my dad was diagnosed with heart failure

Feb 8, 2022 3:58 AM

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and he has a limited time on earth. I just found out a week ago. And this popped up on my feed and I broke down. He always did this for me and my brother. I don’t know how to live in a world without him.

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Can confirm. Be strong for him op.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Dad kept 10 pounds of butter in the freezer. He'd always give me some. And he'd always reup right away. Miss you pops.

4 years ago | Likes 40 Dislikes 0

I asked my dad once to get me a blueberry yoghurt, a single serving. He got me 2 500 ml glasses and another two the following week and so on

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I told my dad I like el caminos. He bought one as a HS grad gift for his youngest son. I didn’t even a FB msg for either of my grads.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Cherish the fact your dad was an absolute treasure that not all get to have.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Oh friend. That's so hard.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Be grateful for the time you had. And if you have it in you, you can be that person to somebody who needs it next. Child, friend, relative.

4 years ago | Likes 187 Dislikes 3

Miss my dad too ?

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My dad had congestive heart failure he died 18 months after diagnosis at 49 on my 19th birthday cherish the time you have left. I'm so sorry

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

There is always hope. My dad was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer. They gave him 30 days a year ago. Its not over til it's over.

4 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Thank you. That is the boat I’m currently in.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Just lost mine. A monumental pillar in your life has just collapsed. But the structure he helped you build is still there. <3

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That's nice, some peoples dad's take them off their health insurance In the middle of a pandemic even though they offered to pay the differe

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Dad went for cigarettes 15 yrs ago, hasn’t came back yet ?

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Where does one get a dad like that? Asking for a friend...

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I am going through the same thing, my friend. Condolences, this is my worst fear come true. Hardest time of my life ever.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My dad was never a hugger. When I found out he was on his way out. I made sure to hug him.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Be like dad

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

It's ok for it to hurt and not know how to be without him. One moment at a time you will find a way. Good luck OP

4 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 0

#1 would say pussy but then who will feed and take care of all these cats it would be too much pussy to handle.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I was really confused for a bit because it sounded like you were saying you really liked heart failure and pops was that dedicated to you.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Then you have assholes like my dad who couldn't care less about his own children.

4 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Remember to break the cycle if you have kids. I tell mine all the time that I love them. I still fuck up but I apologise quickly when I’d do

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah, I don't recall asking for trauma, but here we are.

4 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Came looking for this comment so id feel less alone. If I could get anything from dad it would be respect and love. Can't buy that.

4 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Hey friend, I was going through some older stuff and saw this. If you need affirmation and respect 1) you're valid no matter what and 2/

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

2) DM me if you want some validation.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Whew, my pops is the fucking best, man. Gonna go hug that old fucker and cry, brb.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

lol. my dad is in his 70s and he bought me a CASE of k-cups. I was kind of blown away.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Same thing happening here. Not sure how to deal with it.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My dad told me to be picky about who I marry as a teen ahen he didnt like my friend, then I found out he married his stepsister, curious

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

True. Once asked my dad if I could borrow his paper shredder to shred some mail. The next day an industrial office paper shredder arrived.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Also...sorry Op. ❤️

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Find out what your dad needs or wants and buy it for him. Roll reversal FTW.

4 years ago | Likes 111 Dislikes 0

Role*

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

shit! thanks.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Dads just want to see their kids happy. Spend time with him telling him how much you’ve enjoyed growing up, your life & achievements.

4 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

That and gravel.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Gravel. All dads could use a delivery of gravel.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

New heart kinda expensive

4 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Nah, it's free, it's the lawyers that are expensive.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Am Dad, already bought it. Wife hates that. Makes gift giving difficult as she has to come up with something original every time. I like it.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Maybe it's just me then. My mom is super frugal and doesn't let my dad buy things he needs. So he loves it when I buy him stuff my mom stops

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I told mine. Idk. Just buy me tennis shoes on sale since I hate shoe shopping. Very happy with my Christmas gift. Exactly what I wanted.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I’m kind of the same way. Dad mentioned Life Bouy soap, bought like 9 bars for him. I dunno if he used it all or not before he passed in…

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

2014. I still get depressed every now and then. Have broken down at work a few times because someone was wearing old spice or they played…

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

a Buddy Holly song.

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