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PS. English is not my first or second langue but im working to get it better.
So almost a year ago me and my ex broke up and she moved out. While i was at work she toke my things like my pc,Xbox,TV etc. And sold them forward. I told police about it and my attorny to get my things or money. We went court for it and mean while i found few person who buy things from her so i got to buy them back from them whit same amount of money. I got them names and other infos and all papers to show how much i pay and for what. The court sentence her to pay the worth of the stolen things and my law fees. I am happy that some Justise happed.
PS. Sent me pictures of cats And dogs
PS 2. Thank you all! i am supriced that my post made to the front page!! YOUR ALL AWESOME!
also some has asked if i had a song that i saw as my ''theme'' its this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E7oMBq1vkCM
PS 3. If there is anybody who would accept a DnD amateur whit 0 games experience to your group, we can do skype or discort etc. please message
luminouslumia
Hm I don't know where your from but if this is in the U.S. it is generally illegal to buy stolen items so they would have to return it free
Ancillary
Blows my mind when people apologize for their completely understandable English and I’m sitting here only speaking 1 language like a jackass
d3jake
I can't imagine being so convinced you were wronged while being dumped that stealing and selling someone ele's shit is a good idea.
Whiachy
I always appreciate humble/apologetic English as second/etc language user. You're better at English than I am at literally any other.
thebigsofo
thank you
skylin05
Your English is good. There are obviously areas for you to improve in but no reason to ever apologize for something like a 3rd language.
Vivec88
Congrats to you english skills
TacTheScribbler
For someone whose first and second language isn't English, you did a fine job telling your story. Keep it up! And congrats on the court win!
thebigsofo
Thank you :D
WorkSleep
In all fairness, that was only half the battle. She should have seen a prison from the inside.
Corona688
For theft? Don't you have to stuff your prisons full of drug users first?
EyeOwnaQH
Wah to go, congrats on getting your stuff back.
ChunkyPumpkin
A lot of times these kinds of cases go in favor of the wrong people. Glad to see everything worked out for you! Congrats man!
spannertehcat
AreYouDeaf
WAH!
AmbulanceAbuser
Congrats on winning the court case; good luck getting your stuff back. *fixed
thebigsofo
Thank you @EyeOwnaQH
osnabb
TheRealGoddamnLochNessMonster
TheSwedishCryptid
keyonne
God damn you.
AllForFee
Congratulations!! Good for standing up for yourself! (And your English is great. Keep on practicing.) :)
Ulthirm
Speaking phonetically you've got a handle on English. Justice has a 'c' in it though to stand in for s.
Ulthirm
Value and worth are weird words. Something is worth $, but you pay the value of items.
lntrn2814
https://youtu.be/HJ89lMXLJGA
Rdc24703
My ex stole more than can be fixed in a court. Mostly my will to live. Faith in humanity. Belief in a greater good. Hope. Love. Kindness.
Sixx2099
boohoo
TheDivineUsersub
Bruh...
BuddhaBeettle
Everybody, lets find this guy a small fluffy dog he can pet for a few hours
PurpOp
Her name wasn't Karen, was it?
zQww
Did you date my ex?
noClue69
You... you wanna talk, buddy?
BubblyBrigid
My ex took my things... You think he could have put them in a box for me. :/
TimeFoDat
I would never guess English isn't your first language. This looks better than 100% of the U.S. President's tweets.
TimeFoDat
For the record I live in the U.S. I just wanted this comment to be evergreen, in case we (hopefully) forget who Trump is in a few years.
thebigsofo
i did my part to make it stand out. nice one
cappun
That's if she pays.
thebigsofo
goverment pays and then they redeem it from her or her belongins. Its like not pay bill, they will take it out of something
mastikator
So you're guaranteed even if she's a deadbeat. Nice
krauraurgg
And the government will be a lot more motivated to collect when it's their money.
thebigsofo
yes i am ^^
SadMadmartigan
What country is this?
Ertzuka
He lives in finland :) Perkele!
