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Phatplat
That noose pic. Man that says a lot.
tenthousandvine
"I'm fine, just tired!" Thanks OP. Now everyone knows my secret.
Dawnstempest
Mine is "I'm amazing thanks for asking." or "Amazing, thanks for asking."
HungryFishingMan
These are wonderful.
andIwasLikeWHAT
They are good! They should do one where theres a shell around the dude, and ppl are trying to help, but he just cant hear through his depr
iamafakebarista
I wish I saw this as a teenager, boy those were tough times.
kaisan1
They're rough for just about everyone. Be glad those times are behind you and if you ever need to talk in the future I'll be there.
ThatMomentWhenImgurJokesAreOnlyFunnyToImgurians
"fuck I relate to most of these...I guess I'll think about my depresssion some more"
Doreibo
#3 was me with my parents. It also made coming out a lot harder. I'm in a happier place in my life now though. <3
natachan
Yeah I really feel #3 too. Glad you're in a better place, I'm on the road too. Xx
Apollosguy
going through this at the minute thanks for understanding me when i don't even xx
w4nder3r
If you ever need someone to talk to, about anything, give me a shout.
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w4nder3r
Totally! I've been there done that and made it through. Only makes sense to help. Let them know there's a light at the end of the tunnel.
iamthemansheep
Have you ever tried just evening?
JamEngulfer
Or even morning
kaisan1
No need for thanks, it's my obligation as a fellow human being.
HumanTrampoline
Keep on keeping on and if in doubt pm a stranger like me :)
kayleeriver
Keep going, it gets better :)
zomgihaveanacctnow
FYI many overweight people are overweight due to depression. Consider that before you mock them.
Levistras
Some are also depressed because they're overweight, it's a vicious circle.
gogetahaircutyadamnhippie
I've been on depression meds for 24 years. I am 45 years old and overweight. But am I just lazy? That is what some think of me I think.
hangar
I used to be afraid of the word lazy. Too much implied guilt in that word. Truth is more like, "I can't figure out how to do (1/3)
hangar
everything I need to, and I chose to not to focus on exercise." Supposedly exercise helps people, but it seems too much for me. (2/3)
hangar
Best I can do is avoid obesity by watching what I eat. (3/3)
Dumpstermouth
That weight gain was in a year and a half
Dumpstermouth
eating was a primary sense, so it.gave me a good feeling directly, instead of me having to find distraction in other ways
Dumpstermouth
Yeah. I used to be stick thin. 6ft and 8stone, but since I got depression I'm now 14 and a half stone. I would just sit in and eat because
gogetahaircutyadamnhippie
And now not only am I lazy but i feel ignorant because I have no idea what you mean by this stone thing you speak of.
thornmallow
There's a post about a service that you can text instead of calling.. but it doesn't work. So, I made a leap of faith and told my SO 1/2
thornmallow
about my feelings of helplessness and depression. He said we'd solve the problem together. I know it can't be solved, but it's nice to hear
skylargoodwin
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, I've been on your SO's side and your side. If he doesn't understand and says the wrong things, 1/?
cybersteel8
It is fantastic that he is there to support you. :)
Laitka
"I know it can't be solved" bullshit. That's the worst way you can look at it, that it's irreversible
natachan
It can if you get help and make changes to get you back on track. Have faith xx
Psychethos
I completely relate to the "I know it can't be solved" feeling, but I've also been surprised to find that seemingly unsolvable problems (1)
Psychethos
can be solved. (2)
thornmallow
I just meant that it can get better and easier, but it's a cycle and it will come back.
Psychethos
For some. Not everyone has a relapse.
kfer
What annoys me is when a person with depression links this stuff, then bloody stops taking their antidepressants cause theyre now 'fine' 1/2
kfer
NO YOU'RE NOT FINE, YOU TAKE THOSE PILLS UNTIL THE DOCTOR SAYS YOU CAN STOP, WE DON'T RIP OFF ARM CASTS A MONTH EARLY 2/2.
icobonthefirstdate
If anyone here is feeling like this drop me a message anytime. Or join us on projectpatch on reddit.
BenignVanilla
I too am happy to listen.
kaisan1
Thanks for pitching in!
sillysalmon
"Just tired." Yeah.
rebeccaisafish
Being "just tired" is very very tiring though
Landler656
Alright random internet person, I'm going to get help. I'm sick of screaming internally.
