Day # whatever of me trying to change people’s minds about spiders

Jan 28, 2025 6:10 PM

Meet Ellora (formerly Elvira)! I read her description (below) and instantly fell in love because how could I not? And despite the breeder’s trepidations, as you can see she’s been nothing but a doll with me. I think I was really meant to be her forever home :)

MV Edit: would you guys like to see some of the other species I keep? Spiders, snakes, geckos, etc? Or should I stick with just the spoods?

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I love the purple chelicerae

2 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

10 points to whatever house you’re in for knowing chelicerae! and i love hers too :)

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Hello Ellora!

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I never realised they got so big, always thought theyd be max like fingernail sized

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she’s not even full grown! she’s still only a subadult :)

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Are you familiar with a book called "Children of Time"?

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i am! loved the spider chapters; the spaceship chapters were meh

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This is absolutely not going to change my mind about spiders. Why would that adorable lil face make me dislike spiders?

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high five, fellow arachnerd

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Hello Gorgeous!

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aww! uppies please!

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I don't like spiders, and that includes jumping spiders. I understand that most people think they're cute, but I just can't. Is it the fur? The mannerisms? I don't get it. In my mind, they're still identical to all other spiders. Seeing as how I'll get downvoted for sharing my thoughts on the matter, I should note that I always attempt to catch and release spiders, when possible. I still respect life, but my arachnophobia is very prominent.

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It's the large beady eyes, it's triggering a lot of people's neural signals that fire off when they see newborns. It's fascinating once you find out how that part of our brain works.

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That makes sense. Thanks! I will admit, they're definitely the cutest spiders, but it's still not enough for me, lol. I do enjoy seeing pictures and videos of spiders, because like all animals, I think they're fascinating, it's just that my irrational fear takes over when they're in the same space as me. Luckily, I have two cats who almost always spot spiders well before I ever would, and they don't even try to eat them/kill them, they just more or less try to play with them. 😄

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I like spiders for the reasons I don't like dogs. Spiders don't try to touch me, bite, or lick mem Spiders aren't loud. I'm not allergic to spiders.

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same reasons i like spiders more than my dogs

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Jumping spiders are so cuuuuuute !

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i love them too!!!

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Jumping spiders are very inquisitive

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they’re active rather than passive hunters, which makes them incredibly observant!

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How do they get used to you to not be scared? Or can they recognize people?

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so they’ve actually done studies on cortisol levels (stress hormones) of spider being held by strangers vs their regular keepers and there is a distinct difference. they do recognize people and bond with them. not like a cat or a dog by any means but it’s something!

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Thats quite cool, and raises the question, how do they test spiders on cortisol levels

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umm well…….. the unalive the spiders.

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A very pretty little spider

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thank you, she’s a cutie for sure!

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Even my very arachnophobic ass thinks jumping spiders are adorable.

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they’re a good “gateway bug”! i even have a tarantula now lol

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Always adored jumpers, and had an interest in T's. I now have an Aphonopelma seemanni (a Costa Rica zebra named Legs For Days/"Legs), and just recently aquired my first Chromatopelma cyaneopubescens sling (a greenbottle blue named Ichorus as a pun).

Legs is a super sensitive girl that just wants to not be noticed and chill. Loves food, hates tank cleaning days.

Ichorus is named that partially as I got them on Halloween but also because they want to be close to the heat lamp too much lol

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She is gorgeous. Long may she wave.

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hehehe

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she’s very pretty! thank you!

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💕Cutie💕

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i adore her! regular socializing is definitely going to have to be a priority with her so she continues to be a cute and sweet girl

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This post was made by a spider

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well, the spider had some help from the lady who feeds her bugs

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That's the most adorable Apalachicola Phidippus Regius ever! //\°;;°//\

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i have a HUGE adult female who is absolutely stunning. i’ve been hoping she’d lay a fertile egg sac as she was paired but no far no luck

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I get mine naturally living in a small meadow in some small woods. Mine are all "voluntary". I went from gently escorting them out to creating indoor "support" areas kinda like terrariums without lids or sides. Actually find fewer dead ones under furniture and window sills now and much fewer bugs. (Yes I handle them with zero sign of aggression ever).

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LOVE the spoods, wouldn't mind seeing more creatures! 🙂

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okay! i’ll stick with these as my regular content but start slipping in some of the others as well!

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You get her some Live Other right now!!

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lmao this is the most underrated comment. upvote fairy for you

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nevermind because you don’t have any posts, sad face

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She’s so pretty! Gorgeous girl!!

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thank you! she’s definitely stolen my heart

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So cute! Great name. :(

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thank you!

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I didn't know they don't have ears but she legit look like she heard you at the beginning!

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they still pick up on a lot, like my mouth moving and my phone subtly moving :) it sometimes does come off like they can hear you

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Spiders are awesome. Why would you want me to change my mind?

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nahh you’re just here for the cuteness.

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I'm terrified of spiders, but she is adorable.

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hey, thanks for giving her a chance! my page is full of cuties just like her :)

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Spiders aren't responsible for my emotions. I am scared of them, but i can still like them. From a distance.

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Ellora is wonderful. I'd be game for any little critter you'd like to introduce, @op!

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good to know! i think i’ll continue to do mostly spider posts and maybe like, snake saturdays or something :)

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Why the name change?

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because my bestie adopted her sister and we wanted rhyming names for them. so ellora and cora it is! besides i’m more a morticia fan (really i’m a hex girl fan but if we’re going strictly old school)

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That makes sense!

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All the species

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i appreciate the enthusiasm! i’m going to show some more of my creatures off sporadically :)

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You won't change my mind, because these spiders are already the only ones that I like and that I would take on my hand :p

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they’re really fun to handle!

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oh wow i've never seen a jumper this big before!

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she’s actually still a subadult! she’ll get bigger :) she’s a special locality known for being bigger than the average Phidippus regius

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How big will she get? Btw, I'm absolutely terrified of spiders but this one seems nice.

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here’s my biggest spider, Sorcière, who is the same locality. i’m hoping Ellora gets to be this size!

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How does one keep a jumping spider from running away from them? I don't understand how you can keep a pet so small and so fast. Are they trainable? Or do you typically just start with them super young? Food motivated? She's super cute

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From what I've found, it's best to start when young. Jumpers that are hand-raised do best around people, but can't be released back to the wild as they're "domesticated"- they actually learn to be "feral" in the wild.

Wild ones have a hard time adapting to domestic settings. We have one that's a bit rare in our area for conservation. She was gravid and we wanted to save her from the cold too. She was super shy at first but a bit more "tame" now, though she'll always be "feral".

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To explain a little more: jumpers actually learn like any wild animal. They go through a trial and error process and remember what was a bad experience and what was good, and keep that for life. Big moving thing=bad, and it's hard to prove otherwise.

Which is why hand-raised jumpers can't be released after being in captivity. They hunted, yes, but it's "safe" foods. They don't know what adversaries are, how to navigate, what prey is safe or not, and that big moving things are to be avoided.

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Thank you, that's very helpful. Have you ever had one escape (either from habitat or from your hands)? How do you catch them again? I assume chasing could be dangerous for them, would you lure them back?

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That's a dot for me

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How long will she live?

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about 2.5-3 years. only downside of keeping jumpers is that they don’t live very long :(

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is it because they injure themselves or is that just what their lifespan is?

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nope, that’s just their natural lifespans

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I saw the cutest little white fuzzy one of these in some plants on a beach in Costa Rica a few years back. It was so extremely cute! I took a picture but left it alone.

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I'm sure they are fun while they last but it must hurt when they pass. I love interacting with the wild Jumpers.

Have you bred any?

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