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Senior in college. Still happens a once or twice a year.
fuck you, cancer.
Edit: whooooaaaa. Thanks everyone, for sharing your stories of loss and encouragement. Such solidarity in our "Fuck you, cancer". Hugs to all who have lost and a high five for continuing on to see the light and feel the joy of another day.
I know if my mom were livin', she'd tell me congrats and to get my ass off the internet already.
BabyMamaMina
Just over a year for my dad... I still have moments of "he'd love this movie! I need to tell... him... next time I see him... shit."
Sfinski
Lost my mom to cancer too. Fuck you cancer, you're the worst!
mynameisbucky
That's awful, OP. I'm really sorry to hear that. I'm sure she'd be glad you still think it's important to tell her. Congratulations, btw!
DavidAndrews
Yeah 11 years here. It starts not happening as often but I wouldn't lose the desire to please her for any temporary amount of pain it causes
helloclarebear
Graduated this year without my da. Fuck you, cancer.
Sarabeara1913
Lost my grandmother to it still drive by her house to see her sometimes expecting her to be there
blackcloudsandrainbows
10 years...happened my freshman year of college...still happens to me too :( fuck cancer
macbrews
http://imgur.com/kl8sUqZ As someone who's been in this situation. Imgur really has been dishing out the feels this weekend.
BealZBub
Agreed
PalatablePenguin
Approaching 2 years...I still cry when I check her last text to me, "K missu" and I'm sure I still will at 9 years. Sorry for your loss OP
byllman
So sorry to hear this, OP. My mom passed away (cancer) when I was 35 and that felt too young to lose a parent.
argo12
Yup. Lost my dad when I was 36, and mom at 42. I miss them more and more but it doesn't make me sad all the time anymore.
byllman
This is almost the same as me. My mom at 35 and my dad at 41. Message me if you want to talk about it.
montagg
Lost my brother recently, this happens every damn day. Gotta treat it like dark comedy or I'd have some serious issues :/ much loe OP
ACanadianPerson
I still have dad as one of the contacts on my phone. When something important happens I still get et the urge to call him. 3 years now.
Katirwal
OP, what was your accomplishment?
TheCrookedStep
It never gets easier to let go, but it does get easier to remember the good times and laugh and smile about the love you've shared.
SecretAgentSterling
Cancer took my father 2 weeks ago. I do this everyday. I hate it.
Luvvie
*hugs* I'm so sorry sweetie
TheHolyFatman
It takes time....and it gets better. It will never, ever go away, though. Ever.
lovemeinfocus
My mom died while I was in college in 2009...I still have days where I go to grab the phone to call to ask her a question. *hugs*
nitwitblubberoddmentweak
*hugs back* we got this
fireandrain
My mom is battling ovarian cancer now. I tell her everything and I fear the day this happens. Im so sorry OP
SinceIFoundSerenity
I lost my mom to cancer 5 years ago and I still do the same thing.
argo12
Me, too. I had cancer surgery last spring. When I got home from hospital I missed mom so much. Wished she was there to take care of me.
SinceIFoundSerenity
I have a 1.5 year old & I had knee replacement a month after his birthday. It was hard finding help while I recovered. Missed her so much.
RollstheDough
fuck it I'll say it, "whoops" also fuck cancer
nitwitblubberoddmentweak
aaaah dammit balls. I done fucked up. Well, I'm gonna blame the 4am posting for that one. Thanks for pointing it out :)
RollstheDough
east coast?
nitwitblubberoddmentweak
south east. ...so i'll blame it on almost being 4am bwaha
RollstheDough
lol same, night buddy sleep for myself and hopefully for you as well. If you ever need to talk to someone about your loss, I'm here
nitwitblubberoddmentweak
oh cool :) I'm off to bed as well. Thanks so much for your offer and your fearless spelling corrections. May the force of imgur be with you
TheCurseOfTheFuzzyDuckling
Left school to care for my parents. They both died. I went back after, just graduated...nobody to call.
madamvastra
So sorry, OP. Hugs. Mental illness took my mom when I was born. Those with moms, hug 'em for me. Those with memories, cherish 'em for me.
bubblehearth
It wasn't cancer, but it's been six years. I still want to talk to my dad and think about it, every now and again.
MechanicOfDerp
I understand perfectly. Got my liscense, hey dad! oh yeah. . . sheeit.
IOnlyCommentWithIrony
5 years here... still happens indeed :(
YoloSwagginsAndTheKnightsOfTheRoundTable
same, it will be almost 5 years for me soon
LordRegal
Four here…the number of times I want her opinion on something only to have that realization yet again...
