Preying on the lonely

Feb 4, 2026 5:49 PM

GullahGullahIslander

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Calls out Andrew Tate, the Paul Brothers, Joe Rogan. Lonely people who ONLY want to belong

100% accurate

7 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Wow the nerdy guy has a great point!
Find your people so you aren’t used to be moulded

7 months ago | Likes 43 Dislikes 1

Nerd ppl are my ppl 😞. Well some of my ppl

7 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Love this dude, and proud he's a fellow Atlantan: https://www.instagram.com/tonyweaverjr/

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

In addition, 'no politics' in gaming spaces allows Nazis to infiltrate your ranks. Then when they say a few off color things 'oh but hee a good dude to game with' to shrug it off. Then they say something else, on and on, boil the frog, then suddenly you are agreeing with a Nazi, and they suck you into their cult.

7 months ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

Yep, my gaming crew of 20 years was corrupted by a few neo-nazi fuckboys. I had to tell them all to fuck off, they're all absolutely lonely and miserable clowns now.

7 months ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

Nerd community is left wing, hate community is right wing.

7 months ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 2

Nerd community was historically the community of the outsiders. When nerd stuff became so mainstream we all started to hate it, it redefined what the outsider looked like, ie: the nerds of today aren't nerds as we'd historically recognize them.

7 months ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Being a nerd doesn't automatically make you progressive. There have always been conservative, right wing nerds. Who do you think are at Raytheon et al. designing the weapons of war?

I've been to enough cons and played enough DnD since the 80s to know that there have always been nerds out there with not just conservative but genuinely vile and abhorrent racist and misogynistic opinions, and the broad "nerd community" was very slow to push back against it. We can't just blame grifters.

7 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

As a chick who has been gaming since the early 80's, it was a dicey space for a long-ass time.

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Star Trek helped pull me away from that stuff. I grew up on hard sci-fi and the morals imparted to me from it. This is why I hate it when shows have bad writing. They can change minds.

7 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

A nerd is not an incel

7 months ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

The whole point of the video is that it isn't nerds. It's lonely people who are susceptible to being influenced.

7 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Nerds have historically always been curious. And curiosity leads to learning and passion which leads to friendships. Tate and conservatives aren’t curious about anything. They build relationships around fear which is the opposite of curiosity.

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Smart kid, he really hit the nail on the head with this one. This truly seems like one of the most central problems facing our young people in the smart phone age (many of whom went through extended unhealthy isolation and loneliness during covid that extended into young adulthood).

Everyone wants to belong. This isn't a new dynamic but the magnitude of this issue does seem new. It's an environment where Andrew Tate and other self-serving hateful predatory types are really striving.

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

This is exactly how Heinrich Himmler made the SS with sad lonely men who thought they were owed more from life.

7 months ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

Picked on the mentally weak. I'd say "coward" but I think "disgustingly evil" fits better.

7 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

So, same as now.

7 months ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

That's exactly what is being said....

7 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Funny how back then they were "owed so much" because of the "traitors" who caved and let the Weimar era happen. Really is a blatant playbook if you've read like a paragraph of interwar European history... I know I'm asking a lot there though

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Now this was enlightenment.

7 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

For people who hate church: big tech is everything bad about church.

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

There was a time in the 00s/10s where nerdiness was the mainstream. It wasn't just geek interests, but a minimum exposure to education mixed with the mainstream adoption of the internet by fan cultures/communities. A lot of it was corporate, but it was corporate chasing trends happening organically

7 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

What changed, is that algorithms, corporate interests, and aggressively tailoring culture to nerd/geek interests quickly turned the barriers of education and organic fandom into cultivated, cynical, culture that ceased to be the junk food of an excited demographic and became the slop that defined out entertainment industry. What changed was that communities of common interests became islands of media feeding tubes.

7 months ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

The most effective marketing technique there is: convincing you that ordinary life is unacceptable.

7 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Yes. People, spend time with your kids!

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Lonely people click on the internet and gradually get more and more extreme views thanks to algorithms. What's radicalising all these people? Algorithms trying to keep them online.

7 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This was way more informative than I was ready for.

