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Problemwoodchuck
One Bud Light Lime-a-rita, coming up!
cryborg
I would not need a waiter's help. I would be requesting a Lyft.
DudelyVanhorn
been married for a while and with her even longer but if this happened to me i would gladly ask for a split check at the end of that. Loudly
Nnoodles
I have only ever had one first date in my life. It was that bad! Well, that and I'm married now, wife might not approve.
sarahSpaceRunner
Saw a lady at Cheesecake Factory scolding her waiter, "I said I wanted ALLL that shit!!!! Where is the whipped cream!?!" It was a margarita
godofhorizons
I wonder what the answers would have been if it was the worst thing a man has done on a first date
Becker37
Sounds like a cunt but so is expecting sex so ?♀️
stevekemerer
Or you could man up and say if you want that drink you can pay for it. Women that do that on first date you need to run from.
JemIsTrulyOutrageous
This makes me die inside. I cannot imagine thinking I deserve the most expensive of anything. Even when I'm treated I pick whats cheap.
MotionOfTheOcean
I pick the cheapest especially when treated
burpwind
I generally don't tip, but I'd tip him.
ZKintzer
I hope you're not American
burpwind
Who cares?
ZKintzer
Servers in America make next to nothing without tips
arfysdad
Dinner at her home. Nice meal. When we had finished she set the plates on the floor for her dog to lick and when he was finished she put
arfysdad
back in the cupboard. I walked out then.
Duskz
Why is it so hard to pay for your own shit? We're dating adults right? Ones with jobs and shit? Yea? Then pay for your shit.
thetinymonarch
I don't get people like that, if someone else is paying I'm picking water and bread as my meal.
wellembalmed
My wife, of nearly 10 years, ordered a white russian on the 1st date. 3 sips, she said "thats enough, I'm lactose intolerant". Power Move
francoisparaviccini101
It happened to me too, i left as soon as I herd that
coastercrazypics
I hope he gave him a fat tip
xxdayoffatexx
First date, woman ordered anything she could. Wine, food, you name it. Finished the meal, head to restroom. Waiter (male) came in.
xxdayoffatexx
Overheard the date on the phone laughing and joking with a friend. Saying she was on a date not with her boyfriend and I was paying.
xxdayoffatexx
He already split the bill and I handed him the credit card. Came back and showed me he saved me 60 bucks. Left him a 60 dollar tip and left.
tr3buchet
TCGView
The silver lining there is you know right up front she's NOT the one.
Howlingowl
Only a sociopath chooses a drink they don’t like specifically because it’s expensive and they’re not paying
rudejohn
While I agree, there are times I get a lot of the expensive thing on a buffet because I couldn't afford a plate of it. Kind of same behavior
BananaForScaIe
Except buffet doesn't cost someone else for your indulgence. That's just being like China.
Callito
But you pick the an expensive thing you enjoy eating? Mit JUST because its expensive right?
rudejohn
Yeah, I may love shrimp and a baked potato equally, but will fill a buffet plate with shrimp rather than eating the potato.
rudejohn
But I don't get caviar or lamb, which I dislike, JUST because they are expensive.
MPatt08
rudejohn
Getting something because it's expensive and not because I really want it? Yeah. Kind of the same.
BananaForScaIe
Whoosh
currst
#1
Marv111
One time a girl picked up $5 from the floor and said this must be yours. I took it and placed in on the bar. 1/2
Marv111
She then stood at bar and asked if I would buy her a drink. I said yes. She ordered Long Island iced tea. $7. true story
TarrkertheNewt
Had this happen on my first date ever with a girl. I got up and walked out. It was 1996 so... everyone hated me for that. x_x
Feralkyn
Man, as a woman, idc what year it was that's a shitty thing to do. (On HER side, not yours!)