0nTheBrightside
How are you doing?
Landler656
Everyone just seems so busy with their lives.
0nTheBrightside
I've been there. You're not alone. How was today?
Landler656
Working for the last 16 hours and still at work.
0nTheBrightside
Damn good work ethic. Good luck. PM if you want to talk some other time?
kaisan1
Good to hear, I wish you well on your journey!
Viperions
Fuck. How I wish it would just *change*.
0nTheBrightside
How are you doing?
jokeisonyoumotherfuckermyusernameisreallylong
Your demons will keep you company when no-one else will.
BenignVanilla
An old man here, talking to you younger folks...I nearly lost my son recently. Ask for help, now. Please. Someone loves you. Get help. Live.
PibbleZoomies
What's your experience with this? Please tell.
AfRoSaUcE
I'm glad your son is okay.
KryomGAC
I told my mom I was depressed and on medication. I've been depressed since I was 14. I'm now 30. First time I told her.
BenignVanilla
Keep talking.
KryomGAC
I try to talk to her about it. She gets weird. She's supportive but then doesn't want to listen. It's SO frustrating
BenignVanilla
Most towns have places that are open and free to the public. Go.
kaisan1
Thanks for helping out @BenignVanilla!
mstalltree
Sad people out there, if you ever want to talk, I'm here. No nudes please nor perverted messages like what I'm wearing. Let's just talk.
kaisan1
Thanks for helping others out, if you're interested I'm helping organize a anti-Depression support group if you'd like to be a part of it.
mstalltree
I'm not a professional so I don't know how I could help with the support group but I understand people often just want to talk. I'm in.
kaisan1
That's all we're about. Excellent, I'll message you the details.
ANerdsMind
Its one thing to have a post make you laugh. Its another to have a post make you feel better. I genuinely appreciate the gesture.
ANerdsMind
Also the "I am just tired" line hit me hard. I realize I say that way too much even though I am never tired. Rather dodge than really talk.
CallahanFullboreAutolock
If you'd like to really talk, I'll listen.
ANerdsMind
I just might take you up on that. The gesture is appreciated regardless.
Ciryes900
I don't know that noose looks real nice inside.
kkanne20
no
IAMBREAD
its sad that the only thing keeping me alive is my parents, I would rather not ruined there lives just because I want to give up on mine.
whereareallthenicepeopleat
For me it's the friends that are like family that keep me going. Some of them have attempted suicide before, and they're fighting. If you 1
whereareallthenicepeopleat
need someone to talk with, feel free to message me. I'll admit I'm not the best at talking, but I'm willing to listen (or read).
Psychethos
Whatever it is that keeps you going, hold onto it with all your might. With time, other reasons to live will come along.
daytimedrinkingincoffeecups
Being an only child, I've thought this exact same thought.
tehFey
I know the feeling. Except it's my cat. My mum's life would be ruined, but she'd understand. My cat...not so much.
Moist666
If they are really the only people keeping you alive, like you say, then you should really find help somehow.
IAMBREAD
wish it was that easy
Oddlane
This makes me smile abit. Even if noone sees this message, thank you for posting these. Its so hard to explain how you feel so insignificant
kaisan1
I'm glad this could help in some way. I'll respond to anyone who wants me too.
illogical1
holy shit I now have a visual representation to show that it's not just me. I need to go rub this in a couple faces.
ZombieMichaelJackson
I can't speak for everyone, and this may not help you now, but it got better for me. Keep swimming.
daytimedrinkingincoffeecups
Good to know there is a chance
CandidGamera
That you're at 0 points as I'm writing this shows these posts aren't about betterment, but reveling in being suffering special snowflakes.
Viperions
... It means that only one person disagreed with his statement. It's not like it's the most down voted opinion or anything.
Viperions
It could just as easily be someone down voting at the idea of being depressed or anything like that; there's some harsh posts here too.
gad885
As someone who has only felt minor depression how do you help someone who is really depressed.
Psychethos
A lot of patience and understanding, being encouraging and listening when they want to talk. It's hard, though.
