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Jan 26, 2024 5:42 AM
kalidewriter
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5knotcans
Top bunk or bottom bunk?
hnngh
"You new? You wanna fuck or fight?"
"Uh....neither."
"Good."
InClosing
Hey girl. Pass the soap.
Eridianne
The feedback on these posts from dudes who think they've never made a chick uncomfortable is just. Perfect.
kalidewriter
people tend to deflect responsibility instead of acknowledging that we have done some wrong. No one wants to be on the receiving end of conviction. So we'll do all in our power to deflect and avoid it.
TalkingSnake
Hey Steve.
You wearing underwear today?
HawkmanXLII
Umm...I'm not sure how to answer that. If I say yes, then you're picturing me in my underwear. If I say no, then you're experiencing me karate chopping you in the throat and breaking your glasses. Also my name is not Steve. It's a lose/lose situation.
HeresYourSauce
I think any rule that makes you think about what you're saying is a good one.
kalidewriter
I agree
HawkmanXLII
Warblegarblle!!
Haraiman719
This may be too simple. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. The original golden rule. Why make it about gender?
RawSuger
because it doesnt take into account different situations and experiences. this is onesided but not wrong
HawkmanXLII
Do you really not know why? If only there was some existing data about violent crime against women....
Skuggen
Because people making unwanted advances will immediately reply "oh, I'd definitely want her to come up and lick my collarbone"?
ThatRaccoonGuy
This exactly. Every time I've tried talking to some oaf about this, the reply is always "Hahaha, but it would be awesome if a woman raped me. That would be hot. I'd love that."
kalidewriter
because this was from an abuser's perspective. The message is for creepy men that get arrested and have to be with men as sick as them that will probably treat them the same. I agree that it should not be about race though.
kalidewriter
I meant gender.😅
TychoTychoAlba
No such thing as a female abuser?
kalidewriter
There is but that's not what this post is about. You could bring awareness of female abusers in your own post, but this is for male abusers. If I find one about female abusers I'll still post it.
Haraiman719
I have been both the abused and the abuser. And, I’ve been incarcerated. It still comes back to the Golden Rule.
HawkmanXLII
Practice what you preach then. According to your rule, you should never be the abuser. And I think you asked why is it about gender? Who do you think gets abused, overwhelmingly, by whom?
kalidewriter
I feel you're kind of missing the point. It's The Golden Rule. But that does not mean it cannot be rephrased to gear towards the men that stalk women, hence, "The Golden Rule For Men." It could also be rephrased to be geared towards women that manipulate men and know it, called, "The Golden Rule For Women." I'm sorry about your past, but I don't think this post was necessarily referring to "The Golden Rule", persay.