He'll never forget what you did.

Mar 21, 2025 10:31 PM

CitizenK9

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Imagine a 12 year old child spending almost half his life on a piece of art that he treasures, and his mom burns it in front of him. She then tells him it's worthless. What a sociopath.

I get quora emails all the time, even after I unsubscribed, and the amount, and severity, of sociopathic questions I see makes me question if these people are just trolls.

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

As a teenager, I went with some friends to see Siouxsie & the Banshees perform. Yes, I'm old, and this was the summer of 1987. Bought a t-shirt. Show was fantastic. A couple of weeks later, my mom found that shirt and burned it, because she decided it was "devilish", whatever that means. That was the day I learned that her religion was just an excuse to destroy things she didn't like, and nobody that self-centered deserves respect. 38 years later, she's a maga asshole, so I was right.

1 year ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

1 year ago | Likes 170 Dislikes 3

12? He’ll remember this for the rest of his life.

1 year ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

Absolutely...

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

.. this was a troll question in Quora guys. Us quorans mute, block and downvote these ones.

1 year ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Have fun dying alone in the shittiest old folks home he can find.

1 year ago | Likes 94 Dislikes 0

They all shitty.

1 year ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

FYI, he doesn't have to put them anywhere once he cuts ties with them when he is old enough. They will die alone.

1 year ago | Likes 34 Dislikes 0

I saw almost the exact same post 2 or 3 years ago. It was BS then and is now.

1 year ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

you just deleted his world bruh that's what ya doid

1 year ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

That, precisely that.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My father's mother threw all of his comic books out when he was drafted. She was a mean bitch. First editions of Superman amongst others.

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Never punish your kids in a way that can't be undone. Remove their access to Minecraft, do not delete their creations. Take their toys away, do not throw them away. First, as much as they might deserve to be punished now there will be a time when they deserve that punishment to be lifted. Second, as much as you may be sure of yourself you are not infallible and you need to be able to correct your own mistakes as much as theirs.

1 year ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

1 year ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

If he’s 12 then he created that world when he was 7. He’s known that world for the majority of his life if we discount the portion where he was still a baby.

1 year ago | Likes 114 Dislikes 2

It's probably among his earliest memories...

1 year ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

This is ragebait, im 100% sure. Why would this parent mention the age of the world. Thats undermining their own point. (pun intended <3)

1 year ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 4

Probably because to empathetic people knowing that enhances the cruelty of the act but for people like a mom who deletes it ,thus excluding herself from the empathetic demographic, it emphasizes the possible obsession or addiction of her child possibly viewed as a means to justify the action. Still could be ragebait ofc but for a parent of this mentality it doesn't undermine the point they think they are making at all

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You've obviously never spent any time in the "estranged parent" parts of the internet. The ones where they can't understand why their kids went no contact when they were "great parents".

1 year ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 4

1 year ago | Likes 43 Dislikes 0

Oh, hey. Yoink.

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I still remember my dad overwriting my Moria disc back in 1988. I *VIVIDLY* remember his apathetic response when I asked him why he did it.

1 year ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moria_(1983_video_game) (for the wee tykes and other whippersnappers)

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

There's a new game Return to Moria or something...have you heard of it?

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Was on Epic giveaway in Dec. Graphics are much fancier than the ASCII I remember. haven't actually played it, though.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

1 year ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Stop sharing obvious bait

1 year ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 2

On my birthday when I was in middle school, my high school aged brother got so mad at something (probably just that I was getting the slightest amount of parental attention) that he took my flute and smashed it on the floor. Repeatedly. You know what my parents did after that? Fucking nothing. They shrugged and said "well that sucks" but to me, I had been playing for 5 years. For some reason, I don't talk to any of them anymore.

1 year ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I briefly taught at a tech summer camp for kids, and one of the activities a lot of them did was making minecraft stuff - their own mods for the more advanced kids, but just making levels and worlds for their friends to play through, too.

One of the kids was in tears because he'd forgotten to back up his world at the end of the last day and was going to lose it... and that was only a week's worth of stuff, not five years!

(For the concerned, I stayed late to upload it for him.)

1 year ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

You're a treasure. That kid will forget your name but will remember what you did for him forever.

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I'm glad you helped him! Thank you for being kind.

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I can sort of tell you how this turns out. Different era. My brother returned home from school with something he made there in art. Some small diorama that in his own words he was proud of. My mom took one look at it, said it was crap and threw it in the bin. My brother wasn't even a teenager at that point. Ever since that time he has then felt the need to hide anything he makes or does, a compulsion to only do things in secret, never share, and shy away. He is now 65. That scar runs deep.

