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TLDR: We're gonna put this up too, to save time. Just read the meme.
Long version: Go get some popcorn, bc this is gonna take a bit. Grab some water while you're at it.
So, I have been at my job (former job) since Spring. Wasn't that big of a deal, wasn't that big of a career move. I needed a job, they offered me one, fine, whatever.
Problems started showing up rather quickly. Equipment wasn't working like it should. Batteries in our equipment were supposed to be ordered, & I was being told that they would "order 6 sets of batteries, but we would only get one or two." Computers that would refuse to function, printers that wouldn't print, touchscreens that would stop registering touches. If I brought up any of these concerns, all I would get is "oh, yeah, we know", or (even better) "I don't care enough about this place to fix it."
Then my 90 day eval time came... & went... no eval... & I wasn't even talked to about if I would be getting the raise I was promised at 90 days, not even to tell me that I wasn't bc I had too many things that needed to be improved.
Then I applied for management. & after months of begging for an interview, I was told "I don't feel comfortable promoting you bc it would affect your disability checks."
That's when the real bullying started. I have kept as quiet as I'm ever going to. And before anyone says "wait, that's illegal!", yeah, no shit. But unless someone has the funds to pay for a lawyer to take my case, & the case for the other confirmed 2 people she's pulled this shit with, I'm walking away. The store has been alerted that there was paperwork filed with the EEOC, & with the state civil rights board. But since everyone seems to think we all are just frothing with the funds to pay a private lawyer to take on discrimination cases, & fight it in court... I'm choosing my health over trying to prove a legal point.
Besides, I know I'm better than her bullshit anyway. Fucking 10$/hr to have flashbacks to the most hellish part of my teenage years, bc some 42 yr old teenager wants to try & relive the glory days? She might want to grow up a little, before more of her actual kids end up on MTVs Teen Mom, before they're even old enough to drive their baby momma to their WIC appointments.
I digress.
I quit today. Told my manager that I was done, I was out, & the only reason I'm not dragging the store thru a courtroom is bc I can't afford the legal fees. Then walked out with my head held high, knowing full well that the gossip about me would start, just as soon as my back was turned.
The teenagers never really get over themselves.
Went & ran a bunch of errands with a girlfriend, came home, & finally got to check my email... to discover that a friend of mine on the west coast finally got his company to get their shit together.
Bc there's a job offer in my inbox.
Got some forms to fill out, but nothing too serious. The benefits package is almost screaming-orgasm-inducing, tho. But, don't want to jinx it, so don't want to say the company name just yet. I'll update you as soon as I have news about that, promise.
Angy kitteh. He's mad bc he had cuddles from my girlfriend, & when I got back home, she wasn't with me. Dude threw a 2hr long tantrum when he realised she wasn't here, before ignoring me for 4 hrs, & then resorting to sulking.
BlackCats4ever
Way to go! Yes!!
catzrob
Nice one! Congrats.
HandBananaTonight
Hope it works out OP
casserina
Wooo! I just quit my abusive job with awful bosses! You go girl!
TallLightnHandsome
Nice work, OP!! Glad you didn't stay too long. I made that mistake and still kick myself over staying some place I wasn't appreciated.
IAmACyberneticOrganismLivingTissueOverEndoskeleton
Its really depressing to see all these stories when I cant find a job in my domain and its been 6 months, anybody needs a graphic designer?
SerenePrincess013
Not a graphic designer for a company, per se, but might know some people looking for some art, if you want some gig work. DM me.
Schlumpfi
VirtualHugger
SerenePrincess013
Cid2
Well done and good luck! But it always boggles my mind how people can undersell themselves so hard, they double their income by changing job
SerenePrincess013
Only reason I took the job to begin with was to survive long enough to get a better job. Bc I know I'm worth more.
MurialsCourage
I wish everyone could quit their shitty jobs! I'm proud of you for standing up for yourself. Fingers crossed for the new job!
shotty814
Woohoo! Good on you, @op! Good luck!
getthismanabeer
Good job op.$20/hr on the West coast may not be all that great. Shit, the Burger King near me is advertising $16/hr. Shit's crazy.
SerenePrincess013
Fast food near me is offering 15$/hr, too, but I'm done getting yelled at by people who think they're better than me.
ailike
Moving for a 20/hr job sounds… yeah. You do you though.
brattius
Reading about your cat cracked me up laughing.. Thank you!
