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I'm not sorry for this long post. Sometimes people just want one thing...
So I signed up for this dating site, two actually, a long time ago. And when I got dumped, I reactivated them. I guess that was the wrong move.
Guys started messaging me left a right for booty calls... I stated I didn't want ANYTHING to do with the sort, just a friend. Maybe something more later on. ::shrugs:: who knows...
Anyways, one day, a guy I think might be genuine messages me and we hit it off... I was wrong. I got a Level 10 clinger. Tell him no dice and to leave me alone...
So he calls me and texts me nearly every hour on the hour... I've about gone ballistic from his antics.
Then he asks for a nudie. Straight up, no joke, after I told him repeatedly that I just wanted to get to know people as friends first.
Then he told me to get off of my high horse and stop being all high and mighty.
I told him to pretty much piss off
Now that he's gone, the creepers are now out in full force...
They message me and I get hopeful that they want to be friends and get to know each other first before anything happens. Why Imgur... Why are people less inclined to do such?
I don't care what guys tell me, I'm smart, funny, like sports, cook, and am a bit of a nerd. I think I'm cool. Screw the haters.
Dakattack22
Have you tried de-activating your account?
G4DG37
Wow, it's amazing how many people comment when there's a single woman involved
sparklefluff2electricboogaloo
pay sites all the way! cuts the weirdos in half. i had a nice time & didn't get murdered.
TwoDogsOneCat
Dating sites can be rough but they can also work out! You have to get through all the bad ones to find the one good one.
Tamnik
I tried those sites once after my friend met his now wife on one. I found out I lack confidence in that setting as well.
Schmetterling190
Just do it, you already have the no. And if you are nervous about meeting someone, just remember that if they are worth it, they'll accept u
TheLastGunslinger
I read "cook" as "cock". Gods, I am corrupted beyond repair-- and possibly dyslexic.
TheOnlyDoctorITrustIsDrZoidberg
There's a lot of creeps on all parts of the gender spectrum on dating sites. You're going to find a lot more online then you would IRL 1/2
TheOnlyDoctorITrustIsDrZoidberg
simply due to the fact you're going through their messages faster. Good luck on your adventures OP!
matto0510
Most of the guys on dating websites are assholes. All the good guys are on imgur, eating ice cream and yelling at their cat.
IfYouWantSympathyLookInTheDictionaryBetweenShitAndSyphilis
Online dating..... sifting through a mile of shit to find one possible maybe...
ManThong
This just in: most guys don't want to be your friend.
nirach
And now you know why the 'genuine' guys don't use dating sites.
The3Funny4
Nudie pls
The3Funny4
Jk, had to do it. Go out and meet someone
RobotSquad
You sound like an incredible girl, too bad you're likely across the country. a girl that can actually cook are one and a million now
RobotSquad
one in a million* lmao it's late
shakespearenut
LOL I got taught how to cook at an early age and adore it
Mookystick
being a man = knows men are dicks.
Gustie13
Why do you invite drama into your life? Just stop talking to them when they get weird.
Kittycakesnugglebutt
I met my boyfriend on a dating site and we just celebrated our 1 year anniversary! Friends a year before we met. : ) It can happen!
Kittycakesnugglebutt
I met him on agematch.com. I was looking for someone older/more mature and that's what I found! He is 9 years my senior. Of course there
Kittycakesnugglebutt
were creeps, but I found a blog he was writing and that is how we became friends and how I knew he wasn't a creep.
thatoneredheadedguy
you want to hook up gurl? I mean like...really hook up...I got some wire's I need to get organized and plugged into my tv
shakespearenut
I might electrocute myself in the process but meh i'll try lol
thatoneredheadedguy
fair enough, I'm just waiting for the fire to come from the mass of systems plugged into my tv...super smash bro's ftw!
Schmetterling190
Before giving out your number, be super clear about your expectations (friendship first) and that you don't like to be pressured. 1/2
Schmetterling190
2/2 guys who are clingy will right away be upset, pushy, or insist in having your number. Don't give up, and don't generalize :)
Schmetterling190
oh and block them right away! :) Good luck!
Uberdonut
I guess now would be where I turn in my friend resume?
UnrulyCactus
Honestly.... please don't give up. As a guy in a rural area, I use those sites because there's nowhere else to meet girls (1/2)
poortom
Yeah, but I'm guessing for every one of you there's hundreds of genuinely creepy people.
poortom
You see imgur's selfie day? Dudes were telling girls that they were masturbating to their pic as a pick up line. We live in a wierd world.
UnrulyCactus
Probably not hundreds.....well, hopefully.
UnrulyCactus
besides bars and we want better than that. Some of us are good guys that just want to meet a great woman. It'll be worth it. (2/2)
samsonguy920
As the pointy dude said. It is well worth looking for other sites, though. Recommendation: Stay away from ethnic-specific sites.
thereeper
this