Feel happy and depressed at the same time

Jun 6, 2026 12:08 AM

DSPatch

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I feel like crap about all of it. But happy to still be employed. Because a job search scares the hell out of me.

3 rounds in 6 months isn't good. If you can find a healthier company, I'd seriously consider it.

2 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I'm right there with you. Our team of 5 is now just me.

2 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

3rd round of layoffs?! I hope you've updated your resume and are actively looking for a new employer. Your current one sounds like it's circling the drain.

2 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Plus anxious and fearful. That's exactly how they want you to feel...while you do your work, and theirs.

2 months ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 2

During the last recession we knew shit was about to go bad. I worked in a shop with 11 other guys. They asked me and another guy to go up to the front office and move furniture. I’m like this is where HR walks in and lays us off. Got done and walked back to the shop. Owner was there with a cop. Other 10 co workers were gone. I had to help them load their tools the following week. Horrible times. They transferred other people into our shop to partially restaff to 6.

2 months ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

In todays market, ALWAYS be on the lookout for alternatives.

2 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Know what you mean - I retired in Feb, old workmates now possibly losing jobs owing to changed govt policies. All I can do is keep in contact.

2 months ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Dude, just start looking while you're already employed.

2 months ago | Likes 74 Dislikes 0

This. Cant say it enough. As someone who survived three rounds of cuts and two years of salary freezes…then left. New role ended up being the best of my life.

As a young Gen Xer I have been working my whole life:
The people with talent leave first when the ship is sinking…the company does not reward loyalty for sticking around.
It’s WAY easier to get a job when you have a job.
Find jobs that’s you are interested and tailor your resume to fit those specifically…I used to have three resumes.

2 months ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

I've been on both sides of this. If you want to help people who were laid off you can 1) offer to be a reference, 2) write a recommendation on linkedin (assuming your field uses it), 3) offer to meet up for a beer or coffee (it's a lot easier to become socially isolated when unemployed).

2 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Prep the resume.

2 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Yea but some rich asshole will be able to buy a 3rd ivory back scratcher because of those layoffs.

2 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

Search while you're still employed. That many layoffs is a huge red flag that either the company is sinking, management has caught the "always be cutting" bug (some damn executive at Boeing and/or some investment company in the 1980s got the idea that you should always fire 10% of your workforce every year or something like that, and then everybody else followed suit), or both.

2 months ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Fuck Boeing. Just saying.

2 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

You might wanna get over that cause you're gonna be next eventually.

2 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

As someone who had been laid off more than once, GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER AND GET OUT NOW! Your day is coming, don’t believe otherwise. If they are into multiple rounds of leveraging payroll, the ship is sinking and the water is up to your neck.

2 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

hey man i work in the humanitarian and development sector. in the last two years we've lost half our colleagues globally. it's been a bloodbath. my specific organization is doing a round of layoffs soon and im like 70% sure I'm gone. it's pretty hard to have committed my life helping the poor and vulnerable at a lower salary than othr comparable jobs and still get cut all because of some dickhead in Florida.

2 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

it's called empathy. something you're managers lack

2 months ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 3

I've only been laid off once but the director was crying.

2 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Not the managers per se. Managers are intentionally inserted as a strategic buffer/abstraction between the workers and the deciders. "We're cutting 15% staff, you figure out who"

2 months ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Survivors Guilt is real. As someone who survived 2 rounds and then got fired in the 3'rd after 20 years, trust me. Those of us who do get cut, do not blame the rest of you.

We blame the incompetent management, who NEVER seems to get cut. And if they do, they get a golden parachute.

2 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I think what people here r trying to tell you is you are in more danger of losing your job now than ever. So start looking fast.

2 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Been underemployed for almost 2 years, living off savings and cutting every possible "unnecessary" cost. The job market is absolute rancid hot garbage and employers know it.

2 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

As someone laid off twice, that's survivors guilt. Just keep doing you. If new jobs open, pitch them to old colleagues and friends. You're absolutely loved.

2 months ago | Likes 94 Dislikes 4

What does being laid off twice have to do with feeling survivors guilt?

2 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

Because I've watched my friends and colleagues who survived layoffs hit depression and massive stress too.

2 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yes and how do you know how they're feeling? You a mind reader? Maybe you're just projecting

2 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

I did this crazy thing. You'll never believe it.

I talked to them. My friends!! Can you believe it?!

I did this thing called 'having a conversation with my friends'.

2 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The best time to find a job is when you have one.

2 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Public health epidemiologist here. Lost hundreds of essential colleagues. Sympathies

2 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

The fear of job hunt kept me stagnating at a company for 8 years being paid peanuts and renting rooms to survive while boss was working from a corner office. Shop around for a job while at work. People don't pay more for what they already have, they pay more for what they need. So you won't see oay raises from your job for years to come. But will see all the work laid on you from all the folks they fired. Don't be the person hanging on to a sinking ship. Did it twice and it kills you

2 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

3rd round? thats a sign. start looking back during the second round of layoff. speaking as someone whos been in your shoes at least twice you've got only so many paychecks ahead of you til they are selling the place

and hope the people who already got let go are your buddies as they will be the ones to give you your next job. they probably feel more sorry for you as they immediately yoink up all the secure open jobs out there right now. they are first out first in. youll be the straggler.

2 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Prep your resume and start the search NOW.

2 months ago | Likes 72 Dislikes 2

It's a lot less scary finding a job when you aren't yet in danger of losing the current one.

2 months ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 0