Onwards & upwards, Buttercup!

Dec 14, 2021 6:19 AM

SerenePrincess013

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TLDR: We're gonna put this up too, to save time. Just read the meme.

Long version: Go get some popcorn, bc this is gonna take a bit. Grab some water while you're at it.

So, I have been at my job (former job) since Spring. Wasn't that big of a deal, wasn't that big of a career move. I needed a job, they offered me one, fine, whatever.

Problems started showing up rather quickly. Equipment wasn't working like it should. Batteries in our equipment were supposed to be ordered, & I was being told that they would "order 6 sets of batteries, but we would only get one or two." Computers that would refuse to function, printers that wouldn't print, touchscreens that would stop registering touches. If I brought up any of these concerns, all I would get is "oh, yeah, we know", or (even better) "I don't care enough about this place to fix it."

Then my 90 day eval time came... & went... no eval... & I wasn't even talked to about if I would be getting the raise I was promised at 90 days, not even to tell me that I wasn't bc I had too many things that needed to be improved.

Then I applied for management. & after months of begging for an interview, I was told "I don't feel comfortable promoting you bc it would affect your disability checks."

That's when the real bullying started. I have kept as quiet as I'm ever going to. And before anyone says "wait, that's illegal!", yeah, no shit. But unless someone has the funds to pay for a lawyer to take my case, & the case for the other confirmed 2 people she's pulled this shit with, I'm walking away. The store has been alerted that there was paperwork filed with the EEOC, & with the state civil rights board. But since everyone seems to think we all are just frothing with the funds to pay a private lawyer to take on discrimination cases, & fight it in court... I'm choosing my health over trying to prove a legal point.

Besides, I know I'm better than her bullshit anyway. Fucking 10$/hr to have flashbacks to the most hellish part of my teenage years, bc some 42 yr old teenager wants to try & relive the glory days? She might want to grow up a little, before more of her actual kids end up on MTVs Teen Mom, before they're even old enough to drive their baby momma to their WIC appointments.

I digress.

I quit today. Told my manager that I was done, I was out, & the only reason I'm not dragging the store thru a courtroom is bc I can't afford the legal fees. Then walked out with my head held high, knowing full well that the gossip about me would start, just as soon as my back was turned.

The teenagers never really get over themselves.

Went & ran a bunch of errands with a girlfriend, came home, & finally got to check my email... to discover that a friend of mine on the west coast finally got his company to get their shit together.

Bc there's a job offer in my inbox.

Got some forms to fill out, but nothing too serious. The benefits package is almost screaming-orgasm-inducing, tho. But, don't want to jinx it, so don't want to say the company name just yet. I'll update you as soon as I have news about that, promise.

Angy kitteh. He's mad bc he had cuddles from my girlfriend, & when I got back home, she wasn't with me. Dude threw a 2hr long tantrum when he realised she wasn't here, before ignoring me for 4 hrs, & then resorting to sulking.

Way to go! Yes!!

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Nice one! Congrats.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Hope it works out OP

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Wooo! I just quit my abusive job with awful bosses! You go girl!

4 years ago | Likes 98 Dislikes 1

Nice work, OP!! Glad you didn't stay too long. I made that mistake and still kick myself over staying some place I wasn't appreciated.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Its really depressing to see all these stories when I cant find a job in my domain and its been 6 months, anybody needs a graphic designer?

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Not a graphic designer for a company, per se, but might know some people looking for some art, if you want some gig work. DM me.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

leaving this place was the best you could do! congratulations to going trough with it!

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

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4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Well done and good luck! But it always boggles my mind how people can undersell themselves so hard, they double their income by changing job

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Only reason I took the job to begin with was to survive long enough to get a better job. Bc I know I'm worth more.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I wish everyone could quit their shitty jobs! I'm proud of you for standing up for yourself. Fingers crossed for the new job!

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Woohoo! Good on you, @op! Good luck!

