I hated him.

Sep 26, 2025 1:20 AM

Zinfandella

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When I'd go "hang out with friends" I was really sneaking to the library to read.

Edit: Karma caught up to him.
Yaaaaay! https://imgur.com/gallery/YqdJg9G

I'd let you read to me. My mom used to read to me ,I find it very soothing when a woman reads

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

There is absolutely no fucking way in hell that I would be interested in a woman who didn't read. I'm not looking for an idiot.

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

"No men likes". Ah yeah one of those losers who think they have to tick boxes on the masculinity-bingo-card to be a real man. To be a real man the only box you have to tick is the one that says: "I don't care what other men think is masculine"

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

People who stunt kids' growth, interests and natural curiosity are fucking assholes and deserve to be stuffed into a sack and thrown onto a pile of legos.

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

This made me sad, then glad, then a little lonely. It's not a 6 word story, but its close.

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

x is an idiot for 1)thinking he knew what men want, 2)discouraging *anyone from reading, 3)evil not idiotic for throwing away books

10 months ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Ew, sounds like your mom dated Gaston. Glad that you still read and rebelled! Got any book recommendations?

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I'm about to start a book that I read when I was 13 or 14. I barely remember it since it was so long ago, but I remember really really liking it. It's called Snow White, Blood Red. It's s faerie tales for adults :)

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Man, if someone said that to my kids they'd be outta my life before something else that happens really fast.

10 months ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

Right? I don't understand people. I mean, I actually do, but I wish I didn't.

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

How would that guy know anything about what men want?

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

You should ship him some books

10 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

A woman that doesn't just read but reads to her husband is my kinda person. Are you single?

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Sounds like your mom had shit taste in men

10 months ago | Likes 298 Dislikes 0

over and over and over and over again. she finally found a good one... he dies of cancer

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

What kind of beauty and the beast bullshit town did that dude’s head live in, anyway?

10 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Trumps backyard

10 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I hope he gets his junk caught in something sharp that spins.

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

My wife always has a book with her, it's like Linus and his blanket. She has house books, car books, going to store books, Emergency Room books, etc. and yes these are all separate different books. she reads multiple books at the same time. I am glad she has a hobby that makes her happy, I will never get in the way of that.

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Dumbass ordering for the whole table..

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My wife reads ALL the time and it pisses me off. Because her stack of books is bigger than mine, and I’m losing the “who can read more in a year” battle.

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Ladies, if you read a lot of books, like to play games and just be nerdy in general, I want you. Hahah

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Glad hes her ex. Ffs

10 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

When I first learned how to read I would make mistakes and told my mom that I didn't like it when I had to read out loud and was bad at it. So she taught me to read from fantasy books out loud to her, including all of the magic Kingdom for sale series. Later on I kept doing it and can site read any book or text out loud with no errors comfortably. In later grades a few commented I should have been a broadcaster or some profession like that.

10 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Getting the audio right is supposedly tricky, but there is a but of call for it even very casually. Audiobooks are sweet, and there are places like librevox that do public domain books via volunteers. Etc.

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

what a dick. I love it when my wife reads. I just give her space to enjoy. wtf wrong with people?

10 months ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 1

1)I'm not that old and when I was a kid people could be mocked and beat up for reading too much or hanging out at the library. I think there

10 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

2)was even a boom of "Reading Is Cool!" style media everywhere to try and normalise being literate so nerds wouldn't be second class

10 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

3)citizens anymore. There seems to be this weird anti-intellectualism shift as time goes one, which sucks, I don't want to live dark age 2.0

10 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Ah yes... Grownups telling kids that something is cool ALWAYS works.

10 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Must have worked, we're the most educated country in the world.

10 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Aw man. Do you think you're husband learn to read one day? Or is it too late? 😝

10 months ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

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10 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 3

I know how to fuckin spell it. Sometimes autocorrect decides for you and you forget to proof read. Sue me.

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Oh, this is the Internet. They will.

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

i cant imagine anyone NOT liking bookworms! whats the harm? its a lovely trait imo!

10 months ago | Likes 117 Dislikes 0

Just wait until you're winding between bookcases to navigate the house./s. I do recall a story of a man who collected so many books that ot damaged the foundation of his house though... Leading to University at Buffalo getting the books because a man couldn't store his book collection.

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It really keeps conversations going which, to me at least, is so damn endearing

10 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Man not like smart woman. Smart woman scare man. Squiggle lines in book make words that woman say aloud? Is witchcraft!

10 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

different era. older folk didn't value nerds like people do now. Gates/Jobs/etc. really changed the social fabric when they became billionaires.

10 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Nah, there were always bookworms and people who appreciated them. My mom had loads of books in the house when I was growing up, and her parents had the same. But there were also always ignorant people who looked down on 'book learnin", just like now.

10 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

And even then they like em for the wrong reasons. Like they would be ashamed because their son loved reading and learning but wasn’t rich.

