Oh. I think I just realized why he felt he had the right to be angry. This is the barista/shop clerk scenario. A woman trapped in an interaction with them that they try to prolong as possible. Her ending the match as was supposed to happen (she pointed out she was playing to a timer *and* to still do what she wanted to at the con before they fully closed up) was him feeling like he got cheated on time despite her offering more time on the clock.
So he played badly, then lost on time,(but she agreed to let him finish anyway) then quit and swore at her, then came BACK to swear at her again and she offered to finish the game again AND gave him a premium membership to chess.com and he's still mad. What an asshole.
What a sad loser. You would never catch me losing to a woman at chess... Because I know I'm just generally bad at the game and just don't play.
The closet thing to a winning move I can make is to just not play.
Still 'play' against some old friends from school, who I've somehow convinced that I'm far better than them and just trolling them with trick movies, but that's entirely different. It is pure BS rather than serious play.
What a pathetic little bitch baby. And note that she’s apologizing and giving him stuff to try to assuage his hurt little feewings — why? To try to keep herself safe. And he probably bitches endlessly about how women won’t date him. Yuck.
Guys, if you have friends like this, please set them straight. They need some societal pressure to not be little punk asses.
What a piece of shit, he didn't deserve those gift cards or the apology. I get that dealing with confrontations is scary, but man I wish she stood her ground.
She posted a follow-up video where she explained she was just trying to deescalate the situation and keep thing calm. If he acted this poorly while getting apologies and free stuff, I'd hate to think how he would've acted if she had pushed back.
I assume this is someone know for doing chess on stream and at conventions she probably has a line of people who want to play against her and this guy was angry because he was the last and ran out of time (his own fault)? What a cry baby bitch. Even after she apologized, which she shouldnt have, he was a huge asshole.
This is why every group needs a tank. "Oh, you feel you were dealt with unfairly by the intellectual of our party. I will gladly address your displeasure and collect the experience that comes with it. "
Learned how to play chess from my uncle when I was in my teens, only ever won 2 games against him out of probably close to 200. He also taught me how to hustle cribbage. Had a chess board on my desk at work when I sold cars, one guy made an offer, but the manager didn't like it, so he asked if we could play a game for the offer, I win he pays full pin, I lose he gets the deal. Manager agreed, cause its a funny story. Beat his ass bad. I made 1.5k off that deal.
Another sales guy, a manager and myself played cribbage on slow snowy days, I made bank betting on games. Was a fun job to do for a few years, but I wasn't predatory on sales enough to keep up to the quotas.
Luck of the draw always plays into card games, but my uncle taught me how to turn most shit hands into pegged points during regular play. It was a real lesson in humility, when he would turn a hand worth 2 points into 8+ during play.
One of the smartest people I know, he could casually count cards while holding conversation, so playing most card games with him was a bad idea.
He joined Mensa in elementary school. I know IQ sometimes doesnt mean squat, but yea. He's wicked smart.
There's a opening called the 'Fools Gambit' my dad used that over and over again when he taught me when I was like 10. I kept losing until I figured out how to counter it. You only really lose if you don't learn anything from it.
"You wasted my time" says the guy whose time ran out over and over. "You took forever" says the guy who said she was rushing. His ability to hold onto such insane hypocrisy and 2 mutually exclusive points of view is impressive.
Not that the guy was at all justified, but I think "you wasted my time" and "you took forever" was in reference to the previous game she played. I think he was waiting for a turn, and the previous game took a long time, and then this guy sat down and lost quickly. So he views the waiting as a waist of time, but that was all his fault, waiting to play chess with a professional when he's such a novice he didn't even understand how the timer worked.
That guy was giving off a lot of small penis energy. Idk how the brains of these limp, insecure cunts work, but it may be safer for a woman to let the angry prick keep those memberships, especially if she is a famous streamer easy to stalk. A small sacrifice, imho. As a man, you are generally more free to not have to bribe wastes of oxygen who are rude to you
Nah, this is an utterly massive W for her. She comes across as charitable, humble, and just the most composed person possible. She offered him free premium memberships to a site, just to be kind.
And the douchebag just comes across as an insufferable douche. He has no redeeming qualities.
