Can you do it?

May 18, 2024 7:40 PM

get_help_if_you_need_it

selfcare

mental_health

"You need to let go. Your past doesn't define who you are, it just gives you a starting point for who you're going to be." -RvB

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

eh, 4/10

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

"You cant repeat the past" *repeat video on loop trying not to cry*

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Cool

2 years ago | Likes 28 Dislikes 0

What movie is this???

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The Batman, spiderman, mad Max, John wick and many more

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Nah im just going to *ill myself.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

So hakuna matata?

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

A boy has the right to dream https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SpTe49f5b1I

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I half expected the last clip to be “I’m Batman.”

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

10

2 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 1

Sitting here going insane over things I can't change, knowing that forward will hurt but hopefully less than staying still...
I didn't know I needed this today...

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I am Groot!

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I needed this. I've been thinking about walking away from some people that I know I can't help. Me sticking around them would end up driving me back to some old ways that will only end badly for me. It hurts, but I think it's time.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

you know, I come back to this one every once in a while. I came back to it today.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Moving on doesn't mean forgetting or necessarily even forgiving. It means you don't let what happened in the past keep you from living in the present.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I just...find using the line from the Shawshank Warden when he intentionally murdered a man who could have freed Andy is somewhat...counter to the message.

2 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 0

His judgment cometh, and that right soon

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yeah, I was like, uuuuuhhh, this seems out of place here.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Shhhhh

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I see, its a sweet thing but also it feels a lot like "wow white men realy are smartly depicted in movies"

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I think you're reading too much into it, not to mention deliberately ignoring the message

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Do I, though????

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

“Only you can change your life.” - my mother.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Nicely done

2 years ago | Likes 292 Dislikes 1

Seems like a slyfer combo from youtube

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Jesus christ. Having The Warden from The Shawshank Redemption tell you to move on. The context in that bit is that he had just unlawfully executed Andy's student who also had exonerating testimony that could get Andy released and was forcing Andy back to laundering his embezzled money. Some things you don't just move on and put behind you. In fact, it was that incident that finally pushed Andy to escape. I get the post's point but damn that context is important.

2 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Meh I disagree friend. This is a well executed sum of the parts, which makes it something different from it's deconstructed parts. If anything I want no other context here.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I mean, would you feel the same if he had Hitler shouting "reach for your dreams" or Ted Bundy telling you "Don't let society hold you back from what makes you happy" or Bill Cosby saying "you can't change the past, just move on." If so, kudos to you I guess. The character is an objectively evil person who is blackmailing someone using those words. I won't downvote you, but I vehemently disagree that context doesn't matter.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I see your point, but if one doesn't know who these people are, the piece stands by itself. An important distinction is that these are all actors performing a charater's dialog, not real people.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

“Do you want to take a leap of faith, or become an old man, filled with regret, waiting to die alone?”

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

What's the movie with Tom Hardy?

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2 years ago | Likes 149 Dislikes 0

I have been taking more naps. Don't underestimate the power of a nap.

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2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Imgur has ruined me, was expecting a dickbutt at the end

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Did you know that on the DVD and Blu-ray of dodgeball every time that white snaps, there's an Easter egg. You press enter on your remote and it takes you to a bonus feature.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Song: The Way by Zack Hemsey
https://youtu.be/oN2Xs-MvxLw

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Din Djarin: *heavy breathing*

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Struck me that only white males are in this.

2 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 21

It's factually not true, and if it was, so what? What's so wrong if only whine men was in this 50 second clip?

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

They didn’t say it was wrong. Consider that to a non-white male person, it would be a striking thing to see a bunch of white dudes giving advice and a sprinkle of watanabe.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Forced american diversity is so fucked up...

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Ken Watanabe is white now??

2 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 2

I just went through this. for nearly a decade. in a crescendo of tears and screaming into pillows, I finally learned how to forgive myself for all the mistakes I've made, and turned my regrets into goals and motivation. it was the singularly hardest thing to do, forgive myself. but it was the last step before I could start healing. the worst was turning 40 only to realize I didn't want kids because of who I was with. and now I want them and am alone. There's still time.

2 years ago | Likes 77 Dislikes 0

Lots of time. My first husband's father was 55 when he was born. They had a great family.

2 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Unless adopting, not necessarily. I don't presume that they're male. But regardless, best of luck to them.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

That’s… that’s a helluva long pregnancy…

2 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Fuck did I ever need to hear this today. Can I buy you a beer or something

2 years ago | Likes 254 Dislikes 3

The only thing I got from this is 'what am i supposed to ?'.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This may not be as dramatic but this always gives me a little boost (sound) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3CClOsC26Lw

2 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Idk if you can buy OP a beer, but I'll take one. Guinness would work really well about now

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Same here man. Let's all get a round each eh?

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Same. Let’s be friends 🩷

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

No because this gave me the power of sobriety. Fuck your beer

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

You can have or not have whatever you choose, friendly internet stranger.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Give them a follow @vedicmastery

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I believe in you! And I think you look light up the room when you smile :D

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Same Same. My divorced is getting ugly.

2 years ago | Likes 35 Dislikes 0

I'm two years out the other side of mine. There is good life out here. Hang strong.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Sorry to hear this. You’re loved internet stranger.

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Brothers, divorce is HARD. Keep this to mind: it may take time, but it will get better. And remember: stay to the high road, especially if you have kids.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

As someone who is going through a very ugly divorce myself, hang in there. It does get better. If you (or anyone) ever needs someone to reach out to, my DMs are always open.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My divorce isn't getting ugly but she is leaving me after 14 years. I needed this as well.

2 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

*hug*

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