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This is my sister, Christine Iris Gilbert.
But she was better known as Chrissy, or Ci Ci. Chrissy lived her life in amazing fashion and impacted the lives of nearly everyone who was lucky enough to have the pleasure of knowing her. I could never sum her life up in words and pictures, but here's a little bit about my sister. I miss her a lot right now and I wanted to share a little bit of her life with you guys.
She was born 3-26-83 in Hollister, California. She spent her first years there before moving to Yuba City, Calif. where she grew up and graduated high school in 2001.
After high school Chrissy traveled and lived in Seattle, North Carolina, Equador and eventually Long Beach.
She loved. She loved a lot. She was charismatic and full of life. She loved Disneyland, tattoos, Sharks, dive bar, good music and good people. She was charismatic and made friends with just about everyone that was lucky enough to get a chance to meet her.
She worked a lot of different jobs in her life, but she was best known as a bartender and loved what she did.
What Chrissy loved more than anything else was her family and friends. She would call unexpectedly just to let you know she loved you, or to make you laugh.
She'd send me pictures from Ecuador just to let me know she was thinking about me.
On 9-15-12, Chrissy was a back seat passenger in a car that was involved in an accident after leaving Disneyland...
She had an amazing life and meant so much to all of us. Thanks for reading. I miss you sis.
hellotheregovenah
She's beautiful, thank you for sharing her smiles with us. She would want you to be happy, so go do something fun and stay happy!
malhora
Sorry for your loss OP.
wafflestompa
Thank you
ialwaysupvotestevebuscemi
She was too young and too full of life. Sorry, OP. Try to live each day with the intention of doing something that would make her smile.
wafflestompa
Thank you. That's good advice. Sometimes I forget. I know she'd be smiling right now...
fadoel
I'm sorry about your loss
wafflestompa
Thank you
Lifemakesnosense
Sorry for your loss :(
wafflestompa
Thank you
JessaNub
Sorry for your loss, OP. Xoxo
MikleDouglas
One can tell she was a beautiful soul, RIP
Pdiddly63
it's 8:30 am man...can imgur just let me get my coffee before it makes me tear up?
oldsoulless
7am here. I feel ya. I'm not crying, you're crying.
Seethreepeeoh
I'm very sorry for your loss OP.
wafflestompa
Thank you
FlyingHawaiian
The photo with the umbrella got me.
Mayralejandraaaa
I know I got there and started crying
wafflestompa
It's one of my favorites of her
aidmere7079
Yep!!
Copperbrat
OP, my heart breaks for your loss and the rest of the world's loss.
LookAtThisGraph
It's obvious she was beautiful both inside and out. I'm so sorry for your loss, OP.
jramses1993
Thanks for sharing! She's sounds amazing!!! Nice brother too I think.
Myluy
I'm so sorry for your loss, no matter what, I hope you will always stay strong, your sister loves you and always want you to be happy, okay?
wafflestompa
Thank you, I appreciate that. I stay strong for not just her, but my parents and other siblings..
BugEyedLemur
Damn, dude :(. As a younger brother, I don't know what I'd do if I lost my sister. Sorry, @OP. Know she's smilin, lookin down on ya.
xchickilickimeow
Sorry for your loss. :(
wafflestompa
Thank you
Rebma88
I'm sorry for your loss, OP. I lost my brother unexpectedly in January 2012 a few months before his 22nd bday. This is a lovely tribute <3
wafflestompa
Thank you so much. I'm sorry for your loss as well. It can be so hard at times. A lot of the time honestly.
Rebma88
Like carrying around a bag of bricks that the slightest breeze of life can slam into your body and use to take your breath away.
wafflestompa
Wow. Yes. Exactly.
Menefee
Ouch...in the feels... now I miss her. Chin up OP we're all in this together.
wafflestompa
Thanks. Imgur has blown my mind this morning. It really feels like I'm sharing with family.
bigtuan
Losing a sibling is rough. I can empathize and understand about the rough days. Stay up OP, now I'm going to call my mom.
wafflestompa
Thank you, let her know how much you love her!
curlywurly99
So sorry for your loss. Treasured memories. An emotive tribute to a beautiful, positive person OP.
wafflestompa
Thank you. She really was amazing. It warms my heart that I've been able to show that to a few people this morning.
ialwayswantedalongusername
Well, that really got me in the heart. I wish Id have met her. Sorry.
wafflestompa
Thank you go remind someone in your life how much you love them!
ialwayswantedalongusername
I will.
