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Fuck me, right?
So the other day I was playing BF1 when a girl (who I've barely talked to) sent me a Snapchat of her topless out of the blue. It completely took me by surprise so I responded "was that for me?" and she confirmed that it was, in fact, meant for me. I didn't want to come off as rude or unappreciative because I was worried she might have low self esteem and was looking for some confirmation that she's beautiful but as time went on she became more and more aggressive in her messaging and eventually I had to block her from Snapchat.
Fast forward a few days and her friend texts me calling me an asshole for blocking her and that I shouldn't turn her away like that after she was comfortable enough to show me her breasts. I tried explaining that it was unsolicited and I was trying to be considerate to which she basically responds with the cliché "a guy should always want it". I just stopped responding to her after that and talked with my female friend and she completely agreed with me that this whole situation is just messed up.
honestly Imgur I'm just exhausted at this point and Idk how this will end up.
TL;DR: OP gets unsolicited nudes from a girl and gets shit on for not wanting them.
Necrosemantic
I got an unsolicited dick pic today. Not my first, but boy was it ugly.
segdator1
annitta
Girls complain about double standards but don't want guys to. If I don't want a dick pic why should I expect a guy wants to see my boobs
NiceGreenArrows
You did the right things, best you can do.
ItsUrBoiCaleb
DouglasPouchOfHolding
MORE than ok to reject repeat unwanted sexual advances. It's not flattering, it's fucking creepy. You're in the right! Sorry they're gross.
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NiceGreenArrows
hush, angry fluff.
tomisjustaguy
aceventurainacoolhat
Is there a meme to convey " you get no sympathy from me"?
NiceGreenArrows
yeah,
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HumorLeech
Hey, if you're not into it, you're not into it. Guys can turn down sudden advances, too. We're not mindless animals. Sexist as fuck, girl.
annitta
"They must be gay if they turn down a hot girl"
HumorLeech
Dukeboysz
Who's to say she was hot? I have had PLENTY of 3/10s send me nudes.....when I was dating their friend....I need new friends.