London rush hour, at the busiest terminal stations it often compacts down to stand-both-sides because there isn't space to support people walking.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Uuuuuuum - not really. Don't get me wrong, I love this place but don't romanticise it.

2 years ago | Likes 54 Dislikes 5

This. it's a great place, but it's no paradise. This is up there with the myth that all Canadians are polite to a fault. Not true.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Also, standing to one side on escalators wears them out faster and reduces the overall number of people that can be transported in a given time. There's been studies on this.

2 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 3

The video cites very specific things they wish were more common outside Japan, not that all aspects of Japanese culture should be replicated. Wtf is your problem with having cleaner mass transit?

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Oh, sure, I don't want to live there (sexism, racism, toxic work culture, insane court system, social conservatism, censorship, peer pressure, organized crime and corruption, ...) but these aspects are still valid and desirable.

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To bake an apple pie from scratch, you must first create the universe. Some of the aspects you're desiring are probably connected to the reasons you don't want to live/work there, in varying simple to complex relationships, that make transporting the Consequences without transporting the Underlying Environmental Factors a pipe dream at best.

2 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Perhaps from a historical sense, and it may be a wild fantasy of mine so call me crazy if you want; but i think, dare i say, it may, within the laws of physics as we understand it today, be possible to have clean streats without racism. Though, to be fair, i havent seen any peer reviewed research papers on the subject. Call it a hunch.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

(okay; I'm being uncharitable with my reading of your comment and hyperbolic in my reply. I understand what youre saying; but it's still worth pushing for imo)

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

...I was gonna type out a more uncharitable reply myself, thanks for the clarification. These things are worth pushing for, but as always, There Is No Free Lunch - Japan pays some heavy costs to achieve these things, and assuming we can have the achievements without their associated costs is a tough pill to swallow. I'd take moderately clean streets with a less insane court system (cuz I'd agree that racism probably isn't a big factor, or much of one at all).

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Maybe airport escalators are bad because people in some countries, like Canada, go to the right so people can walk on the left while people from some other countries go to the left so people can pass on the right?

2 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

It's inconsiderate to not consider following the local custom.

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So this one is solved by Japanese tourists learning to stand to the right and walking on the left in North America. This does not solve for rude or privileged people interfering with this concept.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

There's a simple solution. On the escalators in London Underground stations, there is a sign at the start of the escalator and which is repeated every few yards that tells passengers to stand on the right. Ingenious, huh?

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If the US and Japan are your touchpoints for littering, you will be utterly horrified by India.

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The place where they collect discarded water bottles and refill it with mystery water, then resell it in stores to unsuspecting customers?

https://englisharchives.mathrubhumi.com/news/offbeat/mathrubhumi-1.1930360

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*Egypt has entered the chat

2 years ago | Likes 57 Dislikes 0

Cambodia has ALSO entered the chat

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Just because your country is not the worst does not mean it is good. All they are saying is that there is demonstrable room for improvement.

2 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 5

I also found that a lack of trash cans make people throw trash on the ground. Not make them keep it on them till they home. Thats more a cultural thing of Japanese actually have respect for the surrounding area, that they are willing to hold on to it.

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There are trash cans on every block in NYC and people still litter…

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

True statement. I've watched people dump garbage on the ground rather than hold it for the literal 3 additional steps to a proper garbage receptacle. Availability isn't the limiting factor in people being trash.

2 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 1

The city removed the bus stop trash can at the top of my street, so frustrating. Every day we're picking McDonald's wrappers and plastic bottles, and assholes that used to throw their dog poop in it stopped picking up so we've got poopy sidewalks

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I feel you. People that don’t pick up their dog’s poop irritate me so much. I have to always be looking forward and down when I walk on the sidewalks because there’s SO MUCH POOP everywhere, even on the cement.

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I was surprised by that comment in the video. I believe Disney puts a ton of trashcans all over the place so one is always convenient and in turn less litter.

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Yes but they also empty them multiple times a day instead of a few times a week.

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Yes. They also took a ton out after terrorist attacks thirty years ago.

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Same thing for cigarette butts. If there isn't a receptical nearby (even a soda or beer can), 100% of the time that fucker is going on the ground. Any smoker that says otherwise is a liar.

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I did do that as a kid. Just flicked the fuckers every where.
Now I tap the tobacco out and put the filter in my pocket until I either go home or happen to find a trash can.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

As a Canadian, I've kept trash in my pocket for days on end while on vacation. Just something my elementary teachers taught me.

