Great human being. I hope you find happiness soon

Sep 6, 2016 11:19 AM

albanian111

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I guess the bride's not devastated then?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

how many hundreds? tree fiddy

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Look at that new testament parable come to life

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Thee should serve boneless chicken

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I feel like this could also have been a FU to the hotel that refused to give her the money back.

10 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Awesome either way

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

If this is true... Fuck yeah, that lady rocks.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

some humanity left

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

The groom is a piece of shit for calling it off that close. It's good he realized he didn't want it, but I hope he has to pay those parents.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Found a few articles. This seems to be the source: http://www.kcra.com/news/cancelled-wedding-ends-with-meal-offered-to-homeless/35906354

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

+1

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

$35k wow just wow.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 3

good for her.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Yup, the things I would not do with my money!

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Making the best of a bad situation, bravo.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Pretty sure that's a bunch of malarkey. DOWNVOTE

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

35 K for that place ???

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Hope the groom paid for it all! Give the homeless all things besides drugs and alcohol

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

35 thousand for a wedding?? That's part of a house payment.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Yet another reason why spending a ton of money on a wedding is stupid.

10 years ago | Likes 58 Dislikes 3

Agreed

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

to each their own - some people like that sort of thing. I don't, but some do.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I tend to agree; however, if you are going to, maybe get a civil marriage a few months beforehand. That way there is no backing out...

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Weddings are, by default, wildly expensive. My cousin's is gonna run them 13k and that's doing everything as cheaply a we could :/

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Even if you don't do anything big, sometimes its still expensive. People hear wedding and over charge. If a DJ usually charges 200 for 1/2

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

2/2 a night, if he hears it's for a wedding, he'll charge 800. People in the wedding business are criminal.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Did she manage to find a replacement groom?

10 years ago | Likes 186 Dislikes 2

Yup. But before the bride was willing to consummate the marriage she made the guy say "no hobo" to make everything cool.

10 years ago | Likes 123 Dislikes 2

Ha! Take your +1

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Just because you can go to the dog shelter to get a dog does not mean you can go to the men's shelter to get a man.

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

Yeah, those guys are notoriously picky.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I don't know, online dating feels a lot like PetFinder.com these days...

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Key difference; one wants to give you the bone, the other wants you to give them the bone.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I wonder if she can write it off her taxes now

10 years ago | Likes 942 Dislikes 8

Only if her altruism rings a little hollow

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

Hey, more money COULD mean more funds to help with.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Hit the nail on the head.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 5

Legally, no. But she can sue the groom for some portion of the cost.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

It was her money anyways.

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Given that there were a few days til the event, most people/places would refund at least most of what was paid since there's still time to-

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 5

halt things like set-up & most food preparation. That's why things like "Act of God" clauses are written into contacts

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

No. No no no, if you cancel 2 days before your wedding I guarantee you that all you'll get back is a hefty bill

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Most venues will not refund within a week because they cannot rebook the space and food orders have already been placed

10 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

I said people, not venues. People who understand that shit happens & everyone involved is only human, people who also understand that

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

If you're lucky you might get a partial refund, but certainly won't get the deposit (already used on food etc) back

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

things don't have to go to waste or be a loss of money

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

This isn't a charity and so not a charitable contribution. However the donor can use the gift exclusion. By dividing the amount across (1/3)

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

You could easily make it tax deductible by having a charitable foundation host the event that you're paying for.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

the recipients it would certainly be less than the annual exclusion allowed to each party, and so would be permissible to write off (2/3)

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

The gift tax exclusion is only part of your long term estate tax, doesn't affect income tax for the year. No write of for income tax

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I mean that means she's still paying for 2/3 of it which is pretty gracious still

10 years ago | Likes 103 Dislikes 1

Well, she was going to be paying for 3/3 of it, now only 2/3. The tax write-off thing didn't occur to me because I grew up poor :D

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

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10 years ago (deleted Jan 26, 2017 2:34 AM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

Wow dude

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

or her

10 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 1

women have money? UNPOSSIBLE!

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Probably. But it's still a good thing

10 years ago | Likes 353 Dislikes 2

Btw your selfie is amazing!

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Oh schpanks :3

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

No, you can't deduct direct contributions - it has to go through a 501(c)(3) (or some other sort of tax-exempt organization)

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Well that sucks. I guess it keeps people from claiming charity without actually providing proof

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

And it keeps organizations from claiming they're charitable when they have no evidence of it.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I think of that as a win win. They recoup some of their losses and the homeless get fed. That's why write offs for charity exist.

10 years ago | Likes 112 Dislikes 1

Unless the donation went to an organization she can't write any of it off

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

You obviously have no idea what you're talking about. The cap is $500, after that it has no impact on taxes owed.

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 75

It can, but in special circumstances with special documentation

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 5

Oh god. You obviously have no idea what you're talking about.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I thought $500 was just the cap for being able to write things off without providing receipts.

10 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 1

It's more than that just to be able to receive anything back. You could say $400 for example, but you get $0 back from that.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Always goes well when you start with "you have no idea what your talking about" then spew bullshit after.

10 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

LOL fuck all you downvoting faggots

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Calm down Trolly Mctrollerson.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Too bad she can't recoup the cost from the groom

10 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 6

Maybe she just shouldn't have paid so much...

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 6

May have sold other cold parts of the groom.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Oh she can if she wants to hire a lawyer. He committed to a contract - offer and acceptance and caused actual monetary damages.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 23

I would love to see your legal backing of this. The only "contracts" he enters are ones he himself signs with vendor/venue/etc.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You do not understand contracts then. Paper is one type. His actions entered him into others - both verbal and implied. His proposal another

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 3

Verbal contracts are not binding in many jurisdictions; still others do not consider those verbal contracts.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

He'd have to have verbally agreed to be charged if he ditched, and admit to the verbal agreement in court. Good. Fucking. Luck.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

What contract would that be?

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 2

A willing participant in marriage and likely the one that initiated the contract offer. Same grounds guys get rings back when bride walks

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 4

Marriage. https://www.law.cornell.edu/wex/marriage

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Until he's married there's no contract.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Not typically wedding costs since they aren't given as "consideration" of a contract, and the mother is not a party to the marriage anyway

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

He was party to the planning of the wedding reception. His participation continues his obligations just the same.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 3

good to know. i'm planning a big party for when my team wins the superbowl. glad to hear i can sue them if they lose. /sarcasm

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Unless he agreed upon paying them it's not legally binding. Marriage IS a contract, but not things surrounding it, especially to 3rd parties

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

In short, you can't have a one-way contract with someone who never agreed to your terms just because you made plan based on another contract

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0