Meet Kyle, fearless debunker of the female orgasm myth

Nov 21, 2017 6:33 PM

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Everybody meet Kyle

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That was painful to read. Those poor women

8 years ago | Likes 496 Dislikes 8

Those poor, imaginary women

8 years ago | Likes 75 Dislikes 2

Damn, he's from Chicago.

8 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I am sure all the adult toys for women are just for show.

8 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 1

No no, you don't understand. See, women have been told that they *should* orgasm, so even though they actually can't, they convince /1

8 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 2

themselves that they can. Like a placebo effect for sexual pleasure. That's just how stupid women are. /2

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THE G-SPOT IS NOT A UNICORN

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Hahahahahahahahaha *breath* hahahahahahaha

8 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I hate to break it to him... but there IS physiological evidence.

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Yeah, check out obscure scientists Masters and Johnson.... From many years ago...

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Oh, Kyle...

8 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I get the feeling Kyle's gonna have a hard time finding participants for his research.

8 years ago | Likes 704 Dislikes 4

Same.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I don't think it'll be all that hard of a time

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Kyle appears to look a bit like Jon Snow. Pretty sure he'll be fine.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 3

I have trouble differentiating between faces and even I see there is not even remotely a resemblance..

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Am I the only one to think he's being deliberately absurd, Ken M style?

8 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

God I love Ken m

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Nah, he's cute. As long as he's willing to learn and listen to his research partner he may have luck with his study.

8 years ago | Likes 46 Dislikes 15

Step one: Be attractive.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

"Babe, maybe if you do this, I'll be able to cum" "no, I'm pretty sure that's impossible."

8 years ago | Likes 53 Dislikes 0

Oh dang

8 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 1

I feel really bad for Kyle because no woman has ever taken the time to say "FFS Kyle, you do it this way."

8 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

You know what's bad? When you do tell the guy and he goes "nah this way is good I know what I am doing" -WUT??????

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

But sadly, quite a few women are incapable of orgasming regardless of stimulation form. Anorgasmia is rarer in men, but still exists.

8 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Many medication (including oral contraceptives) can help a lot to develop that issue :/

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Don't worry guys, Kyle is on the case

8 years ago | Likes 47 Dislikes 0

I've ejaculated without orgasming many a time, it's a disappointing waste of a good nut but it happens and you move on

8 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

as a woman that has had sex with the same man for 20 years. I have never orgasmed from penetration. Only oral. I have been told it's me.

8 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

It's not you. Most of us can't cum from penetration alone, it's well-documented in the literature.

8 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

That's because men need only 2 minutes on average and women need 7. Along with other things

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

thanks peeps :)

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Sounds more like this guy has never made a woman orgasm and just wants to believe they can't to make himself feel better.

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Meet Kyle, fearlessly letting others know he's shit in the sack

8 years ago | Likes 43 Dislikes 1

Poor guy thinks ejaculating is the same as having an orgasm.

8 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I'm pretty sure his only intent with this was to try and make it seem like he supports women by inventing some situation that he has 1/2

8 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 3

no knowledge about, and then claiming that it's caused by the media or society manipulating women, but don't worry, Kyle isn't like that. 2

8 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 2

Here's a crazy idea. How about asking a woman.

8 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

That whole statement is festering bullshit, but "taught to orgasm"? HA. Most women have to learn about orgasms on their own. The hard way.

8 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I've never seen a 1965 mustang so it doesn't exist

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Right? Just like that mythical clitoris

8 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

You've done a good job if she falls asleep before you(not during). Or she cant walk. So I hear

8 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Can confirm this, I sleep like a log

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Oh yeah baby *breaks her legs* you like that

8 years ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 0

That's exactly what we want!

8 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Not being able to walk after sometimes just means your legs were in such an uncomfortable position that they hurt after. Sex may have /1

8 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Often times a climax can causes muscle tremors which make walking difficult.

8 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Right. That's why I said "sometimes".

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Sorry, I misunderstood.

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No worries, we can both be right. :)

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

been good or bad, but unrelated to the ability to walk. /2

8 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Not being able to walk means i faked it for 3 hours so u can feel good about yourself, so now i dont want to look at u, & u owe me chocolate

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 5

God damn. I feel bad for everyone you’ve ever had sex with. You seem like a complete and total cunt.

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Misplaced sympathy, my butthurt friend. I tried and tried. Now i just play along. People don't reciprocate the effort.

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Not if you never communicate that you have a problem...no..

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That's literally your own fault and you deserve nothing. You're in no position to complain about sex if that's your attitude.

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 4

Ey sometimes u take one for the team. Especially when you've tried communication & its fallen on total deaf ears.

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

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8 years ago (deleted Dec 4, 2017 11:36 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

Nop. Everyone is porn addicted these days. Ive tried the 2 way street, and thats just not what people want. If they say they do, what/1

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That still sounds like a situation where just continuing on is not the correct route...

