It got way better

Jul 2, 2025 1:32 AM

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Just feeling proud of myself today!
After ten really hard years in a bad marriage,
I finally got divorced,
went back to school,
and found myself again.

I’ve got my sparkle back, the real me,
the one I thought was gone for good.

If I can start over, anyone can. Seriously.
You’re never too far gone, never too stuck.

Nice. Now you can marry me instead. (jk) :D You look great.

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1 year ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 1

Im really happy for you @OP. Way to go !

1 year ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 2

1 year ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

you're smiling in the recent picture. that's all that's needed. enjoy being you!

1 year ago | Likes 199 Dislikes 8

Indeed. Welcome back to you!

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

1 year ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 2

killing it

1 year ago | Likes 78 Dislikes 2

Plus you found your pants

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

This is really what its all about in life.

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I can't even imagine what that must feel like. Congratulations and I wish you the best for your future.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You are literally glowing with happiness. Rock on OP! Keep on shinning you crazy diamond

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

As someone currently in the process of starting over; hell yeah! You deserve to be happy, you deserve to thrive, and it turns out a lot of the things I thought important really weren't. Turns out I'm willing to forsake close to any comfort if it means I'll feel like life is more than just waiting for the day to end. I spent the first three decades of my life thinking that was as good as it was going to get.

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Glad for you. I just got divorced 6 months ago. Still struggling to find myself and push through but I'm going to keep trying. Good to see you made it.

1 year ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

You got this, just take it one day at a time and give yourself lots of grace while you adapt to a new normal and a new you. Here’s to happier times ahead.

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Thank you.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Three years out, over here. Met someone a little over a year ago. Got together back in November. In the intervening time, got a job, new living situation with family close by, primary custody of my now 10 y/o, therapist, picked myself out of the rubble...felt like coming back to life at times. Thank you all for sharing. Helps me know that I did the right thing whenever I start to wonder. Best thing I'd done for myself in 12 years...

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That ear to ear smile is soooooooo lovely to see. Here's for a better days, and the best days ahead.

1 year ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

You look amazing and so much happier! You've done great by yourself! Trying to get going here too. Maximum effort! https://media4.giphy.com/media/v1.Y2lkPWE1NzM3M2U1emJhYmZ0eG9xZXJvM3lkbGR6cDI2ZWViN3Y1eHhpMDZmcTlpbzFseiZlcD12MV9naWZzX3NlYXJjaCZjdD1n/FxUFE9TPXIKFG/200w.webp

1 year ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

I have that same shirt in your after pic!

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Their loss.

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1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

How did you get younger from 2019 to 2025?

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You look a decade younger

1 year ago | Likes 870 Dislikes 3

The best way to stay young and beautiful is to be full of joy.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah I still haven't figured out how she reverse-aged, but I want some!

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Was on same page, amazing how stress ages you but happiness makes you younger. Bring on stage 2!

1 year ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 0

THIS

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

At least!

1 year ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

You beat me to it.

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Seriously! Some found the fountain of youth.

1 year ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Turns out it's happiness!

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I first read the dates as 2019 and 2015 and was so confused.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

she still hasn't found her pants though, poor girl /s

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

True! Amazing what happiness can do.

1 year ago | Likes 89 Dislikes 1

It's amazing what a smile and a nice haircut can do.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah, but most of that is hairstyle, makeup, and clothing choices. She's dressed like she's 17 and applying for a job at Hot Topic.

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 4

After years of creeping, I finally made an account to say how much this means to me to read, and how important it is for you to share. From all of us wondering if a reset is possible, thank you!

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Kick ass.

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

I

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

What's it like to wake up but never gone to sleep. A new life is something we can't often see but isn't that far.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You look like you were just surviving in the first one to outright thriving in the recent one. That is awesome.

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It was like your ex-husband was a drug slowly killing you. So happy for you. After I got divorced I felt like I could breathe deeply again.

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Sparkle is hella back

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That phone strap in the 2019 pic saying "tomorrow will be better" goes SO HARD in this context wow

1 year ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I didn’t even notice that!

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

You remind me one of my favorite bartenders I worked with. her name was Scary Lady Sarah and she was bubbly and fun.

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Wow I just found her on Instagram! She never changed her name! https://www.instagram.com/scaryladysarah/?hl=en

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1