AmicusCuriae
It’s not America. In the US you pay your own legal fees unless a specific law allows you to recover your legal fees. E.G. civil rights cases
happyrabbitzz
So the relationship was Finished huh?
thebigsofo
it is, we endet it whit tradition way by me making her run into snow while drunk and having axe ( thats a finnish joke)
badgersbadgersbadgers
if i understand right, the joke is that Finnish relationships traditionally end with cold, drunken, axe murder... i dont get it.
thebigsofo
yes ^^ the tradition break up in Finland
thatusernameisregistered
1. Congrats on winning your court case! 2. Never apologize for English not being your first language. You are doing great!
Thaskippy
Typical cunt move. Congrats OP.
batukhan
You got your money back? Thats incredible. In my country she would get a 200€ fine and "dont do it again", you get nothing
thebigsofo
I did :D
Yesisaidthat
Any extra money for your troubles? And any police involvement?
thebigsofo
Some for the mental stress
ObliqueRay
If someone sold my PC I would go to court too. For murder.
krauraurgg
And maybe for trying to sell a pair of slightly used kidneys on the black market.
3PiecesOfBread
+1 for "Sent me pictures of cats And dogs" because even with English being your 3rd+ language, you still realize what's important.
thebigsofo
animals are close to my heart and some are close to my stomach :D
3PiecesOfBread
and then close to your butthole a few hours later
BJA007
That 15" dildo would of been hard to replace
Cereaza
It's a family heirloom. Passed down from his father. And his father before him!
GruveSaladSurgery
Oh, FFS: would have*, not ‘would of’
BJA007
Would a would Chuck would if a would would Chuck would. I'll see myself out
thebigsofo
You mean the 25"? It is hard becos its cost alot from bad dragon
theyar
Gonnaderpya
10/10
upsidedownhead
Bahahaha. Well played sir. Well played.
thebigsofo
Thank you to
NowWatchMeGlitch
redloki55
bad dragon is expensive but I've heard rave reviews... :P
AntonioAdorno
A guy at my college sent a girl a “party box”. She was not amused, especially by the rainbow dragon dick. My buddy Anthony was excited.
AntonioAdorno
Anthony is the kind of guy who in DnD has ridiculously high charisma and tries to seduce every male dragon our party encounters.Chaos ensues
IraqOutWithMycaqOut
WOULD HAVE. Would fu*king have.
PenguinPatriarch
Or at the very least would've
thebigsofo
Yes, my appolized
aminojazz
He was correcting the other guy OP!
thebigsofo
He was? Vittu xD
NordMan
I'm Norwegian and understood that word :)
TangoIndiaTangoSierra
The fuck is with the star
thebigsofo
Mayby he 's c doesnt work
RandomMagus
*his, he's is "he is"
Xtr0rDinary
Because then you can’t tell what rude word he’s saying, it’s completely censored now. /s
TangoIndiaTangoSierra
Is he fuckin' hiding? Is he a bitch ass coward? What the shit.
djsdkdjsk
Your english is pretty good, wouldn't of even thought it wasn't your first or second if you didn't say so
RobocoprahWinfrey
Did you hide your meme collection?
thebigsofo
yes i did to the cloud
Sicktacos666
Props for writing in English, your doing good so far.
thebigsofo
what else langue i should had done it? i think this was the best way that most of peoples gets to enjoy it ^^
retrostone21
Very intelligible English, and congrats for your victory over a bad breakup!
thebigsofo
thank you
boodloop
Don’t ever apologize for not being comfortable speaking English, as my understanding goes, it’s one of the more difficult languages to learn
boodloop
That being said, you got your idea across, and congratulations! I guess? On the sex and not the split and on the winning!
Bonevi
What kind of an asshole would do that? I don't understand some people.
Gav294
"Revenge"
elShiz
Step 1) change every lock. Every. Single. One. People are assholes & only gets worse when they want revenge.
Thundersharts
ATLien1986
New phone. Who dis?
TheRealRomeo
The same kind of people who voted for Trump or didn't vote at all.
Bonevi
I doubt it's limited to Trump supporters. Mind you, I am not a fan of his, you can see from my post history.
ItsReallyNotThatDifficult
My ex did the same thing to me. We never got to court, she gave all my stuff back after her lawyer told her she would lose.
arcenlapin
I’ve seen dumps of Facebook posts where women brag about how they fucked their exes up, and try and give ideas to other women.Fucking cunts.
ben8456
this should be as illegal as hate speech
Nomadner
Hate speech shouldn't be illegal. You're a complete asshole if you are discriminatory, but non-threatening words shouldn't be illegal.