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Sometimes its not worth throwing away years youve invested in someone. Hes happy as long as i act happy. But i dont like pain.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Okay to play devil’s advocate.. as a women, I very rarely orgasm from sex alone but that doesn’t mean that I don’t enjoy orgasmless sex

8 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

I would often hear from friends that they’d have an orgasm from a quickie and I’m thinking what’s wrong with me? Maybe if I’d just let...

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The chips fall where they’d may and not focus so much on orgasming I’d actually have more orgasms!

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8 years ago (deleted Dec 4, 2017 11:35 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

Yessss, my fave!

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm the same way, I don't cum from just PIV sex. I enjoy it but if I wanna cum I have to do it myself.

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Glad I’m not the only one!

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Good lord dudes. Be better lovers in bed.

8 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 5

Or chicks need to better communicate about what gets them off? It takes two to tango

8 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 17

Hey, this isn't all wrong. Communication is key

8 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

Thanks for the backup. I never thought I would see the day where I was downvited for saying ‘sex is better if you can communicate’

8 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Yeah, it's the feeeemales fault they can't get off, not ours, right boys!?

8 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 6

No one is psychic, so if they can’t figure out how to get you off just the way you want, then you need to open your mouth and say something

8 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 3

What about when you make it extremely clear what you want but the guy gives up because he’s already got his and he just can’t be bothered?

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Happened to me in January. I only date people I meet through kink apps now because ironically they take sex & intimacy a lot more seriously!

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Youd think that being a total cunt would help kyle have a better understanding of the female anatomy...

8 years ago | Likes 83 Dislikes 4

Why is this not the top comment?

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Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzing fuck yea +1

8 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

As a man, I know damn well when she orgasms. It's pretty fucking obvious. Not just from the way she reacts, I can literally feel it happen.

8 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Yeah, I mean, it's not like you can just ignore all those erupting tentacles and scale growth.

8 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I've faked it using my... pelvic floor muscles for realism. In my defense, i just wanted it to be over >.<

8 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Pro tip: We are a lot more "mental" about sex and most women can't orgasm from only vaginal stimulation. And don't just pound away. Thanks.

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Pounding away has a time and place....just have to wait for the girl to light the beacons first. It's just good manners.

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I tend to get too distracted almost like a.d.d. and have issues focusing on the sex to get an orgasm :/

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Who the F is letting that guy pound away at anything?

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You're welcome.

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In related news, we recently bought a partner's vibrator (hands-free clitoral stimulation that still permits penetration) and it's awesome.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

instructions unclear, pounded until they went mental

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Thank you. I need "clitoral" stimulation.

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Last girlfriend came easily from oral...sometimes faster than me from vaginal. (No, wasn't faking it. You know when a girl orgasms or >>

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

>> when she comes close and doesn't reach it because frustration so then you try even harder...)

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2 utterly different sex organs and brains dont work the same?who'd have thought!

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Or just switch to men? We're a lot less complicated.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

guy here, im pretty much the same, I get more turned on by the moans and the way she looks at you than the penetration part

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This^^ We need to utilize the "pat your head, rub your tummy" technique. A nice bullet can really ramp things up as well. :3

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Do the penetration, but also you and him gyrate your hips in such a way so that pubic mounds touch, and your clit is being rubbed . BAM.

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Wow actually solid advice from gaycockatoo ty

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foreplay is crucial. also if you really need he help, look up a map of the most sensitive areas on a woman’s body. also communication.

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M'lady. Don't presume to speak for all women, leave that to a man in a fedora.

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Everyone is different. I had a girlfriend that loved being 'pounded'

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What if I just pound away, but for a really long time? And every now and then just flick her nipple?

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Communicate with your partner. If she likes that, then do that

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Pro tip: Not all women are the same. Some you really should just pound away. Thanks.

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vaginal orgasms are possible. 9 months apart from bf I had three whole separate just vag pounding orgasms over first days reunited. Amazing

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Vag Os require right mental state for me (horny throughout). Very rare, can achieve with intercourse. Clit Os more common, work w IC.

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Possibly, yes, but I find you have to be in the right head and hormonal state. But that's just me

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They are, but it's a bit more work for most women and they often need clitoral stimulation as well.

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8 years ago (deleted Nov 22, 2017 1:27 AM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

Studies show most (I didn't say ALL) need both clitoral and vaginal to orgasm. Gotta hit the right buttons.

8 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 2

Yes I suppose I was lumping vaginal and clitoral stimulation together. While saying the mental side is separate. Not unrelated, but separate

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Whether you doubt or not, it's true according to studies. The majority of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm.

