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Jun 22, 2018 7:58 PM
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IHaveALotOfWallpapers
Am I going to stay depressed forever then?
NoUserNamesLeftToChooseFrom
This same post is, like, 10 posts up as well. How does usersub allow this?
Coolsailing
Oh shot, my happiness comes from imgur. Now make me laugh, peasant!!!!
doubleoreptar
"Happiness is a way of travel, not a destination."
andrewpascoe
Ive always found it funny that you can rely on others to make you unhappy but it doesent work vice versa
Cereaza
NYEEEH!!
DabSwabFamDab
Those pills dont look that big to me
AwwDamn321
Truff
xJedixJuicex
Tell that to the chemicals in my brain that make me all fucked up.
reallynotmikepence
Jokes on you. I'm going to be disappointed no matter what.
Vysh2
I don't have anyone to depend on. I have no choice but to be happy myself.
Antifragileest
Life of hard knocks
Daniferd
AHH STOP TELLING ME THE TRUTH
vindik8or
Get a load of @OP, bragging that he can suck his own dick.
OfficialExpert
If only I were more flexible.
IamMacarthur
I believe this may be inaccurate. Yes you should be self reliant, but so much of the rest of your life can enriched by having others in it.
EasyAsMe
Happiess is only real when shared with others
dontrike
Nah, the only time I have been happy is because of other people. I've accepted I'm shit and others will use me.
BayLeavesandKeanuReaves
People and things can bring you joy, but happiness comes from within and being secure in your being. Have a good night all :)
theirarefourlights
That seems like a great oversimplification that satisfies the strawman in op’s mind but ignores the nuance of many people’s realities.
Malloon
Yeah, 'cause who needs family and friends?
ChiefBeefyBoner
Your life is a lie and your only existence on this earth is to spend 8+ hours a day doing something you don't want to do for paper then die
bluedijon
Idk, my cat pretty reliably makes me a happier person...
markman2001
Haha that is a tough pill to swallow
THEFURRYJESUS
battlepants
Get really good at being single - best advice I can give anyone, even those in relationships (self reliance is sexy!)
IamJustinSane
You mean that maybe every miserable cunt I’ve ever met, might be miserable because they’re cunts?
carefulwithmeIMbroken
Depend on yourself and masterbate feverishly
Nuggetti
Deep end on yourself
bubblebreathdragon
Got it.
ImBrucemanNoBatwayneFuck
"Masterbate"
BahamutBBob
Wise words from a man who knows how to ski.
ScariestOfButts
Then feel emotionally flat because you blew all your feel-good neurotransmiters on wanking.
huckitchuckit
tzxAzrael
let's all come together and celebrate this idea.
carefulwithmeIMbroken
A cicle then?
carefulwithmeIMbroken
Circle*
tzxAzrael
as long as we aren't jerks about it
derel1cte
“What is happiness? Happiness is the moment before you need more happiness” -Don Draper
MycolTheFunguy
killer10347
I'd venture to say that a lot of relationships fail because of this.
resipsaloquitor
xraver21
I would agree. We are conditioned now to think if the other person is 'making' you happy, then it must not be a good fit
Bearto
My last relationship failed because we were both so independent that we had barely any rhyme or reason to see each other than for sex.
endlessnumbereddays
Sounds perfect for the both of you!
Bearto
Trust me my mans, we didn't have sex a lot.
ShouldersDeepInAHorse
I think if you are so independent you have difficulty socializing you might have some issues acually.
Bearto
Well yeah. I'm pretty sure I have intimacy issues, but it's not like they'll simply fix themselves by me realizing I have them.
toasteheh
Yep. Usually 1 person who require constant attention and demand the other person sacrifice their hobbies/pastimes to provide it.
YaHeardTurdFerguson
People can be one person then shift to another in a new relationship. I have definitely been both
Bambi577
I sadly was that person in a previous relationship. It’s a rough realization that your desire to be happy is harmful to the happiness of...
bluepupblue
This is so true I can totally relate. After spending 10 months together we are doing it long distance now and it sucks. I know I'm the ass..
bluepupblue
hole.. But can't help it sometimes. We'll be getting married in 2 months and I hope things will be better when we'll be together. I miss her
Bambi577
Minus the marriage that’s exactly what happened to me. We were together 2 years and things went long distance and I messed it up. My advice,
Bambi577
...someone you love.
SpandexVendetta
I wrote a really depressing answer to this. Decided not to, because things change. Hopefully.
toasteheh
Im proud that you came to that realization. A lot of people will never admit faults like that. Well done.