Viperions
Be supportive. Listen to them. Spend time with them. Physical contact can mean a hell of a lot. Find what grounds them.
skylargoodwin
Your best, and looking back, I would've appreciated a friend willing to try and figure out how to help. You're amazing, good on you.
skylargoodwin
Listen when they speak, don't criticize, when the time feels right, look them in the eyes and hug them. The only thing you can do is 1/2
kaisan1
Simply be there ready to listen.
killerqueen19
My mom - "Honey, you got to snap out of it." She is a good mom, very supportive but just doesn't get it. If I could, I would.
Dumpstermouth
My mum is the same, loving but positive so doesn't understand it , bless her. It's good to use analogies to show them what it's like
kaisan1
She's trying to help depression is hard to understand for those who have never had it. If I can help at all I'll try to.
Dumpstermouth
Best way to help imo is to aknowledge, and like a colourblind person helping them find other ways to appreciate things to cope.
Dumpstermouth
2/2 I kind of describe it as like going to an art gallery and you seeing all the paintings as black, and then someone "going cant u see god"
thecountercurseisunjellify
Nothing has ever explained how I feel quite as well as that first picture.
0nTheBrightside
How are things going?
HakunaYerTatas
These made me cry because they're all so accurate to my life right now. It's hard to get out of bed.
McKavian
For your amusement, I am trying to go *to* bed...I have to work tonight.
kaisan1
HakunaYerTatas
Thank you OP! Today I turned 23 and got my license. It was a great victory today.
kaisan1
Awesome, good to hear hope tomorrow is even better!
PleasantPeasantPheasant
but you did get out of bed, and you should be proud of yourself, small victories matter too!
HakunaYerTatas
Today I turned 23 and I got my license. It's the little things <3
PleasantPeasantPheasant
Congratulations with your 23th trip around the sun! I'd say getting a licence is a huge victory! Go Celebrate!(but don't drink and drive) :P
Psychethos
I'm going through that too. I manage to make it from my bed to my couch, and then sit there all day thinking "I should do something".
AMooPointIsACowsOpinion
I feel ya. Last Wednesday, I woke up distressed about the fact that I was awake. It comes & goes for me, but I'm here if you need to talk.
HakunaYerTatas
My dreams keep me sleeping. They're so vivid and normally so peaceful.
rebeccaisafish
I feel that way to
Gltn
yup, me too. hang in there.
spongebobthrowthatassinacircle
Made me cry too. Virtual hugs.
whoviancivilian
me too. it feels like it has been forever since i have. it makes me feel a lot better reading all these comments though
Alivi
I told my Mom I was depressed and feeling suicidal. She forced me to say I was lying and apologize. But if I was lying I could make it stop
ladylexington
Mom to a depressed, bipolar boy here. Wish I could hug you. Can you get help without her?
Alivi
PM'd you. Thank you so much *hugs* I can imagine that being a Mom to a depressed child is hard. Please stay strong.
NobodyHasToReadThisCrap
Are you okay, Alivi?
Alivi
I am now, mostly. I moved to a different country across the world- and am now just getting used to things. I think it will always be uphill
Psychethos
When I was hospitalized for depression, my mom said "we've given you everything, how can you do this to us".
Alivi
I don't get why parents and family think it is such an insult or all about them.... I just don't get it.
randomoddity
I'm so sorry - no-one deserves that. Your mom was completely out of order. I hope you're at least stabilised, if not well.
Psychethos
Thank you for the sympathy. I got better from that episode of depression, unfortunately going through it again, but in treatment.
stuxberg
aaw, that sucks... keep going, you can make it thruogh! :)
BeMySquishiey
"you're being dramatic" "Toughen up" "Just ignore it" "So you're just giving up then"....etc...Its all I hear when I speak about how I feel
Mdp2525
They shouldn't say those things. However, having dealt with my own bipolar and seeing someone close to me deal with depression if someone 1/
BeMySquishiey
if someone?
skylargoodwin
PM me If you need anything ok? I can't say I'll be able to help but I'll do my best.
BeMySquishiey
Thank you, really hard to open up at times. Scared of what people say and all that.
kevrox369
Or my personal favorite, "stop feeling sorry for yourself." It pretty brutal sometimes.
BeMySquishiey
Nothing that should be said to anyone, whatever the problem is.
PleasantPeasantPheasant
They do care about you, and they want to help, but don't know how, and act like inconsiderate assholes because they don't know how to help.
BeMySquishiey
I really hope that's true, its brutal to hear it.
FoxySpirit
My sis says it's when people feel overhwelmed, don't know what to say and then just don't wanna delve deeper. So many problems everywhere.
