In loving memory of my sister Christine Iris Gilbert 3.26.83 - 9.15.12

May 22, 2016 11:30 AM

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This is my sister, Christine Iris Gilbert.

But she was better known as Chrissy, or Ci Ci. Chrissy lived her life in amazing fashion and impacted the lives of nearly everyone who was lucky enough to have the pleasure of knowing her. I could never sum her life up in words and pictures, but here's a little bit about my sister. I miss her a lot right now and I wanted to share a little bit of her life with you guys.

She was born 3-26-83 in Hollister, California. She spent her first years there before moving to Yuba City, Calif. where she grew up and graduated high school in 2001.

After high school Chrissy traveled and lived in Seattle, North Carolina, Equador and eventually Long Beach.

She loved. She loved a lot. She was charismatic and full of life. She loved Disneyland, tattoos, Sharks, dive bar, good music and good people. She was charismatic and made friends with just about everyone that was lucky enough to get a chance to meet her.

She worked a lot of different jobs in her life, but she was best known as a bartender and loved what she did.

What Chrissy loved more than anything else was her family and friends. She would call unexpectedly just to let you know she loved you, or to make you laugh.

She'd send me pictures from Ecuador just to let me know she was thinking about me.

On 9-15-12, Chrissy was a back seat passenger in a car that was involved in an accident after leaving Disneyland...

She had an amazing life and meant so much to all of us. Thanks for reading. I miss you sis.

She's beautiful, thank you for sharing her smiles with us. She would want you to be happy, so go do something fun and stay happy!

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Sorry for your loss OP.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Thank you

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

She was too young and too full of life. Sorry, OP. Try to live each day with the intention of doing something that would make her smile.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Thank you. That's good advice. Sometimes I forget. I know she'd be smiling right now...

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry about your loss

10 years ago | Likes 50 Dislikes 2

Thank you

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

Sorry for your loss :(

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Thank you

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Sorry for your loss, OP. Xoxo

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

One can tell she was a beautiful soul, RIP

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

it's 8:30 am man...can imgur just let me get my coffee before it makes me tear up?

10 years ago | Likes 344 Dislikes 3

7am here. I feel ya. I'm not crying, you're crying.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm very sorry for your loss OP.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Thank you

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

The photo with the umbrella got me.

10 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 1

I know I got there and started crying

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It's one of my favorites of her

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Yep!!

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

OP, my heart breaks for your loss and the rest of the world's loss.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It's obvious she was beautiful both inside and out. I'm so sorry for your loss, OP.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Thanks for sharing! She's sounds amazing!!! Nice brother too I think.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm so sorry for your loss, no matter what, I hope you will always stay strong, your sister loves you and always want you to be happy, okay?

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Thank you, I appreciate that. I stay strong for not just her, but my parents and other siblings..

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Damn, dude :(. As a younger brother, I don't know what I'd do if I lost my sister. Sorry, @OP. Know she's smilin, lookin down on ya.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Sorry for your loss. :(

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Thank you

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry for your loss, OP. I lost my brother unexpectedly in January 2012 a few months before his 22nd bday. This is a lovely tribute <3

10 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

Thank you so much. I'm sorry for your loss as well. It can be so hard at times. A lot of the time honestly.

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Like carrying around a bag of bricks that the slightest breeze of life can slam into your body and use to take your breath away.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Wow. Yes. Exactly.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Ouch...in the feels... now I miss her. Chin up OP we're all in this together.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Thanks. Imgur has blown my mind this morning. It really feels like I'm sharing with family.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Losing a sibling is rough. I can empathize and understand about the rough days. Stay up OP, now I'm going to call my mom.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Thank you, let her know how much you love her!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

So sorry for your loss. Treasured memories. An emotive tribute to a beautiful, positive person OP.

10 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 1

Thank you. She really was amazing. It warms my heart that I've been able to show that to a few people this morning.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Well, that really got me in the heart. I wish Id have met her. Sorry.

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Thank you go remind someone in your life how much you love them!

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I will.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

She looked like she really enjoyed her life wafflestompa. Would she want you to be sad for her or remember all the laughs you had together?

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Sometimes it'shard not to be sad even though you know they wouldn't want that.All of imgurs support today has made me feel better. Lessalone

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Well that's good. I find going with the sadness when it happens helps, and to try being ok with feeling good when that happens. Take care OP

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Your sister seems like a wonderful person. I'm so sorry for your loss.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

She really was amazing. Thank you

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

If you ever need a person to talk to, we may not know each other but you can message me.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Thank you that really does mean a lot... I may take you up on that..

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You can't see her but she is there. When you are scared she holds you. When you are happy she laughs with you. We are sad she is not here.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Thank you, that's very beautiful.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I am sorry for your loss, OP. Your post is a touching and sweet tribute to your sister. Losing a sibling is my greatest fear ...

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry for your loss, @OP. She seemed like a genuinely awesome and caring person.

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 2

Thank you. She really was.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

The candle that burns twice as bright, burns half as long.

10 years ago | Likes 695 Dislikes 16

That's beautiful!

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

Im not crying, you're crying!

10 years ago | Likes 40 Dislikes 5

But I don't burn at all, am I immortal?

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My candle burns at both ends It will not last the night; But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends - It gives a lovely light.

10 years ago | Likes 56 Dislikes 0

That was beautiful. Where's it from?

10 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

It's a poem by Edna St.Vincent Millay from a few figs from thistles.