1 year ago | Likes 36 Dislikes 1

Sometimes it only takes one heinous act.

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

For the record some ten years later or so, my mom pulled the exact same thing on me. But this time with a t shirt I had made in class. My brother still remembers his own burn very clearly. The scar runs deep. For me, I just ignored my mom and carried on noodling away with crafts despite my moms attitude. My brother was different.

1 year ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

I get this pain. When I was in elementary school, I had a crush on a girl and my mother made a joke about it and, at the time, it felt like she was making fun of me. Now I do not introduce my relationships to my parents.

1 year ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

At age 10 I had built a Lego spaceship. A really big one. Maybe the size of a large cat. And my mom threw it on the floor and stomped on it like a toddler having a tantrum. I was beyond mad.

1 year ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

My condolences, I empathise with what you went through.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Why?

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I was young and did all the usual stuff young kids do to test their parents. But she took it too far and destroyed my Lego creation. Which was my art at that age. It was t even a set, it was a custom creation. I never attempted to rebuild it.

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Hot take: Some elders deserve to be beaten.

1 year ago | Likes 145 Dislikes 13

There are LOTS of elders that deserve to be beaten. Or curbstomped, if time is short.

1 year ago | Likes 39 Dislikes 2

Stick em in a home and left to rot.

1 year ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I've heard of this lovely place called Shady Pines.

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Nah, but abandoned, yes. When they are older and mellower they want to reconnect and that's the middle finger. On a much much much smaller scale my father annoys me because he doesn't even remember saying things like 'that doesn't matter, it's a secretary's job' implying he had a secretary, but he never did, never had, but would in the same breath tell us to do it which has led to a chunk of my life of me refusing doing stuff for him which he 'doesn't get'.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

In Mario Cart, right?
Right?

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

"in Minecraft"

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Less hot take: We have zero context. It could have been accidentally deleted.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 26

There are dozens of these posts.
The intentional deletions are all phrased like this pic. With the parent acting like it ain't billy's first trauma and or a rapid way to reenact "the veldt"

The accidental ones all say "accidentally deleted please help" "how do I recover son's hard disk" and "help I need to undelete my son's save game"

1 year ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

spot on

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Even if it was an accident, the parent chose to go with "it's just a game" instead of apologizing. If I go to someone's house and break their favorite vase, my immediate response isn't going to be "oh well, it wasn't that pretty anyway".

1 year ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 1

Okay, so the Quora questions are all like made up or AI shit to generate clicks, right? Cause between this and some of the fucking ignorant as shit takes I've seen from there in passing, I have to believe that to keep sane.

1 year ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 2

Uh, trump won. Shit is really that bad...

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Quora is monetized like twitter is, so people basically farm out the stupidest ragebait questions possible in order to farm clicks for money. Assume everything you see from Quora is bullshit for that reason.

1 year ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

Yeah, I don't even go on quora anymore, because of how many shitty questions and even shittier answers there are.

1 year ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

I've straight up blocked the site from showing up in my google search. It's as helpful as pinterest (also blocked).

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

What the hell is Pinterest even supposed to be?
It's just a site filled with stolen artwork and no links to the original creators floating around as far as I can see.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My son still has some of the minecraft saves that I built for him or helped him build when he was too young to play on his own.
It's like a treasure for him.

1 year ago | Likes 448 Dislikes 1

And sounds to me like the time spent together is a treasure for you

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Make sure you keep that for all time. It'll be his Sega Rally ghost car.

1 year ago | Likes 38 Dislikes 0

Oof. Nice reference

1 year ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Please tell me you have that backed up in multiple places

1 year ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Not like, is. Any time he wants he can boot up and look at something you made him from all angles and barring some unfortunate incident it will remain the same as when you first made it for him... That's magic treasures

1 year ago | Likes 73 Dislikes 0

Sometimes I boot up old N64 games just to read the file names, good times

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Yes, the world is different now, and games or digital content can become beloved things.

1 year ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

They always could.

I treasure the years I spent helping my older brother play games on the Apple IIe that I was too young to play back in the mid 80’s.

I’d swap out cassette tapes on our boom box to keep the high-octane tunes pumping while he careened around corners in Test Drive.

I’d help him chart courses on the physical map that came with Pirates!, and cheer him on as he swashbuckled and sailed about.

I could go on and on. These memories are true treasures of my youth.