BeMySquishiey
I can see that. Always thought it was just hard for some to talk about deep emotions that are sometimes not understandable.
EDarwin
Same here
BeMySquishiey
*hugs*
EDarwin
*Hugs* to you too. Its hard for people to understand but it's frustrating when they don't.
HairyLibrarian
The one I hate is "stop feeling sorry for yourself".
BeMySquishiey
Dagger through the heart on that one.
LiterallyYourMom
That's why you talk to someone who understands it's an illness, and cut back contact with ignorant people.
easteregg
Ive told myself those things ever since I was eight. Almost eight years later I'm alone and friendless.
BeMySquishiey
You are an amazing person. Don't forget that.
easteregg
I'D BE YOUR SQUISHY.
beardyfaceguy
Get help if you're not, it's a medical illness not a phase. I'm sending positive thoughts and good vibes your way. Best of luck to you.
easteregg
I do want to, believe me, but my mother is the type to guilt me about medical bills. But I thank you nonetheless.
Katpower
Exactly. It's always something else to everyone else.
BeMySquishiey
It's annoying to those who don't understand the problem.
emilioooooo
I hate hearing "suicide is for weak people"....it just adds insult to injury.
BeMySquishiey
wow, people who say that are just awful
maybemisleadinginformation
I do not think they are weak. I do believe it to be a selfish act though. The effect it would have on others has stopped me more than once.
emilioooooo
Ditto, but having been in those moments I know sometimes it doesn't 'feel' like that awful feeling is going to disappear.
superlymarvelous
I feel the same way . I had express that was depress and their response was you are being dramatic . Seriously , that's wrong :/
BeMySquishiey
It's why I keep everything so bottled up inside, easy for people to say "talk to someone and get help". Not a lot of people understand.
nacko
I've played both sides of this conversation. When the person is depressed, convinced everything now and forever sucks, and refuses to get...
nacko
...treatment because he feels it's hopeless, there's not much more I can say that doesn't sound like I'm dismissing what I should see are...
nacko
...clearly legitimate complaints. And just listening is hard when it's three hours of emotional outpouring every day; it wears you down.
katzewaffeln
Sorry. That's kinda where I am right now. Or "was" might be better. I would vent to a friend a lot, but after awhile I could tell (cont)
katzewaffeln
that he was getting uncomfortable with it because I refused to seek any help. I just stopped and now I pretend to be okay.
BeMySquishiey
I understand, I do. Its definitely hard to have to listen to it. I've been at both sides too. Sometimes the best thing to do is not belittle
AllIHaveHadTodayIsLikeSixGummyBearsAndSomeScotch
Do you have a solution? Cause I still don't know what to say to them. And that even though I've been there.
BeMySquishiey
It's not what you need to say to them, just listening and being there is pretty huge already. Hard to explain. Its that support.
OvaLawd101
That one with the happy place through a noose hit me hard...been there.
InboxMeYourOods
100%. I saved it and tweeted it because it's just too real. I always want death until I try it.
Therearetoomanyusernames
Me too! As a person who has attempted suicide, that one was the one that hurt the most.
gynonurseifixyourladybits
My daughter's 15 y/o friend hung herself sat & passed away this Tues. FIFTEEN. I am beyond sad for her family.
Efreeti
I'm glad you're here *hug*
SaintGutfree
Yeah, it was a bit difficult to deal with how close to home that was for a moment. The worst kind of goosebumps.
DAMMITSTOPSTEALINGMYFAVORITEUSERNAMES
Yeah. I've been there too mate.
thehatjesty
Glad you're here.
humblegrumblebee
I know the feeling- like i can't stay where i am and that's the only road forward... then you hang in there and examine your options 1/2
humblegrumblebee
and you realize there are many ways forward if you can find the strenght to search. (f'ing mobile app i've posted this like 3 times) 2/2
kaisan1
Sorry to hear that message me if you need to https://38.media.tumblr.com/ce71295f9cb9232174e22f592020c7f4/tumblr_nqolamD6iU1swk8e0o1_400.gif
rysona
I've never seen the second half of that gif, it's adorable!
Schabenbaron
why? PM me if you need to get something of your chest.
kaisan1
Thanks for looking out for others @Schabenbaron You're awesome!