If she voids the memberships, then he has something on her. Instead? She's a goddamn saint.
Frankly, she showed him mercy by giving him an out. Dude lost his queen in the first few moves because he forgot a knight can move in an L shape??? He was wasting HER time.
he wasting her time the moment he RAN OUT OF TIME and still kept thinking what to do next... that moment was end of discussion & she was freaking polite about everything the entire time & he has the stupidity on frankly infinite level to come back & not only tell her she wasted his time, but say "fuck you" as well? bruh... look i'm just saying, sometimes a bit of physical reset could help retards learn & progress past their stupid stage -.- cuddling such asswipes won't help them nor us...
Pretty sure he didn't know how to play. He showed up before close expecting to win her heart somehow and was enraged when she promised to see her previous opponent later.
I missed the move at first and thought she'd done an en passant, which fair cop not knowing if youre a casual, but forgetting one of the most known rules of chess...
I learnt it because i had some students into chess, so I decided I should learn more about the game (Im definitely a casual, I didn't even know an opening before that). So I did it to a kid as soon as possible, so we could talk about it, and he got so mad he flipped the board :P
to be direct, one needs to be quite extremely stupid to be able to follow the logic of someone equally stupid :/ similar to how we can't really understand how genius ppl do shit they do & often looks like cheating/magic to common folk, so yeah in this case i prefer not to understand.
You see, its because he wanted to meet and date her, and even mentioned he wasn't happy that she told another player she would meet up later. Thats all it was to him.
I don't believe they should, but I also I think such sports should allow for three categories. Men/Women/Mixed. The question would be should they allow for dual entries or not. This way in theory there are at least two winners, maybe three if we allow for chaos.
Isn't that often the case. Insulated group proclaim superiority. Outgroup suddenly joins in and starts competing competitively. In group claims that groups have to compete in segregated competitions?
lsnasty
Dude probably voted for Trump.
keyblader1985
Imagine being such a small minded asshole.
yikesaroni
????? oh my god secondhand embarassment
LupusLilium
Oh. I think I just realized why he felt he had the right to be angry. This is the barista/shop clerk scenario. A woman trapped in an interaction with them that they try to prolong as possible. Her ending the match as was supposed to happen (she pointed out she was playing to a timer *and* to still do what she wanted to at the con before they fully closed up) was him feeling like he got cheated on time despite her offering more time on the clock.
jalcantara88127001
#niceguys
Iireklawgw
So he played badly, then lost on time,(but she agreed to let him finish anyway) then quit and swore at her, then came BACK to swear at her again and she offered to finish the game again AND gave him a premium membership to chess.com and he's still mad. What an asshole.
DasBeaker
“I feel like you wasted my time!” Dude… you could have left at any moment and be on your way. YOU waited around.
Fargus57
"Took too long". He's way too young to remember pre-internet, when some people would play chess matches by mail.
GoBeavs87
He probably loose when he tries beating his meat.
bitemark
Probably, with all that small-dick energy
elbowdeepinawhateverthatis
realrealluckless
What a sad loser. You would never catch me losing to a woman at chess... Because I know I'm just generally bad at the game and just don't play.
The closet thing to a winning move I can make is to just not play.
Still 'play' against some old friends from school, who I've somehow convinced that I'm far better than them and just trolling them with trick movies, but that's entirely different. It is pure BS rather than serious play.
bitemark
I lose to women all the time, my wife is awesome at chess :) my best bet is to play her while we're drinking and at best I slow her down a little 😅
CuppaJeaux
What a pathetic little bitch baby. And note that she’s apologizing and giving him stuff to try to assuage his hurt little feewings — why? To try to keep herself safe. And he probably bitches endlessly about how women won’t date him. Yuck.
Guys, if you have friends like this, please set them straight. They need some societal pressure to not be little punk asses.
IStoleALoafOfBread
Woman managing a man's emotions...How calm she was, I guarantee it isn't the first time she's had a de-escalate a man's emotional outburst.
