When you discover you are the only female in the class....

Feb 27, 2024 11:10 PM

MissDeeMeanor

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I avoid eye contact so instinctively that I would not notice. Plus everyone is an obstacle first then a person.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'd feel comfortable as a single woman, most bikers are pretty nice guys, even the ones in colours. They're at the movies ffs, its something we'd both like to see. Plus I probably wouldn't notice 🤣

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Fear is a healthy response to danger. Applauding someone for ignoring their instincts is messed up.

2 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

If I walked into anywhere and was suddenly glared it like I stood out and may not belong there, I too would slow down and consider a range of possibilities and options. I’m not sold on the message in this video.

2 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

The video is dumb af. If I walked into a theater full of just random average looking people and looked at me like that I would consider leaving. Anyone want to take a wild guess about the percentage of bikers with a criminal record vs just all of society as a percentage? WAY higher. Doesnt mean im goiing to judge them one on one or call the cops but it is entirely reasonable to walk out. The video is stupid as fuck.

2 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

Dang, these people were so QUICK to judge all these dudes ogling the women and death-staring the guys. You should really give people acting like psychos the benefit of the doubt. Makes you think! Which is to say, who thought this up? Social experiment devised by someone with three remaining brain cells.

2 years ago | Likes 186 Dislikes 9

Yes. AKA advertisers.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yes, every single one of them was uncomfortable. Not so much with the way they look, but the fact that every single person in the audience, turned to them, stared and tracked them. That’s what scared most of them.

2 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

As a clueless woman who likes moody men, I'd probably not notice and then not care

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'd ask the closest person if it was a private party. If not, I'd find a seat.

2 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I assume you are a man?

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Me walking through the door ready to watch the movie

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

I had a programming class like this. 3 women. A 4th walked in - really hot - saw a full class of men, checked her binder, probably realized she was in the wrong room or surrounded by sharks, and immediately left.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

"Female"

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I had a programming class like this. 3 women. A 4th walked in - really hot - saw a full class of men, checked her binder, probably realized she was in the wrong room or surrounded by sharks, and immediately left.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Would anybody else go there, sit down, watch the entire movie movie, and later, when somebody asks what it was like to sit in that crowd be, "there were what now?" or would that just be me?

I have been accused of being very unobservant sometimes.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If anyone finds sauce please let me know 😂

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

whatever the sauce is its stupid af.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 6

If i walked into a theatre full of toddlers and they all stopped and silently stared like that i'd back the fuck out.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

'female' ugh

2 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 2

I mean, if I walked into a theater, or room, where the moment I walked in everybody turned and stared at me stone-faced or mean mugging, I would feel really freaking uncomfortable. The room could be full of Amish folk but if everyone turned and stared at me flat-faced, and continue to stare at me wherever I moved in the room, fuck that

2 years ago | Likes 158 Dislikes 0

I would honestly assume there was some kind of specific event going on and leave because I wasn't a part of it.

2 years ago | Likes 36 Dislikes 0

It could have been worse. At least they were quiet.https://youtu.be/uDb00Mx7D7g?si=-Aq9wUJZxTEL-kCQ

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Been in numberous situations akin to that. Fault it on openish, friendships, cursed w/being approachable, others sense of novelty - or just taking people as they are...but sometimes discretion is the better part of valor.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

tbf, i would be more afraid of the amish beating me to teach me a lesson than a group of bikers

2 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 5

Dude, a bunch of Amish would whoop biker butt any day of the week, they don't have any modern entertainment venues and there was nothing to do in the 19th century but beat each other up 24/7 :P

2 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 2

I would just pretend to be blind.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Less about who they are, and more about the full cinema worth of people who all have the same aesthetic silently and Stoney faced staring at you. Could have been kids, grandmas or even an assortment of completely random people and the result would still be the same.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

as a single man, I'd find an empty seat. as a man that has ladies in his life, I'd back out too

2 years ago | Likes 78 Dislikes 5

Same, I wouldn't be that worried for myself, but being there with my wife, I'd be worried about putting her in a situation where I wouldn't be able to protect her from harm. So yeah, I'd back out of there quickly.