Schabenbaron
Thank you mate.
skylargoodwin
It's the people like you that keep me going everyday. It's people like you that got me to step back from that ledge. Thank you you'reamazing
Schabenbaron
Appears like you still have a long and hard journey ahead of you.
skylargoodwin
I do, but for now it's those little things that will keep me going. Optimism is easy to get temporarily, keeping it is the hard part.
Schabenbaron
Make soldiering on your strength. Letting go is active, going on is passive. You simply win by enduring and cope with one day after another.
skylargoodwin
But that doesn't change the fact that you really are making a difference. Whether you know it or not, thank you, you deserve more than I 1/2
skylargoodwin
can give.
CheesusChrisp
Just got out of the worst bout of depression I had in my life. Really thought I was going to end it. Thankfully I found the right meds.
imasnorlaxIRL
Congrats!
mynameisbucky
Congrats on this. It's a serious battle.
CheesusChrisp
Thank you. It really is
kaisan1
Good to hear! Keep it up!
ItsKooStanza
It may be cliche, but it's 100% true: theres always something to live for. Even if you yourself are unhappy live to spare those who love you
sinez90
Ugh I know this feeling way too well. I'm so glad the meds help you too. Stay strong. Each battle is worth coming out the other side.
assskkvvvz
do you find they impact your life in any negative ways? im always concerned ill have to give up aspects of my life if i start taking mine
TheOneAndOnlyButtStabber
My wake up call was 130mph on a motorcycle on a highway, inches away from certain death and I didnt feel a thing.
HEXADECIMAL
Nice way to go, or sky diving, or you could accidentally release millions of govt files and then they put you in a coma. Either way I guess
420bakeacake
Fuck dude.
TheOneAndOnlyButtStabber
RIGHT!? It was casual like checking the time. But your name is relevant. After I started to burn everything is much better.
420bakeacake
It really does help. It's something to look forward to and works magic at killing stress.
CaptSlowShow
Realtalk does anyone have a trick for swallowing pills? I stress myself out and choke on them which doesn't help for taking meds.
TheWayADrillWorks
Glass of water? Always works for me, can't swallow without it.
Ifmolecularbiologywaseasyitwouldbecalledyourmom
Put the pills in your mouth, take a gulp of water, tilt your head back, swish so the pills aren't sitting on your tongue, then swallow.
graboids
I'm really glad for you. I just went through that too, only mine was b/c of a BC implant I had for 6y. 2w after removal, I was normal again.
graboids
I was so close to ending it. I didn't have anyone to talk to, but my son saved me. I couldn't leave him alone. I'm relieved I don't identify
graboids
with these comics anymore, but I understand the struggle. I could have used an understanding shoulder, and I would be that for anyone here.
natachan
Glad to hear you found help. You're on the road, keep going! Xx
itsahollyday2
I've been struggling with it a lot lately. But I'm terrified of death so I would never end it.
lolothemomo
Hi! Hope this isn't too personal- if you could reply or message me back, could you let me know what meds work for you? I'm starting soon 1/2
lolothemomo
and I prefer hearing people's experiences than what the doctors say about certain meds. Xoxo
TharrickLawson
A lot of them make you quite queasy and nauseous for a while. Give that at least a couple of weeks, preferably longer, before deciding that
TharrickLawson
they're not working. Also, it can take at least a month, usually more, before the positive effects start to become evident, so don''t
TharrickLawson
assume that things aren't working just because they don't work straight away. It's a long-term thing.
CheesusChrisp
I take a generic version of Zoloft and it works perfectly for me. It took a week and a half for it to really kick in, but it worked out :)
lolothemomo
Ah I need to log in more instead of lurking--thanks though! I started Lexapro a couple months ago and it's been great. Works like a charm :)
SeaChell
Stay strong. We are all here for you, whatever you need.
Bellamortis
Seriously bless meds. I am so tired of the stigma attached to them though.
BetterLuckyThanGood
It's okay to be on meds when you really need them. They're just prescribed too much in our society, because money.