Twinklepot
She looked like she really enjoyed her life wafflestompa. Would she want you to be sad for her or remember all the laughs you had together?
wafflestompa
Sometimes it'shard not to be sad even though you know they wouldn't want that.All of imgurs support today has made me feel better. Lessalone
Twinklepot
Well that's good. I find going with the sadness when it happens helps, and to try being ok with feeling good when that happens. Take care OP
SpiderGirl4739
Your sister seems like a wonderful person. I'm so sorry for your loss.
wafflestompa
She really was amazing. Thank you
SpiderGirl4739
If you ever need a person to talk to, we may not know each other but you can message me.
wafflestompa
Thank you that really does mean a lot... I may take you up on that..
TheDeFiler01
You can't see her but she is there. When you are scared she holds you. When you are happy she laughs with you. We are sad she is not here.
wafflestompa
Thank you, that's very beautiful.
idontknowyoufromadam
I am sorry for your loss, OP. Your post is a touching and sweet tribute to your sister. Losing a sibling is my greatest fear ...
Xx11Rebecca11xX
I'm sorry for your loss, @OP. She seemed like a genuinely awesome and caring person.
wafflestompa
Thank you. She really was.
DontEverMoveHere
The candle that burns twice as bright, burns half as long.
ObiWanShalomi
That's beautiful!
pnuts13
Im not crying, you're crying!
keeblur
But I don't burn at all, am I immortal?
Kwilmes
My candle burns at both ends It will not last the night; But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends - It gives a lovely light.
ancientnorseman
Thanks all, here is a link: https://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/33998.Edna_St_Vincent_Millay
ancientnorseman
That was beautiful. Where's it from?
busted88
It's a poem by Edna St.Vincent Millay from a few figs from thistles.
Kwilmes
I read it as a child in a Roald Dahl book and it stuck with me, pretty sure he was quoting a poet though.
themoodypancake
Always loved that quote too
Bradapalooza
He's quoting Edna St. Vincent Millay iirc.
TeamCockAndBullz
Aww you sound like a great brother. She was lucky to have you.
wafflestompa
Thank you, that means a lot to me
mynameislinknotzelda
People die twice. The second time is when nobody thinks about them all any more.
D2sb
I'm sorry OP. I loaded my sister to suicide five years ago, and still miss everything about her daily. Talk to people about her if you need!
Thesinlesssinner
I'm so sorry for your loss. Suicide is such a hard thing to deal with. I almost lost one of my friends to an attempt last week.
dinobots56
Tomorrow will be 2 years since my sister's suicide.
D2sb
I'm sorry. How are you and your family coping?
dinobots56
I wish I could say well, but in reality there is still a lot of guilt felt by everyone. So it's hard. Last Monday she would have been 30
somenub755
Oh man I'm sorry. My sister jumped off a highway overpass, but she survived. I can't even imagine what you're going through.
D2sb
Lost I meant...
FruitBowl
I subconsciously read it as "lost" anyway, I think you're good
Labbesgoofs
I am so DAMN sorry for laughing but loaded sounds really wrong yo. I feel sad for ya, so here's a +1. Stay strong.
PatrickRob82
My brother almost 10 years ago was lost to suicide. Talking about him still helps.
wafflestompa
I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not really good at talking about this stuff but I thought this would be therapeutic for me to share this.
PatrickRob82
None of us are good at talking about it. It's just the talking that helps. Even getting to say their name feels good.
D2sb
I'm not either. Loss is fucking hard man. I feel for you though, even though I'm just another random person. Big bear hug!
wafflestompa
Thanks everyone. I don't really post on here, I'm just kinda down. but the few of you who've taken time to read and comment helped a lot.
TheLittleBear
Is she single?
psychofree
Dude. Really? Not nice. Not nice at all.
TheLittleBear
I'm sorry I didn't read any of it, is she married?
