It's way too easy to bring a mock microphone with you or a side camera like a Go Pro and then start trying to interview people like you've got some legit media thing going on...
That's a hilarious answer and if I was the interviewer I would have absolutely been laughing and playing into it. The angry hair swipe was bonus douche points.
That question and variations of — “What’s the biggest red flag in a guy?” — is one of the manosphere’s favorite tools because it looks harmless and mainstream, but it’s highly strategic. Asking drunk young women creates viral content, fuels gender-war narratives, and often puts women in a no-win situation.
It baits them into trying to explain their preferences that is framed as proof that they are one entity that is shallow, controlling, entitled, unreasonable and easily triggered etc.
You're fucking soft? says the guy that got offended and had to make sure his hair was still "fire" and it will be because he got more gel in it than a 16 year old in highschool it will stay like that till he is dead.
Ive seen this many times but do you have context to the original situation where this happened and who it is , I thought it may be J Law but Im not sure it is
I'm not normally one to accuse popular things as being "plants", but hawk tuah felt like the meme version of an industry plant. You're telling me a conventionally attractive white woman making a mild sex joke is so side-splittingly funny it spawned merch, a podcast, a crypto scam, and at one point reported talks of an acting career?
She was caught up in the multi-level scam that ensnared a lot of celebrities. She launched a crypto coin for a flat endorsement fee of a few hundred thousand and then bugged when she realized that she got scammed just like her fans got scammed
I don’t think she is smart enough to understand what was going on at the time. Seriously, I feel a slight bit bad for her. No way she understands crypto you know?
I saw the reverse of this on here earlier where the woman interviewer asks a guy something and he immediately acts like an NPC walking down the street.
Not shown - him whining about being an incel on the Social Transgression Distributors (workshopping how to describe the social media sites with the acronym STD, suggestions welcome)
^This. He was looking for a reaction, and he got one. And based on how badly he took it, he would have responded poorly to any rejection no matter what words were used.
They could, but he's still the one out bothering other people trying to have a good time and live their lives. New York, and I'm sure lots of other places, are overrun with these fucking leeches trying to get content off of people's night lives. No one is under any social or moral obligation to be polite to these parasitic barnacles.
Especially since he's talking to a woman... Like, even in their fucked up alpha male world, aren't the women SUPPOSED to be soft? Like isn't that why you're supposedly all hard and macho, to protect the soft women?
Yes. But that's exactly why&where he shortcircuited. He spent so many hours writing shit onto mancelverse boards at 1am, the only insult he could come up with on the spot was one that'd only 'hit' with one of the spongebrains he talks to online. "You're soft" as in "You behave like a feeemaale". Terrible insult for incels and manosphere bois. *shrugs*
I was hard when I was young. The world hurt me repeatedly and I was an angry bitter fuck about it, and the military took that attitude and ran. Learning to be soft took decades of hard work tearing down walls that other people built.
Reminded me of when Josh was trying to talk shit to Mindy on Drake And Josh, and she hit him with an insult that left him glitching out going "oh, yeah? Well...oh yeah??"
I find that if someone's insults or criticism don't seem to make sense then they're usually projecting. Dude probably sees himself as an alpha or whatever and being dunked on so hard by a woman makes him feel soft and inadequate.
That wasn't thinking. That was knee jerk projection. His reaction was that of weak person who can't handle the slightest of jokes so brain went "no you!"
It's bad to hang out with women and have any healthy relationship with the opposite sex cause that's soft behavior and gay. You must only hang out and even sleep together with your masculine entourage , that's straight and based.
cytherians
It's way too easy to bring a mock microphone with you or a side camera like a Go Pro and then start trying to interview people like you've got some legit media thing going on...
Righteousdew
Have you considered cropping your videos before posting?
MyCatsAreTypingThis
That's a hilarious answer and if I was the interviewer I would have absolutely been laughing and playing into it. The angry hair swipe was bonus douche points.
ThisIsMyUsernameThereAreManyLikeIt
Fuck that guy
neuronicle
Attention industry slop. Ever so hungry for precious clicks. Don't feed it.
SedatedSl0th
Mmmmmm I love to see weak, toxic masculinity in the wild.
G0MeatCube
Wow he handled that well /s
TheAnswerWasAlwaysMoreLube
That question and variations of — “What’s the biggest red flag in a guy?” — is one of the manosphere’s favorite tools because it looks harmless and mainstream, but it’s highly strategic. Asking drunk young women creates viral content, fuels gender-war narratives, and often puts women in a no-win situation.
It baits them into trying to explain their preferences that is framed as proof that they are one entity that is shallow, controlling, entitled, unreasonable and easily triggered etc.
Snezko
she's absolutely right, but i hate all gender when they do that. stop asking me questions on a fucking street...
IamIntoleranceIntolerant
That is the perfect answer. Full marks to that young lady.
Honourable mentions to her friend for the smile and laugh, and thenguybin the background who put his arms on the air.
OoWah
MangoLassi
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ontarioOT
Every person should respond to these alpha-male-on-the-street interviews with that perfect response.
firlefranz
Andrew Tate hates this trick.
imyourrealdad
His reaction said it all. What a douche.
