Day # whatever of me trying to change people’s minds about spiders

May 13, 2025 1:13 PM

Happy Tuesday, Imgur! Sorry I was MIA yesterday; food poisoning got me good. Anyways, back to our regularly scheduled programming!
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Spiders are similar to cats in that they’re frequently grooming themselves. Jumping spiders are covered in sensitive hairs called “setae” that take in a lot of sensory information. Therefore self-care is essential for Ms Bunnette!
Self-care is essential for you, too. Relax your shoulders, unclench your jaw, and drink some water
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MV Edit: does anyone have advice for self-publishing physical copies of a children’s book? If so PLEASE dm me! I wrote and illustrated a book about a jumping spider who helps a little girl through chemo. I just need to format and print it. Any help would be amazing!! https://imgur.com/gallery/DSwpaVn

spooooder!

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🥰

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I love her too! <3

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I know she’s cleaning herself, but all I can hear is “Hi! Hi! Hi! I’m down here!!!!”

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Hehehe she does like it when the camera is on her. She likes the light and reflections I think

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For the most part, I don't mind spiders. They are bug assassins that patrol my home. What I do mind is that they sometimes try to do it at face height with their webs strung across a doorway and are probably laughing as they watch me go into ninja mode trying to fight off their web.

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I do think they get that annoyed-but-amused face when we walk through their webs. Like “jfc human!!”

But jumping spiders don’t make webs, so you should like them even more :)

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The ones that always bugged me the most were these Black and Yellow garden spiders. My aunt and uncle used to run a tree farm and I would go out there and mow between the rows. These spiders used to love to spin a web between them, and if I wasn't paying attention, I would drive right into them while mowing. I ended up taking a bamboo stick, tape it to the front of the mower like a WWII Jeep wire cutter and let that hit the webs.

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Hey, you adapted and overcame at least- that’s some pretty smart thinking!

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Isn’t she a cutie patootie?!

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Change my mind? Do you want me to think that this little guy isn’t good?

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I want you to change your mind about this being a boy XD Bunnette is a female! You can tell by her purple chels, fuzzy pedipalps, and light coloration :) TYL!

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I'd suggest starting with "print on demand books" and see what comes up. Beware though, looks like there's a lot of places that are "give us money, we'll take care of the rest" that probably only do the first part.
https://www.forbes.com/advisor/business/software/best-print-on-demand-books-services/

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Thank you! I’m lucky in that all I need is the literally printing. I have the writing, editing, illustrations, and marketing taken care of

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https://www.artscow.com/photo-books
Artscow might be of use? Depends if you want to print and ship to you to deliver or if you want others to be able to print and ship to themselves?
There are possibilities out there. Just a matter of finding "the right one".
Then there's always finding a group of other self-published authors to ask information of
https://www.goodreads.com/group/show_tag/self-published-authors

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Thank you!!

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In certain Elven cultures, the Spider is considered sacred

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They’re sacred and lucky in several cultures, including Islam

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Yeah, and Anansi from West Africa is a fantastic god of stories. But I wanted to make a drow joke

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Oh I love Anansi!

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The only advice I can offer about your Book is: Don't try to sell it in Australia.
"G'Day Mate. I'm Sydney, and I'm a Funnel web Spider. So, you're having Chemo are ya? Strewth! I know a bit about Toxins."

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Lmao this made my day; thank you

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My dumb ass thought that spider was talking into a big microphone.

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Lmao that’s hilarious

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Cutie patootie.

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I love her! I really hope she turns out looking like her mom

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Yikes! Hope you feel better!

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Thank you! I do :) the sad part is I missed a friend’s wedding because I was so sick :(

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At least you didn't end up in the hospital like I did when I got it. Sent my heart into A Fib with tachycardia. I guess it was good I did though as they found i had diverticulitis, ulcerative colitis and was septic.

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Oh damn!! Yeah mine was nowhere near that serious! I’m glad you’re okay!