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[Insert gif here] As a Japanese, don't overestimate Japan

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I mean, you say overestimate but there's no estimating necessary when you see literal video proof demonstrating your streets are much cleaner and people are more conscious of others and their environment. Nobody is saying that makes Japan some perfect utopia, except weebs. It's still better than what we Americans have to put up with.

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In some ways yea, in others no.

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Just wait till you learn about the casual sexual harassment and assault baked into Japanese culture.

Every country could do better.

2 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I already know all about that, I wasn't comparing everything, only the mentioned topics. I agree.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Still doing your banking via fax huh?

2 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 2

We Japanese still vote with writing a name on a piece of paper with a pencil I'm not gonna lie

2 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

Same in Italy.

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In Belgium too.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That's actually better for many reasons than electronic

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Same as we do it here in Australia, and our voting is quite secure

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3_0x">aDmI">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3_0x6oaDmI and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LkH2r-sNjQs spring to mind *nods*

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This is me not making a joke about Japanese politics.

You know why.

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Hand-marked paper ballots are the only completely secure method for voting. It’s why Republicans push so hard for electronic voting machines, and why they’re trying to kill vote by mail.

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But they could use multiple choice with a scanner and use the paper as a secure backup. All our voting machined in my district in PA have switched to that.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That’s a hand-marked paper ballot

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Ummm, what? I am not republican and I think we should have all electronic voting. might get more people to vote, especially younger ones. Get your secure link or something, sign in, screen that guides you through. Done. 2000 Election was such a frantic mess because of the manual process no one understood un Florida. You are basically computer voting now, fill in little bubbles next to candidate. Feed it into computer. I am for adding it to your Tax return even. Right below the contribute to....

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 4

presidential campaign. Circle blanket vote Democrat on every single election this year. Notify me when it is not partisan or like a ballot initiative. Let me vote on just those. Would get so many more votes done way ahead of time. You could still opt to say I will go vote but many people that just don't vote would at least do it this way.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 3

Oh, and Florida in 2000 wasn’t an issue with hand-marked ballots. They had punchcards that were intentionally designed to skew votes for Pat Buchanan. Like lifelong Democrat retirees from Palm Beach were gonna vote for the antisemite.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Electronic voting is inherently insecure, and every election, there’s always a story about how a reporter was able to hack their local system with a thumb drive

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Toilets. Number one has to be toilets. Those Japanese bidet toilets are incredible and it’s a travesty America hasn’t adopted them yet.

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This guy is gonna get visit from toilet paper company enforcers

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A couple things I found out when I went to Japan is that every store has the most fancy bidet. They play sounds, spray smells, blow you dry and more. Two, there is about a 10% chance that you go inside a restroom and it's just a hole in the floor to squat over. And three, there was this island we went to in the south and the bathroom walls only came up to about shoulder height while sitting down. So you can make eye contact with the people around you. So yea, it's all over the place.

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Yeah I guess it depends where you go but most of the toilets I encountered were either normal porcelain or a trough in the ground. And no soap. That was the biggest surprise to me. No soap in like half the restrooms I ended up in.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

you can literally buy adapter bidets for toilets, it's like $20-30

2 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

But atleast in America you can look through the cracks and see other people pooping

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

One of the most interesting bits here though is they still have a decent amount of floor toilets. Fuck those lol

2 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I don’t mind them because you don’t have to touch anything. Women have it harder with gross bathrooms than men do.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Using a bidet makes you gay. /s

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You can 100% buy one in the US, they are just crazy expensive, hence why they aren’t everywhere like in Japan. But, tbf, American toilets are still 1000x better than what I’ve experienced in some other countries.

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You can always buy the built in toilet seat type. I started with a cheap $35 one from Amazon that you attach to your existing toilet seat. When I needed to replace that toilet seat instead of using the same attachment bidet I bought a Brondell toilet seat with the bidet built into it. Cheaper than buying a bidet toilet.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I live in the USA, the land of the proud ignoramus. Have a nice clean balloon knot and use hardly any paper? Hell no! They'd rather smear poop up their back and not wash their hands on the way out because.... Ma freedumbs!

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I can’t dry my hands without a towel. You expect we to go about with a damp, wind-blown ass?

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Yeah got one right at the start of the tp shortages. (Still don't understand why there was panic over that one specific item). just a cheap under the seat kind. It's fantastic, I hate pooping without it.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Toilet paper mafia wants to know your location

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There's few things I want when I buy a house. A toto is one.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Amen. That one is non negotiable. I'll have the cleanest ass on the block!