1 year ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Reminds me of the kid who raced against his dad's high score in ridge racer or something

1 year ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

My kids straight up start new worlds constantly, ask me to build things and near instantly delete them. Not sure where I went wrong.

1 year ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

I played minecraft w my kid for a couple weeks, building stuff. Grand buildings, huge tunnels and bridges, etc. Then one day he had just started over. Then it was just a new world all the time. I couldn't hold any interest in that.

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I don’t see anything wrong with the way they use it. Maybe start one and before you close it, say “think of three things to add, and we’ll revisit it next week and put them in.”
That might start something they can use new ways of thinking about.

1 year ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

after 5 years it's more than 'just a game', that is time, effort, creativity, and dreams that you have destroyed in the push of a button

1 year ago | Likes 728 Dislikes 3

This is assuming by ‘5 year old’ it was five years of active use by the kid…. The text could be read as meaning ‘made it five years ago and has barely touched it.’

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

It's digital Lego, more or less. Me and my brother grew up on lego, and while we built and unbuilt and rebuilt all the time, it was our decision to unbuild (limited lego available), and i can't imagine our parents EVER doing anything like that, and of course it's amplified x100 because it's not a couple little things built and rebuilt out of the same pieces, but an entire 5 years worth of building.

1 year ago | Likes 35 Dislikes 0

this is more like, the parent taking a massive lego project you've worked on for years, and dumping it in the trash, saying it's just a toy

1 year ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

She had an opportunity of 60 months to take a few hours to have him walk her through what he did. To learn to appreciate the game and connect with her child. Instead, she chose to denigrate him and stomp on his passion.

1 year ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

This exactly. I mean i can understand that to someone "it is just a game". Soccer is just a couple of guys kicking a ball. Dancing is just some weird movements of your body. Drawing is just putting some colored lines on paper. If you dont put interest in whatever your kid is doing it is never gonna resonate why it is important to your kid. You will never connect.

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My son just accidentally broke our switch and we are both feeling it. We would surprise each other with new worlds and leave signs with messages for each other to discover or build obstacle courses for each other. It is so much more than just a game.

1 year ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

My brother got into Minecraft when he was 7 and he is *still* friends with some of the same group of homeschool kids he hung out with on there 12 years later. I know more about these damn internet kids than I do most of my actual cousins, they're important to him. I do not understand the appeal of Minecraft but he doesn't understand the appeal of crochet and beadwork and other fabric arts I do, just cause you don't get it doesn't mean denigrate it. This 'mother' is fucked in the head.

1 year ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

closest experience to that I've had was old GBC/GBA cartridges randomly corrupting and losing all yer save files T_T

1 year ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I had a Pokémon Red cart that I found after 20 years. It turned on and I saw all my old Pokémon again. The next day I turned it on and the save was gone, the battery in the game had died.

1 year ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

That’s me and destiny. Been with it since beta

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Friends kid deleted his own MC world, it was a learning exercise. The dad then set up a Minecraft server for him and his friends, with snapshots and real enterprise level backups.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Simarily I was playing the Simpsons mobile town builder game pretty much since it was released and still kinda depressed that they just shut down the servers. Luckily the game allowed a download of the town picture for memory sake but it's still gone.

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

"Key is burned down my parents house after 20 years of mortgage repayments and 3 renovations"

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Kid has known that for literally half of his conscious life, and they just wiped it away.

1 year ago | Likes 93 Dislikes 0

half his conscious life, and given he probably started playing Minecraft at 6-7, quite possibly *literally the whole time he's played games*

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

It was something he cherished and treasured. And she just showed him how little that meant to her. He really will never forget that. I imagine he won't really tell her about the things he enjoys as much anymore. Why bother when he knows she doesn't care?

1 year ago | Likes 51 Dislikes 0

Or that she might try destroying other things he enjoys like she did that.

1 year ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 0

Exactly. He knows that his stuff means nothing to her and can be gotten rid of on a whim.

1 year ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

I had a friend come to my home unannounced one evening, we were mid-raid on WoW back in the day, there were 40 of us, my partner and I were on vent and everything, and she chucked a huge sad and left because I wouldn't "just stop playing" I tried to explain to her that we were playing with 38 other people from around the world. This was a guild planned event, and I couldn't just "stop playing" with 38 other people just because she turned up. To her they were not real people. It was just a game.