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Not one woman I've been with liked the same stimuli. Some were into vaginal 'pounding', some liked oral. Some loved oral. Some,

8 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

2) much less. Some like their breast to be gently caressed. Some wanted the nipples pulled hard. None of them just liked one type of sex all

8 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

3) the time. Communication is key. Also time. I don't really like one night casual sex because it's rarely memorable. Even if there is

8 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

4) chemistry. Guys who brag about bedding 50+ women aren't impressive. Guys who had sex with a couple women thousands of times are

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5) the ones you want. Also I'm happy I wasn't exposed to porn in my sexual formative years. I've heard a lot of women complain that younger

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This is why I like to cry whilst making love...so she knows it’s special for me too.

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LOL

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"And also before sex I'll crrrryyyyy...crrryyyy."

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And stop with the saw hand fingering techniques. Let it die. Put fingers in, press lightly upwards and rock *very slightly* ur wrist in an >

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An arc. Repeat and slooowly increase pressure gradually. While doing this suck/lit clit - bingo.

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well said

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so what you're saying is most women do need double penetration by clowns like I see in the movies on the internet in order to orgasm?

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not necessarily double penetration, but two guys working on two different parts, yeah man, go ahead!

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No, we need both vag and clit stimulated at the same time. Or just clit. I personally can't get there with just vag.

8 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

They guy's body rubbing against the clit area while he's thrusting does the job.

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It bothers me that people are commenting as if that wasn't a joke.

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

lol sorry I just wanted to clarify double didn't mean double penetration. I gave you a couple of upvotes to help counter all the downs

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A woman's largest sex organ is her skin. And then her mind. Rub me more. Mmmmmm, yeaaaah.

8 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

That. +1. It is so true. When my SO tells me about the things I do that she likes it has a lot to do with how she's touched. Very rarely

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yup, sooo much! The foreplay thing is important, because girls are like slow cookers... takes a few minutes to heat em up! :D

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2) rarely will she say things like 'omg. Your stroking was on point'.

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I’m a woman and would disagree with this for myself personally, so I’ll add talk to your lady and ask what works for her.

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Which part?

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All of it for me personally.

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Well the mental bit mentioned usually refers to a mood or emotional attachment thing. And the pound comment is implying arousal must occur

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first. That’s my interpretation anyway.

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Yes! It's truly individual. I've met women who would have best orgasms anally. For me that doesn't do shit :l lol (no pun intended)

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Ha!

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Same. Vaginal stimulation, plus the G spot.

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You are in the minority, according to studies. Most women require clitoral stimulation in addition to vaginal.

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Yeah, but when you’re in bed with a woman, she doesn’t care what most women require, only what she requires. Best practice is to ask her.

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Could not agree more.

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Orgasm isn't mental for me at all; it's just about clitoral simulation.

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For me it's both. I need to be mentally in the mood and then clit for the win! lol

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Have you experienced posterior fornix stimulation? It's like a tight little spot behind the cervix. A second g spot for most people I've me.

8 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

No, I haven't. Trying to wrap my mind around how you would even stimulate something behind the cervix.

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I've definitely experienced my partner "tapping cervix" during sex, but find it unpleasant.

8 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Kyle needs to up his game. You can get her there just by whispering if you know her well.

8 years ago | Likes 39 Dislikes 10

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8 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Aw YISSSS!

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Whisper “have you ever heard the tragedy of Darth Plagueis the wise?”

8 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

Pfft, who needs a flesh and blood partner? I'm happy if it vibrates.

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Mom dad this is my boyfriend Sybian.

8 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 1

Same here!! Love my battery operated boyfriend.

8 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

Diddle-Bot-Donkey-Punch. Well, diddle-bot, he's not your average joe. He's got 3 different speeds, slow, fast, and go, go go GO GO

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

“Bob”

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Coin operated boy?

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Living on a shelf

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Under my pillow. Unless he’s plugged in to charge.

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Agreed, if I'm not in the right headspace, I can't achieve the big O. And vaginal stimulation helps, but doesn't get the job done.

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I've never orgasmed, period. Any tips?

8 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Try different things. Even time can change our bodies so what might work one year might not the next! Good luck!

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Assuming you have a vagina, I recommend clit stimulation. Try different ways of rubbing or pinching it.

8 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Try different types of stimulation- everyone is different. It can also be psychological or physiological in nature. Talk to doctors!

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A: It's really more psychology than biology. In that vein, right guy, right time, relaxed and ready. You may need more emotional prep ...

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... than you've been getting. So nice guy does nice things for your. Is a good emotional supporter. You should take steps to shed stress ...

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

... a nice hot bath, relaxing or stimulating setting, candles, lighting, good aromas that kind of thing. Reserve the bedroom for sex and ...

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Play around with yourself until you find whatyou like and just roll with it.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Masturbate a lot. Try to remember whatever got you to the finish line and teach it to your partner.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That's the same for many men as well. Don't just assume we are up for sex all the time.

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I used to be...getting old I guess....

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

True words! An ejaculation doesn't equal a great orgasm.

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i really enjoy every ejaculation tho

8 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Half a second before orgasm let go of your dick and you will ejaculate without orgasm. AKA 'ruined orgasm'

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