I couldn't understand why every other kid could afford the books

Jun 13, 2021 1:06 PM

Even as a teacher I couldn’t afford all of the books I wanted to buy for my classroom.

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I played hooky on book fair days even though I'm a reading nerd. I didn't want the embarrassment of not being able to buy anything.

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I used to skip lunch for the week leading up to the book fair to make sure I could buy something…

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Same, but that's why I spoil my nephews and niece.

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It always broke my heart when kids would get excited about the Book Fair, but never actually got anything. It was exciting just to go. Ughh

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Ditto

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I’m 39 and still want JNCO. These feelings stick with you when you cannot have them as a kid

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My parents didn't see the point when we could get books from the library and use the money for other things, especially since my siblings/1

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went through books like candy and usually didn't reread them. We also had excellent libraries, Seattle public library & King County library.

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I purchased some sort of book one year with what little money I had. I received the wrong book but read it anyways. One of my favorites now.

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What's the book?

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The secret under the waterfall

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Thank GOD for consignment shops, eBay, Facebook Marketplace, yard sales, estate sales and the library.

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Truth. In middle school on scholastic fair day I had $5 in cash to spend (which I was grateful for!) but walking in the hall, I found an

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Honest to god blank check! It was signed just had no amount written in yet. The thought that someone’s parents could just leave an open door

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Like that really blew my mind!

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So how many hundreds of dollars of books did you get?

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My school always had some extra books for any kid who couldn't afford one. I realize now that just meant I went to a rich school.

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Same. I got in trouble for stealing a whole bunch of books one year because I was fed up.

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I was allowed one bookmark. I chose very carefully and treasured my bookmark collection.

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I send cash to my kids teacher in case anybody forgot their money.

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I may not have been able to get a book, but I did get a fancy eraser or two

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Mine was being made fun of for bring "weird" food when my Mom packed Russian lunches in My Little Pony lunchbox (purple).

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I would have so many thing circled in the catalogue. My mom did her best. But I usually had to whittle it down to a couple of things. ….

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That said, I feel fortunate that we could afford those couple of things.

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Scholastic has a new program that you can sign your school up for and each kid gets 3 free books. Our school signed up and it was amazing.

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My classmates and teachers couldn't understand that my mom couldn't pick me up because we only had 1 car and my father worked late.

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We never had a car

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Like after I told them like 3 times, they kept insisting "can't your mom pick you up if your father is working?".

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Was there some reason your mom couldn't drop your dad off at work and pick him up?

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Yeah, work was 1h away and my father worked until like 1am so usually my mother would already be sleeping.

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When was this? Single car families were common when I grew up.

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Early 90s, and unfortunately I went to a public school where the vast majority of students had rich parents.

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I'm most likely a little before you, I graduated in '96. I grew up in an area where most parents had tractors or 1 car.

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Wasn’t wealthy growing up. My dad put $2 in my hand every year day of book fair and told me give it to someone that couldn’t buy anything.

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If you were in my class and I saw you weren't getting anything I'd share what I had, and if I were a teacher I'd have to spring for it

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I didn't give a fuck what anyone thought, if I saw need I'd fill it. Love, money is nothing, it's struggle. Without peace it's a burden

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Thank GOD for consignment shops, eBay, Facebook Marketplace, yard sales, estate sales and the library.

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I see these UsBorne book sales at my kids day care that are INSANELY overpriced. We do OK, but I feel bad for the less fortunate.

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You can say that again.

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i didn't realize my family was poor until 6th grade when it was pointed out my shoes were generic.

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I knew I was poor when I had to use fire-heated rocks in cooking pots to keep my room warm at night in the winter because we didnt have gas

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like, nobody told me other kids just had heat, and running water, but its pretty obvious from tv

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I wore the same pants every day to school and I didn't start being conscious of it til kids started making fun of me in middle school

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20 years later I'm back to wearing the same sweatpants every day though.

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I definitely went to Payless a lot.

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Prowings or XJ-900's

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PROWINGS!!!! I had those! ;)

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I felt this all the way back to 1978.

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I wore generics well into highschool. Now I think of all the kids that had cool shit then and how much they suck now while my life is great.

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What's wrong with generic?