1 year ago | Likes 46 Dislikes 3

So many issues as a guild leader have people keep escalating arguments and issues and then finally saying "uh just do what I want its just a game" and its like......buddy I am just responding to you, you started all this.... if its 'just a game' you can just walk away right? Boy that never works rofl

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Imagine turning up unexpectedly to see a friend in the middle of a football match and getting pissed off that he wouldn't just stop playing to hang out with you.

I don't think that person was a friend.

1 year ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 4

Who TF just turns up at someone's house anyway?!

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Damn, vent? That was WAY back in the day ._.

1 year ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 0

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I still miss those 40-man raids. I do not miss being an east coaster raiding with a west-coast team until 2am on a weeknight. WoW hangovers were no joke.

1 year ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I mean it was wow too.

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

WoW's still going. I just helped lead a goblin revolution in Undermine.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

We were still using vent in 2017.

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Oh no, this was an excellent teaching moment. That parent just taught that child that nothing of theirs matters. They learned that passions are fleeting. They learned that if they put any time and effort into something, that thing will be removed from their life, so they shouldn't even bother getting started. And they learned that if they do find something they love, they will live in permanent anxiety waiting for the thing to be stripped from their grasp and destroyed.

Ask me how I know.

1 year ago | Likes 178 Dislikes 3

On top of that, they learned of pure betrayal from a loved one which is supposed to nourish them and help develop their creativity.

1 year ago | Likes 60 Dislikes 0

Fair point. The lesson being taught doesn't have to be a positive one. If you're a shitty parent at least.

1 year ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Only the things that they like are worth having/engaging in and everything else is a waste of time, money, brainpower, and so on. Then make little jabs at you constantly and when you get angry, you get further belittled and admonished for "not having a sense of humor" or "being thin-skinned."

I'm sorry you know how that feels, friend. Emergency stranger hug gogo

1 year ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Hey, stop being me.

1 year ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Oh we went to the same school!

1 year ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Ooof, the religious school I went to taught me all sorts of other lessons. But that's all ok because I learned that Evolution is Impossible!

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Jesus fucking... I don't want to say it since these days it so fucking insincere. And I don't believe in it.

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

haha, thanks. That's kind of you, the paranoia means the virtual hugs are the best. After virus scanning the meme, of course.

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Oh ...wait... That sounds familiar..

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

In a similar vein. My parents would actively discourage any interest. And now our conversations are filled with "You work too much, why don't you engage in a hobby?" and "What else are you up too besides work?"

And too be fair, maybe that is who I would have been no matter what happened. But nothing holds my interest and I remember being super interested in stuff as a kid.

1 year ago | Likes 42 Dislikes 0

Explaining this and going No Contact for a while might give you the space to heal.

1 year ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Have ya told em such?

1 year ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 1

Did an ex cheat on you because that's what it sounds like?

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 57

Are you projecting right now ?

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Ya really typed that dumb as fuck coomment withpride huh...

1 year ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 1

The extra o is intentional.

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

If you didn't recognize my comment as being from someone's experience with a parent, then we had very different upbringings.

1 year ago | Likes 54 Dislikes 0

It seems so because I was brought up with a sense of humour and a way to tell sarcasm.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Sarcasm requires a common point of reference and a connected sense of language. We are on an international website, with people communicating in a variety of languages, and in one of the most limited form of communication- text. This means that not everyone will get a particular sense of sarcasm because it simply doesn't transfer with most writers. What I'm trying to say is that this isn't a reader issue, it is the fact that you're not a good enough writer to get others to understand you.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah, gonna have to disagree with you here. If they didn't figure that out, they're just dumb.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

They're not dumb. They are just trapped in their own reality.

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Yeah, but... really?

Dude had more than enough context to put 2+2=4 together there. We had very different upbringings, and I had it put together by the second sentence.

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I had the old man throw all my toys into the trash when I was much younger because the room was 'not clean enough in time'.

1 year ago | Likes 65 Dislikes 0

In fairness your room was probably disgusting you little piggy

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

yeah...it was. Still is. I have problems. Throwing someone's shit out is NOT how to deal with problems.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

If I didn't make rent, which is hard as a 14 year old with no transportation, if I didn't make rent they would take out what I owe out of my possessions. Birthday money, computer, whatever I had that had value they'd pawn and apply it to my rent.

It did help me not give a shit about possessions.

1 year ago | Likes 38 Dislikes 0

thats stealing...... thats just called stealing

1 year ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

was it parents who were charging you rent, or actual landlord?

1 year ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

Parents. They wanted to teach me fiscal responsibilities, a decent work ethic, and problem solving.and they did.