Bellamortis
So I agree that meds are over prescribed for children. But I disagree with the idea that they are over prescribed for adults
Dumpstermouth
They've helped to give me my life back. I'll never be the person I was before being on them, because depression has changed.me, not the meds
Dumpstermouth
Meds helped me start to glue those shards of me back together. I'll never be the whole "perfect" me ever again, but at least I can be myself
Bellamortis
I know those feels. I'm bipolar and when I got better I didn't even know who I was any more I was just consumed by my lows
SIRspanksALOT
I tried three different meds, they helped for a week or two. But gave me bad anxiety... just gave up on meds..
spoonageddon
When I first got on my meds I kept hallucinating that I was killing myself. I felt everything. The worst part was that it was a loop of 1/2
spoonageddon
different ways; all feeling more real. I was the most positive person you'd ever met before my depression kicked in and took over. 2/3
spoonageddon
I'm doing a lot better now, still not the person I was before, but I'm working on it. I'm glad you got the right meds. 3/4
spoonageddon
If you ever need someone to talk to, especially if you get into a bad spot, message me. I'll help in any way that I can.
BananaStairway
Ugh that's what I'm worried about for me. I don't want to be on meds again but I think it's my only option :(
deadpanfaceman
Not necessarily, there are things that help and hinder depression, drinking for instance is bad,also have read about how getting sun helps.
Sestra
When your on the right meds they don't interfere with your life. But finding the right ones can be hard. Talk with your GP about options :)
BananaStairway
That's the worst part. I was on numerous pills for 3 years and nothing was working so that's when I just gave up. It was too hard.
Sestra
I am upto my 3rd type of meds in 3 years, each one has slowly been better. slowly finding what works for me. But they have saved my life.
HumanTrampoline
Don't have the meds shame. Best way to think of it is like you would taking insulin. It's just what you need to stay level not weakness.
Redeyer
Try one option, you might find others later!
CheesusChrisp
I didn't want to go back to meds either, but trust me it's worth it. Give it two weeks and you'll feel better
TheOneAndOnlyButtStabber
Marijuana changed everything for me.
MOTHERFUCKINGGANESHA
Did it make things better?
TheOneAndOnlyButtStabber
OMG YEAH. Take a million papers and throw them in the air and that's how I think, in chaos. Smoked put 1 paper down, it quiets my mind.
vanillamellow
I also would say this. It has its downsides but I haven't found any medication that has worked better. It's not supposed to be good for
vanillamellow
depression and anxiety long-term though.
XxxAziexxX
It wasn't until reading "I'm fine, just tired." that I realized how often I say that and how unhappy I am in my life right now...
Narushima
Yes, that kind of bullshit is really good at making you feel like you're special because you're a poor victim.
JustMadeThisToSayYouAreATool
I would say I hope you're there yourself one day, but even someone who shits on other people 'cause THEY aren't special doesn't need that.
kaisan1
Sorry to hear that, we're all here for you buddy!
H0dari
One time I thought that I had depression, but after sleeping on it, I deducted that I was, indeed, just tired. So that does happen.
SingingMeAndCthulioDownByRlyehFhtagn
I'm depressed AND also tired quite a lot. The tiredness contributes to me not being able to cope with people.
Vaydyn
I just had the same realization. I hate this, this isn't how my life was supposed to be.
DVSBSTrD
SingingMeAndCthulioDownByRlyehFhtagn
I'm depressed AND also tired quite a lot. The tiredness contributes to me not being able to cope with people.
Tillia
The same here. But it's not like People really want to hear the truth. They couldn't handle it anyway.
Dociousaliexpilisticfragicalirepus
I desparately wanted to hear the truth from my dad before he killed himself but all I ever got was that he was tired.
Tillia
In deep sorrow :-( My experience is, since I`ve been honest to everyone close to me,that I`m lonelier than ever
Kalypso
I am still struggling with "I'm fine, just tired". I'm always on imgur, so if you need someone to talk to, I am here for you. :)
SalmonTheMedic
Sorry you feel that way friend. If you ever need someone to talk to, please pm me. Yes I am serious, no you won't be bothering me. :) ~Gab x
PearDeer
Same here man! But there´s a way out of it. We just have to find the way!
Geeknip
Same here. That and the mangled hand bit.
triSARAtopswasalreadytaken
I hear you. I have the same response quite often.
ulicinogen
I send you a hug :)
ITriedToBeCreativeButtFuckIt
I relate to you 100%, stay strong
NearRiver
Loves you.
SuperKameDende
"Hello darkness my old friend..."
rhubarbpies
This hit so close to home
stopsignsdonotturngreen
Yeah, that one hit me pretty hard.