7 months ago | Likes 339 Dislikes 0

And, in under a minute, too. Bravo.

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Cheers my brother

7 months ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

He's a pretty smart dude.

7 months ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Tyler the Educator

7 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm nodding with squinted eyes and furrowed brow, in agreement. Huh.

7 months ago | Likes 30 Dislikes 0

This also holds the key to deprogramming right-wing cultists.

They’re lonely, and feel like they don’t belong in a welcoming society… so you welcome them, and show that inclusion includes them, too.

Shockingly enough, once people don’t feel a need to be included in bigot groups, they often abandon their bigotry.

7 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Gamergate

7 months ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 3

Wait... Who said nerds are becoming conservatives? Do y'all mean incels? Those aren't nerds. Nerds are out there having orgies at Ren Fest. Incels are on 4chan reading rape fanfiction.

7 months ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 10

He said lonely people, not nerds. So potential nerds are recruited and tricked while young and lonely into the hate machine

7 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah i feel this came out of left feild

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I think you missed the major plot point of the video. The explainer guy states right up front that it isn't nerds. It's lonely people who are susceptible to manipulation.

7 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Oh this dude is great. I've seen him before: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/7FZWovUTmL0

7 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

OMG, brilliance. And here's funny — who randomly shows up? https://youtube.com/shorts/fDCS3yaA36I?si=L9oki7D8S2R3OC4t

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Ari is awesome, and Mamdami is a man of the people. Good pair up!

7 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It runs in the family: https://www.instagram.com/p/DUEY0T0iBgK/

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

4chan

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm intimated by this guy's intellectual superiority .

7 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

It's okay, he's on your side.

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

7 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 3

Yeah. The male loneliness pandemic was manufactured.

It becomes cyclical in that 'its not your fault, it's everyone else.' Where men just decided they didn't need to work on themselves.

You can not care about others opinions of you, but also you kinda gotta make sure you're not a massive tool.

7 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 3

I do think there's something to the general loneliness epidemic. But it's not just male - everyone is feeling it. But young men and boys are targeted by these grifters, and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, driving them further and further down the rabbit hole.

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Andrew tates whole business model is convincing lonely guys that women are wrong and only he can make the men likable. He proceeds to make the men terrible and proceeds to get them to double down on paying him for lessons.

7 months ago | Likes 193 Dislikes 0

And he uses that money to pay for girls to be with him so he looks like what he says has some merit. (Make of the "he pays" what you want... Never said the girls get the money 😒)

7 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The human trafficker Andrew Tate?

7 months ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

The human trafficking Rapist, yes

7 months ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

I dunno there was that one twink who was there to sniff his seat which was really fucked up.

7 months ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 0

Wat

7 months ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

7 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

It baffles me how many guys take dating advice from a rapist; like, he's probably not very good at teaching you how to get consensually laid if he can't do it himself

7 months ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

That’s the problem. By the time he’s done indoctrinating them, they don’t care about the consensual part.

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Does he do that on purpose, or does he truly believe in what he's selling? Like, is he purely a grifter making his patients sicker, do he can keep curing them? Or is he deluded into believing that everyone who disagrees with him is genuinely wrong?

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If he genuinely believes it then it's because he's willfully ignored all evidence to the contrary, so it's a distinction in name only at a certain point

7 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

White nationalists. It was white nationalists. They admitted it.

7 months ago | Likes 253 Dislikes 3

What’s his face on the right has the worst voice I have ever heard in my life. Other than RFK Jr., I mean.

7 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

God fuck those two complete douchebags.

7 months ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

You left out a hyphen. God-fuck. It's like normal fuck, but IMPOSSIBLY HUMONGOUS AND PRICKLY.

7 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

^ bingo.

7 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

And as we've been learning lately, potentially making you feel ostracized and an easier target for abuse.

7 months ago | Likes 71 Dislikes 0

If they keep you lonely, they get to keep you

7 months ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

That's been a white nationalist tactic 101. They go after loners because they are easy prey to recruit. I dodged that bullet years back.

7 months ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 0

Cult/predator behavior in general: target vulnerable members of the herd, and (if necessary) wear them down until they don't even consider leaving to be the right idea.

7 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0