You’re not alone in feeling this way

Jul 28, 2025 5:54 PM

McKittyNuts

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Source: https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/ng-interactive/2025/may/22/hypernormalization-dysfunction-status-quo | Be a chad and donate to The Guardian.

The horrors persist but so do I.

1 year ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

To me, the worst part is that there is still a disturbingly large portion of the country celebrating this dysfunction as progress toward "Making America Great Again"

1 year ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

now would be the time to stand up for what you believe in

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

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1 year ago (deleted Jul 29, 2025 7:07 AM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

A concerted effort to make sure that the whole hippie movement in the 60s never happens again.

1 year ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

"free love? in this economy?"

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Kill the billionaires, see if that fixes anything.

1 year ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I think the WORST thing in the world is probably to be a starving Palestinian child in constant danger, or their parent trying desperately to take care of them. I think the existential angst of struggling with cognitive dissonance is probably much less bad.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

I would like to make a law that says any bills that cut the budget for something must be first inacted on the politicians. Any bills that give good things to people, must have every1 else receive them b4 members of Congress. You vote for war? Your kids are put on the front lines 1st. You vote to cut hospitals? Your hospital is the 1st one cut. You vote to give free college education? It better be accessible to every1, bc your kids are going last. Its the golden rule with the politicians last.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

100% also felt this when I was the only one in my family who stopped ignoring/ condoning the abusive and fucked up things that were happening. My family all acted like I was insane, while they all carried on acting like everything was normal and fine.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

1 year ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

YouTube: Adam Curtis - Hypernormalisation (3-4 hr documentary how it connects) AND search: Capitalist Realism - by Mark Fischer (on how we can sooner imagine the end of the world than a system that replaces capitalism).

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

It really is weird. Like Russians flying here and there on holiday while their country wages the most devastating war of the last half century.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Not everyone is connected to the state system to the same degree, so some people, unconnected can be blissfully unaware until they come face

1 year ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 1

I'd say it's worse than that.. you can be exceptionally aware of how bad things are "out there" but also keep trudging on because you know that your position of relative privilege is *exceptionally* tenuous, and taking time off from work to go attend protests -- or.. take more exceptional measures -- could suddenly leave you homeless and destitute. Having just spent eight years getting my life back on the rails now I'm suddenly trying to figure out how much I can do without being homeless again.

1 year ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

It both is and isnt depending on where and how you are situated. Set yourself up so you can weather things better. Live frugally and embrace lower cost entertainment. Grab bug out gear, and set up a support network and stash some cash, if possible. A side hustle people can e-transfer cash to isnt a bad idea, either. Sorry I cant say "its all going to be OK." Im more in agreement with you. That said, I hope you can weather the storm and bounce back quick if it comes to it again.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 5

to face with it.

1 year ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

Some people are completely unaffected by the changes around them because they do not interact with the world the same way as others. I have a friend that since December 2019 has not left his apartment, for anything other than throw the trash down a chute. He made good money on some early .com bubble in the 2000's and lives off the dividends. He has a service to bring his groceries, one for laundry, taskrabbit, and amazon for everything else. He is happily oblivious, and does not care for news.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Sounds nice, not gonna lie

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

also, most people have bills to pay. you can't just stop doing the thing because the system is starting to go south. if you have that luxury, you probably don't need to work (and are probably part of the reason the system is collapsing)

1 year ago | Likes 72 Dislikes 2

Indeed, ideals and what should be don't pay the mortgage.

1 year ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

I mean, I'm all for public goods that are open to everyone and paid by everyone. I think that education and food should be available to all. but it's something that has to be put in place in a way where it's not used as a get rich piggy bank by someone. because they it's just a shitty public good.

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

As long as we maintained farming, the rest of us could just... go be free, do nothing.

Not even kidding.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

No. Someone's gotta plumb the pipes, wire the electricity etc. There will always be things that need to be done. The hard part is motivating people to do them

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

The western (or ancient roman for that matter) of waste management is detrimental and needs to be abandoned. One way or the other, our pee and poo needs to go into the ground, because we're animals, and animals shit in the forest.

Obviously we need "some" technology, like for heating. But we could survive just fine without our modern lifestyles, is what I'm trying to say (and missing a lot of context I admit).

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah we would survive. No where near as comfortably and likely live to the ripe old age of 35-40 (which is probably what our natural life expectancy would be in the best of situations), but yeah humanity would carry on

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I reject your 30-35 age span.

And even if it was true, that's preferrable to complete extinction, which is absolutely on the table.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

When did 50 cent words get hypernormalized as $10 words?

1 year ago | Likes 70 Dislikes 3

Inflation

1 year ago | Likes 56 Dislikes 0

a more important question: when did "hypernormalized" become a heady word?

1 year ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 1

I honestly thought you meant the rapper until I read the other comments

1 year ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

The word is from 2005. $10 buys about what fiddy cent did then

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

What is everyone SUPPOSED to be doing?

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I mean... shouldn't more things be on fire? Bricks aren't going to throw themselves, either...

1 year ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Go ahead, make sure you call the NLG number and one of us will represent you pro bono. You'll only spend 12 years in prison.

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Made that point on another comment. But we'll never reach critical mass if we all just sit wringing our hands asking what we can do, either.

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Critical mass of what? Do you believe that in a nation of almost 70% home ownership rate, with 40% of those being unencumbered by mortgage, that folks are going to give up their lifestyles? Nothing 'changes' in America until Joe McWageEarner can't afford a Happy Meal and netflix for their family. We need quite a bit more suffering before we move past capitalism and get to post-capitalist economic theory.

People also forget, the system is working *exactly as intended*.

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

the routine continues because there's no choice... they made sure of it over the years of building the system...

1 year ago | Likes 196 Dislikes 4

Social media makes it so people know they are not alone. But what does one actually do about any of this?

1 year ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

1 year ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

There's always a choice. It's just not comfortable, and just about everyone will choose their own comfort over actually doing something.

1 year ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 4

Once we run out of bread or work. Just history.

1 year ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

it's gonna require alot of scarfices that alot of people won't make like imagine you worked all you life to finally get your dream home or car then a random person expects you to throw that away on a possibility of changing the system, and sure you can bring down the government but then who gonna be in power how will things work and how would it effect the people like if we are pooling resources or jobs what about the people that literally can't do any like it's so much more than comfortable

1 year ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Because alot of people aren't gonna work for free and not everyone can pull thier weight and some people need medicine also like how would it work and how would people make sure they are getting something reasonable like am I only getting a loaf of bread for doing 10 of work and how are you gonna try to prevent that from happening when people can lie to get what they want especially with our norm there a women can say she got raped and everyone wouldn't even listen to the man when he's innocent

1 year ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

What the fuck of a run on sentence did you just say?

1 year ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm really tired of people acting like they can't read, use You're eyeballs and read slowly and you will understand plus if you can't understand this how did you pass grade 6

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Reading comprehension is the ability to read text, process it and understand its meaning. It relies on two, interconnected abilities: word reading (being able to decode the symbols on the page) and language comprehension you know something they teach in school hence the grade 6 but no let's act like that makes me the dumb one

1 year ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1