Left the dude I had been with for a year because it wasn't going anywhere

Feb 14, 2024 8:37 PM

Found out the next day he gave me a UTI. Happy valentine's to meeee ...

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Morganto!

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Happy Valentines day, and an internet enabled hug, OP.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Occupied.. OCCUPIED!

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You can't post my likeness without my consent

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

You told me you weren't on social medias!!!

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You gave yourself a UTI. People don't "catch" one, like a disease. You need to pee after sex and clean that ratchet thing to avoid UTIs

2 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 5

Oh, I did. Isn't always enough.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Yeah wasnt cleaning the pipes 101 after having sex or masturbation?

2 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I mean if hands and genitals aren't relatively clean before, I'm sure it doesn't help prevent UTIs. What if he had poop hands or something you don't know

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

its "gave her a UTI" in the sense that he should have been cleaner. Could she have done things to prevent it? Probably. Is it reasonable to expect people to do a complete hazmat procedure after sex with their long term partner? Not really. The expectation that your partner will keep themselves at least reasonably clean is there.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 4

Like you cant tell if it's not clean?

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

"hold up baby lemme spot check out your stuff to see if its clean" is im sure not at all a weird and awkward thing to say in the heat of the moment

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I mean its pretty obvious if it's dirty gonna have a funky odor to it.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Ever smelled an uncircumcised penis, even when bathed that day, and you pull back the hood?

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0