SerenePrincess013
I have a basket piled 3ft high with blankets. He tore most of it into the floor, & then sat there crying for 45 minutes, before trying to>
SerenePrincess013
Tear apart his litter box, & then the closet. I had to let him get it out of his system, before cleaning things up.
KaptainObveeus
yay! i just got fired from my abusive job! rock on!
SerenePrincess013
If you've got toxic workplace claim, file with the Worker's Rights board & EEOC.
Makerofroads
Ooh man, companies are gonna find out. A lot of people in the coming years will be renegotiating their pay, and it's going to be glorious.
Twinklepot
That is true karma, the nice kind ?
dancingbarefootonlego
I met a woman today who said she quit corporate America, became a professional dog walker & loves it. Apparently making good money at it too
TheMagicalUpvoteFearie
Friday is my last day, the feeling is surreal
NonDenominationalSpaceLaser
There's no better feeling than firing a bad boss, except maybe immediately getting a better job... Grats!
scoutMoonDiver
Except maybe firing a bad boss only to have them call me up and ask me to come back. Twice. I told them no because nothing had changed .
AGiantTransWoman
@OP If you want to do something, look for a lawyer with contingency fees. I'm dealing with a workers rights case (Oregon) and would 1/2
AGiantTransWoman
2/2 be in the same position - no money to sue for damages caused. Contingency fees are steep, but you pay nothing if you lose.
AGiantTransWoman
3/2 (EXCEPT some fees, I should say. Like, fees the lawyer has to pay to request paperwork, n stuff.)
SerenePrincess013
Every lawyer in my area wants all their fees upfront. I've looked into it all. Up Schitt's Creek, & not even a boat.
AGiantTransWoman
Damn, I'm super sorry to hear that then :(
MattRexPuns
Congrats on your new job! I'm sure it was a huge relief not to worry about finding a new one
thelonepig
All EEOC and NLRB services are free. You can still make a complaint, for free. I've taken legal action with/NLRB help.
SerenePrincess013
Oh, I know. But the lawyers that take the cases to court are not. & they charge body parts & internal organs, upfront.
TealcOneill
What happened to that other job that hired you two weeks ago?
SerenePrincess013
They still haven't set a date to start training, & I'm not going to wait forever.
TealcOneill
Makes sense, good on you for not just waiting around and seeing what they do.
SerenePrincess013
Whoever starts me first, gets me. Also kinda hoping it's this new job, bc they work from home until my lease is up, at which point,>
SerenePrincess013
There's the option to relocate closer to an office position. Which they will finance. So there's a good chance I can move out to live>
SerenePrincess013
Closer to my Dad, & get to hang out with him for however long he & I have together.
OrkenMork
That's exactly how it works...your present company will never pay you what you're worth...
johnwilliamsistheman
Hmm. Maybe shitty companies won’t. Because mine does. In fact, I think they pay me more than I’m worth
OrkenMork
shop your resume around and see how much more other companies are willing to pay you!
porcinechoirmaster
I walked into my interview and said "The average for this position in this area is X, please pay me that," and they said "Sounds good."
vegivamp
Well, yes. They were presumably looking for someone better than average, so expected to have to pay more...
bemxuu
That's a strange part, isn't it? Keeping your current employees is better than getting the same employees without experience in your company
miraclemaxcoc
This is a failure of upper management. Read about what Zalat Pizza learned.
CarpoolTunnelSyndrome
Unionize with your friends, everyone.
meskarune
It didn't use to work like this. Its something that started in the 80s and just got worse.
HandoB4Javert
Just as workers unions were squeezed out of common existence
scoutMoonDiver
Thanks to Reagan on both counts.
Nalianna
Minimum wage is your boss's way of saying "i'd pay you less, if i could"
SerenePrincess013
The truly atrocious thing is, she tried to make it puns like she was doing me a favour by offering me 50 cents more than minimum wage,>
SerenePrincess013
"Because you're so experienced in the industry." I tried to ask for more at the interview, & got told "I'll have to leave that w/ corporate"
Nalianna
50 cents an hour? Don't spend it all at the same time. /s :( Sorry to hear about your experience with this awful person.
SerenePrincess013
It came out to ~5$ more a pay period. After taxes were taken out.