VittuSaatana
10 months here
suth2436
It will get easier, hang in there.
builtfordtough
It'll be 9 years in August, and l still try to call my dad
WhenInDoubtC4
Last year in January. Piss off, cancer...
SerialKitten666
7 months here :(
suth2436
It will get easier, hang in there.
SheBlindedMe
5 years for me too. Took me a year to delete her number.
Wombatish
Best friend (not quite the same, but still), sudden accident, 2.5 years, still start to text often. Will keep happening.
Windbeutel
at least u have something to remember :( 10 years in september, chemo started when I was 8 (and i'm the oldest), soon she would be
Windbeutel
in bed all day, this + children's memory = bad == little to remember really
ac09jste
It'll be 3 years in June. It's nice to know I'm not the only one!
SheBlindedMe
5 years for me too. Took me a year to delete her number
dudedude600
In March it'll be two years... Miss you dad.
icopoutsometimes
5 years for me too. My sister is pretty much my surrogate mom now
ChuckWolf
As someone who lost his dad 10 days ago after a 2year battle with cancer... I feel your pain.
argo12
Ack, 10 days...I'm so sorry. It leaves such a big hole. :(
nitwitblubberoddmentweak
ooph, those early days are some of the hardest. But time does help ease the pain. My mom also fought cancer for a number of years so I (1)
nitwitblubberoddmentweak
can say that your dad must have been one tough son of a gun. You should be proud. I'm sorry for your loss. PM me if you need support :)
seefuturesinballs
My mom passed away yesterday after battling cancer for 4 years, please tell me it gets easier..
anet
I lost my mom 4 months ago after a 3 year battle with pancreatic...I definitely have my moments. If you need to talk, I'm always here.
Luvvie
Oh, honey. *hugs* I'm so sorry for your loss.
seefuturesinballs
Thank you
triplettrouble
Just backing up OP here. I lost my dad, and while I'll never stop missing him, it doesn't hurt so much anymore. I'm sorry for your loss.
seefuturesinballs
Thank you
argo12
I'm so sorry :( Mom died nearly 5 years ago. It does get better. Hang in there. Big hugs to you.
Lomi
It gets easier I promise. Be strong you will live through it! *hugs*
nitwitblubberoddmentweak
hey OP. First off, I'm sorry. The pain right now can be numbing and simultaneously horrible, but it DOES get easier. You have to give(1)
nitwitblubberoddmentweak
(2) it some time. &surround yourself with loved ones and people who loved your mom.Share the memories, it helps. PM if you need to talk :)
seefuturesinballs
Thank you, and yeah, numb is exactly how I feel right now
nitwitblubberoddmentweak
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wordtoonesmother
Fuck you, cancer.
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ByThePowerOfSCIENCE
Wanna know the greatest irony? Cancer is a direct consequence of the capabilities that made sea bugs evolve into humans.
ninmonkey
Why is everyone giving cancer free sex? I don't get it?
wordtoonesmother
Womp womp. I like it!
Kakhtus
I hope you get cancer, cancer!
DustyKat
I think that's all cancer has.
emirh12
Well we couldn't find cancer to beat up so we found someone with cancer
bNe2
And that username to boot...
MadamPuddifoot
My rotty is dying from cancer. So, emphatically I say: FUCK CANCER.
DownvoteFairiesWearBoots
Cancer is worse than Dan
chubito33
...hell even I'll admit it, it's just a tad bit worse then Kelly... Fuck u Kelly
pleaseiamnotalive
;-;
wordtoonesmother
That's saying something!
3MTA3
Cancer is worse than LASAAAAAAAAAAAAAANNN
Meredy
Roight, where is that pussy cancer?
iamanorangutan
I couldn't find cancer, but I did find someone with cancer.
KacerRex
flavorpotato
Whoa, mate
snazzygabe12
That's a bold move cotton
EnterDMZ
Have some decorum.
Satinsball
I get it! Cancer! The astrological sign!
Widget88
Satinsball
Please actually be that....
AlliterationAlert
Tis my brother. Tis.
LizardEnterprises
Funny post, I bet my Grandpa would love it. Oh right... Fuck you, cancer
LizardEnterprises
That's OK. I'll just talk to my Dad about physics and shit instead. Oh right.... Fuck you, cancer.
LizardEnterprises
Well, at least I still have my childhood dog to comfort me. Oh right.... Fuck you, cancer...
Omnomniscient
I think cancer has a vendetta against your family.
LizardEnterprises
And that was just within one year. It was not a good year.