10 months ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

"What's the harm?" they say, until you're having to comfort her because of something tragic that happened to a character. Having never seen the horrors and carnage that follows letting her loose at a $1/bag book sale. I don't even have my own library card anymore! Turns out a limit of 50 books at a time wasn't enough... (/s HEAVILY implied. I love my fiancé, books and all)

10 months ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 0

Where are these book sales

10 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Libraries, usually. Often they'll do weekend sales and if you go Saturday it's per book but Sunday in an effort to just get rid of as much as they can they'll do a buck per bag. This is NY state though, so obviously differs by area

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Lol, just build the library. I myself have currently taken up Ikea cubby cases so I can double to triple shelf my books because. . . So many . . . Sooooo many. And perpetually more added to the collection <3

10 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

When we eventually get a house, I already intend to turn a room into a library. Just a bit harder in an apartment, haha.

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Your mom's ex was a moron.

10 months ago | Likes 546 Dislikes 0

Ya no kidding, god lol, bookworm women are the best women. (well not the best, but highly desirable cuz a brain is freaking sexy and when said brain gets lots of food, even better)

10 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

And self conscious about it.

10 months ago | Likes 101 Dislikes 0

So a Trump supporter?

10 months ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 1

Fuck this came full circle innit

10 months ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Rent-fuckin-free.

10 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Republican type shit, right there.

10 months ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

If you read @Op's linked post you'll learn he was a real monster that should have been killed years ago.

10 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

I agree. Many men would love an intelligent, well educated, well read woman.

10 months ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

I know I would.

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Dude perspective here. I would never, ever, in a million years, have a long-term relationship with someone who DIDN'T read.

The first time I met my now-wife she was trying to take a nap, but I saw a Mercedes Lackey book and asked who was reading it, and she immediately popped up from under the blankets on the couch. We spent two hours just talking books. That was almost 26 years ago, and we just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary.

10 months ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

I'll say many people don't read for multitudes of reasons. That said there's a far cry from not reading because it's just not your jam, and hating people who do. Ie personally I don't read cuz I'm dyslexic so it's just fucking exhausting to read long form items but audio books are great.

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I mean on multiple levels, one he threw the books away not even fucking selling them. Two, why the fuck wouldn't a man want a smart woman. Three that's just straight up abusive. #encyclopediacrushingballs.

10 months ago | Likes 31 Dislikes 1

Two, because weak men fear strong women. Dumb men fear smart women.

10 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I would assume, at least on your 2nd point, that he wouldn't want a smart woman because smart women are more difficult for a PoS that thinks like he does to control.

10 months ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 0

Honestly I’m kinda like fuck mom for letting that around someone who relies on her for protection/health/safty.

10 months ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

This.

10 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

And before anyone jumps on me, yes, this would also be my opinion about a single dad who brought a woman into his kid's life who did that kind of thing.

10 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

My dad threw away all my books as a kid and said, “Books are for antisocial weirdos,”

10 months ago | Likes 77 Dislikes 0

Mine had a strange middle-ground opinion that books are great to have and should be respected but reading them is for antisocial weirdos

10 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

This is not terribly dissimilar from my dad. My dad demanded I got good grades to the point where if I got anything less than an A on my report card, he’d hit me.

But then he’d turn around and keep me from anything that might expand my intellect, especially if it was artistic.

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

When I used too much of my time on portrait painting my father told me do something else. When I build boats and cars with motors taken out of old toys he said are you still a child playing with toys? So many other comments like this. And it wasn't to make take a break it was to kill my spirits. The comments had no meaning or purpose. I grew up lost and confused instead of having a role model and guidance. Everything about me wrong is dedicated to him.

10 months ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry that guy was your dad.

10 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Sounds like your dad was a dick

10 months ago | Likes 76 Dislikes 0

Pssh, nah he was normal.

Normal dads pull guns on their kids, right?

10 months ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 1

Normal dads pull put the jumper cables. How do you properly beat your kid with a gun?

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

If it's a revolver, the handle works well.

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

No...

10 months ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

Next thing you’ll tell me is dads don’t poor beer on their kids when they’re drunk or steal their college funds, liar 🙄

10 months ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

.....so uhhh, he dead yet, or do we need to form up a posse...?

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Hello fellow survivor

10 months ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

No, they kick you in the neck when youre 6 and crying on the ground because you just broke your collarbone and you aren't getting over it fast enough. They throw a full mug of hot coffee at you because you arent getting them the item they asked for, because it is not where they told you it is. But a gun? No, fuck no man. That's abuse

10 months ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 1

I'm also part of the kids of the worthless fathers club.

10 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Jesus, y'all definitely need therapy and someone to go kick your dads' asses

10 months ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

I have been in therapy for a few years, it didnt do much to help. Father died and I danced a little jig on his grave and a few months later I started making progress. Its been 2 year since he died, between that and divorcing my wife who mentally abused me, I am a new well adjusted person.

10 months ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Sometimes therapy isn't enough. Sometimes you just need to piss on the graves of those who wronged you.

10 months ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

The best therapy would be seeing my abusers FINALLY SUFFER.

10 months ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Oh believe me, I went to therapy.

10 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1