Theghostofbirdperson
Im right there with you buddy :/ always tired :/
randomchimi
Feel what you have to feel. Some days are shitty, other days not so much. If you need a friend in the shadows, consider me an ally.
Salazar098
My life in a nutshell
iamthemachine
I feel you, dude. I do. No one ever asks cuz no one really sees me. I'm always up when I'm out and it really freakin sucks to pretend.
beeratius
That's basically been my mantra for a year now
TicoGuy
This was the line that got me too. And I am not even sure what I should do about it. I can even feel the tears building up already.
Holdshift2countercaps
This... so much...
srm12722
Seconded brotha that hit home
BigChunkyBubbles
This, except for the last 20 years of my life.
ShannonTheSnakeLady
Seriously, that one really hit me hard
dcnelson22
I felt the same way upon reading that line
seraphicradiant
I totally understand and agree.
REV076
Accurate comment is accurate.
SamCookeisGod
as a person with depression. If you haven't spoken to a professional please do so. It is a long battle but it helps. It saved my life.
ManagerOfScrantonBranch
Same...
DrPockets
The I'm fine just tired hit me so hard....I never realized how miserable I am until now, but I wouldn't know where to begin feeling better.
CatCattington
Same here.
squarrel
I'm feeling the same way. I think mine is seasonal depression.
muqtadr
Accurate AF..
sorrycannotbraintoday
That one always gets me because of how true it is. Can usually stifle the thoughts with distractions, but sometimes nothing can drown itout
leonthedestroyer
I actually am just tired most of the time. Which is weird. I don't think I've ever meant it before.
FullTimePartTimeNoTime
Right there with ya, buddy.
ThatOneRandomWalrusAtWalMart
I never realized how much I says that as well. That one hit me the hardest
diggetydug
I had the thought the other day that the biggest lie I tell is, "I'm doing well".
IamTooYoungToBeThisHungover
Me too
BigBagOfSandwiches
Sorry to hear that my friend. It might do nothing to help you, but hopefully the outpouring of acknowledgement here means something to you.
DorianBlack
I found people to talk to who helped me find a path to a better at hftd.org I'm a huge music fan so it may not be for everyone.
ledooge
Get over it bro. Get laid.
Dawnstempest
My go to is "I'm amazing thanks for asking."
Gestrupp
oh my god .-.
Squidgi
I hear ya bro, I do the same daily
floatingscreen
FUCK MAN HES RIGHT
yesallthegoodnamesweretaken
I use to say this alllll the time couple years back. I'm gradually doing better so that's nice! If you guys need to talk I'm here! :-)
CaffeinatedNecromancer
It is the most prolific lie ever spoken. All I hear is "I don't want to say/ trust you with the truth"
WelshyinColombia
That one really hit home with me. I've tried telling people when I feel good that that's what I mean, but they never seem to realise. :(
YoureAllUpInMyMixLikeFuckinBettyCrocker
That's my "go to" phrase. I must say it 100x a day.
RaiXira
Mine is, "Ah, not too bad!"
YoureAllUpInMyMixLikeFuckinBettyCrocker
That's another one I use lol
aSuspiciousPanda
I can't say "I'm tired" as an excuse for my Fiance, because he knows my past. But i really am just freaking tired. Dx
bisendmeyournudes
I used to say that to myself to convince me that I was fine. I wasn't... But in the end I managed to pull through, it was hard though. 1/2
bisendmeyournudes
Even today, I sometimes still feel a small part of me going back to that... Thankfully I seem to be able to repel it easy enough now.
MyfavoritewordsstartwiththeletterB
Yea, same here. And also the one with the arrows and circles pointing at the 'feel guilt' etc... Damn.
dec4693
I've been telling that lie for as long as i can remember.
docthrobulator
Same here
WonderousAcorns
That was my go to phrase when i went through a bout of depression. Sucks dude. It really doea.
binarybeard
This is my life every damn day. *puts on happy suit*
youngjoebin
Just keep on going, don't worry about what you can't change, and you will find what makes you truly happy
docthrobulator
Same here
BetaWolfOcho
In my case i just work a lot when i say that.
takedatbabydatbabyaintmine
I've been saying it since middle school and I always knew what I meant.
skylargoodwin
Remember there are people there willing to listen, and in the off chance there isn't, there's a whole community here. Including me
Gawky
only if you have witty comments and get to the FP - otherwise your cry for help goes unnoticed
wellifyouhavetoask
Maybe bothering other people with your problems is just another feeling of guilt founding need on your back.
