It's the little things, right?

May 14, 2021 5:30 PM

She decided last minute that neither the move nor the relationship is going to work.

Benny, the orchid in question. Still missing its pot as it was already packed up.

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6 years but hadn't moved in yet? Thats a major red flag. Still sucks you deserve better OP.

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

There were very good reasons on both sides to not move together earlier. Mostly Money-/Work-/Study-related factors. That was totally fine.

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Its harder to cheat when you're living with the person.

5 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Exactly, she might want to remain free and independent before settling down. She didn’t want to put all her eggs in one basket.

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Thor orchid know she isn't right for you.

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The Orchid seems to be better in smelling this than me

5 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Agreed, it would've hammered down on their relationship for OP's sake.

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Makes u wonder though. U hear stories of girls poisoning or damaging hobby things "Because he could pay more attention to me instead"

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Possible, but very unlikely in this scenario. Didn't water it b/c I was paying attention to the move. We never lived together.

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Thorchid

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i know--durned autocorrect!

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