For my Cakeday and first post, I present: Men for change

May 30, 2015 4:48 PM

Patrick Stewart gets it

Want to help?

Friends of mine work for, and volunteer at Crossroads Safehouse, a shelter in Northern Colorado, USA

The Men for Change is a social movement of men in our community and around the world taking a stand against domestic violence to create change, while raising vital funds for Crossroads Safehouse to ensure those living with violence and abuse in northern Colorado have access to safety, support and options when they need it most.

For too long domestic violence has been viewed as a women's issue.

…it is likely that someone you know, someone you love, may be among them.

As men – fathers, sons, brothers, husbands and partners or as a woman who wants to honor a man who has shown you the love and respect you deserve – you can have a powerful voice in the fight against domestic violence.

I am extending an invitation to you, my fellow Imguraffes, to take a stand and speak out against Domestic Violence by breaking the cycle of abuse through positive role modeling and awareness building.
Please join me in standing as an ally alongside the thousand of men, women and children in our community suffering at the hands of someone who is supposed to love them.

Please upvote for awareness,

or make a donation at http://www.crossroadssafehouse.org/donate/men-for-change/ Crossroads Safehouse provides services to women and their children as well as men regardless of race, sexual orientation, or legal status. The shelter is full 90% of the time, and while they are working hard writing grants, etc. more funding is always helpful.

Don't want to support a shelter outside of your community? That's fine, get involved in your own community, or with international organizations. Here are links to just a few of the organizations doing great work around the world:

Stop Violence Against Women.org:
http://www.stopvaw.org/Stop_Violence_Against_Women

Domestic Violence International Resources:
http://www.vachss.com/help_text/domestic_violence_intl.html

The World Health Organization:
http://www.who.int/mediacentre/factsheets/fs239/en/

Amnesty International:
http://www.amnestyusa.org/our-work/issues/women-s-rights/violence-against-women

TL;DR - Violence and verbal abuse should never occur within the home. Volunteer, speak out, be a role-model, and/or donate to help end it. Thanks for your time.

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If someone loves you, it should feel like they love you.

11 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

This is definitely worth favoriting and saving in case of emergency etc. Well done OP

11 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

In order to completely eliminate domestic violence we have to cut everyone's arms off

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That 1/14 Men stat is waaaaay off. Domestic violence is currently split about 55/45% between women and men.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Do you have a source for that information?

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Happy Cake Day! And I love this! Patric Stewart is my #1 celebrity I would love to meet in person. He's just such an amazing human.

11 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I was initially expecting a "men are evil" post from this, but it seems they actually care about male victims too. That's nice, for a change

11 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Exactly, we men are good, and sometimes we are the victims. We have to make sure that we demonstrate how good we are by setting an example.

11 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Shouldn't men's good will be the default position, not something to be shown/proven or declared by signing a pledge?

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Yes, but there's also the old adage that "All evil needs to succeed is the inaction of the good." So let's be active!

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This is great OP. I had 1 instance where I called 911 on a man for abuse. I was trying to break up with him & he got violent. When I 1/?

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

tried to call the police he yanked the cord out of the wall but the call had gone through so the PD were dispatched. The problem was he 2/?

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

had been hold my hair while he yelled at me & pushing me around & against a wall. While trying not to fall I had grabbed him & left a 3/?

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

raised scratch mark on his arm. So while he was twice my size, the place was a mess from him pushing me into furniture and gobs of my 4/?

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

was laying around from being pulled out the police tried to arrest me for abusing him due to the scratch on his arm. At the time I had 5/?

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

no visible bruising. I had to beg not to be arrested because of my daughter. They finally agreed not to arrest me & told him to leave 6/?

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0