Just wished I had known about tenates rights

1 year ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Their own problem solving skills are lacking when that's the best idea they had. I think they are just assholes and chose to be, but no one want to think of themselves as assholes so 99% of assholes have made specious reasons as to why being an asshole is actually a smart decent thing to do.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

that's when to deal with them, you gotta be a dick.

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

1)When my wife was a kid she found a Barbie she wanted that cost $20 and she knew she had $20 from her birthday, but it was at home. So she

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

2)asked her dad if he could but it and she'd pay him back when they got home, no problem. They get home and her dad says she owes him $22.50

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

See this is one of the worst things you can do as a parent. If your child is so invested and interested in something harmless the worst thing you can do is completely disregard and belittle it.

1 year ago | Likes 1363 Dislikes 5

In 50 years she'll wonder why he hasn't called for the last year.

1 year ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 0

Oh please, she'll be wondering that within ten years.

1 year ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Right. And she'll already wonder why he's always been distant during adolescence. Not that I really think she would care enough to wonder that sort of thing. She sounds like a super cold bitch.

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

You get used to it. I mean it sucks because you might have to go to therapy because you feel disgust towards your parents, but you get used to it.

1 year ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

nothing breeds resentment like a parent proving they will never understand you nor try.

1 year ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Active sabotage is worse.

1 year ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 2

"But if I don't destroy the things my children enjoy that I don't enjoy, how will I demonstrate my superiority as a parent to them!?" - far too many toxic parents, sadly :/

1 year ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 1

Especially something as technically challenging as Minecraft gets. I've seen some crazy builds.

1 year ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

She didn't just disregard and belittled it, she destroyed it right in front of him. It's the equivalent of a kid spending five years on writing a book and then having to watch as his mother burned it saying, "What are you mad about? It's just paper."

1 year ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

Not just belittle, destroyed it.

1 year ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

No no, disregarding and belittling it is fairly tame in comparison. She touched it. She plowed salt into his fields. She ransacked his village.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Ok but hear me out.... What about Fortnite?

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Wonder what that kid did. The punishment should meet the crime.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 37

The best thing you could do is play with them, or at least sit with them while they go on adventures. Minecraft and Roblox are fun if you're invested in your kids. Come up with ideas together, create a checklist, set a silly goal. Just have fun.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I don't mind video games, if they have some sort of story, or goal, or point.
I can not stand Roblox. My kid latched on onto that mindless well of stupid, and I just sat there going, "oh yeah, that's neat. Yeah, I see. Uh huh, cool." I'd give it a while then go, what other games ya got?
It's right up there with the "idle games" that're essentially weaponized addiction machines hoping for someone to enter a credit card.
Glad he found ZeldaBotW. I can get on board with that.

1 year ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 6

With my flavor of the spectrum I don’t have sentimental attachment to physical item but I have almost all of the gaming consoles since my teenage years. The time and joy I got from the games on those consoles mean a fuck ton to me. Having 5 years of game progress and memories deleted would be like losing a physical part of my life. Someone purposely deleting that is an inhumane action in my view of the world. If this is real I feel horrible for that human.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I can understand if the kid was way too obsessed with the game or something (playing it all hours of the day). But even then, deleting the world is way too drastic of a response to that.

1 year ago | Likes 162 Dislikes 7

Even then this isn't acceptable.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Yes, I would suggest limiting screentime. Like, it's not that hard.

1 year ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Mom can have him play for a certain amount of time then, i dont see how you can understand that deleting the world was the right thing to do

1 year ago | Likes 63 Dislikes 10

I could see it if he was like stealing her Credit Card to buy shit for the game, or swiping shit from his grandparents to sell for it, like an actual dangerous addict, but even then... Just destroying it feels insane...

1 year ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

But that's not what they said? They said but even then deleting it was too drastic a move.

1 year ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 0

my dad did this with my drawings. i was so excited to tell him about the backstories and worlds for my characters and he just ripped one in half and said they're nothing, just lines on paper(he's barely literate). way to go old man. hard to get into writing and creative arts when being smothered in shit. fuck you.

1 year ago | Likes 72 Dislikes 1

If you want to be a struggling artist, offending and ostracising (being ostracised by) family is an excellent way to cut the tether of mediocrity to soar with the enlightened.
Live the life you want. Embrace your bliss.

