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Jul 30, 2020 12:42 AM
Badbudha
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METROlD
We fight like cats and dogs but my wife and I love the fuck out if each other and would go to hell and back if need be. We have in fact...
safespacesnowflake
‘Facts’ really annoys me every time someone puts it with a quote or something that’s so obviously obvious. Yeah it’s facts, we know.
Marine0311
That's a great comic. Been a fan for a long time. Here's a link for those interested. https://www.yehudadevir.com/
RealityIsOftenDisappointing
FACTS?
RandomMemmer
Then you need to have each other's back in the world.
ceekayo
I miss my wife. :(
railgap
Relationships SHOULD be a lot of things, but usually there are people involved so they just suck instead.
SkeletonsLoveBooty
I was. Then they left. Now I'm trying again and it's not the same at all.
Stalwartpaladin25
I think I speak for men everywhere when i say that this is one of our biggest if not the biggest relationship goals.
hofbrauhauss
CirclejerqueDuSoleil
I am my own safe haven.
Yuken
9yrs married. Life has thrown a few mental illness curveballs at me, but at least my marriage is rock solid. My family is my happy place.
iTotallyDidntFckTheChickenBreast
UKEuropeanremainer
I'm in a gay relationship ( 20 years) and a very safe haven It's hard for me to comprehend if you're not
torp
It's not. Inside is tougher than outside.
coyotewild
Fuckin onions
Olliethebiboy
y he so thick
thedarkness2005
Marriage: the best haven!
Sexualsquid
If only
ThroughTheLookingGlass
Until that cheating cheater cheats!! Sorry :/ still bitter...happy for ur love! Hope it continues forever!!
Snusnuannihilator
Damn you had the 3 rings of marriage. 1engament ring 2wedding ring 3suffering
SlavicMusk
True
firehawkcultist
I'm just going to watch Your Name again and cry myself to sleep
dalefiretoe
Alas.......
delacruzzz
Theres no make up sex in heaven
Unbarring
Im still looking for a safe heaven
CirclejerqueDuSoleil
*haven
gladusty
I'm so lonely it fucking hurts inside.
kroxrocket
Yes, it does. It's not forever tho, if you get comfortable with being alone. That's when you find the real ones. Willing to talk if u want:)
gladusty
Thanks man I really appreciate it. I'm all good for right now though
findtheotters
You all deserve it. I'm cheering for you to find an amazing someone.
ElbowDeepInOPsMom
I stopped looking.
dipdapdeepdupdoh
Same.
BrugerNavnHer
I am just looking for a safe way to heaven. Or hell whatever just end it
IAmDuckHammer
Same here. Being single for 11 years, 5 months, and 16 days to be exact is a PITA.
TheCountOfMonteCristoFrs3
Mine is: Cloudy with a chance of meatballs!
GrimnLock
The emojis really add to emotional element ???♂️???
RRRIV
Drunk person serves crab and eagle is sad?
GrimnLock
I was excited for my Mediterranean crab dinner only for it to be stolen by a nearby eagle
SepiaSkies
I don't know who needs to hear this, but if it isn't a safe haven, and you know deep down that it never will be - it's ok to leave.
FMan5
House, kids, business, insurance, debt...leaving would be chaos. Better to endure.
SepiaSkies
That's a choice everyone has to make for themselves. The fact that it's OK to leave doesn't mean it's strategic to do it at this moment.
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Me1iss0
It will be complicated but there is someone else who will make you happier
KissTheLuckyEgg
Even when you don't immediately find someone new, you can finally do what you want to do. What you 'need' to do.
KissTheLuckyEgg
To leave?
LengSpider
But we have a 4 year old.
Me1iss0
The 4 year old will have a better life and understand that you can change your mind if things are not working. They will see one day why
BloodGoddess
I can't. It's covid.
SepiaSkies
If friends and family aren't an option, you can at least begin planning for when it becomes safer. My heart goes out to you.
MatrixCreatrix
I actually expressed this to a guy who was trying to figure out why it wasn't clicking. I told him that I didn't feel safe with him. He >
MatrixCreatrix
got
MatrixCreatrix
(sorry ... slip)angry and started to shout, "What the hell does that mean?!". I said, "Right there. That. I do not feel emotionally safe."
TA2019
Also needs to be said: relationships fluctuate. Long lasting relationship couples acknowledge moments of drifting, etc. And that is also ok
TA2019
And REALISTIC. Don't go chasing a 24/7 honeymoon phase, it doesn't last for 40+ years.
SepiaSkies
Right, as long as you agree that safety and acceptance are prerequisites for a healthy relationship, and not just a perk of the honeymoon.
iamkyleh
Or you can be ugly and forcibly single because you live in bfe and noone will give you a chance. Like me.
DiracsDelta
What is bee?
DiracsDelta
Bfe
iamkyleh
Short for bum fuct, Egypt. Means middle of nowhere
kroxrocket
You're not ugly, I saw your X-mas selfie. My guess is that standard social interactions don't go your way. Meet like-minded ppl online>
kroxrocket
Find your tribe. They probably don't live in the same BFE town that you do. Choose online social circle based on your interests, not what>
kroxrocket
you think other ppl will like. Cultivate attraction with like-minded ppl based on shared interest, not physical attributes. Be open & kind.
MissAizea
Probably your attitude.
iamkyleh
I dont really see how that plays into anything if i cant talk to anyone
MissAizea
You're talking to someone now. I come from a town with a pop of 20, met my SO on World of Warcraft. Even then, it was just a 30 min drive to
MissAizea
Main town (pop 2k), where there are a bit of clubs and other social gathering.
iamkyleh
Its a 20 minute drive to town from here. I havent met anyone i havent worked with since i moved here. Dating apps dont work either
Linnabelle
Happily married to my safe haven for a little over a year now :) I'm truly lucky to have him in my life.
gersonjoel
I hope it lasts brother
TrustmeIamdutch
Together for 7 years married for 2. Just having him with me makes me relax and feel safe.
IdiotSavantTinker
I've been with my safe haven for 12 years, married for 11 of them. Before you know it, you'll be able to say the same.
Lastcentura
6 years for me :)
iamthedoctorthisismytardis
11 years married and 16 years together. I never feel so safe as when I'm cradled in her arms & the weight of the world disappears. 1/2
iamthedoctorthisismytardis
Keep at it y'all. I'm always happy to root for other people's love. It ain't always easy but damn if it isn't worth it for the right person
Linnabelle
Seeing other people talk about their happiness in relationships gives me the warm fuzzies! I'm super happy for you two!
IamMelonLordeYaYaYa
It hurts because I know beyond all doubt I will never feel like that
kroxrocket
Can I ask why? Or how you know beyond all doubt?
zima2190
Honestly, found mine when I gave up looking and feeling the need to be in a relationship. Now together 8 years and married 1.
Way2gowhip
I felt the same. Gave up dating for a year. Met the hub 10 yrs later, it'll be 21 years.
imwithpluto
For what it’s worth, I felt the same way. It just took me longer than most of my peers, but it was worth the wait.
iamthedoctorthisismytardis
Likewise for y'all!