She's always talking crap about my life because my family lives frugally.

Tired of listening to her talk shit about my husband and rub it in my face that she thinks her husband is way better because he gives her his whole paycheck. And it's not just the whole money thing. She talks shit about the way I look, the way I dress, my hobbies, anything. She calls me fat and lazy because my antipsychotics caused weight gain (I am dieting and exercising daily!). She calls me stupid for not believing her when she says my husband is cheating on me because "all men cheat." When my father-in-law was dying from cancer she called my in-laws dumb because he wanted to do treatment to live longer, she said, "You guys are stupid. Just let him die, he's going to die anyway!" I told her once I was diagnosed with bipolar and PTSD and she said I have a weak mind. She used to physically and emotionally abuse me as a kid. I was never good enough. But still a part of me wanted her to be happy for me in some way. I don't know why it took me so long but I feel better now, lol :)