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

We better not live in the same block or else I declare..... WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAR

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

The heated toilet seats, so nice.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yep. Japan is the only place I don't mind sitting on a warm toilet seat.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

And on the other extreme, you have the "squatter" design toilets.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I’m definitely not planning to attempt to smuggle a toilet on my trip to Japan

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

God if there is one thing I wish America could adopt its the toilet one

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Im always thinking the amount of trees we cut to wipe our asses. Funny how South Park made me think of it.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I can hear it now, "my toilet has gone woke and tried having anal sex with me so I shot it ded."

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Well, how else are they supposed to get microchips in your ass?

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

*Googles toilet that can show me a good time*

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My cousin who used to teach English is the second language overseas in the middle east, and Asia like the Japanese toilets so much she found one and had it installed in your condo despite it taking a whole bunch of extra approvals for the plumbing Etc from the Owners Association

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

They also have sanitizer inside the stalls for you to wipe the seats with instead of having to use cheap tissue paper

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Water on your butt is gay /s

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I've got one in both bathrooms of my house, and I live in a deep red, super rural area of Oklahoma.

2 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

Red Alabama here, same. They can make fun if they want, but we don’t have skids in our drawers

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Onward with the rebellion.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Same. I installed one back right before the pandemic and it's the best thing I've ever bought myself. I can't understand why it's not more popular. I'm also from a super rural part of OK and have tried to convince other guys and family members to get one and it's always met with an unenthusiastic "Okay..."

2 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

There are two kinds of people, people who love bidets and people who have never used bidets.

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We bought our house in 2017 and it was one of the first things I upgraded in here. Been trying ever since to convince my parents to get one too and getting pretty much the same reaction from them. Just "Yeah, we'll do that. Maybe. If we remember." It's been 7 years.

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Yup. I told my dad "It'll change the game, man. Twist the knob, adjust position a few times, wait to dry or use a couple squares of TP and you're done." Saved my household on TP costs (especially during the pandemic) and I don't spend almost as long wiping as I did shitting. One day they will see the light.... one day....

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I still can't believe we went through a literal toilet paper crisis and people didn't switch in droves.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I hate visiting the US to see family, no bum guns at all!

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

take a plastic bottles and poke holes in the cap for a quick portable bidet

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Damn, that's good advice.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Bidets seem like a great way to get BV, a UTI, or otherwise mess with female genital flora. Like, imagine all the wrong angles that happen before finding the right one. No thanks...

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The bidets I checked out, including many of the cheap attach-to-seat types, had different settings, including one that had an angle specifically designed for women using it. That said, my experiences have been...less than stellar. Hairy people can encounter some troubles.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I have a bidet and yes using it gave me BV

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Unfortunately, too many people in America are ruining it for the rest of us. Install a bidet? Someone's gonna take a dump in it and laugh when people are getting poop squirt at them. There are many things we can't have because, as many points out, Americans have a more individualistic concept of society compared to Japan's more group-based society.

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Not to mention the unfortunate percentage of people who don't even wipe AT ALL because they're afraid of becoming gay or something.

2 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 4

This can't be a real thing.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I found out last year that a number of people actually don't wipe or only wipe once. I still can't believe it.

2 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

why are you making shit up?

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 4

Why do you think I'm making this up? Do you think I just plucked a bs fact from thin air? Some guys won't even wash their ass in the shower, google that rabbit hole.

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

because i'm a human and i have experienced "not wiping properly" a few times in my life. and it itches. like crazy. so yes, you're making shit up. it's simply not possible "not to wipe". shut the fuck up.

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what does this have to do with installng a bidet in YOUR OWN HOUSE?

2 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

I meant more of having it done publicly.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Because of they never used one, then they don't see the need to spend hundreds/thousands installing one?

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I had one but got made fun of so much I just got rid of it. Tried to convince my friends it was a life changer but they just called me gay

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And that made you stop? Being gay isn't an insult, lol... but hey, silver lining: you now know some people you know aren't really friends!

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Screw em, you got a clean ass. I installed one a couple years ago because a buddy wouldn’t shutup about his and I’ll never go without one again. Although I’d like to upgrade to heated water because it gets chilly

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For reals, I would say... wait you would rather smear shit all over your ass?

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I think the problem with service/ tipping is that workers are rarely paid what they’re actually worth and companies take full advantage of that fact and guilt customers into tipping.

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As a European, the idea of tipping is supposed to be a reward for good service. It's not up to the customer to compensate for poor wages. Therefore a mandatory tipping fee feels moderately strange to put it mildly.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

u mean the outdated racist system that was designed 2 keep black workers down& is now touted as "tipping culture" excuse to not pay wages?

