Looking for support

Dec 16, 2022 9:22 AM

radcox000

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Man has it been a wild three weeks. I haven't been sleeping, barely eating, depressed but still functional and have been putting in long hours at work. Well it's finally caught up, in the ER for intense abdominal pain. I believe it's kidney stones but not for sure just yet. This time of year just wrecks me every year. No family to spend holidays, work is always crazy, and seasonal depression hits hard. Could just use some fake internet points to get the dopamine flowing.

I'm sorry OP. Life can be so fucking unfair sometimes. I am rooting for you and truly hope you will get better soon! I believe in you!

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You fucked around and found out, now it's time to do you and focus on your wellbeing. You can do this

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Was just in the hospital for acute pancreatitis due to gallstones. Shit sucks. Dilaudid is your friend. Wishing you a speedy recovery!

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I've been there. I get it. And, for what it's worth, it gets better. Keep your head up, OP.

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Ugh I hope it isn't a kidney stone, those are awful. Ask the Dr if she/he knows the difference between a rectal and oral thermometer....

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The taste. Get well soon

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Cyberhug!!!!

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Congratulations on your kidney babies. Who's the father?

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American eating habits! And genetics.

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The first couple of sentences describe my current situation perfectly.

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Do you want my prescription for happiness?

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Your blood pressure looks great! :)

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Merry Christmas OP. I’m sorry this season is tough for you. Tough for me too. Lots of love from Ohio USA ❤️

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C’MON LADIES, SEND @OP SOME BEWBS!!

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Not a pro but... If at all possible take a walk outside as many days as possible. Literally put one foot in front of the other. From what I

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Understand the arm swinging motion alone is super good for cognitive health. Some care facilities will move Alzheimer's patients arms back a

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nd forth for them... Even a little exercise and sunlight (when available) is magical. Even if you can only carve out five minutes, worth it.

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just stick out your hand, I'm pretty sure that railing provides some support

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Little is sending love and healing energy your way.

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You are welcome to peruse my favorites. They are fairly funny/interesting.

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Have an upvote and a meme.

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If seasonal darkness hits you hard, look at getting a high-intensity light to use during your morning coffee, helps me properly wake up.

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And you have my gif

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I dont have many points to give you, but I humbly offer this.

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And if OP doesn't appreciate this I know I will!

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Owch, try not to work yourself sick. Hope things start to pick up. In the meantime, here's something silly.

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If it's kidney stones, know that this too will pass.

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It might hurt like a bitch. But it'll pass, yes

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Here's hoping you have some sexy nurses (male female, whatever you like op)

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Why not both .gif

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I can be their sexy nurse. I'm a hairy bearded dude, but I'll wear heels, a skirt and everything

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As long as you are prompt with those blessed, blessed painkillers, you will be loved in the purest way.

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Not so fast. You have to wait in line.

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I hd to get circumcised last week due to an injury from my 140lb dog.. 9 stitches on my dick! So yeah I’ve got you bro!

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What WERE you doing to that poor dog???

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Just standing in his way…….

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You poor thing….hang in there…

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Feel better soon

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Quit putting peanut butter on your dick you pervert!

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Absolutely laughing at your comment

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Hahah but it’s delicious! Lol.. dog ran into my junk head first at full speed at the dog park.. I went down like a $2 hooker!

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If it’s stones, get really good with your floor nurse. You’ll need those pain killers asap

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You don't need to suck up. Just don't be an asshole. I don't mind giving them around the clock but when patients set timers on their phone..

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The scary (might ruin your life) painkillers - I didn’t want to take them. Finally gave in - found out they don’t work on the “waves,” only

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2) the regular background pain. “Yeah, that’s normal” medical people said. Stuck with the regular painkiller after that. Be careful @op

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Unless you're me and they've got nothing in stock so you're sent home with paracetamol and good wishes. Passed that stone like a champ tho.

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I passed a stone at home as well, but I did it like a little bitch baby crying and screaming on the floor. Now, I drink more water.

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I am sorry. Reading that made me wince in pain on your behalf.

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CSB: Was in the ER with stones, nurse with pain killer shot and doctor come in at the same time. Dr presses on my side and POP, the stones 1

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release just as the nurse is injecting my IV. Cleared my problem but I was stuck there for hours until the shot worked it's course.

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Being a kind and respectful human usually gets you the nursing dose too. Fingers crossed for a lithotripsy! Simple, speedy, and noninvasive.

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Lol I was gonna say that is definitely an invasive procedure lol. Sauce, I am an OR nurse. Everything goes up the pee hole, camera and all

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I hope you feel better!! Sorry you have to spend so much time in the hospital, they're not exactly restful places

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Ah, sweet sweet I.V. Toradol. And just a whif of morphine

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This. When I had my stones, they gave me this "cocktail". Best I felt in YEARS. Well, until it wore off.

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Sounds like a job for endone, does the job and there’s a bonus zone out

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Hopefully it is just stones.

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Yep. In June, I went to the ER three times in about a week with multiple stones. Pain kept coming back. Could barely do anything. Fun times.

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Mine literally did exactly that. I woke up in pain, tried to get to the bathroom twenty feet away, collapsed.

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Gall stones sucked. But kidney stones made me think I was dying.

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Worse, they desensitized me to the pain, when I waited a couple of days during the pandemic before going to the ER, they

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sent me for a CT scan to verify. 5 minutes later a surgeon shows up and says "Ok it's your appendix, you're going in for surgery right NOW."

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I nearly did because my about to burst appendix didn't hurt as bad as the kidney stones did.

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I had an intestinal hernial for a year and when I finally had surgery, being friends with the nurse came in handy. Sweet sweet tramadol

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Good times never seemed so good

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Start some of that sweet, sweet therapy. Even if you don't think you have anything to say, the words will flow like poetry xxx

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S.A.D. - I take 5000IU of Vitamin D3 daily and my levels were STILL low in the winter. Get some blood work done. I’m on Wellbutrin and…1/

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Extra D3, prescription DHEA and Omega 3, Choline, and Pregnenolone (neurosteroid). Also, I meet with a Psychologist monthly. I feel SO good

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I do see someone, just a lot to unpack so it's slow moving.

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I met with 4 different therapists (all PsyD or PhD) at least twice before making a decision on them. Found the perfect one for me and WOW!

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Hang in there @op..it’s worth it. Ur worth it!

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Good on you man. Keep on keeping on’ and work to change what and where you can. Fuck kidney stones and fuck all disease. Fight that shit!

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They usually say about therapy that it can get worse before it gets better. But the fact you're working on it will pay off for sure.

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That's great! Most men are not willing to see a therapist so good on ya!

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I often find it helpful to find good programs to watch/listen to, things to explore random cool stuff & get new perspectives & insights. >

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You never know when something can wind up sparking new interests or helping with some problem; HMU if you want suggestions or discussion!

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Kept it up! And if you get homework, do it with earnest. You're having to retrain your brain to react to so many different things. It will

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Start to work automatically without having to assess your feelings and find the right coping tool (similar to learning a new language - that

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Point where you don't have to translate to your own language and figure out a reply). Also, medication helps. If one isn't working or stops,

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Don't be afraid to say something. The chemicals in your brain don't always work right.

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