Corona688
-"non threatening". Any bully knows how to juuust toe that line without crossing.
onlyhalfghost
Harassment can be a crime without limiting individual words; the problem is that if you draw the line at all, it can be moved later.
MarkerMage
They also know how to make the most innocent things sound like hate speech.
IamNotaBlackMan
Like that girl who ruined her boyfriends music career. Women can be fucking crazy.
trikster528
callmethelizardqueen
And they weren't even broken up! I think she was nuts & was afraid he would learn the truth when he got to her old school.
Squidlicker47
My mom's roommate cut the cables to my gaming systems b/c he was mad at her & admitted it. Took 2 years for the courts to get him to pay.
Thaskippy
>women
keyserv
My son's mom just stole all his shit and sold it for drugs. I got 'em new stuff, though.
Hydravelsen
The kind with a drug habit
KONAMIC0DE
I know right!? The audacity to learn at least 3 languages to make me look bad
dangerousDoc
One of my roommates didn't like me so when he moved out he took all my pots and pans
ShaunDreclin
Was he pansexual?
RabatWithLove
There was a post months ago about an ex-wife who won custody of the dog, just to put it down to get back at her ex-husband.
MishiMoshiSquishyToesies
Wow there's crazy, but that's just heartless.
Bonevi
RustInMyUnderwear
My friend's ex did this as well but the police did nothing. She destroyed part of the apartment as well which he had to pay for.
RandomTurd
We can't do anything. She had equal right to the apartment after establishing residency which means equal right to destroy it. 1/?
RandomTurd
We also can't prove who owned what, especially if it was kept in a common area. You gotta sue the shit out of them then. 2/2
Fireguy97
It's hard to sue the shit outta someone if a judge doesn't follow through and tells you that you're getting off easy by keeping your bed.
RandomTurd
And that sounds like a criminal court, not civil. Sue in civil court.
RandomTurd
Take it higher, the court system has the appeal process
callmethelizardqueen
My friend's ex stole everything while he was working, tried to take all the dishes, toilet paper, even his bed! He came home & tried to stop
callmethelizardqueen
and her & her mom attacked him, even choking him with tie-down strap. Neighbor saw & called cops. They made her leave the bed, but let her
callmethelizardqueen
have the rest. She was charged w/ DV for the choking, didn't show up to court tho & the persecutor chose not to pursue it. He said he wanted
callmethelizardqueen
to & judge told him he was getting off easy and let it go! Shitty Cali judge & prosecutor can't fathom DV against a man by a woman.
NoComplicatedUsername
My asshole roommate did the same when she moved out and I was away on a vacation then. Some people are just worst!
Bonevi
Fuck, that is so scummy. I hate backstabbers like these.
sadro
"hey I know you love me, but i don't love you anymore, let's break up" "ok, so let me do the worse things i can imagine to you that i love"
sadro
people doing that are asshat waiting for the right timing to be the asshatest possible.
theMonkeyTrap
I recently started watching 'Shameless', most of time its just me shaking my head at tv. I feel I just don't get a whole class of humans.
LokeGroundrunner
I can barely understand that description
swimmingmonkey
People tend to do this when they think they are due bill and/or rent money. It's not legal.
RandomTurd
Criminally, we cant do anything, civilly, sue the fuck out of them
callmethelizardqueen
My husband's ex-wife stole his gun. She told cops he bought it for her & was allowed to keep it.
RandomTurd
And she can do it. You have to sue for the property.
RandomTurd
In Texas at least, it's a shared property state. Once you say i do and sign the certificate, you both own all of each other's shit. 1/2
NotSoScaryManBearPig
Hence the "EX"... Never had one that bad. Although I have had a tire stabbed once...
TheManicBeauty
Some people do that if their partner never chipped in financially and they feel that they're "owed."
PeterHansen23
I don't understand most people
Bonevi
Same here, especially women.