2 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

It's in Canada too though and that was never the reason here. And it existed when minimum wage was decent. Even right now, in my province, we're still expected to tip when servers make the *exact same amount* as every other min wage worker. It's ridiculous. If they can't live on it, neither can all the other min wage workers. Raise it for everyone and do away with tipping.

2 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Tipping culture looks so stupid and greedy to the rest of us

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

A couple of these were not great. I also don't understand how less trash cans prevent litter.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Pack it in, pack it out.

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And some workers defend it saying that they'll get more money than they would from hourly wages. Dude, if the company could earn a single cent from it; tipping would be illegal in the US.

2 years ago | Likes 38 Dislikes 3

They aren't going to pay me $60 hr.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Yeah, that argument is so messed up to me. If the job is worth that much, you should just be paid that much without tips.

2 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 2

What do you mean "if the company could earn a single cent from it"? And yes, you generally make much higher than average hourly wages as a server or bartender. Your implication that that is some kind of made up scam is really weird. I spent my life waiting tables, and I can PROMISE you that if serving paid a flat hourly wage similar to retail work 90+% of current foh restaurant staff would leave. If you can be a receptionist or run a cash register for the same money no one is gonna serve/bartend

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

Literally this. It's always people who don't earn tips who say the restaurant should just pay us more. No restaurant is going to pay me $60 hr (which is my average bartending). Every server and bartender would quit if they ditched tipping and offered ~$18-22 hr.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

Are you seriously trying to claim that 10k a month is the average for bartending and serving food?

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Japanese restaurant workers earn an average of like $6.50 an hour.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

In the States card tips are tracked & taxed HEAVILY. Tipping in cash is preferred.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You ever spend 8 hours serving people, getting yelled at cause you forgot a sauce or a lemon, getting yelled at by the kitchen cause you don’t know hollandaise is make with eggs and then to be handed your check and it says $8 all the while today was slow and your tip pooling so the 5 tables you had to do and the one the lazy server took you have to now split your tips with that person.Or you spend all day at the restaurant to walk out with $40 and sore feet and you’re famished.

2 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 1

In spain we give tips for godo work, no for charity. Your top culture is like Beg for money in the street.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Dude I work in a deli I had a guy today yell at me because someone bumped into him at checkout. Like dude I don’t even work at checkout I don’t give a shit.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Tipping culture is 100% people’s good nature being weaponized against them. Everyone recognizes that it’s bullshit but nobody wants to be “the guy that doesn’t tip”

2 years ago | Likes 126 Dislikes 0

mean the outdated racist system that was designed 2 keep black workers down& is now touted as "tipping culture" excuse to not pay wages?

2 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 0

Wait, that has its roots in racism too? I'm only surprised that I've not heard this before...

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Correctamundo!

2 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

I only tip in certain industries (restaurants delivery etc) and even then I tend to do a flat 10%.

2 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 16

If you live in the states, you should not dine in a sit down restaurant with that mentality. In most states they are paid $2.25 an hour as their base rate. You should be tipping 15-20% that for baseline service. If you can't afford it, eat elsewhere.

2 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 10

Depends on the state here in Washington State they actually get wages.

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

Living wage given the cost of living?

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yeah. You're not effecting change or hurting the employer in any way. You're just hurting the likely underpaid staff who depend on tips to survive.

2 years ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 1

Only 18 states allow a service wage below $2.25. Which leaves 32 states above. So I’m not sure what definition of ‘most’ you’re using?

2 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 3

Okay, that's good news! How many of those are at or below federal minimum wage?

2 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

You cannot change the system without a little pain. People willing to tolerate service wages are the collateral damage in the war against tipping. Angry you got 0% from me? Take it up with your employer. It’s the only way change will happen.

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Or you could just not eat at places you can't afford. Just a little pain to change the system. It's the only way change will happen.

2 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 8

Changing the system by inflicting pain on those least able to affect change within it, because they're literally at the bottom rung of power? That's your plan? You absolute dickhead. Be the change you want to see in the world by inflicting pain on YOURSELF until you change the system, you ass.

2 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 4

This is why Abraham Lincoln was known to kick every slave he saw. If he made being a slave worse, then eventually the slaves would rise up against their masters. This was much more smarter than doing anything actually helpful.

But seriously, all you're doing is giving the company exactly the same money it would make regardless of your top, but making it harder for a worker to survive. Why would a company making the same profits be motivated to change? This is stupid.

2 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2