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

I read it as a child in a Roald Dahl book and it stuck with me, pretty sure he was quoting a poet though.

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Always loved that quote too

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

He's quoting Edna St. Vincent Millay iirc.

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Aww you sound like a great brother. She was lucky to have you.

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Thank you, that means a lot to me

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

People die twice. The second time is when nobody thinks about them all any more.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry OP. I loaded my sister to suicide five years ago, and still miss everything about her daily. Talk to people about her if you need!

10 years ago | Likes 159 Dislikes 3

I'm so sorry for your loss. Suicide is such a hard thing to deal with. I almost lost one of my friends to an attempt last week.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Tomorrow will be 2 years since my sister's suicide.

10 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry. How are you and your family coping?

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I wish I could say well, but in reality there is still a lot of guilt felt by everyone. So it's hard. Last Monday she would have been 30

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Oh man I'm sorry. My sister jumped off a highway overpass, but she survived. I can't even imagine what you're going through.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Lost I meant...

10 years ago | Likes 86 Dislikes 0

I subconsciously read it as "lost" anyway, I think you're good

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I am so DAMN sorry for laughing but loaded sounds really wrong yo. I feel sad for ya, so here's a +1. Stay strong.

10 years ago | Likes 42 Dislikes 1

My brother almost 10 years ago was lost to suicide. Talking about him still helps.

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not really good at talking about this stuff but I thought this would be therapeutic for me to share this.

10 years ago | Likes 44 Dislikes 1

None of us are good at talking about it. It's just the talking that helps. Even getting to say their name feels good.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I'm not either. Loss is fucking hard man. I feel for you though, even though I'm just another random person. Big bear hug!

10 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Thanks everyone. I don't really post on here, I'm just kinda down. but the few of you who've taken time to read and comment helped a lot.

10 years ago | Likes 1875 Dislikes 17

Is she single?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 36

Dude. Really? Not nice. Not nice at all.

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 2

I'm sorry I didn't read any of it, is she married?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 14

Bro I'm so sorry. Stay strong. Seems she was just as beautiful inside as on the outside. The ones that love us never really leave.

10 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

Thank you so much. And you're right. Things get hard but she's always with me in my mind. She's smiling right now about all this ..

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

love to you, op. I'm glad she had you for a brother and friend.

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Thank you

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

My friend Ashley's just graduated and misses her sister as well. I wish there was a way to ease the pain for you two. You're not alone <3

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Thanks for sharing OP.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Absolutely beautiful. You can see the spirit in her eyes. I am so sorry o.p.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Sorry for your loss man. When it rains it pours.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I suddenly lost my sister a couple years ago. PM me if you would like to talk about anything.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Hang in there OP. Let me know if you need someone to talk to.

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Thanks, I really appreciate it!

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

<3

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Stay strong brother✊

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This was so sweet. What a great way to celebrate her life. We got you OP. We miss you too now Chrissy!

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Aw, man. I feel for you. So sad to hear of her passing :-(. Be strong. Live life. Cherish her memory all your life.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

As hard as it may be, keep your head up. She will always be looking down at you smiling. Allow this trauma to push you to make her proud! :)

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

my mom's sisters name was chrissy, she was murdered by her husband, and I was named in her honor. I felt a deep sad for this. :(

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

It really means a lot from you to post it. She looks like she loved you. She loves you now and forever. She is smiling in all the photos.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry to hear your loss, I wish I had more to say, but stay strong

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I wish I'd have a sis like that... Rip Chrissy

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Your Ci Ci looked like a lot of fun. Love to you. xx

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Keep your chin up! Thanks for sharing. Calling each of my sisters right now.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This is a great tribute to your sister, OP. Thanks for sharing on Imgur!

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

As the eldest brother to two sister's I can't begin to fathom. She seems awesome, you have my heart friend.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Your sister sounds like such am amazing and vibrant person and now I feel like I got to meet her too, so thank you.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That's my DOB, so sorry you lost her so young. Stay strong and live your life the way she would have wanted you to x

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Sorry dude, my older sis died in a car accident in 03 when I was 18 and still miss her everyday. It was her 25th birthday...

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

So sorry for your loss. She seems so cool and I'm sure she was a wonderful person. Stay strong X

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Im so sorry OP. One day you will remember her not with the pain of loss but with a smile of happiness at how great and funny she was. Hugs x

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Thank you.Some days i remember her and it's really easy.Sharing her with all of you has turned today into one of those days. She'd be happy

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

She was lovely. Keep talking about her and living your life to the fullest. She'll live on in you!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

We're here for you man

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Just know she is watching you and laughing with you still. You feel reminded because she is thinking about you still and loving you too♡

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Sending many virtual hugs your way! Stay strong!

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You've made me sad, OP. :(

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

So sorry for your loss op, I don't easily get the feels this early in the morning..

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

She was (is) beautiful OP. Cherish her memory always.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry for your loss. She seems like an amazing person, taken too soon. Cherish her memories and celebrate her life bro. You stay strong.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Got chu fam<3

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Shes with you now more than ever, OP.I encourage you to get out today and do something she would've enjoyed,spread her smile to others.

10 years ago | Likes 123 Dislikes 2

That's the kind of words that ring true and helpful. Go, Live and Love like crazy for the both of you.

10 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

Err "Those are" not "That's." One eye open and it was all blurry. I'm not crying, you are.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

lol no judgement here..I didn't even notice

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Thank you. That's a good idea I think I will do something for her today. Before posting this I was really low but you all are helpingsomuch

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