foxybelle
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Not every place you fit in is where you belong
i have to vent.i speak fench. sorry for my bad english. i feel so much pain. i usually talk about this stuff with my best friend but hes the one who dumped me so i need another outlet right now. i am a girl, hes a boy both 35 of age. we know each other since 14 years old. we were without lovers few months ago (december 2016) so we decided to give a try. he is my everything. i own a videogame store, he owns a camping site, 250km away but he stay with me at my place at each winter and goes away each summer. i have physical handicap (ehlers danlos syndrom). he cant stand the fact that he cant be there for me when i need help and when i am in pain in the summer so he dumped me and want to stay best friend like we were. i feel like crap because i indeed need help when i dislocate various parts of my body and cant "adult" by myself and ask other people for help. i love him so much. i cry for 3 hours now and i decided to talk about this to feel better and it helps. so..thanks. i already feel better . but still..feel like crap. i didnt decide to have a broken body and it feels worse knowing that it hurts my love life too :(
bleblebla
I have to admit i checked your other posts and they're quite fun, hope you'll soon overcome the hard times and post more cool shit
CiderMaker
If his ego getting bruised, is why he can't be with you... Maybe he needs to reconsider just how much bullshit he's not owning up to.
HatofTacos
A guy I was in love with dumped me because of my very mild disability. It took a long time but I'm happily engaged to a much better person.
doubledweeeb
My mother has EDS among other things. It's not easy for people to handle, and that's a shame.
gsuscryst
I also have it, type III...and feel her pain (physically and emotionally)
TheMightyPootis
@OP Je veux te dire que si vous avez besoins de parler avec quelqu'un, nous seron ici pour vous ^^ Pataitre pas tout-le-monde peux-- (1/2)
TheMightyPootis
parler francais (et je suis tres mal a ca), on peux au moins etres la pour la compagnie. Je vous souhaite le meilleur, et je veux que vous--
TheMightyPootis
avez une bonne journee.
MysticShield
@op so if you ever want to talk about game or just talk about your country send me a message some time, you sound awesome.
ketsmeow
I will be your best friend and we can play video games. I am a girl, but I'll take care of you!
RoxanneLaWin
Me too and me too and me too. (Girl/games/best friend.)
ketsmeow
Can we do one night where we play d&d?
RoxanneLaWin
Yes! I want to play that but where everyone is new.
midd1eearth
You are a sweet person ☺
ketsmeow
syntaxxor
He dumped an overly flexible gamer girl?! .... What
foxybelle
it also means that i cant walk without leg braces, canes, sometime i need to be pushed around in a wheelchair..etc.its not that sexy :(
syntaxxor
That's a matter of perspective
foxybelle
you think it can be sexy? i dunno...maybe, i guess.. /a/Iqg46
daisydreams
I'm so sorry @OP :( It's a horrible thing to happen. I went through something similar about 4 months ago. It gets better, I promise. :)
FrilledMeg
Living with someone in pain can be really hard, I tend to stress to people what that entails. It can still go to shit. Develop a wider
FrilledMeg
support network. Sorry this is one of those experiences that just sucks ass. Feel better
Mortalnick
It happened to me too OP. I wasn't dumped over a physical disability but because I wasn't as religious as her. It sucks but it gets better.
merrymoo
I'm going through a rough time too, we're here for you and can be your friend!
NeneJPhilly
fireeternal
Im sorry this happened to you op, just be glad you gave it a try since you clearly feel strongly for him. Take time to heal, good luck.
mdubyofficial
Garde la tête haute. Vous êtes parfait comme vous l'êtes :)
crushcastles23
I know this sounds cheesy, but tell him how you feel. Tell him you'd rather have him than not even though he can't help you all the time.
foxybelle
i did, thank you for the advice and the support xx he says he cant mentally stand the fact that he cant be there for me :(
Esdog
Your cake day is coming up soon, which happens to be my birthday! Let's get drunk and shitpost!
AnRatDragon
I can help with this cause!
1TrueKingInTheNorth
Yeah becuase the anniversary of joining this shit site makes up for losing someone you love. How insightful
Esdog
That's the spirit, nice shit comment! Yep
AlexanderSuvorov
Hey man, we're just trying to make someone feel better.