Kunkoh
Did a snowflake call something else soft?
Jandegrote
You're fucking soft? says the guy that got offended and had to make sure his hair was still "fire" and it will be because he got more gel in it than a 16 year old in highschool it will stay like that till he is dead.
Kbantar
Way TF to many fragile men take their embarrassment as some kind of attack by an enemy. You embarrassed yourself. Accept the loss and move on.
beaubrent
I have no idea what is happening. What?
Agatsu74
Not sure if they're the ones being fucking soft ones if you can't even take a joke, fuckboi.
YippeeKayakOB
Soth13
Ive seen this many times but do you have context to the original situation where this happened and who it is , I thought it may be J Law but Im not sure it is
paeches
it's not jude law, but jennifer lawrence. seems someone in the audience caught her attention. hard to tell. https://youtu.be/_dUvnxkqPD0 6:42
Midgarmerc
Sorry they didn't play into your low effort manosphere content bro. Who's soft here?
Metallica93
"Dudes asking drunk girls random shit" is by far one of the dumbest video trends. Kudos to her for dunking on ol' fuck boi over there.
Jewdakris
I still can't believe idiots stop to be on someone's video. Bro I didn't consent to your bullshit I'm gonna smash your phone.
Midgarmerc
It's always the same question too trying to get them to expose their personal drama so their legion of incel fans can judge them for it
JoeT85
Those are your content creators, not all of them, but most. Some douchy guy that's desperately to trying to get famous for being famous.
JoeyJoJoJrShabadoo7
because hawk tuah went super viral it only got worse
Metallica93
Ugh. I didn't even register that.
TheBigBadBonerBiter
I'm not normally one to accuse popular things as being "plants", but hawk tuah felt like the meme version of an industry plant. You're telling me a conventionally attractive white woman making a mild sex joke is so side-splittingly funny it spawned merch, a podcast, a crypto scam, and at one point reported talks of an acting career?
yamamasyamaha
She road that wave as long as she could
She’ll always be a low level pseudo celeb - I wonder how that pays when you’re 45
Volirus
Pretty sure she grabbed a bunch of money with a crypto pump&dump so I don't think she's really strapped for cash atm.
yamamasyamaha
She was caught up in the multi-level scam that ensnared a lot of celebrities. She launched a crypto coin for a flat endorsement fee of a few hundred thousand and then bugged when she realized that she got scammed just like her fans got scammed
I don’t think she is smart enough to understand what was going on at the time. Seriously, I feel a slight bit bad for her. No way she understands crypto you know?
SalmonTheWise
To be fair it's not clear how much she pocketed if any, or did Jake Paul used her as a patsy for that scam.
Pwnzistor
He could have deleted this, but he loves the attention so he posted it on the internet.
Samantha4u
Is this just a thing he does?
StarscreamAndHutch
I saw the reverse of this on here earlier where the woman interviewer asks a guy something and he immediately acts like an NPC walking down the street.
Ryebread91
Got a link?
certifiedllama
https://www.euronews.com/culture/2025/12/01/enter-the-arena-roman-restoration-project-reveals-secret-commodus-passage-in-colosseum
Ryebread91
michiyl
I mean, it's great and uncanny when done right (no need to turn on the audio for this one):
HeresYourSauce
I hate the guy. He could have easily played it off, but took it as a personal insult, and attacked them for his rudeness.
wisher1977
SDE at its best.
calenti
Not shown - him whining about being an incel on the Social Transgression Distributors (workshopping how to describe the social media sites with the acronym STD, suggestions welcome)
LeftyBigGuns
This seems relevant to a comment I read recently, “Men are radicalizing each other into being repulsive to women and then blaming the women”.
Misteree8
The insult hurl with the need to "fix" is hair, are signs he took it personal for the most snowflake of reasons.
JacktheKind
the only thing i notice is how attractive the friend is... smart, in control and aware enough to get them away, while its all fun
HeresYourSauce
*Hate might be too strong a word, but still
Imademyselfsquirtle
This is why Trump exist. We need to treat stupid as stupid again. Make stupid people afraid of trying to be like Andrew Tate.
riddmkidd
loathe, am disappointed in, no longer respect, etc.
reichtwinglunatic
nah man, hate is fair here. what a complete loser
TheLordFoxington
Hate is more than he is worth.
Pizzeption
Lol, they aren't the ones who are soft. Guy has hurt feelings on toast.
Clayman8
Toast? More like white bread without the crust
MangoLassi
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Zeterai
Howdie-doodly-doo!
MangoLassi
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DarkParn
That toast did not have the high ground.
MangoLassi
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BlackMoira
He's a tootsie roll fruit cup, he's 10 ply
guitardemon66
Domek97
It's not clear that that's what he said and everyone uses ai generated captions now so I'm skeptical
DarkwingDuc
If we only had audio.....
Eyeetsass
I hear “Oh yeah, fuck you”. Which is pretty far out of pocket for a rude piece of shit stopping people on the street for content.
