samalama412
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Don't get me wrong I'm ecstatic but also so scared.
Aug 25, 2020 6:26 PM
samalama412
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Don't get me wrong I'm ecstatic but also so scared.
Syfulus
The nightly shots are the worst
rhombusrightangle
Some men tend to leak for a while afterwards. Just leave it in for 30-45 mins after. I know its weird but evolution don't play games.
spitfire
Congrats on the twins? You're gonna do great ?
whatseventhepoint
Grats on the 6 children
MureNos
Meh. Nobody is truly "ready" to be a parent. And until the second trimester it is a crapshoot. Stay positive and plan for the future.
MureNos
You should also have a discussion with your significant other about what to do in the event of complications during delivery.
MureNos
Not a pleasant topic, but my wife told me, every time, "kid first, me next"
disodiumbenzoate
Please don’t take this negatively but was adopting on the table as an option during this decision making process?
samalama412
It was an option but it was so much more expensive, $30k to adopt or $10k for IVF
disodiumbenzoate
Wow I had thought those costs were the other way around. That makes a lot more sense knowing adoption costs an annual salary for most
samalama412
Yeah it's insane. If they were the other way around I would have. There's some loopholes of course (like fostering before adopting) but they
samalama412
Aren't guaranteed and can lead to a lot of trauma for all parties
disodiumbenzoate
That sucks, my family history isn’t healthy, lots of cancers, so I had always thought adoption was the way to go for any kids I’d want