2 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 2

The whole thing of this video was because people are too quick to judge, these bikers were staged and harmless. It's a shame... Any true biker I get to speak to (not in the US, in the UK) they're lovely.

2 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 21

I would be more concerned I was crashing a privately booked theatre than anything.

2 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

But why have them stare the people down? Seems like they were playing into the stereotype instead of having them look at the screen or talk amongst themselves like regular folks would before a movie. No matter what someone looks like, if they’re staring me down I’ll be creeped out.

2 years ago | Likes 62 Dislikes 1

Fuckin' nailed it.

2 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Stupid as fuck video though. If I walk into a room a bunch of bikers in a "club" and totally not at all a gang, and they were all mean mugging me and my wife, i would leave, and I wouldnt be wrong for doing so. it would be MORONIC to stay. That doesnt mean i KNOW they would harm me, but im not going to stick around and find out. This video is dumb af.

2 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Guy in front row has a 1% patch.... you dont play cards with that man.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

biker groups that claim to be clubs are often literally gangs, no exaggeration.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

kinda interesting that the lights are all on and you can see everyone there.

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

v

2 years ago | Likes 162 Dislikes 3

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Tell me about the fucking golf shoes!

2 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Just.... Toss me into the pool

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

If I threw you in the pool right now you'd sink like a stone

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Yeah my dudes let's fuckin watch some Barbie! Anyone want a peanut?

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Usually this kind of stuff is from Netherlands :)

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

My first year of engineering school 1971. Only one girl, very pretty blonde. Physics class , about 200. She usually came in late, I guess because of her schedule. Wow. She changed majors.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm very nerdy, but I think I'd feel safe with them. They look like they take no shit from the "average joe" assholes we see everywhere these days.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This is in a cinema, yes? Why the hell is it so poorly lit for showing films?

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

because it isn't real.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

movie hasn't started yet, lights on.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

For some reason this wouldn't intimidate me at all.

2 years ago | Likes 38 Dislikes 5

mmk

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I would be more concerned I was in a privately booked theatre more than anything. I would be equally concerned if everyone was in suits with laptops.

2 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Well if you have autism… (not trying to be insulting, just commenting)

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I've sung karaoke in a bar that basically looked like that theater. Do a little Bon Jovi, you can get the whole place singing. Motorcycle club rallies are a fun time

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Either you're in a biker gang or have really poor insticts.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

They're acting threatening though. Its good instinct to avoid a room where 100 people who all look alike are acting like they don't want you there really bad

2 years ago | Likes 34 Dislikes 1

And I would have said "oh did you guys rent this out for your club?, I can catch another movie" Or asked one the toughest looking one if it was cool if I sat by him. If he says yes I then have his protection from everyone else...

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Thats great man. But those are poor survival instincts

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Exactly. If they were all talking and laughing among themselves, rather than unfriendly stares all directed my way at once, I'd assume they were a group there to watch a movie. But they are acting intentionally closed off and unwelcoming in unison, which (at least as a woman) is not a situation I would willingly walk into. At the least, it does not give off vibes that its just a bunch of movie goers who just happen to be guys.

2 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Ends too soon, if I remember correctly, after the last guy actually sits down all the bikers start applauding

2 years ago | Likes 417 Dislikes 2

Depression is a hell of a drug.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gAWhpIk3Py4 Amazing experience. You can tell who's already been through it before.

2 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

And give them each a beer. It's a beer commercial. Pretty good one too.

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yeah old vid it was skit about appearance and tolerance the last guy got applauded

2 years ago | Likes 87 Dislikes 2

It was an ad so everyone was an actor. Yay for the world!

2 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Nothing about appearance and tolerance - it was about promoting a beer, nothing else

2 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

It's a stupid skit, appearance isn't the issue here, the issue is they are all ogling like rapists.

2 years ago | Likes 64 Dislikes 6

How is them looking like rapists not "appearance"??

2 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 19

Try reading the comment again

2 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

And actively trying to look intimidating

2 years ago | Likes 47 Dislikes 1

Yeah. If they wanted to get that point of tolerance across they should've ignored anyone coming in and be talking to each other casually or something. Instead they just made it seem like having a reasonable sense of self-preservation is a bad thing.

2 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0