1 year ago | Likes 30 Dislikes 0

it's taken me a lot of years to start doing what i like with actual joy. some days are much harder than others and many paintings hang unfinished. but i do write. i do draw. i do paint. a little more as the months go by and with better hope that it might be good just for my own enjoyment. i'll just never bother to share it with my family ever again.

1 year ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 0

Because of another commenter, I looked at your art...
It's fucking cool as hell!
Your family is all philistines that don't know shit. You made the right choice making art. Well done!

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

thank you. i can be told its nice by a thousand people but it's hard to ignore my father telling me the thing i'm good at and enjoy is worthless shit. i get that minecraft kid. but thankyou for the comment regardless. i just gotta keep working on ignoring the old man in my memory and enjoying myself now.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm glad you share it with us! That dragon painting is AWESOME and the minis all look really detailed. You got some great art skills, dude

1 year ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

oh! thank you. forgot I'd posted any of them. i should probably either take those posts down or post the rest of my minis and art. no rush either way. it's more important that i enjoy doing it than that i get points for them.

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

And he will be less likely to ever play it again after that destruction. Any new world will just remind him of the time he invested into the old one.

1 year ago | Likes 96 Dislikes 0

Also, he will never share anything he's proud of with you ever again, knowing that it will just be used against him

1 year ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

In one moment, she poisoned the thing he used to love so much. He'll have a hard time playing it anymore. The memories of what he lost will be too painful. She'll wonder why he doesn't have fun with it the way he used to, never realizing what she did.

1 year ago | Likes 63 Dislikes 1

Sometimes i think that maybe the reason why i cant enjoy things anymore is because as soon as i enjoyed doing something as a kid it was taken away as a punishment. Doesnt matter if it was going outside, reading a book, playing on the gameboy, or n64 .. or anything really. Time for some arbitrary punishment? Take away the thing he enjoys most.

1 year ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

When having fun is a privilege, it's hard to really enjoy anything. Especially if it can be taken away for small offenses. "You didn't hang your coat in the closet like I told you to, the thing you enjoy most is now off-limits."

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

She thinks she just got rid of something meaningless, an old saved game. But what she really destroyed was her son's trust. And there's no way to get that back.

1 year ago | Likes 60 Dislikes 1

Absolutely this.

1 year ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

If she'd acknowledged what it meant to him and sincerely apologized she probably would have gotten his trust back quite quickly. Trying to tell him it didn't matter is the point where his relationship with his mom likely changed forever.

1 year ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

And there's no getting back what it used to be.

1 year ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

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1 year ago (deleted Mar 22, 2025 12:55 AM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

Ah yes the idle generation.....

1 year ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 3

We ran around outside all the time. Didn't need to be home till dark. I suspect it was similar for the both of us. You know what my parents never did, tear down our clubhouse or stomp on whatever dirt project we were working on. I bet you get annoyed when you're called a boomer, yet here we are.

1 year ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Fuck off.

1 year ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 2

Hello toxic

1 year ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

Go to hell. You and your parents destroyed outside.

1 year ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 1

YES, OUTSIDE!
So he can go get run the fuck over trying to cross endless stroads just to get to the only park in town a kid his age is allowed to exist in. Of course at least one parent isn't there he'll get snatched by predators (unlikely) or cps (very likely) anyways. Oops.
This isn't the 80 or 90s. Kids aren't ALLOWED outside.

1 year ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 2

Gen X here. You're a horrible person. How about I burn your Nirvana poster in front of you and say it's nothing? Or your NES? You make the rest of us look like shitty people.

Send your ass to be the whipping boy in gym class is what I'd do.

1 year ago | Likes 28 Dislikes 0

As a Gen X, get fucked.

1 year ago | Likes 47 Dislikes 1

LOL, he deleted his comment.

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I missed what happened. Did they essentially go "good. He should go outside and touch grass?"

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Something along the lines of "Laughs in Gen X - go touch grass"
I'm a Gen X, that shits offensive to me. We did touch grass, we did go down to a fishing hole, we also grew up on video games, and the start of the home PC revolution. We got to see all of these amazing creative tools come to life that give amazing opportunities we couldn't dream of when we first sat down in front of an Apple IIe to play Oregon Trail.

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Almost exactly.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

absolutely, it's their generation's legos, you don't destroy legos.

1 year ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

*LEGO

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

I'm in my late 40's and I have a server I've been running for about 7 years now, I can't imagine if I was a child and putting in the work

1 year ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

7 year minecraft server? Wow that's enviable. I wish I could be on a server that was up for more than maybe 2 months at a time. That's epic as hell.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0