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omgtessie
Thank you! This is what ive been saying for years.
ytterbium
Either i don't know what modesty culture is or he doesn't know. I don't think it applies only to women and is of sexual nature.
Ortie427
a little louder for the people in the back
dirrrtypiratehookerrr
Also sick of hearing guys discuss how certain women shouldnt wear yoga pants and judge in that direction. They're not dressing for you. Ever
LyraTheLycan
Chalk Josh Weed up as a decent human being. It's not difficult to be nice to others
YouWillNeverFindMe
But there are also situational standards, unwritten dress codes for work and also the beach, weddings and funerals.
DidntChooseTheUwULife
This tweet isnt about that.
macdogjake24
Well that's great,. You are the same as me then . I'm a straight man that thinks exactly like you that had a trio of gay men tell me I was 1
macdogjake24
Asking for it because I had cut off jeans and a tank top on. The three of them ( all 10+ older) would definitely have raped me if 2/
macdogjake24
I hadn't boxed from early age. THEY REALLY TRIED TO RAPE ME. wake up to the bullshit message you are spreading. Men sometimes are rapists
wdsmth
So what makes their message bullshit? Do you believe that situation was your fault for wearing said outfit? That is on them, not you.
macdogjake24
The message is he as a gay man knows not to rape, he's directly referencing straight men think like this about women but it's just some 1/
macdogjake24
Men think like this about other people. Gay rape is a thing. This whole tweet could be constructed better and the message would be same.
pazooPositivityPlayer
That must be really hard to deal with
macdogjake24
It was 35 years ago thanks for your concern though buddy
macdogjake24
The only thing that was hard was I was raised to treat everyone with respect and so treated my openly gay co worker as someone I could 1/
macdogjake24
Trust. I was only 17 and had yet to understand that you can't really trust anyone.
CommentsNotPosts
Lol you think modesty culture exists in the west? Been on insta, ever?
Brightlinger
"The West" is not just one culture. Mormons, for example, are certainly Western and also big about modesty for women.
mooserunningwater
Been a woman walking down a street ever?
jimfalconer611
I haven’t. But I feel like you should smile more. Let the men worry about this stuff, it’ll give you grey hair and wrinkles /s
CommentsNotPosts
Huh
mooserunningwater
So definitely not.
AnnieBahde
Yes. As a woman who grew up in America and had many, many adult men and women talk to me about my clothes: YES.
AnnieBahde
I got sent home from high school because you could see part of my stomach. My mom told me cleavage was disgusting and told men I was the
AnnieBahde
wrong kind of woman. I grew up during the backless shirt craze and had a friends mom tell me men would assume that because I didn’t wear a
AnnieBahde
bra to wear that shirt, it mean I wasn’t wearing any underwear and they’d assume I was a slut. I got kicked out of CCD for a blouse that had
AnnieBahde
an off the shoulder neckline which the mom who waited outside with me (my mom had to come pick me up) meant I was easy. At my first job out