Drives11
What a piece of shit, he didn't deserve those gift cards or the apology. I get that dealing with confrontations is scary, but man I wish she stood her ground.
marsilies
She posted a follow-up video where she explained she was just trying to deescalate the situation and keep thing calm. If he acted this poorly while getting apologies and free stuff, I'd hate to think how he would've acted if she had pushed back.
SacrificialClam
I assume this is someone know for doing chess on stream and at conventions she probably has a line of people who want to play against her and this guy was angry because he was the last and ran out of time (his own fault)? What a cry baby bitch. Even after she apologized, which she shouldnt have, he was a huge asshole.
isthisjunkmail
Fellas, don’t be a crybaby. The place was closing. Have some grace.
Imademyselfsquirtle
He is one of those men that voted Trump.
rmellis1112
This is why every group needs a tank. "Oh, you feel you were dealt with unfairly by the intellectual of our party. I will gladly address your displeasure and collect the experience that comes with it. "
ChiGamer
He 1000% had some fantasy of her falling for him during their game 🙄
NorrinxRadd
Hes a dick
EricAirheart
Jfc, he probably wasn't even good enough to play her!
msfeatherbottom
I mean…clearly
SideshowBobsotheravatar
What an ungrateful wanker
Sonicschilidogs
"Wahhh, you wasted my time that I chose to spend here"
"Okay sorry you feel that way, here's $60"
"Fuck you!"
dailysuicidalthoughts
Learned how to play chess from my uncle when I was in my teens, only ever won 2 games against him out of probably close to 200. He also taught me how to hustle cribbage.
Had a chess board on my desk at work when I sold cars, one guy made an offer, but the manager didn't like it, so he asked if we could play a game for the offer, I win he pays full pin, I lose he gets the deal. Manager agreed, cause its a funny story.
Beat his ass bad. I made 1.5k off that deal.
bitemark
Wow I'm barely mediocre at chess, I would never have the audacity to play against someone who keeps a board on their work desk
dailysuicidalthoughts
Another sales guy, a manager and myself played cribbage on slow snowy days, I made bank betting on games.
Was a fun job to do for a few years, but I wasn't predatory on sales enough to keep up to the quotas.
wadatahmydamie
I didn’t realize cribbage was a skill game, but I haven’t played it in decades
dailysuicidalthoughts
Luck of the draw always plays into card games, but my uncle taught me how to turn most shit hands into pegged points during regular play.
It was a real lesson in humility, when he would turn a hand worth 2 points into 8+ during play.
One of the smartest people I know, he could casually count cards while holding conversation, so playing most card games with him was a bad idea.
He joined Mensa in elementary school. I know IQ sometimes doesnt mean squat, but yea.
He's wicked smart.
ImJustHereAtThisPoint
May their petty bullshit only ever weigh themselves down
sonnyjones8112
I’m steeling this!
literallymike
Low key brutal to give him a chess.com membership so he can improve.
Tomigami
"As a consolation prize, git gud scrub"
azazyel
I get if I get pissed, I get pissed at myself when I lose, never my opponent.
azazyel
There's a opening called the 'Fools Gambit' my dad used that over and over again when he taught me when I was like 10. I kept losing until I figured out how to counter it. You only really lose if you don't learn anything from it.
StillNotYouTube
I play poker, but it's the same thing. I never get mad at my opponents, only myself if I make a bad play. I seem to be in the minority on this.
HeyImNotRyan
"You wasted my time" says the guy whose time ran out over and over. "You took forever" says the guy who said she was rushing. His ability to hold onto such insane hypocrisy and 2 mutually exclusive points of view is impressive.
tokenhooker
He was hoping to get with her, flirt with her. That's why he brought up her saying she was going to meet the other guy for dinner.
Period. Incel.
marsilies
Not that the guy was at all justified, but I think "you wasted my time" and "you took forever" was in reference to the previous game she played. I think he was waiting for a turn, and the previous game took a long time, and then this guy sat down and lost quickly. So he views the waiting as a waist of time, but that was all his fault, waiting to play chess with a professional when he's such a novice he didn't even understand how the timer worked.
pachyderm
Revoke those memberships !