Renaguru
I support this! Anyone near France can help in person?
foxybelle
Quebec ;)
lepoutinegourmet
salut. j'espère que tu va faire des trucs que t'aime dans les prochaines semaines. ça m'aide quand sa va pas. :)
nettiebean
Salut! Je suggère que tu es du québec dans une édition. Désolé pour votre coeur brisé. Je ne parle pas bien le français, désolé.
Jyrroe
I'm in Quebec! Sorry about your situation. :(
shibbytothelibby
Bonsoir! Je suis un petit cheval.
mentallychallengeaccepted
JE SUIS UNE BAUGETTE JE MAPELLE CROISSANT HON HON
RabidDingo
Huehuehuehue
foxybelle
fromage
MagnorCriol
Hey...my wife just confirmed she had Ehlers Danlos syndrome. I know what you're going through (as far as that goes). Sorry, @OP.
MagnorCriol
Ehlers-Danlos is a hell of a thing...you're a hell of a woman for not letting it stop you. Stay strong and keep being awesome, @OP.
HaikuCarChase
You are greater than your definition of yourself. Make room to grow, & innovate in how you meet like-minded people. Good luck, OP.
foxybelle
wow guys thank you so much for all the support!!! i cried myself to sleep and woke up to this..so much love..you are incredible xxxxxx
ThauMads
pas mieux ^^
Fitzandthefool
Moi aussi @op :)
nottoosurewhat
Il y a des dizaines d'entre nous... des DIZAINES!
lama00
Ou encore moi... On est nombreux.
MasterOfChopstick
Si tu veux plus en parler en français pour te défouler ou te confier, tu peux me contacter. :)
CodyWilliamsArt
As someone who's dating a beautiful girl with the same issue and more, It's heartbreaking. I can't imagine how tough this must be for you <3
Thisnamewastakensoitookthisone
nous t'aimons OP!
foxybelle
jvous aime aussi!!!
DanceLink
@OP, mes sympathies mon amie. Parfois on perds des ami(e)s qu'on pense sont proche de nous. Désolé que sa arrivé à vous comme ça. :(
twothousandfourhundredseventytworice
Well thats good that you can tell someone, we always listen, stay happy, play some video games.
tinkie9901
I'm sorry someone who was supposed to be your friend hurt you so much. But remember you are awesome and have your own store!
FrozenFoodGuy
@OP i'm really sorry to hear this and i know how you feel more than you know. I can't help you with your broken heart. But maybe this can
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foxybelle
i dream about this kind of braces seriously. i cant draw or write with a pen since 2012 :(
foxybelle
i paid for leg/knees braces so i can walk a bit, next is shoulders, then hands. sooo expensive :(
foxybelle
i had to paid hundreds $$ to customize knee braces so i can walk but unfortunatly they are worn out (metal part is still good)
foxybelle
knee braces /a/Iqg46
FrozenFoodGuy
Oh god... i also have knee braces, but they are of hard plastics with strong straps on them... i feel so spoiled now...
foxybelle
dont worry, the textile is worn but straps are still good and theres custom metal gear inside ; /a/FaN6U
foxybelle
i see that we live the same kind of struggle . i am happy for you that you have those nice braces!
FrozenFoodGuy
Mine are all covered by insurance. Doesn't France have a similar healthcare as the Netherlands? I went to a physical rehabilitation clinic.
foxybelle
quebec...i wait to get help since 2012...i had to pay to get help because its too long and i need to walk, eat, live etc..cant wait 20 years
FrozenFoodGuy
Ah i assumed you lived in France... i plan on making a post with all my aids soon. Maybe you can find a way to improvise some yourself?
foxybelle
so..yeah. one day i'll have access to rehab and stuff like this. but i am last on the list , childrens and teens come first.
