I wish it wasn't like this

Dec 17, 2024 1:12 AM

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I'm a prof at a small-ish uni. I actually get jealous of the security elementary schools have. Our admins don't give a shit. All the outside doors are unlocked at all times, there's only one exit from our entire office area (also a huge fire hazard). Just know you're not alone even in higher ed

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I wish these mass shooters would focus on CEOs instead of kids. They have conferences etc. heck go to NRA speaking events

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This must be a very stressful thing to think about. Hopefully this might ease your thoughts a little bit, but if you're kind to your kids there is a higher likelihood they'll spare you, like how kids spare other kids who are kind to them. This doesn't count kids who don't know you though of course. I'm sure it'll cut the percentage chance down significantly though.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

My wife is a HS teacher, and they've had several scares over the years. These never made headlines because either it was just a scare or they isolated the person before they could hurt anyone. The fact that the school is in an affluent zone and didn't want it's reputation damaged probably counts too.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

I'm not a teacher, but if I was as underappreciated as you all are I would learn another language and try to get a job in a foreign country. Of course there's gonna be culture shock, homesickness and a whole new set of stresses to deal with, but when you settle in and develop a routine I bet you a life you never thought possible will open up.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Until last year, I was teaching in a classroom with a glass wall opening to the one hallway and contained the only door. The one corner that could hide folks could contain 2 bodies from sight. My classroom was full of sitting ducks should the worst happen.
But the door could lock upon closing.
Huzzah! to the architect hired in 2015 to design that classroom setting.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

It's not the reason I left after 14 years, but it did take a much larger weight off my shoulders than I realized I was carrying. And, you are not the only one out there who feels that way, by a lot.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

I'm a teacher in Florida. I've taught everything from pre-K up to high school. Teachers here are not OK and have not been OK for a long time. This timeline sucks.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

I work outside in all kinds of weather using machines that can mess you up. My job is safer than yours. Good luck.

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 4

I personally know two teachers that were targeted. The districts conservative board members are using private investigators to target teachers and report “anonymously” as concerned parents. During any investigation, teachers are removed from class and tied up in investigation for months. Sometimes the entire length of the school year. Then, they just rinse and repeat - or just cancel their contracts unless they fit their values.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Depending on where you are, you might be. As a retired teacher, I wouldn't go anywhere near the states with a significant number of Christofascists. Those fuckers are seriously batshit.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I have a daughter in middle school and another in elementary school. Every time I hear there is a shooting I have a tiny heart attack. It's great! It's like the lottery, except with my kid's lives.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

Same buddy, same

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 3

I'm a teacher, so i think about safety often. This one hit close to home. One of the teachers at the school used to babysit my kids. She's safe, but still, just experiencing this will stay with her.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

We are. I'm not preparing to be in a classroom next year. I am assuming I'll be in a concentration csmp.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

the biggest issue is the systemic issues that causes these problems. Particularly lack of care by alot of schools, school staff and other figures. Often due to schools being understaffed, or adminstrators who dont want to tarnish their schools image. Kids who are bullied, kids with emotional or even mental stability issues are often brushed off, pushed aside, or bullied worse if they tell a teacher. leading many to believe their only option is to take matters into their own hands

2 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 2

It's not. That's not why grown ass men, or even teenagers, get guns and shoot little kids. That's a bullshit narrative that helps the NRA and GOP shift blame to schools and a failed mental health system that they created and perpetuate.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Im not specifically blaming schools, Im blaming society as a whole, at least as far as America is concerned, There was a time when guns were second nature to most americans, every house had them, people had gun racks in their trucks, had shooting sports in schools. They used to sell guns in sears catalogues as christmas gifts for kids. Mass shootings were rare or unheard of. Somethings changed, its not the guns, nor access to guns, its something deeper within society

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Already had a school shooting at my first school I worked at. Just depressing shit

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

You're right to worry. My parent was a teacher for 30 years. Glad she got out when she did. It's really not good out there dude. Do what you can to take care of yourself and your own. I know you are probably the kind of person who can't help but take care of the kids too, so go for it. Just make sure you also take care of yourself too.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Things are so bad here now I thought you meant the education system being dismantled.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

A ton of guns stolen from local shop and a ton of shootings all weekend and come early Monday morning a kid wound up dead outside a home next to an elementary school, the shots may have been from the school before hours, at dawn - as the crime was investigated the school was on lock and teach mode. It is a lot .. grateful that at the school my kid goes to they take it seriously if I got a concern or question about things and they rather we say something then ignore it.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Jesus Christ. I am so sorry.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You are under constant fire and stress from the far right. The book bans,the school shooting, bad salaries and conditions, the Fox News attack, etc. if you don’t see it,you are very strong minded

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm a teacher. A kid brought a gun to school 2 months ago. He brought it to show off not to do anything bad as far as we know but the kid got caught with it right before he would have been in my class the following period. To know he didn't plan to use it but knowing how close I came to a firearm in my classroom still fucks with my head. I love this job but it scares me sometimes.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I work in a middle school in America, doing many things such as lunch and rec, bussing, front desk, and recently got promoted to the Emergency Response Team.

This means I get the privilege of making sure doors are secure and people are sheltered during a Lock Down. No shelter in place for me apprently. Back when we started doing shooter drills the front desk people were told "You'd be killed first, so don't try to run. Warn people instead (pointing at fire alarm pull)." So yeah, it sucks

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Just hide behind the kids

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Worse when you refer bad behavior too. I totally understand that feeling.

2 years ago | Likes 34 Dislikes 3

As do all teachers in America right now. :(

2 years ago | Likes 146 Dislikes 9

So do the students and all the other school staff. Someone says “There was another school shooting today” and a collective shudder passes through and then everyone is quiet for a moment. And then you go right back to work, because what else are you going to do?

2 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

Since Columbine*...it's just SO normalized now. Although, America truly made its choice when it went right along with business as usual after Sandy Hook.

2 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 3

My daughter teaches 3rd grade, and is considering buying a gun for personal protection.

2 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 3

I’m a teacher and I can tell you, that would be the biggest mistake of her career. She can’t take it on to campus with her. At best, she would be able to leave it in her car as long as it’s out of sight.

What is she going to do? Abandon a bunch of 3rd graders to run to her car and grab her gun to then run back in to the building?

We need a nation wide teacher walk out is what we need.

Walk out and not come back till something is done.

2 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

In a lot of American schools the states have made the teachers carrying legal, and they encourage teachers to be armed to “protect their classes.” This puts the burden of protecting children on the schools and individual teachers instead of the police. If children die and the teacher wasn’t armed it’s the teachers fault for not being armed. If the teacher failed to save a life of a student oven though armed it’s that teachers fault for not being a fast enough or good enough shot.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 12

So sadly it is becoming a very big choice as a teacher do you pack heat on the job. And frankly yes that means that as a parent you better get used to the fact that the authority who is enforcing rules on your kids is holding a gun that your kid knows is probably loaded. And that is supposed to make your kid feel safe. Have fun knowing that your kids teacher may be soon enforcing classroom rules while being just as armed as the same pigs that will shoot your kid if they say the wrong thing.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 13

This is 100% false.

I teach and live in one of the reddest states in the country and we are only allowed to carry on campus if very very very specific conditions are met.

No state in the country just allows teachers to carry if they want.

Stop spreading your lies.

2 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0