ALinguisticHermit
Maybe a joke? Typical biz dinners: "He's paying", "well then what's the most expensive..." followed by white business guys in suits laughter
jonReremy9669
erin wotherspoon justEntered the chat https://www.huffpost.com/archive/ca/entry/im-dating-for-free-dinners-got-a-problem-with-that_b_4220443
yesyoucancancan
Kinda do have a problem with it, yeah
HonestlyNotARobot
I'd just ask for separate checks at the end. Problem solved
JS87
Chick can bounce before the end and stiff you with the bill. It’s the common “fool me once, fool me twice” scenario.
cryborg
This guy has been through some shit. Damn.
SaveitforQueenDoppelpoppolus
this feels like an “and then the whole bus clapped” that an incel came up with to justify hating women but okay whatever
NuclearButtPlugFromPlanetX
I agree. Upvoting this post.
JemIsTrulyOutrageous
1st rule of the internet is people lie. My sister pulls this kind of shit though, but shes also a terrible human in general.
eadanke
Really? This sounds ridiculously tame for "the worst thing a woman has done on a first date"
SaveitforQueenDoppelpoppolus
its not about “worst thing” its that she has no agency; she not asking for a drink she likes thats expensive, its just whatever is expensive
SaveitforQueenDoppelpoppolus
the drink isnt something she’ll consume and enjoy, its just a prop because the main character here isnt the woman its the man’s wallet
SaveitforQueenDoppelpoppolus
then this caricature of greed that op somehow agreed to out with gets her comeuppance through bro solidarity - this is incel wank bullshit
AltruisticMoron
Haven't dated a lot of women I take it? ?
SaveitforQueenDoppelpoppolus
if every woman you got out with is just there for free food and drinks maybe you should take a sec and think about what that says about you!
AltruisticMoron
Way to bend over backwards to intentionally misinterpret the post
GoodBrotherGrimm
To be fair, he never once said "every women I've dated has done this". But date enough of either gender and you'll run into some assholes.
DarkHollowDulcimers
I went to pick up a woman for a first date and she wasn't even ready; she was sitill in her bubblebath with candles and stuff all around.
TheProofIsInDePudding
How dare you not respect her boundary that she didn't feel like rushing herself /s
DreadzkieOnTwitch
With men like you I don't know how we reached a population of 8 billion.
Wolfy4226
Lower standards.
DreadzkieOnTwitch
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GreenFox
I don't know the full context and imgur's 140characters can't provide it. But that SOUNDS like an invitation to me.
honk7
Wow! Red flag! You dodged a bullet there, bro.
feryooday
Or she wanted to get frisky and it was a weird attempt at romance/fucking
BellsTheorem
She even asked that I get in with her when I was quite clearly wearing my best suit and ready to go to dinner. Some women! Sheesh!
CanadaDryGingerMale
One woman tried to invite me in for coffee at the end of the date. I chided her as coffee is not a late night drink!
Totalwombat
Damn man! Coffee is and excuse to get you in her house for. Intimacy
Bartholomeo
Clever, won't want to ruin your sleep.
clamdriver
Took a woman to dinner who was 10 years my junior. After a few hours of drinking asked if I'd put her in my will. When I laughed she got mad
L4t3xs
Were you 20 or what the fuck?
GeneralWho
DiabolicalStench
sweetandsmokey
Only 10 years younger and she assumes you will die first? You got an idiot too!
ExaDeuce
He waa gonna die in a sudden and tragic accident
Flowerlady0
Just like the other ones. Poor girl was so unlucky.
clamdriver
47 vs. 37. Yes a bona fide nut ball.
DavidBrooker
I have never *not* gone dutch on a first date, and I would consider it a huge red flag for anyone to expect otherwise.
bassaro
The first step in going Dutch is to apologize for your terrible English, which is better than the other person's.
keyblader1985
I think it would be polite to simply ask. I'd be perfectly fine paying for both, but if they may think it's inappropriate or disrespectful.
DavidBrooker
In fact, I'm pretty sure my partner would have found it condescending if I even offered.
SeeYaLaterMethamphetaGator
I always paid if I asked for the date, but second date they pay.
corprophage
You a man or woman?