FrozenFoodGuy
I really feel for you... specially since i know your struggle... it's hard to live with, but without support it's even harder
foxybelle
and since i am an entrepreneur i dont have insurances , neither the same services and right that "normal workers" have :(
TakeMeToFrontPageAndBackFiveTimesADay
Ahh another zebra! I have a friend with that syndrome and her mum has it too. Looks like it really sucks man, push through find a support 1
TakeMeToFrontPageAndBackFiveTimesADay
Group maybe? Maybe together you can fully adult? Hope you feel better about this soon, and enjoy the sympathy. My heart is with you
foxybelle
my daughter have it too :( shitty genes..heh
TakeMeToFrontPageAndBackFiveTimesADay
Yes, my friends Mum had it too, she was a miracle baby and she has it too :/
TakeMeToFrontPageAndBackFiveTimesADay
Also I've been wanting to touch up on my French so having someone to talk to in French would be awesome for that, feel free to message
dimethyltrip
Hey girl I have EDS too I know the struggle but this guy is not worth it. Some people just can't deal with our situation but I'm sure (1)
dimethyltrip
The right person is out there for you
drezrale
You own a gaming store and you're a female... I'd marry you right now and never dump you. He was stupid.
WriteStuff
I second that notion! You own a gaming store... I'm already married, but can we at least be friends?
foxybelle
disregard my various physical handicaps?
foxybelle
i take this as a compliment. thank you.
TokenBlindGuy
Hell I have my own handicaps, if you can put up with me being a blind massage therapist
foxybelle
blind..how do you read and write?
TokenBlindGuy
Apps, and lots of patients
bleblebla
You're the guy that runs around at night in red costume, beating up criminals?
TokenBlindGuy
Nah we were roommates at Blind college, he became a lawyer, I prefer to touch people in a nicer way
bleblebla
But you were the guy who walked around with ninja sword and got drunk all the time, i saw documentary about you called blind fury
freedomofnow
Had a massage from a blind masseur once. Best massage I ever got!
midd1eearth
Being blind you're probably among the most skilled. We can't see muscles. I bet you can feel them though.
TokenBlindGuy
That's what they say, I would agree but that might be biased in some eyes.
drezrale
I dont see EDS as a handicap, I see it as a perk. I need a great deal of alone time but I dont like being alone, EDS to the rescue.
foxybelle
flexibility can be a perk as well! thanks for the positive reminder :)
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EXTERM1NATE
Bonjour à toi Foxy ! Je compatis avec ta situation, malheureusement les handicaps créent des barrières stupides... je pense que dans cette/1
EXTERM1NATE
Situation,la personne cherche plus à se protéger elle même, sans doute à t'il besoin de temps pour comprendre ton mode De vie au quotidien/2
EXTERM1NATE
Bien qu'il te connaisse depuis des années, la vie en concubinage peut réveiller des tensions ou insécurités.. If you need to talk about it..
foxybelle
merci. j'ai pleuré jusqu'à m'endormir..je suis en train de lire tout cea messages d'encouragement..wow..
EXTERM1NATE
Ah bah Imgur est là :) take care ! Respect & Robustesse live long & Prosper !
ImGonnaRickRollYou
My best friend and girlfriend dumped me out of the blue on Sunday. Never even knew anything was wrong. I broke down and almost fell into 1/?
ImGonnaRickRollYou
Some very bad habits. She told me every day that she loved me, and that she was so happy. Then... nothing. For 2 days I got no warmth 2/?
ImGonnaRickRollYou
From her. She stopped saying "I love you." Stopped calling me "babe". When I asked what was wrong, she flew off the handle and broke it 3/?
ImGonnaRickRollYou
off. Blocked my number and blocked me on facebook. I'm a year sober and I almost called my dealer. I almost hurt myself. I just don't 4/?
ImGonnaRickRollYou
know what happened and it's killing me. Everything was so, so PERFECT. I miss her so much and I want to know why I wasn't enough for her 5/5
Gatadata
hey, stay strong man, you can do it, cheesy at it sounds, i believe in you
bthighlander
Do NOT regress. It sounds like she has problem and doesn't want to hurt you with it. Keep sober. Time will tell.
doubledweeeb
Doesn't sound like you weren't enough. She had something going on. Not worth your sobriety.
foxybelle
i am sorry to hear that buddy :( xx
GalacticToast17
Sounds really unfair and rude of her for doing something like that, so don't beat yourself
surgicalarts
There could be MANY possible reasons why she did what she did. You could waste a lot of time wondering why, and never know. Live YOUR life.