4 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 0

Good job op.$20/hr on the West coast may not be all that great. Shit, the Burger King near me is advertising $16/hr. Shit's crazy.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Fast food near me is offering 15$/hr, too, but I'm done getting yelled at by people who think they're better than me.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Moving for a 20/hr job sounds… yeah. You do you though.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Reading about your cat cracked me up laughing.. Thank you!

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I have a basket piled 3ft high with blankets. He tore most of it into the floor, & then sat there crying for 45 minutes, before trying to>

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Tear apart his litter box, & then the closet. I had to let him get it out of his system, before cleaning things up.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

yay! i just got fired from my abusive job! rock on!

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If you've got toxic workplace claim, file with the Worker's Rights board & EEOC.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Ooh man, companies are gonna find out. A lot of people in the coming years will be renegotiating their pay, and it's going to be glorious.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That is true karma, the nice kind ?

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I met a woman today who said she quit corporate America, became a professional dog walker & loves it. Apparently making good money at it too

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Friday is my last day, the feeling is surreal

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

There's no better feeling than firing a bad boss, except maybe immediately getting a better job... Grats!

4 years ago | Likes 75 Dislikes 0

Except maybe firing a bad boss only to have them call me up and ask me to come back. Twice. I told them no because nothing had changed .

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

@OP If you want to do something, look for a lawyer with contingency fees. I'm dealing with a workers rights case (Oregon) and would 1/2

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

2/2 be in the same position - no money to sue for damages caused. Contingency fees are steep, but you pay nothing if you lose.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

3/2 (EXCEPT some fees, I should say. Like, fees the lawyer has to pay to request paperwork, n stuff.)

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Every lawyer in my area wants all their fees upfront. I've looked into it all. Up Schitt's Creek, & not even a boat.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

Damn, I'm super sorry to hear that then :(

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Congrats on your new job! I'm sure it was a huge relief not to worry about finding a new one

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

All EEOC and NLRB services are free. You can still make a complaint, for free. I've taken legal action with/NLRB help.

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Oh, I know. But the lawyers that take the cases to court are not. & they charge body parts & internal organs, upfront.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

What happened to that other job that hired you two weeks ago?

4 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 0

They still haven't set a date to start training, & I'm not going to wait forever.

4 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 2

Makes sense, good on you for not just waiting around and seeing what they do.

4 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

Whoever starts me first, gets me. Also kinda hoping it's this new job, bc they work from home until my lease is up, at which point,>

4 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

There's the option to relocate closer to an office position. Which they will finance. So there's a good chance I can move out to live>

4 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

Closer to my Dad, & get to hang out with him for however long he & I have together.

4 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 1

That's exactly how it works...your present company will never pay you what you're worth...

4 years ago | Likes 200 Dislikes 1

Hmm. Maybe shitty companies won’t. Because mine does. In fact, I think they pay me more than I’m worth

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

shop your resume around and see how much more other companies are willing to pay you!

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I walked into my interview and said "The average for this position in this area is X, please pay me that," and they said "Sounds good."

4 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Well, yes. They were presumably looking for someone better than average, so expected to have to pay more...

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That's a strange part, isn't it? Keeping your current employees is better than getting the same employees without experience in your company

4 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

This is a failure of upper management. Read about what Zalat Pizza learned.

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Unionize with your friends, everyone.

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

It didn't use to work like this. Its something that started in the 80s and just got worse.

4 years ago | Likes 39 Dislikes 0

Just as workers unions were squeezed out of common existence

4 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Thanks to Reagan on both counts.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Minimum wage is your boss's way of saying "i'd pay you less, if i could"

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

The truly atrocious thing is, she tried to make it puns like she was doing me a favour by offering me 50 cents more than minimum wage,>

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

"Because you're so experienced in the industry." I tried to ask for more at the interview, & got told "I'll have to leave that w/ corporate"

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

50 cents an hour? Don't spend it all at the same time. /s :( Sorry to hear about your experience with this awful person.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It came out to ~5$ more a pay period. After taxes were taken out.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0