RickyMartinsVagina
Bro I'm so sorry. Stay strong. Seems she was just as beautiful inside as on the outside. The ones that love us never really leave.
wafflestompa
Thank you so much. And you're right. Things get hard but she's always with me in my mind. She's smiling right now about all this ..
phoenixfromashes
love to you, op. I'm glad she had you for a brother and friend.
wafflestompa
Thank you
AmiLynne
My friend Ashley's just graduated and misses her sister as well. I wish there was a way to ease the pain for you two. You're not alone <3
David21lva
Thanks for sharing OP.
cinematicheart
Absolutely beautiful. You can see the spirit in her eyes. I am so sorry o.p.
Boomcube13
Sorry for your loss man. When it rains it pours.
amonginger
I suddenly lost my sister a couple years ago. PM me if you would like to talk about anything.
ParaBailarLaBamba
Hang in there OP. Let me know if you need someone to talk to.
wafflestompa
Thanks, I really appreciate it!
ParaBailarLaBamba
<3
thebasednobleman
Stay strong brother✊
ughh
This was so sweet. What a great way to celebrate her life. We got you OP. We miss you too now Chrissy!
PaulSchlachter
Aw, man. I feel for you. So sad to hear of her passing :-(. Be strong. Live life. Cherish her memory all your life.
traderallam
As hard as it may be, keep your head up. She will always be looking down at you smiling. Allow this trauma to push you to make her proud! :)
ChrisTheGopher
my mom's sisters name was chrissy, she was murdered by her husband, and I was named in her honor. I felt a deep sad for this. :(
RoMaAgOfficial
It really means a lot from you to post it. She looks like she loved you. She loves you now and forever. She is smiling in all the photos.
AssistantToTheRegionalManagerDwightSchrute
I'm sorry to hear your loss, I wish I had more to say, but stay strong
hunnybunches
I wish I'd have a sis like that... Rip Chrissy
OctoPussyBalls
Your Ci Ci looked like a lot of fun. Love to you. xx
omgdigitalprojectorsaretakingovermyjob
Keep your chin up! Thanks for sharing. Calling each of my sisters right now.
SaucyDisses
This is a great tribute to your sister, OP. Thanks for sharing on Imgur!
HolyHamSandwiches
As the eldest brother to two sister's I can't begin to fathom. She seems awesome, you have my heart friend.
ACETrumps
Your sister sounds like such am amazing and vibrant person and now I feel like I got to meet her too, so thank you.
badgerofhonour
That's my DOB, so sorry you lost her so young. Stay strong and live your life the way she would have wanted you to x
ihatewarmpickles
Sorry dude, my older sis died in a car accident in 03 when I was 18 and still miss her everyday. It was her 25th birthday...
buscemimama
So sorry for your loss. She seems so cool and I'm sure she was a wonderful person. Stay strong X
psychofree
Im so sorry OP. One day you will remember her not with the pain of loss but with a smile of happiness at how great and funny she was. Hugs x
wafflestompa
Thank you.Some days i remember her and it's really easy.Sharing her with all of you has turned today into one of those days. She'd be happy
TheSadCafe
She was lovely. Keep talking about her and living your life to the fullest. She'll live on in you!
WaffIestomper
We're here for you man
FuckGlitter
Just know she is watching you and laughing with you still. You feel reminded because she is thinking about you still and loving you too♡
dancealittlestranger
Sending many virtual hugs your way! Stay strong!
darxide
You've made me sad, OP. :(
Nathanfu
So sorry for your loss op, I don't easily get the feels this early in the morning..
wawaweewee
She was (is) beautiful OP. Cherish her memory always.
thatskinnydude
I'm sorry for your loss. She seems like an amazing person, taken too soon. Cherish her memories and celebrate her life bro. You stay strong.
SpookyxAction
Got chu fam<3
yesimeanno
Shes with you now more than ever, OP.I encourage you to get out today and do something she would've enjoyed,spread her smile to others.
thesilverling
That's the kind of words that ring true and helpful. Go, Live and Love like crazy for the both of you.
thesilverling
Err "Those are" not "That's." One eye open and it was all blurry. I'm not crying, you are.
yesimeanno
lol no judgement here..I didn't even notice
wafflestompa
Thank you. That's a good idea I think I will do something for her today. Before posting this I was really low but you all are helpingsomuch