molestmymonkey
Problem for me was I wasn't willing to seek help. I just wanted to be left alone. There wasn't as much attention to this as there is now tho
meowmwarmao
and I haven't heard from her since. Kind of sucks
Idonthavealottosay
I've tried. This community is pretty mean
SamCookeisGod
...and me
MrPresidentCthulhu
Then you start speaking and endlessly think your problems are puny compared to what other people have
ThatMomentWhenImgurJokesAreOnlyFunnyToImgurians
my shit is so peculiar that I dont' feeel like explaining what I got will help myself
CivilizedUndead
There are plenty there to listen, it comes down to people wanting to talk about it. Most people don't want to.
user2000
It's not easy to ask for help. And sometimes they don't want to have help. Just to be alone.. but to get a PM from someone can help allot
mtbron
First step is loving yourself. Imagine there's a little person inside yourself that needs love. Love that person unconditionally! #justtryit
Athyria
It's shitty when you do ask for help and don't get it though...
molestmymonkey
Sometimes depending on who you ask first, and when, depending on their answer will determine the outcome of their response.
Athyria
I wasn't on about friends, more about asking for professional help and being ignored :P
amras0000
There's others around; therapists (some very cheap or pro-bono), other friends, just ask them, don't rely on a specific individual.
Athyria
I meant I asked for 'actual' help (counselor etc). Its been a month and still haven't even had a reply. Really shitty for someone who (1/2)
Athyria
Objected to ask for help in the first place. But I reached a really low point. Now makes me wish I hadn't bothered now... (2/2)
amras0000
Helping a depressed person is draining, and easy to fuck up. Ask for help, but accept that some people can't/don't want to offer it...
AlistairKingOfFerelden
It definitely is draining. I have a friend who's depressed and talks to me about it, I try to help but its tiring. I'm not a professional...
XxxAziexxX
I totally know what you mean. My boyfriend deals with a lot of anxiety and it's really hard to listen sometimes because it's just tiring. :(
Athyria
I agree. But I have finally gotten the 'balls' to ask for professional help and have gotten nothing. Makes me feel even worse.
amras0000
Just keep at it; you can complain about the counselor after the fact, just keep trying. 1000 miles is just a bunch of small steps, etc
Arachnophobicloser
I agree 100% but sometimes people literally will not talk to anyone else. As a sixteen year its terrifying because my friend lives in a 1/2
Arachnophobicloser
different city and I don't know how to help form way down here.
Levistras
That's the worst. Hope things are going better for you now.
Athyria
Thanks xx
meowmwarmao
One of my friends tried to commit suicide a bit ago. I took a long road trip to see her. I told her yesterday I was thinking about suicide
CaptSlowShow
I would kill to have a friend who cared enough to roadtrip to see me, no matter the situation. You are a good person, please hang in there.
skylargoodwin
I'm here man, PM me If yoy need anything.
Gatadata
im currently in an odd position. im a bit frightened. i dont wanna tell anyone. dont wanna bother them. dont wanna be bothered.
troublecliff
What's on your mind?
troublecliff
What's on your mind?
Gatadata
lots of things, but i think i will search for psychiatric help locally when i feel the time is more ready for it. thanks for the concern tho
troublecliff
No problem, I may be a stranger but I'm here if you wanna talk. I kinda know how you're feeling right now as well.
RebelJane
#3 hit me so hard. My family. I love them, but this is exactly how it is with them. It makes things so hard sometimes.
IGetWetDreamsAboutTonyStark
Must be a family thing, really. Same here, they listen to answer and rub us their opinion in our face but they never listen to understand
nelshai
I remember one time I was trying to explain my feelings to my parents once. I literally told them to shut up and listen without giving-
nelshai
(2) encouragement or advice until I was entirely done. They never managed it. Nowadays I've adapted the horrific trait of unconsciously-
IGetWetDreamsAboutTonyStark
Lying to family is the best option for me too. But you should be able to open up to someone. I'm sure there is someone who seriously cares
nelshai
(3) lying about my feelings or telling half truths. It's one of my most major flaws but I can't open up to anyone fully. I've tried. A lot.
randomchimi
I've gotten really good at having a "great life." I finally have a great job and a nice house, but I'm empty as fuck. Music helps sometimes.