Publicizing my shameful secret.

Jul 29, 2015 5:34 PM

PaliQ

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The dresser.

Most of the drawers are mostly empty, the top is covered in random stuff. I have no shelves in my room so things just pile up on whatever surface I can put them on.

bedside 'table'

My night stand is a filing cabinet, that does not even have any of my own stuff in it. It all belongs to the family I'm staying with. (I pay rent every month, so my 'land lady' has pretty much just left my room completely alone and leaves it to me to take care of.)

The closet.

I would like to blame the fact thati have no shelves, and a much smaller closet for all these problems, but having a bigger room in the past has simply meant a bigger mess.
(And yes I know there's an address on that box- it's my old one. No longer valid.)

Opposite the bed.

This space has been cleared out a lot from what it looked like earlier. I have not stood on the carpet over here in months, and this is the area where most of my trash has piled up. Three bags removed from the room so far, and two more filled. I am working on the sixth.

If any of you are struggling with the same kind of lifestyle, I highly encourage you to try and find the motivation to clean up. The final straw for me was realizng I couldnt bring my new (see: inherited) computer up here until it was clean.... And the fact that I had a small surge of ants appear. (The ants have almost entirely been taken care of. Just a few stragglers now and then)

the bed.

This is messier than it was, since I'm using the bed to sort everything out, but my sleeping space for months has been an area hardly big enough to curl up in, right on the edge of the bed. The rest was covered on junk and books.
In the past I have managed to clean off my bed and it's always a great feeling but then I stop working and it all falls apart again.
Not this time.

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Good for you, OP!

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I FOUND FORTY DOLLARS YOU GUYS. :D

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Five boxes of stuff organized, lots of clothes picked up, eight trash bags filled (five taken out- no more room). Bed for tonight. And I 1/2

11 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

am pleased to say, that I can stretch out on it!! :D No more tiny curled up edge sleeping! ^_^ 2/2

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I need a shower after seeing this.

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Meeeee too. D: I guess I sort of filter it when I see it in person cause I'm used to it... photos makes it look worse to me.

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Your a female op? That's fucking disgusting

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 4

you're* and yes, and I fucking know that, you insensitive prick.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Ahh that made me feel warm and fuzzy you pig

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

I'm officially on to garbage bag number seven.

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Nice! Keep up the good work! What also would help me by the way is shoving everything (even stuff on desks, shelves etc) on the ground (1/2)

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

piling it up and sitting next to it, pulling all the trash out and putting items I wanna keep in boxes I had sitting around me. (2/2)

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Garbage bag number nine guys. NINE.

11 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

You can do it, OP!

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Thanks! ^_^ I got a lot of progress done today! About to start garbage bag number eight. >.> I'm taking a little break right now, though.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You were one of the supportive comments, so I wanted to let you know I'm still working on my room! ^_^ Laundry for DAAAYYYYSSSS.

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Is it just me, or did anyone else trying playing "Where's Waldo" but with a dildo?

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

You would lose. I don't own one.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That might be your problem right there. Just saying...

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

(1) Throw away things you never used or haven't used in a long time or that are damaged. I know what you're going through, decimating the

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

(2) amount of items you own helps a lot. Find/get storing space (stackable boxes, box for under the bed, shelves, ...). If you have money

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

(3) issues try goodwill (or w/e is in your area, second hand stuff). Get a garbage bin (assuming you don't have one. I didn't either.)

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

(4) make sure to empty it when it is full. Remind yourself a trip to the trash bins takes maybe half a minute (and saves hours of time

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

(5) in the future) so it's done quick. Put dishes away immediately. Done eating? clean the plate. Done crafting/etc? Clean up immediately

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

(6) if need be right before bedtime. You can manage. Try to also keep your internal mess clean, a room reflects your insides so make sure

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It takes so much courage to face this problem. I'm amazingly proud of you and hopeful that your strength will give me strength to act, too!

11 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I probably wouldn't be able to even contemplate it without the medication I've started taking for my ADD. It makes me get up and DO stuff.

11 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

You encouraged me a year ago. My room is a wreck again. I'm bad at this. D: IT WAS CLEAN FOR A WHILE I SWEAR.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

So sorry to hear, I'm right there with you! Had to take short term disability to deal with my depression, my house is a wreck too. We can 1/

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

do this!! It's just another stumbling block, but we can and will take control of our lives back <3

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Going to bed now because my brain has forgotten how to not be mush. SO tired. But able to stretch out fully on my bed. :)

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Isn't that just the best feeling ever?? So awesome, you rock!!!

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

As one of my supportive commenters I wanted to let you know that I'm still working on my room! So much laundry to do! But it's getting done!

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Haven't been on much lately, sorry! It's AWESOME that you're still going strong!! Keeping the motivation alive is the hardest part!

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

YOU GUYS I FOUND A SWORD! ...I totally forgot I had it.

11 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

sword pix?

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Buried treasure ftw!!!!

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I just found $40 in two pairs of pants. One pocket had a receipt from Harry Potter, Midnight Showing, April 2011.

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Mello Yello, check. Cookies, check. Toilet paper, check. Throw the rest away.

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

BUT WHAT ABOUT ALL MY CONVENTION SWAG?! D: I HAVE CELEBRITY PHOTOS IN THERE.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Also, the Mello Yello is one of my biggest points of issue. I rarely remember to take my empty cans downstairs. Cleared them all out though.

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0