MarDuf
A couple killed their roommate because they owed her rent money, they didn't have the money so they killed her
1UP2
*whore
callmethelizardqueen
A newly divorced coworker find a great deal on furniture for his whole house, she even threw in clothes. The shirts were for a customer of
callmethelizardqueen
ours. The woman was mad he was leaving her, even called him to brag about selling to guy from our company, prob figured company was so big
callmethelizardqueen
he wouldn't know who. She was wrong. He let my coworker keep the stuff & in divorce got enough to buy new stuff, coworker gave him CL add &
callmethelizardqueen
let him get pics of everything he bought as evidence.
TanithRosenbaum
Lots of "I made bank! Sold all my ex's stuff. Lulz!" on Facebook and twitter. Seems like a fairly common thing, sadly.
Braytac
It baffles me what kind of things people are suddenly willing to do to people they once loved after a breakup.
VexatiousKitten
My dad stole all of our appliances from the house and bailed to the Philippines. He’s gonna have a real hard time coming back.
Brainlard
I find it just hilarious. Like the classic "My partner dumped me so I'm gonna smash his car. Oh wait fuck that has legal consequences...?".
allofthebookspls
People tend not to think rationally in emotionally charged situations.
Braytac
ow yea if they get caught after they did something that is hilarious but the actions themselves are despicable
Pepperfart
Hating someone is proportional to how much you loved that said person
SchmifSchmurphinWippenFlanYen
No.
Wolvenlight
Maybe if they betray your trust/burn your house down/kill your dog/rape your dad/steal your family jewels. But not just a simple breakup.
cool299
Obsessed over, not loved
ImJustFuckingHere
Yeah a lesson most people need to learn is that it’s OK when things don’t work out. But I do understand that strong love breeds strong hate
TheGreatLadyGagathe
I really don't see the point in doing these things.. Isn't it enough to go through a breakup?
dobbythehouseelf
People often do it because they feel scorned and are trying to get back at them.
CallMeRusty
It's not baffling once you realized the people that do this never loved the other person in the first case.
ImJustFuckingHere
In some cases yes, but it is also true in humans that strong feelings of love can fuel strong feelings of hate
JR494
Love and hate are opposites sides of the same coin.
allofthebookspls
Both are intense emotions and share a common characteristic of not producing rational judgments.
MemeSins
Dude, your English is fantastic so far, considering that it isn't your first or second language. There are many native speakers who are >
Arvandor
Yeah, you can definitely tell it's not his first language, but it's DANG good considering that. Kudos and keep studying!
TheShittyReposterStrikesAgain
I'll be honest, it could use improvement. But overall it's a lot better than some foreigners I know.
Abelthiar
Cash me outside
Magicflutefreddie
I understand that reference
callmethelizardqueen
I give him a pass. I have seen US born high school students after a decade of English classes write worse than this.
TormentedPenguin
Hell.. he could run for President. Better English than the guy we got now.
MemeSins
Any excuse to bash Trump, eh? We get it, the guy's terrible.
Retromorphic
Hey now. He the best English speaking Cheeto I ever seen alright
MothMonsterMan
It ain't easy, bein' cheesy
Corin
Unfortunately, communicative competence has little to do with writing ability. We have no way of knowing how effectively @OP speaks.
callmethelizardqueen
Having seen writing & speaking with EL persons the writing is always worse than spoken communication.
Corin
You would be incorrect. The reverse is often true, especially in areas where the primary goal of English classes is passing the TOEFL.
callmethelizardqueen
So not incorrect depending on reason it's learned. I have met many ELL
shhep
Honest compliment is better than an overblown one. His language isn't "fantastic", but it's good. Could be better, but communication is 100%
boilerplates
Why are you grading his compliment. He was being nice
shhep
Imagine reacting to everything your friend says with extreme agitation and wonder. How you're gonna react when he does sth truly cool?
boilerplates
This is a comment section, not a sociology class lol. Let him have this one
blablubby
It degrades the language if everything is a superlative. Also it sounds condescending and insincere in my opinion. Just unnecessary.
shhep
there, so as a tool it's working. Coming from a teacher. Encourage within limits, so that you don't sound inane.
MemeSins
I said "so far" and "considering it isn't your first". Those are some pretty clear limits on my encouragements.
Sydonis12
Yeah it is still not fantastic as long as you live in a country where learning english is part of education. He did alright, but you just
Sydonis12
sound insencere if you go over the top with compliments.
