Spfeel
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This girl seems interested in me, but at the same time seems a little stand offish, she said she just wants to be appreciated for her, so I'm trying to accommodate her in a flattering way for our semi date/hang out thing.
Went over her house once, just played video games. Offered to take her out tonight, she seemed pretty excited up until I said this. Idk kinda feeling a little discouraged lol, haven't been on the dating scene for awhile so putting myself out there isn't always easy. What you guys think?
If you're gonna clown me at least follow with some semi good advice lmaooo ?
agentcase
Stop being discouraged. Just go. It's best to judge things in person over time.
Spfeel
Imgurians I really appreciate the support, you guys are great ?
KONKREETkahuna
Don’t read Too far into things, she might have something else on her mind too.
greach
Just ask, worse case it’s a no and you know
frkbunbun
How did it go?
Spfeel
Honestly it was a pretty fun night, i don't think she'll be my gf tho
J1m8ob
They didn't outright say no at the idea of a date, so you have a chance. Actively listen and try having actual conversation with them.
Spfeel
Man you guys are great, why can't my real life friends be as awesome as ya'll haha
emilyvin
Wear nice clothes, enjoy your time out together. Become friends, date after.
Spfeel
Yeah that sounds like a game plan, just got a little anxious, but that sounds good.
emilyvin
The trick is to just remember that it might not work out, you cannot force it. If it is going to be the right person it will just click.
Spfeel
Got it, so I'll just try to flow and see how the night goes. Not sure what to say to her from here tho.
emilyvin
Get the time and place and be there =P
Spfeel
Haha sounds like a plan, thank you so much.