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A disappointing response, but nothing worth throwing away 97 days of sobriety over
Edit: he is still married to my mom. I'm not opposed to him being attracted to other men, I'm bi myself, I just don't like that he's doing it while still married
Edit #2: I've see him using the Grindr app on his phone, I am bi and familiar with the app, but have seen him actually using it
superheater
I have a lot of sympathy for you my friend. I had a similar situation in my own family. It ended poorly for all.
AbsoluteFuckingWaffle
And one day your son will find out about your pregnancy fetish. Ah, the circle of life.
Mrdobbalina
Maybe your mum knows and they are using it to setup mmf threesomes.
TeaWithGhosts
spattr
You should spend about 0.00 time thinking about your parents sex lives. And hope they return the favor.
SlutAtNight
What part is unclear for you?
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VivoImago
His dad is cheating on his mom...
AzorAhype
hah gayyyy
LittleSilverKitsune
It’s not your concern and you need to mind your father, it’s not your business not your problem. This is why my SO and I lock the phones
LittleSilverKitsune
You dont know if he’s curious and your mom knows or if they are look for a 3some, what I want to know is Y it bothers you so much!! Grow up
kaiswil2
OP sounds jealous dad is getting more action than him
superheater
I think he's more upset that his father is cheating on his mother, who presumably he loves.
DeliberateMisinterpretation
Butters? Is that you???
jonnymarbles
So why the hell is he still married to a WOMAN if he’s gay? Better yet why is your mom still with him? It just does not make any sense
down2stars
Dude, some things you just should not make your business. This is one of them.
Oogibah
Your father being gay shouldn't make you depressed if it does there is something wrong with you not him
lubu222
The point is that he is cheating, not that he is gay
Oogibah
edit was added after I made this comment.
LonelyOneironaut
He said it's because his dad is married and not because he is gay.
puddin151
what if your mom knows and joins in?
TheLostMaster
dont judge, question is what are u doing on grindr
lifesblissful
Keep your soberiety! You're doing a good job. I agree it's messed up to do it while still married to your mom. Maybe bring it up differently
lifesblissful
Like "IDC what you do but what about mom?" Idk or not bring it up. I guess it's tricky.
improbablypooping
He’s got a point. It’s between him and your mom. But I’d still tell my mom in front of him.
Shmiddty
This post reads very differently without the added context. Like, if his dad is just some single dude, it reads as OP having weird issues
DabSwabFamDab
Is your dad still married?
josh2
Yup
DabSwabFamDab
This is important information you left out of the post
PacerStacktrain
Let him work it