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Grew up on family mentality that stuff dont matter but what you eat does.

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Some people think generic is worse, no matter what. That you are somehow worse if you buy generic.

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Shoot, I’d buy the generic of the generic if it was a thing.

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I got made fun of for wearing jeans that were too short. I grew and it wasn’t time for new clothes yet :/

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People can be so cruel

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Did you get called high waters all the time too? Same situation for me, always got called high waters

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Same, but not because I was poor. I was a twig with reeeeally long legs. No pants would fit me and be long enough.

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Off, ouch, my memories. I forgot about that.

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6th grade teacher decided to have all the kids in my class to donate clothes. So we all did except me I was told by my teacher I didnt have

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to. That Friday when all the kids brought their unwanted clothes my teacher had me stand in front of the class and thank my classmates.

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That is awful. Teachers suck. My 5th grade teacher had me stand in front of the class and tell them about how Medicaid had paid for my 1/2

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Glasses. The principal had taken me to my eye dr appt and the kids had thought she bought them for me.

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Confused I didn't understand what was happening but I thank them anyways. Never felt more embarrassed in my life.

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Jesus... Fucking people... At least let someone have some dignity

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Ya this was like back in 96'. Was told by that teacher to bring the boys clothes home as well so my bro could have some as well. So I drag

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Home two garbage bags full of clothes left them in the dining room. I haven't seen my dad and mom more pissed and upset that day. Both work

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I grew up riding the poverty line, always had a little bit for the book fair. Parents make sacrifices for their children. Or should, anyway.

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I grew u fairly comfortable, but didn't realize how much my parents gave up to give me that.

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My parents tried real hard to hide how broke we always were, and we were better off than many. Even now my dad is scared of admitting -/

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How close we were to poverty to me. He denies it. Didn't really notice how close we were myself until I talked with my fiance about how -/

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Much they traveled and got stuff and ate out and went cross country a lot. Was crazy to really see upper middle class for the first time. \-

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Some parents sacrifice by not eating every day. It’s cheesy, but a love goes a long way. I grew up poor but happy.

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What exactly were her parents supposed to sacrifice? Her food, the roof over her head, the electricity, the heat, the water. >

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They were already probably not eating at least once a week so she could. Get your WP head outta your ass.

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Parents shouldn't have to make sacrifices like what you're talking about. We shouldn't have millions of people riding the poverty line.

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So this guy was much below the line you were riding.

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Grew up the same way, but always had enough for 1, maybe 2 if they were the cheap ones. Got in HUGE trouble when I penciled in an expensive

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one after they ok’d it. Was like a $6 (for the 80’s) full photographic quality book about a movie. One of the Muppet movies if I remember.

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yup. my mom raised 3 kids alone. worked as a waitress and went to photography school with 0 government $.she found a way to give me book$

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damn I wish I had her energy. Imagine how much more she could have accomplished with a little support...

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Similar, I grumbled as sometimes dinner was rice and onions, but I always had dinner. Sometimes Mom just had tea so she could 'work on--->

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- her writing' while dad worked on other stuff. Also, teabags got reused, just steep 'em longer for the 2nd cup.

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tea is great for saving money, especially when you already have to boil your water to make it safe to drink.

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Oh, while the town had no water treatment facility, it was actually very high quality stuff. Only had a boil water advisory once a decade.

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But some parents spend that money on cigs and beer instead.

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And loto. True story here

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Lotto is a surefire investment though

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No parent should have make monetary sacrifice or e.g. go without food to buy school supplies in a civilised country!

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5 years of elementary school I had to stand up weekly and announce I was getting free lunch to the class.

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Those of us with free lunch had to sign up several times a month to serve hot lunch to the other students before we could eat.

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And we ate last everyday regardless if we were serving or not.

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That’s a horrible stigma that shouldn’t have been implemented.

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Why did they make you announce it?

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That's a good question. The teacher already knew because my family had to apply for it, but still had to do it every week 1st-5th grade.

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I was still on free lunch in middle school. I stopped eating lunch at school in high school when a lunch lady made a scene because I tried

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to pay 25 cents for a cup of bacon bits to go on a baked potato. That apparently wasnt allowed and I needed to be made an example of.

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