MemeSins
worse with it than you are, especially online. Keep it up! What other languages do you speak?
chupathingy99
I work at a gas station, and most times I have a better time understanding the Mexicans that come in rather than the people that live here.
FuzzyX
U WOT M8?
Retromorphic
Oi stfu m8 mi enguish is gr8
thebigsofo
And thank you!
Cole2999
There's a couple things you could work on, but you seem to have the grammatical structure, which is pretty difficult, figured out.
thebigsofo
Thank you
thebigsofo
I speak Finnish,swedesh,english, Estonia and little bit russian
goldfishcrackersbetweentheseats
I'm impressed by all y'all who speak multiple languages, English is my first and I suck at all others.
MVPernula
Vad i helvete, du har ju åstakommit mer i livet än 99% av alla här.
systemet
Är du finsk då?
Ketheres
Torille, toveri!
NihonJinLover
すごい ですね (that’s amazing in Japanese)
PyllyNalleMissionaries
Prkl
MayorDeweyMayorDewey
wow holy shit. anyone ever gives you shit for your english tell them you speak 4 1/2 languages and they should shut up real fast
MollyNapQueen
Inte illa grabben.
MuffinTheDog
Eesti keel ka? Lahe :)
SnarkySophia
That's amazing! Learning Finnish as an English speaker is very difficult, I'm sure there's a lot of difficulty the other way around as well.
plutonium
Slightly less, though, with so much of the Internet and pop culture being anglophone. Cinemas in Finland use subtitles, not dubbing.
thebigsofo
subtitles on 2 diffrent langues
Onsvaltti
Kas. Meitä näkee siel mis vähiten odottaa. Onneks voitit sen jutun! Ihme mulkero se sun exäs. ò_ó (torille)
thebigsofo
torilla ollaan, on poika ja kaljaa
HorseMcFucker
I speak Swedish, Danish, Norwegian, English, Russian, German, some french and Spanish and even I'm impressed with you. Good job, man.
KillerPhoenix73
PferdMcFicker
thebigsofo
im impressed by you! great job!
old4chan
Can someone spell "Hired"?! In Bucharest, if you speak 2 languages, you got the job. Know more? Kill the market! Great job!
plutonium
Three languages pretty much is the default in Finland if you've graduated high school and had at least some education since.
old4chan
Man, that's a fantastic education system the Finns have.
Foxxeface
Tlaxxil
English and Chinese. I'm extremely impressed.
WannaSeeMy
I speak English, American, and Sarcasm
AbbsMcDabbs
Bald eagle and freedom.
dogfrost9
Nice. I speak English, American, sarcasm, and bullshit.
slappybobby
Well you speak Finnish, Swedish, Estonian, and a little bit of Russian better than I do lol. English is tough, good job
Turkishtime04
In case I didn't feel inadequate enough today haha, that's damn impressive good for you.
thebigsofo
i have got alot xD more then i would have ever wish
Whatismypurpose
Cheers bud! Grats on getting your stuff back.
nnudmac89000
Killer, dude!
UsernameMustBeFourCharactersOrLonger
Holy shit
ThePuma1707
Beside English which was my third language, i speak Slovak and Czech (mother language), German and now im learning Russian and Swedish
ThePuma1707
and a little bit French from my work
DeadlyFood
Oh wow, thats a lot. English is my 1st language and I'm not even that amazing at at, considering its your 3rd you should be insanely proud
robsprofileonimgur
Facts
thebigsofo
I just got strong tongue, thanks to all of My ex-girlfriends ;D
ISenseAChallenger
alright you've achieved god status to me
CallMeSleeper
Stealing their languages. ;)
massdefect3
Now that’s what I call some cunning linguistics.
NowWatchMeGlitch
Very impressive. Did you learn them for a reason or do you enjoy learning new languages?
thebigsofo
Finnish is my mother langue, you must studie swedesh in Finnish schools, english to, estonia and russian is just for the lols, ->
PyllyNalleMissionaries
We learn swedish because its our native language, english becausebits everywhere and estonian so we can buy chrap alcphol
MinuNimi
Hi from Estonian!!
thebigsofo
i also need to be able speak drunk whit all these langues becos my job
everynickiztakN
Grats on speaking swedesh
muisverriet
That's really impressive!