MySushi
That guy was giving off a lot of small penis energy. Idk how the brains of these limp, insecure cunts work, but it may be safer for a woman to let the angry prick keep those memberships, especially if she is a famous streamer easy to stalk. A small sacrifice, imho. As a man, you are generally more free to not have to bribe wastes of oxygen who are rude to you
Goldmarble
Nah, this is an utterly massive W for her. She comes across as charitable, humble, and just the most composed person possible. She offered him free premium memberships to a site, just to be kind.
And the douchebag just comes across as an insufferable douche. He has no redeeming qualities.
If she voids the memberships, then he has something on her. Instead? She's a goddamn saint.
pachyderm
Good point
hibizcus
Frankly, she showed him mercy by giving him an out. Dude lost his queen in the first few moves because he forgot a knight can move in an L shape??? He was wasting HER time.
bitemark
Mad that he got spanked. He could've walked at any point if he thought his time was being wasted
VoidForScreaming
You should have seen him play a match against Serena.
VoidForScreaming
Tennis ball right through his skull.
Snezko
he wasting her time the moment he RAN OUT OF TIME and still kept thinking what to do next... that moment was end of discussion & she was freaking polite about everything the entire time & he has the stupidity on frankly infinite level to come back & not only tell her she wasted his time, but say "fuck you" as well? bruh... look i'm just saying, sometimes a bit of physical reset could help retards learn & progress past their stupid stage -.- cuddling such asswipes won't help them nor us...
NickPierce
Pretty sure he didn't know how to play. He showed up before close expecting to win her heart somehow and was enraged when she promised to see her previous opponent later.
freakdiablo
I didn't even think of that. Creepy. It's a chess match, not speed dating.
Anfalicious
I missed the move at first and thought she'd done an en passant, which fair cop not knowing if youre a casual, but forgetting one of the most known rules of chess...
Sonicschilidogs
Lol, I still remember the first time I saw an en passant, literally said "What the fuck was that?"
Anfalicious
I learnt it because i had some students into chess, so I decided I should learn more about the game (Im definitely a casual, I didn't even know an opening before that). So I did it to a kid as soon as possible, so we could talk about it, and he got so mad he flipped the board :P
Kingtheoden92
Same! I saw it in a digital environment first, and I thought I was such a smart little explorer who just found a bug. NOPE
Sh3phrd
I don't understand how he thinks she was wasting his time, like I can't follow it at all
Snezko
to be direct, one needs to be quite extremely stupid to be able to follow the logic of someone equally stupid :/ similar to how we can't really understand how genius ppl do shit they do & often looks like cheating/magic to common folk, so yeah in this case i prefer not to understand.
KaptainObveeus
You see, its because he wanted to meet and date her, and even mentioned he wasn't happy that she told another player she would meet up later. Thats all it was to him.
doctorId
It's crazy to feel that much jealousy over a person you literally just met.
KaptainObveeus
yes it is
eion85
I bet this guy thinks he can beat all women in sports because "Men are just better"
deetatron
He is no man, she played a large child
CptJohnYossarian
Massive incel vibes
DasBeaker
I’m getting the “he’s a nice guy why won’t girls go out with me” vibe.
TsubakiTragic
nail... head... hammer
TheDildoOfConsequences
TheDildoOfConsequences
agh, pixels. Oh well, I think it's still readable. Ish.
Aranon1183
I don't think I'll ever get used to chess being classified as a sport. Lol
katidragon
I don't think I'll get over that people think chess should be professionally segregated by gender.
LupusLilium
I don't believe they should, but I also I think such sports should allow for three categories. Men/Women/Mixed. The question would be should they allow for dual entries or not. This way in theory there are at least two winners, maybe three if we allow for chaos.
Dixon94
Aren't most "men's divisions" actually mixed?
PrecogFrogOnALog
Iirc it didn't used to be, but then a bunch of men turned into giant crybabies when a woman started beating them, so they split it.
manyslayer
See: the 1992 Olympic co-ed skeet event. Zhang Shan beat all the men and suddenly they needed it split by gender. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/X00hV0wvw0U
katidragon
Isn't that often the case. Insulated group proclaim superiority. Outgroup suddenly joins in and starts competing competitively. In group claims that groups have to compete in segregated competitions?