SeeYaLaterMethamphetaGator
Both
ManByTechnicality
Same, I find it let's everyone relax a little more. I would also include arranging your own transportation.
feryooday
I mean if it’s just a couple drinks I’ll buy. Or try to… guys don’t seem to like the girl paying for it all. emasculating or something ?
feryooday
but I don’t wanna upset people either.
chicamery
Oh man, I had one blind date where he knew it was my bd. He not only refused to split the bill, but thought I should pay. I think fishing?
feryooday
Uhhhh someone refuses to split I go pull the server aside privately and pay for my half and dip out. that’s so unacceptable
tacosmckinsey
When she asked that you should have said...we will be going Dutch
thriftstorebooklady
I always did this on first dates (am female, dated men). Took any pressure of putting out away from me + it's just fair.
FistfulOfAssholes
Emuc64
I honestly never knew about that pressure women go through just for accepting dinner? Crazy.
thriftstorebooklady
It's something to take into account, I guess? Just like texting your friends his pic/name/license plate if you end up going home with him.
thriftstorebooklady
And texting you're fine afterwards. Just precautions. I did this with my last date 5 years ago, we're still together, lol. I didn't think 2/
thriftstorebooklady
anything would happen, he seemed really nice, but you *never* know.
FartingWiener
What does that mean?
villlllle
Dirty stuff in the bedroom. Like, extra dirty. You know like there's the french kiss and then there's the dutch kiss.
FartingWiener
Is that when you go ass to mouth?
villlllle
I wouldn't know, but I've head tales!
SDOMO
No, that's "Going German."
randomwalrus
The Dutch have no asses, claiming they do is ignorant, and racist.
tacosmckinsey
Means splitting the bill and paying for what you each ordered yourselves
Stewrot
If a date knows I'm buying, and asks for most expensive drink, that date is over.
jankeydadondc
JollyJokzr
How about just saying "no" immediately?
CanadaDryGingerMale
Current me (as opposed to young me) would just politely say “this isn’t going to work out; good night” and get up and leave.
PoopSammich
"I gotta go to the bathroom quick" pay for my half of the tab, tip well and bounce the absolute fuck out
jonReremy9669
erin wotherspoon justEntered the chat https://www.huffpost.com/archive/ca/entry/im-dating-for-free-dinners-got-a-problem-with-that_b_4220443
heybuddyhowsitgoing
I had to check that wasn’t satire. Jesus.
JeremyPeevin
Yikes. What a terrible person. Hope she's crossed off zero of her wishlist.
pak0chu
Play it cool and leave her with the bill
Dankking
Now if it’s the best sounding drink and it’s just coincidently the most expensive and they aren’t ordering it just because it’s expensive
JahNoodles
.... imagine if she didn't even touch the drink the whole night
Syrpynt
cantevenbewhenicantevenpee
Just like my dick
apostlepk
LOL at the choice of gif.
cryborg
The whole relationship is over. WTF is that?
Akurei00
That question is very likely on a first date. So yeah, if they're only concerned with it being expensive, that's a massive red flag.
cryborg
cryborg
And I would not need the waiter's help. I would be requesting a Lyft.
cryborg
Let her pay for her own damn most expensive drink.
UmAcshually
It depends. If we are at a fancy restaurant and they have wine bottles going into the hundreds, I'm bailing out for that move. If we're at >
UmAcshually
a cocktail bar where everything is in the same order of magnitude and I've told them it's on me and they want to try out something they'd >
UmAcshually
not dare to splurge on otherwise... I'd not mind in the slightest for the extra $10 or whatever that'd cost me.
perseJeesus
Not about cost at all. Asking for the most expensive thing just for its price when someone else is paying is obliviously shitty behavior
tacosarejustmexicansandwhiches
Depends on the cocktail bar. Some of them have gimmick drinks that cost thousands or more.
LordOfTheFattys
What if they asked you if they could get it politly, and that they've always wanted to try it, and said they'd get the next one?
unluckyandbored
In that case? Sure, why not?
booSTied
if my grandmother had wheels, she would be a bike
Milkashake
I would be fine with her ordering something expensive to try (especially together), could be fun! But I'd expect her to ask something /1
Milkashake
specific, rather than just "the most expensive thing on the menu"