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spooder = fren

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Beneficial friends!

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Makes me want to get a little friend...

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I breed very healthy and well socialized spiders, just sayin! I also have feeders, beginner kits, and enclosures available. :)

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So fluffy!

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Doesn’t she look like a little Lorax?! :)

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Yesh!

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Get well soon!

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Thanks! I’m already back to normal; yesterday was the last of it. I missed a friend’s wedding on Sunday though :(

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Hey I had food poisoning Sunday. I'm still wrecked

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I’m so sorry! It’s such a miserable miserable experience. I hope you feel better soon!

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Hmmmm a huntsman spider me thinks?

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Yeah

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My Gods she is adorable...timy eight legged kitty 🖤

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They’re so similar to kittens! That’s actually a large part of the aforementioned children’s book lol

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Damn, I thought that was a boom mic. I wanted to hear what they's got to say

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I wish I was better at photoshop so I could make sillier videos! Lol

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I go out of my way to avoid hurting spiders. Except False Black Widows. We get a lot of them here and they are kill on sight. Aggressive little bastards that will put you in urgent care.

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So these are true widows aren’t even in the same family. False widow spiders (Steatoda spp.) are often mistaken for true black widow spiders (Latrodectus spp.) due to their similar appearance and web-building habits…. But false black widows have venom that’s not harmful to humans, so I’m not sure why you’d kill them?

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So these and*

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The ones here are called False Widows and they absolutely will put you in urgent care. Their bite makes you feel like you have the flu. They are a glossy black/purplish and they tend to live in corners of garages. I got bit only once and it was horrible, a day and a half of feeling awful and a swollen leg.

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And this is why it’s important to use scientific rather than colloquial names when talking about arachnids

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Steatoda grossa is the one I'm talking about. They are very common here, and if they bite you can get quick sick. Not always but it happens. Maybe I am just particular sensitive to them.

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You very well could have an allergy that exacerbated the bite! Even if something isn’t typically medically significant (like a bee sting), people can still have very adverse reactions to the venom. Spiders are the same

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I understand there’s not a reason for the average person to know that. But but whatever you’re calling a false widow is probably actually a brown widow or a recluse

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I think she needs a litter box..

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I thought that was candy floss behind her

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Haha nope, just pompoms so she has some enrichment and anchor points :)

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She’s a doll :)

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You are wonderful, your little spidey is wonderful and I love all of this!

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Aww thank you! This has been a fun and fairly successful little side project for me

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I have an unnatural fear of spiders but these guys are just so dang cute!

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It’s a natural fear- some (rare) spiders have medically significant venom to humans. But most are totally harmless :) And some, like jumpers and many tarantulas, make excellent pets!

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Nah I took the natural fear to spiders and cranked it up to 11, might have something to do with seeing Arachnophobia in theaters on my 11th birthday.

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Ohhh that’ll do it. But Hollywood has demonized spiders, snakes, and sharks in a really bad way

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Oh yeah they have. I also used to have an unnatural fear of snakes but I got over that because a friend of mine had a python as a pet so I was slowly introduced to it and the interaction really helped me. I am still wary of most snakes but I don't scream like a little girl (46yr old male) anytime I see one now!

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Aww that’s awesome! I came with a ball python when my husband and I started dating, so he also slowly got over his irrational fear of them. Now we have 3!

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I refuse to believe that's not a girlie microphone the spider is singing into. Hope you feel better OP!

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It does look like a little microphone XD I was I was better at photoshop so I could make sillier videos lol

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Your videos are already great, I always look forward to them. And those habitats are fantastic.

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Oh gosh, she’s still in her baby enclosure that’s boring af! I really need to show more of my good enclosures :) But thank you nonetheless!!!

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Sorry I wasn't clear, I meant other enclosures you have posted. Don't overstimulate the baby, you'll be up all night.😉

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Ahh gotcha; thank you!

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