Neurisko
I heard "man, fuck y'all" but yeah it's not clear with the loud overbearing music added on.
Eyeetsass
Either way. Gracious host right?
Neurisko
Yup, classy asshole. Classhole.
paeches
this one is cropped, here's one on a post from 2 years ago /gallery/w3PSGZc
"well, you all fucking stopped"
Domek97
Thanks for this. I'm glad it's just the video and not all the stupid shit added on too
OmgOptimized
Shouldn't be pissy about it since he's out there messing around. But, they could presumably also just say no.
aguacatedeldiablo
We don't see how much he badgered them before the camera started rolling. And it's entirely possible he's only pretending to be pissed.
Heisanevilgenius
The "soft" remark isn't funny. It's just being petty and childish.
HeresYourSauce
They could, but he's asking for content. He got it.
I don't see them as being rude, but that might be a personal thing.
Pizzeption
^This. He was looking for a reaction, and he got one. And based on how badly he took it, he would have responded poorly to any rejection no matter what words were used.
DarkwingDuc
They could, but he's still the one out bothering other people trying to have a good time and live their lives. New York, and I'm sure lots of other places, are overrun with these fucking leeches trying to get content off of people's night lives. No one is under any social or moral obligation to be polite to these parasitic barnacles.
LinguisticBitch
Because saying no to a guy was historically a good thing for women. /s
paeches
yup, judging by his reaction after he came out of the stun, her course of action gave her more time to make space for a safer exit.
his shirt: strike first. strike hard. no mercy. 🤣
GerbilHereReportingLiveFromRichardGeresAss
"You're fucking soft" the guy glitched so hard with that response.
Which is not even an insult if you think about it.
FrankRizzo55
I touched a girl once and she was soft. If all girls are like that, I can confirm that yes, that girl was soft.
worldschmerzen
He must have posted this online... as a win... how else would we get to see it.
haaaaahahahahaha I want the sauce so I can roast the baby directly!
Afterwolf
It was projection
artbabi
True, it's good to be soft and fluffy
TsukariYoshi
Especially since he's talking to a woman... Like, even in their fucked up alpha male world, aren't the women SUPPOSED to be soft? Like isn't that why you're supposedly all hard and macho, to protect the soft women?
Freakscar
Yes. But that's exactly why&where he shortcircuited. He spent so many hours writing shit onto mancelverse boards at 1am, the only insult he could come up with on the spot was one that'd only 'hit' with one of the spongebrains he talks to online. "You're soft" as in "You behave like a feeemaale". Terrible insult for incels and manosphere bois. *shrugs*
G0MeatCube
He said go fuck yourself.. don't let the eyes lie for your ears
RevolutionOnHerLips
I was hard when I was young. The world hurt me repeatedly and I was an angry bitter fuck about it, and the military took that attitude and ran. Learning to be soft took decades of hard work tearing down walls that other people built.
valkrez
Soft is pliable, hard is brittle
TheAnswerWasAlwaysMoreLube
Https://i.imgur.com/TdChrRX.png
paeches
I think it is "well you all fucking stopped"
uncooked vid in post a few years ago: /gallery/w3PSGZc
Evenmoreuselessname
Yep, that's it.
Beefkins
That's not what he said, it's shitty subtitles. He said "well go fuck yourself."
G0MeatCube
Yes
paeches
"well you fucking stopped" /gallery/w3PSGZc
Efreeti
Doesn't sound like that was what he said to me. I think inaccurate subtitles. Maybe he said "Well then fuck yourself"
theshinobi23
Reminded me of when Josh was trying to talk shit to Mindy on Drake And Josh, and she hit him with an insult that left him glitching out going "oh, yeah? Well...oh yeah??"
paeches
exactly. gave herself time to get away.
his shirt: "strike first. strike hard. no mercy." the irony 🤣
MangoLassi
It's weird I know what you're talking about.
Well, maybe not that weird.
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theshinobi23
HUG ME, BROTHER!!
MangoLassi
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UseTheSource
I had no idea what he was trying with that
doctorId
I find that if someone's insults or criticism don't seem to make sense then they're usually projecting. Dude probably sees himself as an alpha or whatever and being dunked on so hard by a woman makes him feel soft and inadequate.
Jinxer13
That wasn't thinking. That was knee jerk projection. His reaction was that of weak person who can't handle the slightest of jokes so brain went "no you!"
GerbilHereReportingLiveFromRichardGeresAss
He dropped an alpha male insult because he never talks to women. X-rayed himself as a massive incel with that one reply.
RevRagnarok
"X-rayed himself" do you mean projected?
GerbilHereReportingLiveFromRichardGeresAss
Nah I mean you could see through him.
Goldensands
Obviously. But what does that moronic phrase mean to these morons?
UseTheSource
in that culture it's bad to be soft?
GerbilHereReportingLiveFromRichardGeresAss
It's their cardinal sin.
Jinxer13
It's bad to hang out with women and have any healthy relationship with the opposite sex cause that's soft behavior and gay. You must only hang out and even sleep together with your masculine entourage , that's straight and based.
Samantha4u
god lmao. incels are so weird.